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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the more the merrier.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?"
my opinion is its none of my business who others meet and how many men they have snagged. It's a site where most seek sexual fun after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?my opinion is its none of my business who others meet and how many men they have snagged. It's a site where most seek sexual fun after all "

That is very true and I was going to include something referencing it being none of people's business but when someone has displayed their verifications for all to see and you are interested it then does become your business in regard to whether it would bother you or not. I take it from your answer then it wouldnt bother you.

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By *allDarknHandsomeMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Meh I don't mind either way. Sure version can be faked there's easier ways to tell if someone is real. High numbers don't bother me either, it's a feckin swingers site sure!!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?my opinion is its none of my business who others meet and how many men they have snagged. It's a site where most seek sexual fun after all

That is very true and I was going to include something referencing it being none of people's business but when someone has displayed their verifications for all to see and you are interested it then does become your business in regard to whether it would bother you or not. I take it from your answer then it wouldnt bother you."
I'll Keep It Short PAL. I very seldom, if at all read veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?"

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?my opinion is its none of my business who others meet and how many men they have snagged. It's a site where most seek sexual fun after all

That is very true and I was going to include something referencing it being none of people's business but when someone has displayed their verifications for all to see and you are interested it then does become your business in regard to whether it would bother you or not. I take it from your answer then it wouldnt bother you.I'll Keep It Short PAL. I very seldom, if at all read veris. "

Well that sorts that then! Just dont keep it short for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong. "

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn "

You and almost everybody else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

You and almost everybody else "

I see quite a few here that say bi-curious etc... but we might get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

You and almost everybody else

I see quite a few here that say bi-curious etc... but we might get lucky "

I hope you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

You and almost everybody else

I see quite a few here that say bi-curious etc... but we might get lucky

I hope you do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn "

I am mighty impressed that you found a fb and you just on 2 weeks.

I pay very little heed to veris or numbers of veris to be honest. Rather trust my own judgement

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'll stop when I have sex with someone woman from each continent......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?"

High numbers don't but frequency does...and with whom

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

High numbers don't but frequency does...and with whom "
if a man met a woman whom you didn't like would it stop you meeting that man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

High numbers don't but frequency does...and with whom if a man met a woman whom you didn't like would it stop you meeting that man?"

No, it's people I know who play bareback recklessly that I would rather not meet.

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Quality over quantity...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

I am mighty impressed that you found a fb and you just on 2 weeks.

I pay very little heed to veris or numbers of veris to be honest. Rather trust my own judgement "

I actually found her after days!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Quality over quantity..."
quality over quantity is perfectly fine in big cities. Where ur in an area where there isn't loads local quality regular meets ain't easy come by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put you off a person?

I think if you're putting stock in how many verifications someone has, rather than trying to get a few of your own, you're probably not on the right site. Swinging involves socialising and having sex with other people, if you're not doing that, you're possibly doing something wrong.

I came here to find a FB. I've done that! The only thing we need now is a unicorn

I am mighty impressed that you found a fb and you just on 2 weeks.

I pay very little heed to veris or numbers of veris to be honest. Rather trust my own judgement

I actually found her after days! "

Wow..go you. Fbs are awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Wow..go you. Fbs are awesome "

Thanks. I don't like to brag but 60% I get the girl all of the time! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Wow..go you. Fbs are awesome

Thanks. I don't like to brag but 60% I get the girl all of the time! Ha ha"

Just 60%. I won't give you my success rate as I really don't like to brag, so I won't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Wow..go you. Fbs are awesome

Thanks. I don't like to brag but 60% I get the girl all of the time! Ha ha

Just 60%. I won't give you my success rate as I really don't like to brag, so I won't "

I don't know if you could hear me counting there but I just said 1,000!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some people on the site have quite a few verifications which I know do not all account for actual sex, but I have seen some which do! What are people's opinions on numbers. Would high numbers of actual meets involving sex put gyou off a person?"
I normally use it as a guide to what that are into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry and I traction would play a greater role. I know some folk who play a lot but also would trust their hygiene standards. Others might not have a lot of veris but, great pics aside, they might not be a good match for me.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

How many veris not a deal breaker for me but bareback is. Bye!

Other than that, as said by another, it's a swingers site FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone seen over a thousand?

I bet it stops counting at 999...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more interested in whether or not the person is a tosser, tbh, and I trust my own judgement on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?"

Because he doesn't like to brag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone seen over a thousand?

I bet it stops counting at 999..."

I take it you ve never seen Anchorman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?"

She has deleted her profile. I am out of here too so good luck to you all!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Like others have said the number wouldnt bother me but i have ruled out playing with some girls beccause of who they have played with already.

Have been around long enough to know the ones that need avoiding but you cant bank everything on someones veris either. I know lots of people who dont like to leave them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have lots of meets which are just social and some we don't post verifications at all

The number would not concern us at all but people knowingly indulging in bare back would

We value our sexual health and that of our playmates

Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?

She has deleted her profile. I am out of here too so good luck to you all!"

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?

She has deleted her profile. I am out of here too so good luck to you all!

Hilarious "

That made you laugh too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In his dreams he had a fb lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the references to bareback sex.

Person A could have 100 verifications, play safe with all partners and people would be put off by the amount of verifications.

Person B could have 3 verifications, play bare back with all 3 but nobody mentions it in verifications so how would anyone know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the references to bareback sex.

Person A could have 100 verifications, play safe with all partners and people would be put off by the amount of verifications.

Person B could have 3 verifications, play bare back with all 3 but nobody mentions it in verifications so how would anyone know? "

Word of mouth. Pictures on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the references to bareback sex.

Person A could have 100 verifications, play safe with all partners and people would be put off by the amount of verifications.

Person B could have 3 verifications, play bare back with all 3 but nobody mentions it in verifications so how would anyone know?

Word of mouth. Pictures on profiles. "

If there's no pics of bareback?

And who in their right mind is going to admit to bareback sex?

Word of mouth is often just gossiping and rumours too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw, OP, how come your fb hasn't verified you?

She has deleted her profile. I am out of here too so good luck to you all!

Hilarious

That made you laugh too? "

Oh the whole conversation was priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the references to bareback sex.

Person A could have 100 verifications, play safe with all partners and people would be put off by the amount of verifications.

Person B could have 3 verifications, play bare back with all 3 but nobody mentions it in verifications so how would anyone know?

Word of mouth. Pictures on profiles.

If there's no pics of bareback?

And who in their right mind is going to admit to bareback sex?

Word of mouth is often just gossiping and rumours too. "

True. in which case you just look after yourself and insist on condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bearback pics every now and again but there my hubby's cock so you can't always tell with pics either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you have bareback sex with your husband as do we.

However if we see pics on a single profile which show bare back we immediately block.

If we have a meet or a party group and someone attempts bare back exclusion from party and subsequent meets.

Attending clubs and seeing people having bareback sex, exclusion from our meet list and checking who they have met and crossing them off also but it is certainly not foolproof.

Generally we use our experience to decide who to meet and who to avoid and quietly watching the forums can be a real eye opener.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My cut off number is 583. If someone has more veris than that I won't meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww OP has disappeared. Bet 60% of ladies are now disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess he maxed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cut off number is 583. If someone has more veris than that I won't meet him "

God, so judgmental

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