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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi i may be having my first meet in the next week and i just have a few concerns anyone interested in helping me can you drop me a pm or leave help here id really appreciate it especially those who go to the effort to pm and to everyone who reads this happy christmas

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

What kind of concerns?

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By *len-cocoMan
over a year ago

Cork

And what kind of meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of concerns?"

If they are legit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what kind of meet?"

Hotel sex meet

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Your still being a little vague ... Can't help you unless you give specific concerns.

Pays to have a coffee meet before a Hotel meet, if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of concerns?

If they are legit."

How on earth can we tell you if they are legit or not? We have no idea who they are.

What is your gut feeling?

Just don't lay out any money or travel far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been whinging all week about not getting any luck and now you have something you've comcerns? Its not rocket science! Arrive at the hotel, dress well, smell well, be good looking, and enjoy your night. If she doesnt turn up you ll learn for the next time do a coffee meet first. Sont forget to be good looking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've been whinging all week about not getting any luck and now you have something you've comcerns? Its not rocket science! Arrive at the hotel, dress well, smell well, be good looking, and enjoy your night. If she doesnt turn up you ll learn for the next time do a coffee meet first. Sont forget to be good looking! "

Whining sorry what and its a 2 hour journey and ive only talked to male so my concern is i travel two hours and all i see is a male.no female waste of time and money.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Don't travel unless you chat to both. I did about 2 weeks ago, only to arrive at the hotel and no answer to my texts or calls. First time it ever happened to myself, but I should have been a bit wiser. Would say a lot people have been caught out and it ain't nice when it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't travel unless you chat to both. I did about 2 weeks ago, only to arrive at the hotel and no answer to my texts or calls. First time it ever happened to myself, but I should have been a bit wiser. Would say a lot people have been caught out and it ain't nice when it does happen. "

Can you pm me i need to ask you something a bit private ?

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Where are the couple from???

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Don't have to say their profile name here and better off not as you will get a ban.

But if you tell me where there from and I have a feeling it's the same couple I will pm you then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They arnt from ireland and coming on holidays to here

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Only you can decide if the reward is worth the risk.

They could be genuine but you have no way of knowing that.

Worst case they dont show and best case they will.

Personally i wouldn't be doing it but i have been stood up many times or cancelled on last minute but thats all just part of life in here.

If they well verified then maybe the risk is worth it but only you can decide that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even think of leaving your house until you have spoken to her too

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I agree you need to speak to both I have been to meets where I left because it didn't feel right have a drink or coffee meet first

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"They arnt from ireland and coming on holidays to here

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Have you rang and spoken to both of them.

It's time to think with what's between your ears not with what's between your legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They arnt from ireland and coming on holidays to here

Have you rang and spoken to both of them.

It's time to think with what's between your ears not with what's between your legs.

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Seriously OP, you've only talked to the male, what's the reason?

It's not rocket science.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Sometimes it's a simple pic of both with a piece of paper and ur user name on it that will settle those nerves same as being pic verified. Other times a phone call although now u can send vid on kik alaying those fears can be easy,remember they are also taking a chance on you to most no shows here are guys so be 100% sure you are going to show if u get these assurances. Relax take your time preparing don't get sloshed and enjoy your self remembering it's a cpl your meeting so while paying her loads of attention chat away to the male he's also part of the fun

Relax and enjoy ull have a great time

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Ask them to Skype first

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"They arnt from ireland and coming on holidays to here

Have you rang and spoken to both of them.

It's time to think with what's between your ears not with what's between your legs.

"

Haha, that's where I got caught out, I wasn't thinking between my ears and between my legs lead me a stray.

OP don't meet unless you chat to both and to be fairly honest, most of the people that I have met I have chatted to for quite a while first.

It's good to get to know people first through chatting, coffee meets or the likes.

Very few meets are spur of the moment ones, you generally have to put in some effort for it to work out.

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