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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify " Half of the reason I stopped meeting. Unreal behavior  | |||
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify Half of the reason I stopped meeting. Unreal behavior "I'd say I've no ver8s from most I've met... I think they're embarrassed to admit they like me  | |||
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"Thought this was going to be a sub dom thread, ah well.... "Nope all above board... move along there  | |||
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify Half of the reason I stopped meeting. Unreal behavior
I'd say I've no ver8s from most I've met... I think they're embarrassed to admit they like me "or afraid to put up a very, in case of the abuse. Works both way's ha | |||
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify Half of the reason I stopped meeting. Unreal behavior
I'd say I've no ver8s from most I've met... I think they're embarrassed to admit they like me or afraid to put up a very, in case of the abuse. Works both way's ha "Once I get to cum I don't care | |||
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" Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely." Or another question might be,why does this woman feel she needs the guys permission and blessing to verify you? Try looking at both sides. Or just accept she wasn't going to verify you. | |||
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"maybe she just didnt want to verify you?" Could be that but I've had three guys in the last week go ape because and met someone else and not them. I explained my reasons (stupidly) and it wasn't enough. Blocked them in the end. Another two people made some sort of judgement because I'd had three coffee meets in a week. I didn't see the harm but apparently I was 'spreading myself around' ...... I've spent the last few days displaying verifications when someone asks and quickly hiding them again so I don't get a hard time. On reflection, I realised it was a stupid, childish response to some guys silly notions - so displayed some of them. Now, anyone has an issue, by all means give out to me......I'll not give you a moments thought and you'll have managed to get yourself blocked.  | |||
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"This goes on quite a bit. In my experience, women are worse for getting pissed over veris. Jealousy makes bitches craaaaayyyyyy "Oh, guilty here of the jealousy. But it makes me want them all the more. Plus when I got talking to this 'other woman' (gasp), we both agreed to set up an appreciation club for our common interest. Jealousy doesn't have to be crazy - it can be a sexy level of normal jealousy 
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify "  | |||
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify " ... same has happened to me ..hence i dont display veris from guys iv met .. | |||
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"Some people are too concerned with other people's business. "
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"And then there is detective kinda people who never will leave shite alone.. they will keep dig in it and make all worst, and then acting like victim " True | |||
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"Some people are too concerned with other people's business. " Seems to be a common problem on the majority of threads I read on here. | |||
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"maybe she just didnt want to verify you? Could be that but I've had three guys in the last week go ape because and met someone else and not them. I explained my reasons (stupidly) and it wasn't enough. Blocked them in the end. Another two people made some sort of judgement because I'd had three coffee meets in a week. I didn't see the harm but apparently I was 'spreading myself around' ...... I've spent the last few days displaying verifications when someone asks and quickly hiding them again so I don't get a hard time. On reflection, I realised it was a stupid, childish response to some guys silly notions - so displayed some of them. Now, anyone has an issue, by all means give out to me......I'll not give you a moments thought and you'll have managed to get yourself blocked. "I thought the idea, was to meet, enjoy the company, have fun, and verify, And Move On. | |||
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"I've had guys message me when I've gotten a new veri from someone giving out.. my response to them.. go and shite. Unless they're in a real relationship or its a dom sub thing them he's no right to tell her what to do. I get the feeling she may just not want to verify you. It happens. A lot don't verify Half of the reason I stopped meeting. Unreal behavior
I'd say I've no ver8s from most I've met... I think they're embarrassed to admit they like me "I'd admit i like you, and would put it in Capital Letters | |||
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet "Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off 
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet
Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off
Thousands on the site... plenty to go around.
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely." IMO that's bang out of order towards you OP & a lot cringey towards her. You can do better. | |||
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet
Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off
Thousands on the site... plenty to go around.
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I just use then to ensure a person is real. "Agree but a lot of verified fakes out there too  sadly they are getting better at it, really sad when you think about it!
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet
Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off
Thousands on the site... plenty to go around.
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet
Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off
Thousands on the site... plenty to go around.
Madame B
I just use then to ensure a person is real.
Agree but a lot of verified fakes out there too sadly they are getting better at it, really sad when you think about it!
