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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I ignore. "

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I ignore too ... hate drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore..don't get involved in anything that doesn't concern me. Don't do gossip, don't listen to gossip. Have fun, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you took onboard even half of it you'd never meet anyone, there's so many tales flying around in here.

I like to take as I find, despite what I may previously have heard about a person.

I'd like to hope folk treat me the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it on here the op is on about or in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "

No jury duty for you

Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think

No jury duty for you

Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact"

I'm well aware of that thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think

No jury duty for you

Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact

I'm well aware of that thank you. "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "
if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?"

Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?

Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand."

Exactly what I was about to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.

It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.

I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?

Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand."

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......"

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??"
First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind "

And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind

And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you"

Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind

And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you

Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say."

Very true

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Dont beleive everything you hear

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Dont beleive everything you hear "
that's the motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont beleive everything you hear "

Kaizer concurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......

Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind

And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you

Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say."

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

Do people gossip in fab,nah I don't believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my circus, not my monkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where there is smoke there's fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my circus, not my monkeys "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't chat to people, that way you won't hear the gossip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't chat to people, that way you won't hear the gossip. "

Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate gos but recently heard this one and made me laugh "Stick a dick in your ear and fuck what you've heard"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I listen, then I laugh, then I go on with my life cause it's not important to me.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We don't gossip and we don't like ppl that do...their the ones we would stay clear of....were adults we can make up our own minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gossip ends at a wise person, with a fulfilled lifes ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I say in profile hate drama like a passion... if ya into Drama become an actor/actress .... It is not a case I don't care it's a simple case it's got nothing to do with me

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "

Best to avoid at all costs as stated by a few above

But having dat said there are ones that love to get stuck in

Each to their own, GHT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm learning to ignore.

Hate drama and stories so I have learned to ignore the stories and find out what a person is like for myself !!!!

But lol I should listen to some people ha I havnt learnt that yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although gossips have their uses, when I was pregnant I knew which one of my colleagues I needed to tell for everyone in the building to find out quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "

Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit

I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit

I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it "

Unfortunately a lot of them aren't....they think with the smaller of their two heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?

Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit

I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it

Unfortunately a lot of them aren't....they think with the smaller of their two heads"

The men I'm interested in meeting are, thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.

If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.

Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.

If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.

Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him

"

Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.

If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.

Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him

Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person. "
also don't forget having a gripe with somebody could force them to spout rumours that ain't true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say nothing 'till you hear more

Fact.. if you don't lie it can't come back to bite you in the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Love This Quote By Mark Twain..A Lie Can Travel Halfway Around the World While the Truth Is Putting On Its Shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Love This Quote By Mark Twain..A Lie Can Travel Halfway Around the World While the Truth Is Putting On Its Shoes."

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.

If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.

Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him

Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person. also don't forget having a gripe with somebody could force them to spout rumours that ain't true."

Yep, I siaid that. I'm still pretty sure I wouldn't take the chance tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rumours are just that rumours on less there's evidence to make the rumour a true story if you don't see it with your own two eyes and hear it with your own two ears it's a rumour

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Rumours are just that rumours on less there's evidence to make the rumour a true story if you don't see it with your own two eyes and hear it with your own two ears it's a rumour"

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