FabSwingers.com forum: Christmas Day alone

By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

We were chatting last night about people who are spending Christmas Day alone.

Would it be an idea for guys & girls here who for whatever reason have no one to share their Christmas dinner with, to connect with a fellow fabber here and organise something.

I am not suggesting a play meeting, just to have company on this day above all others

Maybe our idea might cheer someone up.

Merry Christmas to you all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"We were chatting last night about people who are spending Christmas Day alone.

Would it be an idea for guys & girls here who for whatever reason have no one to share their Christmas dinner with, to connect with a fellow fabber here and organise something.

I am not suggesting a play meeting, just to have company on this day above all others

Maybe our idea might cheer someone up.

Merry Christmas to you all.."

Brilliant idea, we put it on our social media profile every Xmas, where our house is open to all on Xmas day, while it is a happy time for some it can be terrible lonely for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They did this in the UK - see the Lounge

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Good idea happy christmass guys

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"We were chatting last night about people who are spending Christmas Day alone.

Would it be an idea for guys & girls here who for whatever reason have no one to share their Christmas dinner with, to connect with a fellow fabber here and organise something.

I am not suggesting a play meeting, just to have company on this day above all others

Maybe our idea might cheer someone up.

Merry Christmas to you all..

Brilliant idea, we put it on our social media profile every Xmas, where our house is open to all on Xmas day, while it is a happy time for some it can be terrible lonely for others"

Fair play guys!!

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"They did this in the UK - see the Lounge

Might be too far for some Irish people to travel to lol

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

I know, hope everyone has a nice day no matter what x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

being on my own for the day - will be home alone the next couple of days & I'm looking forward to it

But I can understand how others might not feel the same.

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

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I have done Xmas by my self and it nice and peaceful but then again I think the 25th is the same as any other day just with some better tv

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

being on my own for the day - will be home alone the next couple of days & I'm looking forward to it

But I can understand how others might not feel the same."

Have a good one Geordie x We'll catch up soon..

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"I have done Xmas by my self and it nice and peaceful but then again I think the 25th is the same as any other day just with some better tv

Hope you have a lovely day x

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

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"I have done Xmas by my self and it nice and peaceful but then again I think the 25th is the same as any other day just with some better tv

Hope you have a lovely day x"

And many happy returns xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic idea

No one should be alone at Christmas and even just a smile and a hello can make all the difference , spare a thought for those less fortunate because just for the grace of god it could be any of us

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Fantastic idea

No one should be alone at Christmas and even just a smile and a hello can make all the difference , spare a thought for those less fortunate because just for the grace of god it could be any of us

Have a good one digger!

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By *ildatlantic3wayCouple
over a year ago

donegal

Merry Christmas everyone

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Fantastic idea

No one should be alone at Christmas and even just a smile and a hello can make all the difference, spare a thought for those less fortunate because just for the grace of god it could be any of us

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Well said man. Almost every one of us has had a dark and lonely hour in our lives, so it's nice to reach out and be there even for at least one other person over the festive season. I know I've been a sarcastic git at times on the forums, but believe in my heart and soul that:

"A few words of encouragement can set someone up for life"

Have a great Christmas everyone

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Btw our door is open here tomorrow but like the OP said not a play offer just company.

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By *en474Man
over a year ago

antrim

Love the thoughts, but not response from the north , happy Xmas to all xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

being on my own for the day - will be home alone the next couple of days & I'm looking forward to it

But I can understand how others might not feel the same.

Have a good one Geordie x We'll catch up soon.."

I hope so

All the best to you and yours xx

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

being on my own for the day - will be home alone the next couple of days & I'm looking forward to it

But I can understand how others might not feel the same.

Have a good one Geordie x We'll catch up soon..

I hope so

All the best to you and yours xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A brill idea , have being spending last few alone and think it is horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually its up to person if being alone feels like loneliness or like freedom.. And most people is alone in Xmas by choose..

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Usually its up to person if being alone feels like loneliness or like freedom.. And most people is alone in Xmas by choose..

This is for those who are alone by circumstances not by choice..

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

Being a English man whose been living here a fair while I've grown to like the hassle free Christmas. Not having to worry about upsetting others as my plans don't align to there's.