Madame B "There are. But the longer you're here the easier it is to spot them. Usually I'd just meet those who are verified from socials and people I know already. Rarely I'd meet someone with only 1 or 2 veris. Out of the no verified ones I was stood up once. Out of all the verified people I couldn't tell you the amount I have been stood up. And yeah it's really sad. But in their defence they'd probably shit themselves if a lady said yea | |||
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"This goes on quite a bit. In my experience, women are worse for getting pissed over veris. Jealousy makes bitches craaaaayyyyyy "True story | |||
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"All this toing and frowing from both sides make me think they're not swingers, persons just using this site as a dating site perhaps, Looking for a partner? Veris are very important for us. Single guys. Ladies please verify me if we do meet
Some people, myself included, do end up in a relationship on here, doesn't make them less of a swinger. I joined last January and hated the thoughts of the verifications so didn't get/give verification till May. I get the logic of them but hate how it can get used in a negative light. Each to their own and any one that has a problem with that is overstepping the mark and can F off
Thousands on the site... plenty to go around.
Madame B
I just use then to ensure a person is real.
Agree but a lot of verified fakes out there too sadly they are getting better at it, really sad when you think about it!
Madame B
There are. But the longer you're here the easier it is to spot them. Usually I'd just meet those who are verified from socials and people I know already. Rarely I'd meet someone with only 1 or 2 veris. Out of the no verified ones I was stood up once. Out of all the verified people I couldn't tell you the amount I have been stood up.
And yeah it's really sad. But in their defence they'd probably shit themselves if a lady said yea "Don't get it with the no shows...a text takes two min. I was stood up on my first meet! Oh the innocence of it lol Was chatting to a faker Baker one day and knocked great Craic out of winding them up bold but funny. Some profiles do jump out at you...more than other's.
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"fact is a lot of ladies will be reluctant to verify a person genuine from a 10 min coffee meet , because people will make assumptions that 47 seexual positions done bareback have featured ! Then theres the badwagon jumpers who moan and plead that you met so and so for coffee so why not them etc . End of the day people should verify because they want to , not because they were tormented into giving a verification . ( which does happen , mostly by newbies who assume women here are supposd to help them get that verified in person tick so they can then go shag half th site "I don't agree. For newbies the veri is important, why couldn't you put on their verification that that they turned up, held a conversation & had coffee in a pleasant manner? I feel if you've gone on a meet, you deserve a verification. It's yours then to show or not show. | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x" spot on | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x" Totally agree with u what's right for one may not suit another but in the same breath it's nice to know they showed up and were true to the description on their profile | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x Totally agree with u what's right for one may not suit another but in the same breath it's nice to know they showed up and were true to the description on their profile " I should add I don't need to know they suck like a Dyson or ride like a rodeo queen  | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x Totally agree with u what's right for one may not suit another but in the same breath it's nice to know they showed up and were true to the description on their profile " Absolutely. It's just a reassurance that the person is actually real and the sex they claim to be. Anything after that is trial or error on a personal level. I've done trial and error, so I prefer meeting people in a social environment now. Saves a shit load of time and effort. X | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x Totally agree with u what's right for one may not suit another but in the same breath it's nice to know they showed up and were true to the description on their profile I should add I don't need to know they suck like a Dyson or ride like a rodeo queen "Likewise, lol. A bit of mystery and enigma | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x" One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person. | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person." Isn't that we all after a good feel | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person. Isn't that we all after a good feel "*bends over | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person." Agree 100%. It's a case of being comfortable, relaxed and trusting people, having mutual understanding and fun. Me personally, after experiencing every kind of moon cat and negative on here, knows exactly what I want, and give! | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person.Agree 100%. It's a case of being comfortable, relaxed and trusting people, having mutual understanding and fun. Me personally, after experiencing every kind of moon cat and negative on here, knows exactly what I want, and give!" Likes to know what u can give | |||
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"A verification is not always a real reflection of the recipient. I've seen many gave to people that is in no way true, from my personal view. I prefer to meet swingers in person and make my own opinion. That's just in my own experiences mind x One persons view will never be the same as another's. I, like you will make up my own mind, all I need to know is if they seem normal. But we also will meet non verified people, I understand this may be because we're a couple but again, only after we've chatted some to get a feel for the person.Agree 100%. It's a case of being comfortable, relaxed and trusting people, having mutual understanding and fun. Me personally, after experiencing every kind of moon cat and negative on here, knows exactly what I want, and give! Likes to know what u can give "I give what is given in equal measure. Rarely | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. " Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought | |||
