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Calling all 20 to 35 year old couples and singles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weve been to a few parties and M&G's since we have started swinging and have personally found that there are very few people our age and younger going to them.....is it that that people in this age range have been to them and found it wasnt for them (but still wanted to play)? or is it that there is just not many couples and singles in this age range actually playing.....

We know people say age is just a number (people that use this phrase are always many years older than us), but it is preference for alot of people and we find that there are many mature couples at the parties and M&G's and none on around our age group....

Just putting this out there to get a bit of feedback...we are interested to know if there was a party for say 12 couples in a fantastic setting all aged between 20 and 35 would people go to it?????? singles and cpls....

Let us know your thoughts and let us know in your post if you would be serious about attending a party for this age range........

P.S This is not a rant against anyone under 20 or over 35 and it mite come across to some as shallow, however we all have our own preferences and is not personal against any cpl no matter your age......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go without hesitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys know us, so keep us posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age discrimanation,,,,wat next lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Thats us out then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve had parties where ones in their 30s are the majority, then others where cpls over 40 were the majority.

Suppose it all depends on times and dates that people cud make it, however thats when we would open it up to couples of any age etc.

Rememebr Jilly, if your organising a party.. invite 30 if u want 20, cus 10 grannys will mysteriously die in one night lol.

Happy Partying !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers Abbey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us it all depends on who else is invited,when it is and where it is.

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By *agnus5000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Hi, would love to have a meet, I agree that these things often have folks outside that age (nearly there myself) and although I have met many wonderful people over 35 I would like to see more folks of all ages there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single males are the biggest off put when its comes to party/mng all can seem pleasant and decent but when the juices are flowin the brain switches off. not sure how we'd fit on the age thing would u do an average of both people or just leave me at the door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would have to say, every party weve arranged or attended, the single males have been respectful to all couples and approach when they are welcomed.

sad to hear youve had problems with singles, but, can honestly give any weve met a big thumbs up for their behaviour and attitude towards partying with couples.

suppose it would all have to do with alcohol and surroundings at the time, mite make a few go booogaloooo

happy partying

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi well i would go to a party i love the club an party scene its good place to go meet people an ave a laugh i visit over here regualarly an wud attend a party if there was one held.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys the post is about parties and age ranges not males or females etc.....were trying to see if theres interest from the age group mentioned to see if its only older mature cples ..males ..females etc actually swinging or is there really cples in the age group 20 to 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the silence in itself is the answer ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Abbey i think for once me and you are in agreement mite have to reconsider our age limit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach, we do agree on the forums a fair bit lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in that age range and I very happily play when I'm single or in a relationship were the other half likes to swing as well. Unfortunately for all you lovely people this is not so at the moment (God I love my ego =P)

I think there are quite a few people in that age on here but from what I have seen they don't really get a chance to be noticed as the majority of couples/singles on here are over that age range and not looking to meet younger, at least that's the response I got alot when I was actively swinging.

My opinion is, and don't go off on one at me anyone lol, there is almost a stigma around swinging that it's for older couples trying to put some spice into their sex life or men that in general will try and put it in a plug socket if they could. Many younger couples and singles that like the idea are put off by this image that the swinging scene has. Thankfully there are still some of us that aren't bothered by it, I say keep looking and you'll definitely get some responses.....especially with an ass like Jilly's

I'll try for an invite to one of these parties next time I'm single lol

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By *inkycpl10Couple
over a year ago

uk

we have been to 2 meet and greets and we were the youngest there, we felt out of place lol, be good for some1 to organise a meet and greet of this age group and also fun afterwards lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now were getting places..we are thinking of arranging something but wanna see what interest is out there...were dont wanna be the youngsters at every party....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow jilly im out so think im older then 35 ,,,,not sure i may check my passport ,,,lol

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By *inkycpl10Couple
over a year ago

uk

id say if there was a hotel booked somewere and a meet and greet organised it would be packed out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put us in please

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

looks like we wont get invite as 2 old .....ahh well party on oldies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but life is suppose to begin at 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but life is suppose to begin at 40 "

Awww greenie ur still hot to trot in my book xxx xxx Mrs H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hunnys 36 so guess she won't be wanted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hunnys 36 so guess she won't be wanted lol"

Well can we go by one part of the couples age lol - mr h is my toyboy and just sneaks in on the 35 yr threshold pmsl... i miss it tho (only by a couple of years though ).... bet I can change Jilly's mind mwahahahahahaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a few parties both north and south and find the best parties are the 1s that have a good mix of people.its not the fact that u want to hope into bed with every at the party there are cpls in the 40s that are way hotter than cpls in there 20s. The mix being the chat the laugh which leads up to something u can get cpls in there 20s 30s & 40s who are up there own arse and that's no good for a party. If u can't have a laughter outside the bedroom or wherever u def won't have fun in it no matter what age they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wud defo agree with comment above but we have found that the older cpls dont wanna spend time chatting and do just jump into bed..now this is only the people we have come across its not to say everyone like that so please no jumping down my throat..we would like to play at parties but just find that it is always the older cpls who will jump first and no younger ones play and older cpls not our preference so we dont get to play.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hunnys 36 so guess she won't be wanted lol

Well can we go by one part of the couples age lol - mr h is my toyboy and just sneaks in on the 35 yr threshold pmsl... i miss it tho (only by a couple of years though ).... bet I can change Jilly's mind mwahahahahahaaaa "

Mrs Hottie you mite just twist my arm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a great idea.it will be nice to see other swingers with in or age group.we normally play people who are in their 40's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I prefer older couples I know some mega hot females in there 40s.

But lots of girls I know won't swing with older women/couples I cud bring 3-5 women with me to any meet of there was a guaranteed only under 35s at it.

Think there shud be more younger parties let's sort it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think were gonna make this happen nothing to lose only our clothes maybe thinking 2nd week of August ..wonder how many wud be interested...gonna put out post on new meet link

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been ordered to reply and I ain't taking that firey red head on

We only play with single men so we haven't done the party thing before. TBH I don't think age would come into it for us as we've played with both older and younger and both have there benefits.

Will say though have been to meet and greets with all ages and the young one's have lasted longer so if this continues to the bedroom I'm think this would be the party to go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and btw you might like to let Greenie slip in he proves age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Usee lmao...the younger ones will party & Play all night into the sunday woohooooooo bring it on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go as well. Put my name down too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to go as well. Put my name down too."

Hhhhhmmmm hope your birthdays not soon

Will ye be asking for id Jilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you will fill a party full of single males. I mailed couples under 25 about a similar idea, some were likely put off that I was a single male trying to organise it which is understandable but the response rate was pretty low so just gave up! hope it works out for you! gimme a shout if you need another male lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im 27 now and been to a few parties off here now and another swing site, and i have always been the youngest there, although the women have never complained, men i have found dont seem to like young men in that atmosphere, i do always enjoy a party with people comfortable in the environment and hope ye all have as much fun as me doing so.

maybe one day we will all end up at one together

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