I'll buzz the family on Christmas day. Wish them well. And ive almost mastered the Christmas dinner for one.

But others see this weird. Don't knock it till you try it.

Unless one of you sexy ladies wants to come get d*unk with me and post crap on here

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By *oxylady45Woman
over a year ago

N. Ireland

There are a lot of people a lone by circumstance not choice . What a brilliant idea and a very thoughtful one too .

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I bumped into an ex student. Always a problem when he was at school but lovable. He has lost so much weight and asked him what's his plans for xmas. He said he had none so ended up inviting him to the family crazy going on at ours. He doesn't know what will hit him....between the nieces and the rat( the dog) he will be pestered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a lovely thread. It gladdens my heart. Lets try to have more like this.

HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

You can be surrounded by people this time of year but feel very lonely.

I'm not a fan of Christmas day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have been totally alone for Xmas.. but last few years feeling empty inside.. same this year..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never have been totally alone for Xmas.. but last few years feeling empty inside.. same this year.. "

Awh sorry to hear that - it can be a hard time for loadsa people. It's ok not to be ok - even at Christmas.

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

"I never have been totally alone for Xmas.. but last few years feeling empty inside.. same this year.. "

I think Christmas exaggerates how you feel. Im growing to hate it in recent years. Roll on Stevens day

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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"Ive been thinking the same all week, I think it would be a great idea I hate to think of anyone alone for Xmas

being on my own for the day - will be home alone the next couple of days & I'm looking forward to it

But I can understand how others might not feel the same."

This

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

After finishing work I might go for a pint tomorrow , I get invited to quite a few mates for Christmas but I never take them up on the offer, it is just another day to me.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Due to circumstances beyond my control, I spent christmas almost totally alone a few years ago. I'm ok with being alone and while I didn't feel too lonely and I enjoyed it, it did feel a little weird.

The one advantage was I didn't have to answer to anyone, I could eat and drink and watch whatever I liked. Bliss.

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Due to circumstances beyond my control, I spent christmas almost totally alone a few years ago. I'm ok with being alone and while I didn't feel too lonely and I enjoyed it, it did feel a little weird.

The one advantage was I didn't have to answer to anyone, I could eat and drink and watch whatever I liked. Bliss. "
I do that every day

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The one advantage was I didn't have to answer to anyone, I could eat and drink and watch whatever I liked. Bliss. I do that every day"

eh....right, but this was christmas day. a day I usually spend with my family.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I've been in this country nearly 20yrs, and always spent Christmas here.

Since the divorce my ex has taken the children for Christmas Day.

I've learnt to just enjoy my alone time and make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be cynical about fab by times but this is a genuinely uplifting heart warming thread that very much shows the goodness of people.

Well done to everyone and a merry Christmas however you celebrate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a brilliant idea guys respect

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick

I.done Xmas day a few years ago on my own after I separated, I'm not a fan of Xmas anyway but I don't think I'd like to have one on my own again.

It was a personal choice that year and I had family less than an hour away.

If folk want to be alone respect them.

It's a tough time of year .

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"I.done Xmas day a few years ago on my own after I separated, I'm not a fan of Xmas anyway but I don't think I'd like to have one on my own again.

It was a personal choice that year and I had family less than an hour away.

If folk want to be alone respect them.

It's a tough time of year ."

It's not about those alone by choice, as we have said previously, who said anything about not respecting people's choices?

It is purely about a person who is alone and would prefer company.

Anyway, Merry Christmas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantastic idea

No one should be alone at Christmas and even just a smile and a hello can make all the difference , spare a thought for those less fortunate because just for the grace of god it could be any of us

Have a good one digger!"

Thanks guys for the first time in year's i am really going to enjoy it

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By *axximus99Man
over a year ago

co galway

Nice to see people looking out for others at this time of year.credit to you peeps.happy Xmas all

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Fantastic idea

No one should be alone at Christmas and even just a smile and a hello can make all the difference , spare a thought for those less fortunate because just for the grace of god it could be any of us

Have a good one digger!

If you are out in town over xmas and see us, say hi, we'll have a beer or two..