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"I'm in a real Dom/sub relationship. I am owned and collared. I will never veri anyone without my Doms permission. But saying that our type of relationship is very misunderstood. Unless you live it you do not get the gist of it. Maybe she is like I am. A sub ? But then she won't meet you or chat to you in any sexual way if she was a true sub. I'd be careful if I were you xx " With all due respect, Mr Dom. She's not of any interest or relevance to this particular thread. Guide her on her leash to the relevant thread, carefully, if I were you  | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought "What? | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought "That's it. Just use them to ensure they are real and genuine. were adults and can make up our own minds. | |||
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"I'm in a real Dom/sub relationship. I am owned and collared. I will never veri anyone without my Doms permission. But saying that our type of relationship is very misunderstood. Unless you live it you do not get the gist of it. Maybe she is like I am. A sub ? But then she won't meet you or chat to you in any sexual way if she was a true sub. I'd be careful if I were you xx With all due respect, Mr Dom. She's not of any interest or relevance to this particular thread. Guide her on her leash to the relevant thread, carefully, if I were you "Thats Mrs Sub typing | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
What? "Do elaborate? | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
That's it. Just use them to ensure they are real and genuine. were adults and can make up our own minds. "Absolutely, Snow White. It's wisdom and common sense xx | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
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"I don't agree with you. She would say"I" not "she" Not bothered about it either way. "She does say I. I understand what she's saying too about the OP. Maybe the woman who wouldn't give the veri is an owned sub and her man would go off on one if he knew she'd met without permission. | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely." --------------------------------------- It's a swing site so, IN THEORY people should be able to see who they want to see. However, it's possible feelings could develop if these two people have shared a bed a few times. They're both "officially not going out" but a relationship of some sort is developing, by one of the two at least. - Or she might actually be considering a LT relationship with him and doesn't want to be seen "sleeping around" so meets are kept on the quiet. - Or he's being seeing her a few times, is getting to like her and possessiveness from past relationships is rearing it's ugly head. On the surface, "NSA" should be NSA. It sounds simple and drama free but repeated nsa enough times, one of the two might be growing fonder. Again, am only speculating like anyone else here.. "Oh what a tangled web we weave..." | |||
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"I don't agree with you. She would say"I" not "she" Not bothered about it either way.
She does say I.
I understand what she's saying too about the OP. Maybe the woman who wouldn't give the veri is an owned sub and her man would go off on one if he knew she'd met without permission."Well it's not on my radar what they're saying to the op. It's pretty unintelligible to me. Hey ho He's in control | |||
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"I don't agree with you. She would say"I" not "she" Not bothered about it either way.
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"Jealousy on a swingers site always seemed wierd to me. Kinda goes against the spirit of the site just a little bit!" 100% agree | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. IMO that's bang out of order towards you OP & a lot cringey towards her. You can do better." Thanks candy | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
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I didn't understand the post is all "Probably because you don't need to. Best say nothing in that case | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
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I didn't understand the post is all
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Best say nothing in that case "Probably | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely." I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. Preach!! Simply put!! I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye " | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye "So true But we also talk about the bad ones too | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
What?
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I didn't understand the post is all
Probably because you don't need to.
Best say nothing in that case
Probably "Best not to xx | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too "The bad ones do the talking, eh xx | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx"It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this! | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx"Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this! "Amongst many things, yes. It's all about educated choice and staying true to yourself. Sussed | |||
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would try to advise anyone away from handing over control unless that's what they are into as mentioned above proper established sub/dom relationship. But outside that context it's strange anybody would fell a sense of entitlement over another person on here. I have no interest in what anybody I've met does when they are not with me bar something that might impact my sexual health. Some people's insecurities are not alleviated by coming on here. If anything perhaps It makes them worse | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask "True. Saying that, I deliberately form my own opinions. Personal experience and all that. | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
What?
Do elaborate?
I didn't understand the post is all
Probably because you don't need to.
