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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest. Say it and if no attempt or ability to improve. Yes knock it on the head.

Otherwise it's lottery just the fuck. Not enjoyable sex and pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"
Yep make ur excuses and gooooo

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By *ove2lick76Man
over a year ago

Ardee


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"

That's really down to how you feel bout the person....if good chemistry and there is potential then I'd give second chance....Some (especially new to site) might be conscious of your expectations and maybe initial pressure gets to them.....I always found sex improved over regular meets......if no potential or real bad let down I'd make the 'early start for work in morning' excuse and get outta there lol

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm afraid everyone has their good n bad days n that's why I hate one nite stands cos they can be horrible r can be brilliant.It's happened to me just to tired .just be nice about it, don't be to bad aboutique it.

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By *AMESJGMan
over a year ago

Enniskillen

No tell him what he is doing wrong and then enjoy the good sex xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say your pet lamb has escaped and leg it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"

No.....make it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was realy into him I'd give it another try, maybe explain you want to try different things then previously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would be afraid of hurting his feelings

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"

Not at all ....series of notes,

direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....

Apples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

Not at all ....series of notes,

direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....

Apples "

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick

OP

based on a reply in another forum I'm surprised you are asking this ? at all....surely you attract sex machines who are hung like elephants and go all night???

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Depends what's wrong, you might be able to give him some tips to improve but I'm aware not everything can be be improved just like that.

If you're not stuck for the night, go home with the excuse that you forgot to feed the pussy. If he's a nice lad you might consider to stick it out by talking until he's too tired

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP

based on a reply in another forum I'm surprised you are asking this ? at all....surely you attract sex machines who are hung like elephants and go all night???"

Having confidence has nothing to do with attracting sex machines being hung like elephants and going all night.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

Not at all ....series of notes,

direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....

Apples "

apples! I almost spat out my dinner laughing, thanks for that!

Just to clarify, she meant I could pass on some advice and not ride the guy myself Some people are useless at taking advice, I at least try to take any advice on board. We can never say we know everything in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

Not at all ....series of notes,

direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....

Apples

apples! I almost spat out my dinner laughing, thanks for that!

Just to clarify, she meant I could pass on some advice and not ride the guy myself Some people are useless at taking advice, I at least try to take any advice on board. We can never say we know everything in life."

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Its monday. I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"

To not hurt his or her feelings, take charge of the situation and try and make it good.. as long as their is chemistry you should try.

Nerves can set in and spoil it..

If no spark and bad sex, pull the rip cord and adios....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah sure he's probably having the ride of his life. It'd be cruel to take that from him

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

That place in

Did once but not a chap from here,

Promised to look after me all night, an hour late he was asleep so woke him and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the wanker emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As previously said, judge the situation, there's no straightforward answer.

But above all be polite and don't deliberately hurt him/her. It doesn't work every time even if there was chemistry to start with.

I've been on the receiving end of such situations ie he did a runner when I was expecting a couple more hours fun.. and I was even asked to leave at one meet.. And I can tell you it puts a big dint in your self confidence.

I'd never advocate taking one for the team, but sometimes it can be worth that bit of extra effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did once but not a chap from here,

Promised to look after me all night, an hour late he was asleep so woke him and left "

That wasn't aimed at you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As previously said, judge the situation, there's no straightforward answer.

But above all be polite and don't deliberately hurt him/her. It doesn't work every time even if there was chemistry to start with.

I've been on the receiving end of such situations ie he did a runner when I was expecting a couple more hours fun.. and I was even asked to leave at one meet.. And I can tell you it puts a big dint in your self confidence.

I'd never advocate taking one for the team, but sometimes it can be worth that bit of extra effort.

"

I had a runner once... she drove up opened the car door looked...

Said "oh God no"... shut the car door and drove off...Gone in 6 seconds

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??

Do you leave ??

"

I would want you to enjoy the meet, probably more than me, so if not going well for you, a discrete hint/tip, would be no harm at all. No point in leaving, without trying to enjoy, and you would not hurt ones feelings by giving a hint.....

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

It would take a pretty nasty person to get up and leave because the sex wasn't up to scratch IMO

If they are good enough for you too fuck they should be good enough to treat like humans and have a chat instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you have to fake it to make it

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

That place in


"Did once but not a chap from here,

Promised to look after me all night, an hour late he was asleep so woke him and left

That wasn't aimed at you x "

Ya I know, it's all good x

Just sharing the experience that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instruct him so you get what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped a couple of meets mid way as I've not enjoyed them.

Can't continue if im not having fun.

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