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By *asgod2 OP   Man
over a year ago

millingar

Why are ladies so nasty on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there there's some really lovely lady's on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where ? never had problems with the ladies a few men. But yet again I kinda try not to be a dick And over mail etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not every woman is nasty and the men aren't all a walk in the park either!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

All of them?

I've to say it's sometimes very hard to always answer messages politely. But the deep breathing technique helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say they are not nasty at all. If you cold message a lady with a crude, one word message or a pic of your dick. Then don't expect a warm reply. Works both ways. You put the work in with a well thought out mail. Its going to work better than "Hi wanna f**k"

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By *asgod2 OP   Man
over a year ago

millingar

I agree totally with you there but I find if you try to be genuine and actually have a real conversation you can be on the back of some pretty nasty comments. May ladies expect all men to be liars on fab?

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By *asgod2 OP   Man
over a year ago

millingar


"Id say they are not nasty at all. If you cold message a lady with a crude, one word message or a pic of your dick. Then don't expect a warm reply. Works both ways. You put the work in with a well thought out mail. Its going to work better than "Hi wanna f**k" "

Yeah don't blame people answering back to those sort of comments but that's just not me at all. I think manners are really lacking in not this site but on most social media site? Yes/no??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally with you there but I find if you try to be genuine and actually have a real conversation you can be on the back of some pretty nasty comments. May ladies expect all men to be liars on fab?"

I think for every women on here theres 5 lads who think a wink or a wanna fuck message will get them a 10 minute thrust in the back of their car in some dirty car park. But, the other side is your a dime a dozen to them on this site, and its not the real world! Just think of the nasty shit that gets said on other social media platforms, and how many people do you think carry on in the real world (dont answer that ha ha). Perhaps some enjoy the power of doing it, I am sure there are hundreds of mails a day, and in their eyes they hold all the keys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found this as well,I haven't found some women not nice at all few genuine women out there,but some or bluffers,you take time and effort into a decent message and get no response,there worth the time of day,I see women put up don't put up hi ya or how r you,think of something original easier said than done,I'd love to see a template of how to catch a woman's attention,think best way to get to know them is threw a meet and greet but then you have to get invited to them and numbers are limited.ooooohhh my Christmas I never post on forums lol

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

.....and next week on Fab...several more topics of the same nature cause of a few knock backs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally with you there but I find if you try to be genuine and actually have a real conversation you can be on the back of some pretty nasty comments. May ladies expect all men to be liars on fab?"

I've been on the scene for many years. The genuine men, who go to clubs, socials and are generally the good guys are well known and do very well. They treat women on here like human beings. The flip side is the site has been swamped by disrespectful idiots who think the women on here are desparate, free prostitutes. These men spoil it for other genuine guys trying to join the scene. However, if you are polite and respectful then there will be rewards.

So generally I'd say some women just give back what they have been receiving. I certainly do. Treat me like crap and you get it back tenfold. That includes on here and real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have read it before posting it,but ye get the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are ladies so nasty on here?"

Cos they can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not every woman is nasty and the men aren't all a walk in the park either!"

HERE HEAR ...maybe we should be allowed to post some of the really nasty emails we get of men when we being polite and say,"no , thank you !" etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id say they are not nasty at all. If you cold message a lady with a crude, one word message or a pic of your dick. Then don't expect a warm reply. Works both ways. You put the work in with a well thought out mail. Its going to work better than "Hi wanna f**k" "

HEAR HEAR...I have that in my narratives,"do not send me a photo of your genitals as a form of first contact etc" and I still get them...well, not many bother to read the words just "read" the pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally with you there but I find if you try to be genuine and actually have a real conversation you can be on the back of some pretty nasty comments. May ladies expect all men to be liars on fab?

I've been on the scene for many years. The genuine men, who go to clubs, socials and are generally the good guys are well known and do very well. They treat women on here like human beings. The flip side is the site has been swamped by disrespectful idiots who think the women on here are desparate, free prostitutes. These men spoil it for other genuine guys trying to join the scene. However, if you are polite and respectful then there will be rewards.

