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"I don't like when people say discuss " Me neither It's like saying go gouge each others eyes out while I sit here ready to mock | |||
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"In principle no problem but it's very much situation dependent. Mainly around the maturity of the younger party and if the arrangement is free of manipulation, money or daddy/mommy issues " say yourself been 31, got to like a 20 yo for argument sake. Ye both liked one another but that age issue is there. Would it bother you or would you go there? | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. " How young is young? | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. " plus don't forget. Young women are usually alot more mature then young men | |||
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"Minds are going into overdrive ladies, relax " Well that made it better | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. " 100% agree | |||
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"Minds are going into overdrive ladies, relax Well that made it better" my pleasure | |||
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"I don't like when people say discuss " why not ? discuss | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. plus don't forget. Young women are usually alot more mature then young men " That still doesn't make them mature from the perspective of someone two decades older. | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. plus don't forget. Young women are usually alot more mature then young men That still doesn't make them mature from the perspective of someone two decades older." so what's mature to somebody whose early 30s in relation to let's say a 20/21 yo girl? There can't be that big a difference. Like I already said most young women are very mature | |||
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"I wouldn't let age stop me dating someone I like. But the chances of someone young being mentally mature enough for me to be attracted to them are very very slim. plus don't forget. Young women are usually alot more mature then young men That still doesn't make them mature from the perspective of someone two decades older.so what's mature to somebody whose early 30s in relation to let's say a 20/21 yo girl? There can't be that big a difference. Like I already said most young women are very mature " In your opinion... | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. " there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. " It'a a preference, not an absolute. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. It'a a preference, not an absolute. " it's a preference but nobody a year or 2 either side of those ages can mail you. | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. " But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others? | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. It'a a preference, not an absolute. it's a preference but nobody a year or 2 either side of those ages can mail you. " No, but you can mail them | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?" i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. It'a a preference, not an absolute. it's a preference but nobody a year or 2 either side of those ages can mail you. No, but you can mail them " lol I'd say the chances of a woman mailing a man lower then her set age range is very slim. Good point though. | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people " Really? Lol | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lol" lol absolutley. | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lollol absolutley. " Then I would doubt the maturity of such a person. No matter what you do, there will be someone who finds fault with it. | |||
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"I don't like when people say discuss why not ? discuss " Ha ha fuck off | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lollol absolutley. Then I would doubt the maturity of such a person. No matter what you do, there will be someone who finds fault with it." someone who finds fault with it and not getting support and approval from close fam members are two totally different things | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lollol absolutley. Then I would doubt the maturity of such a person. No matter what you do, there will be someone who finds fault with it.someone who finds fault with it and not getting support and approval from close fam members are two totally different things " Why do you need approval so badly? | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lollol absolutley. Then I would doubt the maturity of such a person. No matter what you do, there will be someone who finds fault with it.someone who finds fault with it and not getting support and approval from close fam members are two totally different things Why do you need approval so badly? " i don't need approval I'm not in a relationship but I'd of thought anyone who is would like the support of family. | |||
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"The thread is more so in relation to serious relationships where alot are hell bent on age especially if there is a decent age gap either way whether it's a 30 yo with a 20 yo or a 30 yo with a 40 something yo just to use an eg. One poster just said about maturity. I can't see a huge diff at all In say a 30/32 yo man and a 20/21 yo girl yet if u told most your dating a woman 10/ 12 years younger they'd look at you as if you had 10 heads on you. But would a mature person care so much about the opinions of others?i imagine they would if their relationship was be scorned upon and didn't get the full approval of family members and there was this and that been said. I'd imagine that would effect people Really? Lollol absolutley. Then I would doubt the maturity of such a person. No matter what you do, there will be someone who finds fault with it.someone who finds fault with it and not getting support and approval from close fam members are two totally different things Why do you need approval so badly? i don't need approval I'm not in a relationship but I'd of thought anyone who is would like the support of family. " You might like it, but as an adult sometimes you are faced with choices that won't meet the approval of others. It's not a perfect world. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. " I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. " it's the only thread I have done about age | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age " Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads... | |||