Best say nothing in that case
Probably
Best not to xx"I was agreeing with the first part of your post, not the second xx | |||
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"Interesting topic. If her reasons are genuinely what she says they are. Have had a few ladies mention previous meets giving them a hard time (and not in a good way) would try to advise anyone away from handing over control unless that's what they are into as mentioned above proper established sub/dom relationship. But outside that context it's strange anybody would fell a sense of entitlement over another person on here. I have no interest in what anybody I've met does when they are not with me bar something that might impact my sexual health. Some people's insecurities are not alleviated by coming on here. If anything perhaps It makes them worse "Good point. A profile, preferences is indicative of what each person(s)seek. It's not always reality, we all know the score. Each to their own. Wisdom, experience, get and give what YOU want and anything else is not really relevant | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this! Amongst many things, yes. It's all about educated choice and staying true to yourself. Sussed "Not many would know me I don't go to the socials even tho I joined up on fab the same time as lolli who hosts brilliant socials I just choose not to for privacy reasons but any girl I seem to meet or talk to on here are really nice and I end up being friends with them! i should invite them all to my birthday party they don't know each other but all of them at once happy birthday to me | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask True. Saying that, I deliberately form my own opinions. Personal experience and all that. "Absolutely... but it can help if they are really dodgy. | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
What?
Do elaborate?
I didn't understand the post is all
Probably because you don't need to.
Best say nothing in that case
Probably
Best not to xx
I was agreeing with the first part of your post, not the second xx"Ah, ok. It's hard to read and understand an inexplicable comment. Cool | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask True. Saying that, I deliberately form my own opinions. Personal experience and all that.
Absolutely... but it can help if they are really dodgy. "Sure, they're all dodgy lol Every little really does help em out/in lol | |||
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. Agreed. Too much emphasis on the here say, verified by the same old same old. Systematically the online fabricated, self righteous, typical of the people isn't self sufficient evidently. True to oneself is key. It's individuality and such that is satisfactory. True compatibility or nought
What?
Do elaborate?
I didn't understand the post is all
Probably because you don't need to.
Best say nothing in that case
Probably
Best not to xx
I was agreeing with the first part of your post, not the second xx
Ah, ok. It's hard to read and understand an inexplicable comment. Cool "Ditto | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask True. Saying that, I deliberately form my own opinions. Personal experience and all that.
Absolutely... but it can help if they are really dodgy. Sure, they're all dodgy lol Every little really does help em out/in lol "If you wany them in of course | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this! "I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions. | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
Its amazing when you've a few good friends here and guaranteed one of them knows if you ask True. Saying that, I deliberately form my own opinions. Personal experience and all that.
Absolutely... but it can help if they are really dodgy. Sure, they're all dodgy lol Every little really does help em out/in lol
If you wany them in of course "Oh of course!! lol. | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions. " | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions. "I'm sure your method works well for you. Nice to have friends you can rely on to talk to. | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this! Amongst many things, yes. It's all about educated choice and staying true to yourself. Sussed
Not many would know me I don't go to the socials even tho I joined up on fab the same time as lolli who hosts brilliant socials I just choose not to for privacy reasons but any girl I seem to meet or talk to on here are really nice and I end up being friends with them! i should invite them all to my birthday party they don't know each other but all of them at once happy birthday to me "We're just used to your other name that's all | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions.
I'm sure your method works well for you. Nice to have friends you can rely on to talk to. "Ya it does, as does yours I'm sure. It is nice to have friends you can rely on, we just talk about other stuff | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions.
I'm sure your method works well for you. Nice to have friends you can rely on to talk to.
Ya it does, as does yours I'm sure.
It is nice to have friends you can rely on, we just talk about other stuff "Good for you | |||
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"Moral of the story is.....each to their own. Don't veri, do, dominant/dominated :/ threw in the mix of the thread. All sorts of everyone and everything out there in the big bad world. Own yourself and your choices, good and bad. " | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions.
I'm sure your method works well for you. Nice to have friends you can rely on to talk to.
Ya it does, as does yours I'm sure.