Thanks guys for the first time in year's i am really going to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am separated , feel bad for my youngish kids they with their mom for Christmas , they see their friends having Xmas day dinner with their parents .

Will put on fire early tomorrow , turn on telly, and drink myself into a state and hopefully fall asleep and wake up Stephens day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely thread, I know only too well the loneliness of Christmas day, and not by choice, fair play to all who open their doors to others

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Am separated , feel bad for my youngish kids they with their mom for Christmas , they see their friends having Xmas day dinner with their parents .

Will put on fire early tomorrow , turn on telly, and drink myself into a state and hopefully fall asleep and wake up Stephens day."

Hey, for what it's worth, there are worse off. Might not be much consolation, but I really don't know how to reply, my heart genuinely goes out to you.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Am separated , feel bad for my youngish kids they with their mom for Christmas , they see their friends having Xmas day dinner with their parents .

Will put on fire early tomorrow , turn on telly, and drink myself into a state and hopefully fall asleep and wake up Stephens day."

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Looking at your veris you seem to be a popular gent with game, charisma and charm. Look, what more could a male Fabber wish for here?!

I think tomorrow could be an opportunity to text, talk or skype a few old mates either here or abroad.

look, you never know what's around the corner so keep your head up and your shoulders back. Hope you have a fun filled, fab filled rest of 2016 mate

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Am separated , feel bad for my youngish kids they with their mom for Christmas , they see their friends having Xmas day dinner with their parents .

Will put on fire early tomorrow , turn on telly, and drink myself into a state and hopefully fall asleep and wake up Stephens day.

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Looking at your veris you seem to be a popular gent with game, charisma and charm. Look, what more could a male Fabber wish for here?!

I think tomorrow could be an opportunity to text, talk or skype a few old mates either here or abroad.

look, you never know what's around the corner so keep your head up and your shoulders back. Hope you have a fun filled, fab filled rest of 2016 mate

We echo this!!

Take a couple of hours to make contact with old friends, you'll be surprised by their positive reaction. Above all keep the spirits up, and know tomorrow can always be better..

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By *he Kinky Kinks OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

"Am separated , feel bad for my youngish kids they with their mom for Christmas , they see their friends having Xmas day dinner with their parents .

Will put on fire early tomorrow , turn on telly, and drink myself into a state and hopefully fall asleep and wake up Stephens day.

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Looking at your veris you seem to be a popular gent with game, charisma and charm. Look, what more could a male Fabber wish for here?!

I think tomorrow could be an opportunity to text, talk or skype a few old mates either here or abroad.

look, you never know what's around the corner so keep your head up and your shoulders back. Hope you have a fun filled, fab filled rest of 2016 mate

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I usually spend Christmas on my own each year and bring dinner out to the Polish lad next door he's on his own and this year I invited my mum to stay, anyway it's all gone Tits up I'm cooking up a storm all day in the kitchen next thing I get a phone call my mum's gone to hospital with a stroke, next then the lad next door texts to say he's gone away for a few days won't be here for dinner tomorrow and then world war 8 starts with my sister as ususal. in future I'll just keep to myself ....it's safer..and less hassle what a disaster I'll be eating turkey and ham for 6mths

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

" I usually spend Christmas on my own each year and bring dinner out to the Polish lad next door he's on his own and this year I invited my mum to stay, anyway it's all gone Tits up I'm cooking up a storm all day in the kitchen next thing I get a phone call my mum's gone to hospital with a stroke, next then the lad next door texts to say he's gone away for a few days won't be here for dinner tomorrow and then world war 8 starts with my sister as ususal. in future I'll just keep to myself ....it's safer..and less hassle what a disaster I'll be eating turkey and ham for 6mths

So it's possible u may have room for a few round ur tomorrow

Hope moms ok

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

So it's possible u may have room for a few round ur tomorrow

Hope moms ok "

Thanks cj dinner is gone to pot I'll be at the hospital most of the dayear at least the dogs wI'll get well fed for a few days lol

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By *asgod2Man
over a year ago

millingar

"You can be cynical about fab by times but this is a genuinely uplifting heart warming thread that very much shows the goodness of people.

Well done to everyone and a merry Christmas however you celebrate it!"

Very well said, huge respect for this gesture ????????

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