So generally I'd say some women just give back what they have been receiving. I certainly do. Treat me like crap and you get it back tenfold. That includes on here and real life."

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By *asgod2 OP   Man
over a year ago

millingar


"not every woman is nasty and the men aren't all a walk in the park either!

HERE HEAR ...maybe we should be allowed to post some of the really nasty emails we get of men when we being polite and say,"no , thank you !" etc...."

Here here as well , I agree name and shame the nasty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been obnoxious and nasty is not confined to one gender.. seen it from all sexes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree totally with you there but I find if you try to be genuine and actually have a real conversation you can be on the back of some pretty nasty comments. May ladies expect all men to be liars on fab?

I've been on the scene for many years. The genuine men, who go to clubs, socials and are generally the good guys are well known and do very well. They treat women on here like human beings. The flip side is the site has been swamped by disrespectful idiots who think the women on here are desparate, free prostitutes. These men spoil it for other genuine guys trying to join the scene. However, if you are polite and respectful then there will be rewards.

So generally I'd say some women just give back what they have been receiving. I certainly do. Treat me like crap and you get it back tenfold. That includes on here and real life."
Now I know the secret of how to get into a woman's knickers on fab.You tell them how wonderful they are and you're in .Never taught it could be so easy.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Law of averages is that there's going to be a few bitchy people here anyway. If any Fab woman gets a thousand cock pics messages with "wanna f%#k?" Of course her guard is going to be up somewhat when she then gets around to reading your message..

And if she is genuine bitchy, just ask yourself "Would I want to share my bed with her anyway?"

There's loads of sexy Fab ladies here so best focus on them. So, Happy holiday hunting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are ladies so nasty on here?

Cos they can! "

Really? You think so?

How sad!

Not all ladies are, but there are a few...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Law of averages is that there's going to be a few bitchy people here anyway. If any Fab woman gets a thousand cock pics messages with "wanna f%#k?" Of course her guard is going to be up somewhat when she then gets around to reading your message..

And if she is genuine bitchy, just ask yourself "Would I want to share my bed with her anyway?"

There's loads of sexy Fab ladies here so best focus on them. So, Happy holiday hunting! "
. How do you know what messages the ladies get on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't tar us ladies all with the same brush ,I for one am not nasty,I prefer to use the block button and keep my cool when dealing with any person who doesn't have manner ( male ,female or couple )!.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I found this as well,I haven't found some women not nice at all few genuine women out there,but some or bluffers,you take time and effort into a decent message and get no response,there worth the time of day,I see women put up don't put up hi ya or how r you,think of something original easier said than done,I'd love to see a template of how to catch a woman's attention,think best way to get to know them is threw a meet and greet but then you have to get invited to them and numbers are limited.ooooohhh my Christmas I never post on forums lol

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That you think a template message will attract all women speaks volumes about your expectations and is a clue as to why SOME women on Fab get pissed off and are occasionally rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are ladies so nasty on here?

Cos they can!

Really? You think so?

How sad!

Not all ladies are, but there are a few... "

twas a joke!

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Law of averages is that there's going to be a few bitchy people here anyway. If any Fab woman gets a thousand cock pics messages with "wanna f%#k?" Of course her guard is going to be up somewhat when she then gets around to reading your message..

And if she is genuine bitchy, just ask yourself "Would I want to share my bed with her anyway?"

There's loads of sexy Fab ladies here so best focus on them. So, Happy holiday hunting! . How do you know what messages the ladies get on fab."

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Because instead of hiding my profile, I get to meet them, chat and get verified by them. They've shown me some of the messages guys send. That's how I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Í came across lots on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of decent, intelligent and friendly women on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes both ways.I've had dogs abuse off some lads without ever chatting them before.lots of lovely folk on here too mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any of the ladies I've had contact with on here have been polite

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By *asgod2 OP   Man
over a year ago

millingar


"Goes both ways.I've had dogs abuse off some lads without ever chatting them before.lots of lovely folk on here too mind"

I agree and I have some great friends on here but just today pissed me off with someone and maybe I was a little reactionary but I hate bad manners and vulgar people. Thanks everyone for their views though interesting reading

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