It is nice to have friends you can rely on, we just talk about other stuff
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"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 00:31:10] Was going to say that's better now recognise ya "it wouldn't let me into that but when I clicked into desktop it went into my old one | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 00:31:10] Was going to say that's better now recognise ya it wouldn't let me into that but when I clicked into desktop it went into my old one "Oh don't worry I always knew was you | |||
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"Hi, recently had a nice coffee meet with someone here and I asked would she verify me. She said she couldn't as if a male she was seeing saw it he would go ape shit. Why are guys like this on these sites. Nobody owns anyone else surely. I wouldn't worry about a veri all these women talk trust me they do! Do a good job with the first girl and they put there mates onto ye
So true But we also talk about the bad ones too The bad ones do the talking, eh xx
It's a good thing you's do talk about the bad ones safety comes in all forms with a site like this!
I rely on my own instincts. Has worked for me so far. Never ask third parties for their opinions.
I'm sure your method works well for you. Nice to have friends you can rely on to talk to. "Absolutely this | |||
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"Interesting topic. If her reasons are genuinely what she says they are. Have had a few ladies mention previous meets giving them a hard time (and not in a good way) would try to advise anyone away from handing over control unless that's what they are into as mentioned above proper established sub/dom relationship. But outside that context it's strange anybody would fell a sense of entitlement over another person on here. I have no interest in what anybody I've met does when they are not with me bar something that might impact my sexual health. Some people's insecurities are not alleviated by coming on here. If anything perhaps It makes them worse "Well said | |||
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What? Well it gets posted on most threads, so why not this one lol
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"Has no one blamed the single guys yet? ....... the bastards!!!
What? Well it gets posted on most threads, so why not this one lol
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"I don't pay much heed to verifications here. Usually make up my own mind about people too. Unfortunately they are necessary because of the amount of fakes etc but I could see this place running a lot smoother if there was a different system in place. " What kind of system would you have?? | |||
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"One that simply lets you say if they are real or not if they are as they described themselves and only leave a comment then if want to. Then people wouldn't feel the need to hide or lie about meets to keep others happy. " I think I get ya..no long paragraph about how great it was..just a yes we met and they were as they had described themselves.. | |||
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"One that simply lets you say if they are real or not if they are as they described themselves and only leave a comment then if want to. Then people wouldn't feel the need to hide or lie about meets to keep others happy. I think I get ya..no long paragraph about how great it was..just a yes we met and they were as they had described themselves.." Yep nobody needs to know explicit details about meets. If I met you for instance and we had an amazing time it doesn't guarantee will be the same with everyone else. So I don't see why it's necessary to write about it. | |||
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"One that simply lets you say if they are real or not if they are as they described themselves and only leave a comment then if want to. Then people wouldn't feel the need to hide or lie about meets to keep others happy. I think I get ya..no long paragraph about how great it was..just a yes we met and they were as they had described themselves.. Yep nobody needs to know explicit details about meets. If I met you for instance and we had an amazing time it doesn't guarantee will be the same with everyone else. So I don't see why it's necessary to write about it. " Exactly tho some like putting all the gory details out there | |||
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"One that simply lets you say if they are real or not if they are as they described themselves and only leave a comment then if want to. Then people wouldn't feel the need to hide or lie about meets to keep others happy. I think I get ya..no long paragraph about how great it was..just a yes we met and they were as they had described themselves.. Yep nobody needs to know explicit details about meets. If I met you for instance and we had an amazing time it doesn't guarantee will be the same with everyone else. So I don't see why it's necessary to write about it. Exactly tho some like putting all the gory details out there" Beauty of This place people are supposedly free to do what they joined a swingers site to do. That's why control unless in an agreed relationship is just not on. | |||
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"One that simply lets you say if they are real or not if they are as they described themselves and only leave a comment then if want to. Then people wouldn't feel the need to hide or lie about meets to keep others happy. I think I get ya..no long paragraph about how great it was..just a yes we met and they were as they had described themselves.. Yep nobody needs to know explicit details about meets. If I met you for instance and we had an amazing time it doesn't guarantee will be the same with everyone else. So I don't see why it's necessary to write about it. Exactly tho some like putting all the gory details out there Beauty of This place people are supposedly free to do what they joined a swingers site to do. That's why control unless in an agreed relationship is just not on. " That's true..fear of putting up a verifi..I mean cmon..the whole point of being here is to meet people..is it not.. | |||
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