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"At the end of the day if u had a 20 21 yo daughter and she came in and told u she was dating a 31/32 yo man, would you have issue with it? " I already know my daughter is unlikely to find a peer in her own age range, what matters to me is that she is happy with her choice of partner and that they treat each other with respect. | |||
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"At the end of the day if u had a 20 21 yo daughter and she came in and told u she was dating a 31/32 yo man, would you have issue with it? " No, as long as she's happy. Op there's many many other reasons why family members frown upon relationships and partners you bring home not only age. You can't please everyone and by the end of the day it's your relationship, your life and your happiness and if your family has a bit of cop on they see that and embrace it or if not you learn to live and deal with it. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads..." i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway | |||
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"At the end of the day if u had a 20 21 yo daughter and she came in and told u she was dating a 31/32 yo man, would you have issue with it? No, as long as she's happy. Op there's many many other reasons why family members frown upon relationships and partners you bring home not only age. You can't please everyone and by the end of the day it's your relationship, your life and your happiness and if your family has a bit of cop on they see that and embrace it or if not you learn to live and deal with it. " perfect | |||
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"At the end of the day if u had a 20 21 yo daughter and she came in and told u she was dating a 31/32 yo man, would you have issue with it? I already know my daughter is unlikely to find a peer in her own age range, what matters to me is that she is happy with her choice of partner and that they treat each other with respect." spot on | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway " Wha? | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway Wha? " sorry ment to say you're the very same in sexual circumstances anyway. You're very much obsessed by age | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway Wha? sorry ment to say you're the very same in sexual circumstances anyway. You're very much obsessed by age " I disagree there, yes I've an age preference on a swinger site because I can but it's no big deal. | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway Wha? sorry ment to say you're the very same in sexual circumstances anyway. You're very much obsessed by age I disagree there, yes I've an age preference on a swinger site because I can but it's no big deal. " so u would have sex with men well outside your age ranges no problem? | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway Wha? sorry ment to say you're the very same in sexual circumstances anyway. You're very much obsessed by age I disagree there, yes I've an age preference on a swinger site because I can but it's no big deal. so u would have sex with men well outside your age ranges no problem?" When I say it's no big deal I mean I don't make a big fuss about it. It's not up for discussion, it's there if you like it or not. You may call me stubborn but not obsessive. | |||
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"Hey snickers, are you up to your old tricks again, and asking the same questions again and again just to stir things up? " jesus, you took your time this time coming onto a thread. Before you'd be one of the first 3 in | |||
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"Op, I somehow get the feeling you're more obsessed with age than those who state a clear age preference and stick to it. there Is no clear age preference on here. Somebody could have there age preference 25 to 40 only. Does that rule out all 24 yos and 41 yos? Lol. I'm aware that this thread isn't about age preferences on here and that you've no clear age group but you keep on mentioning age and age gaps and it seems to occupy your mind. it's the only thread I have done about age Yeah I didn't say you had another one up, but posts on other threads...i could turn around and say the complete opposite applys to you, well in sexual circumstances anyway Wha? sorry ment to say you're the very same in sexual circumstances anyway. You're very much obsessed by age I disagree there, yes I've an age preference on a swinger site because I can but it's no big deal. so u would have sex with men well outside your age ranges no problem? When I say it's no big deal I mean I don't make a big fuss about it. It's not up for discussion, it's there if you like it or not. You may call me stubborn but not obsessive. " that answers that, thanks | |||
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"I was at a wedding in October where the groom was 35 and the bride was 28. That's fair enough. But they started going out when he was 21 and she was 14. That's wrong. Brides brother didn't speak your the groom until the last few years. " He would of been classed a paedophile when he was 21. Amazing how things change | |||
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