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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago

arklow


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% with this! Completely unnerving to be in situations with stalkers and blackmailers etc, so any way of highlighting the need for caution is hugely important!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will add, I started this thread because the thread in question was taken down by admin. In case anyone did not see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

"

Can't see why you'd get a ban for talking sense and speaking up to about the dangers of a site like this.

Well said. The site is indeed well ran but like everything in life, there is always room for improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started on fab. I had the fortune of chatting to someone that gave me good advice as a newbie single female. I refused to meet a guy at his home and met for what I thought was going to be a coffee in a cafe. He jumped into my car in the car park. Whipped his cocktail out and started wanking off while everyone was walking by looking in the car.

Took me a while to get him out of my car but managed somehow. Was a horrible experience but I'm of the opinion that it could have been worse had I met him in his home... and I had been chatting to him for about 4 weeks, by text and on phone before I met him. So it's always a public place i meet someone for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've had the same thing . Almost caught a fellas wang on my side mirror as I sped away . McDonald's car park in the middle of the day with loads of families milling about ! Was supposed to be a coffee . Dude hopped in my car and almost took my eye out with his dick no hello no do you want a cappuccino . I opened my passenger door and reefed him out of my car cock in hand and drove off . Cnut had a cheek to badger me for a veri after as well !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first started on fab. I had the fortune of chatting to someone that gave me good advice as a newbie single female. I refused to meet a guy at his home and met for what I thought was going to be a coffee in a cafe. He jumped into my car in the car park. Whipped his cocktail out and started wanking off while everyone was walking by looking in the car.

Took me a while to get him out of my car but managed somehow. Was a horrible experience but I'm of the opinion that it could have been worse had I met him in his home... and I had been chatting to him for about 4 weeks, by text and on phone before I met him. So it's always a public place i meet someone for the first time"

Omg that is awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

Can't see why you'd get a ban for talking sense and speaking up to about the dangers of a site like this.

Well said. The site is indeed well ran but like everything in life, there is always room for improvement. "

've gotten bans for less,

But my post was suppose to be a bit of a rant at admin for taking down and deleting the original thread

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By *oulbotMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done William

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

Can't see why you'd get a ban for talking sense and speaking up to about the dangers of a site like this.

Well said. The site is indeed well ran but like everything in life, there is always room for improvement.

've gotten bans for less,

But my post was suppose to be a bit of a rant at admin for taking down and deleting the original thread

"

Got a ban myself recently for making sense. It happens. Blah...

Great post BTW x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I've had the same thing . Almost caught a fellas wang on my side mirror as I sped away . McDonald's car park in the middle of the day with loads of families milling about ! Was supposed to be a coffee . Dude hopped in my car and almost took my eye out with his dick no hello no do you want a cappuccino . I opened my passenger door and reefed him out of my car cock in hand and drove off . Cnut had a cheek to badger me for a veri after as well !!!! "

He didn't even share his egg mcmuffin with ya?

The bastard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done William "

Thank you Hubert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done William

Thank you Hubert "

Shiver me timbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite as bad but I have an arsehole telling me how Mrs has met him behind by back on several occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All joking aside, it all comes down to common sense, if you have an inkling something ain't right then go with your gut instincts...

I'm sure most people do but check previous verifications.

Unfortunately this goes against newbies but hopefully after reading what's been said they'll understand the difficulties (and nutjobs) that are out there...

Nice post WB!

Hopefully admin will see a reason NOT to remove this as it's more or less a 'public safety announcement'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree op well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are Defo some people that set out to prey on newbies . Me and a cuckold had a horrible experience. And the guy is sill lurking under different fake profiles.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Great words, nailed it, we had fecked up experiences at the beginning as well being too enthusiastic, thankfully we have learned our lesson but it must be difficult for the single ladies to be put in.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes op very well said and i remember reading the other thread this morning. Id love know why it was removed because there where no names mentioned in it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

"
Couldn't agree more It's vital that people (especially new to the scene)should be aware of the very real and dangerous down sides here. It can make all the difference to be aware of these dangers. Well said.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes there are Defo some people that set out to prey on newbies . Me and a cuckold had a horrible experience. And the guy is sill lurking under different fake profiles.

"

We to have had some horrible experience at the start but thankfully we stuck it out and have meet some wonderful people and made some great friends too . But at least there arebtwo of us , we know first hand the shit that some or lots of single ladys get . We know and have met a few and have seen and heard about the messages they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get a ban for this, but fuck it...

A thread was started here about a fake profile constantly asking a certain member to meet at his or in not so public places and other stalking-ish behaviour, and about trouble she had with stalkers in the past. I thought it was interesting, informative and important thread, especially for newbies who would not be so used to sniffing out the fakes on here and I will add, every other site like this.

While fake profiles are frightfully annoying, but may be harmless but more importantly, they may not be. Most single ladies and couples have had problems with fakes, weirdos stalkers and even blackmailers on this and other sites.

This is not a reflection on how well or not the site is run, but it is in everyone's interest, especially the sites that this information is available to new members. Though This certain members thread and the comments about a certain alleged member may not have shown that the clientele of the site are not all upstanding pillars of the community, but all of us on here are fully aware of that, but I do believe that threads like this a vital for new people entering the scene.

Can't see why you'd get a ban for talking sense and speaking up to about the dangers of a site like this.

Well said. The site is indeed well ran but like everything in life, there is always room for improvement.

've gotten bans for less,

But my post was suppose to be a bit of a rant at admin for taking down and deleting the original thread

"

In essence I agree but at the end of the day it's just gossip...

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By *he Moo BearsCouple
over a year ago

sligo

Well said buddy

We have had fake profiles trying to catch us out for face pics and when we tell them we don't send them the profile will be no longer on site

So just always be careful who you talk to..

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

when i was modding on another site we had a sticky forum called advice for newbies where we suggested the safety advice that everyone should keep in mind.

Swinging can be fantastic but there are nutters out there and spotting them is an art that comes with practice.

I have mailed a number of the new females with advice about their own safety and many have thanked me later as it saved them some hassle.

Be safe out there people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh were sick of fakes,liars and picture collectors to the point were seriously thinking of deleting our profile,we had hoped to meet a genuine girl but to no avail,just seems were wasting time here,had them all,we give them our kik,send a photo showing boobs with sign with there name on to prove were gen,photo is always from our camera NOT gallery,we are polite and ask for same in return,then the excuses, only have gal pics,will do tomorrow,with family now etc etc etc ,tbh we have met some nice couples but were just not ready for couple yet,so sad to say were thinking of just deleting and putting it down to a bad experience with a lot of fakes, were sure there are a lot of genuine people here, maybe we just never got to chat to them.Jenna & Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side. "

^^^This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side. "

you meen like going to M&G partys etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on FAB 3/4 months and from my own engagement with others and from talking to couples,and singles.

I've sadly come to the conclusion that FAB is full of fakes, timewasters, pic collectors and weirdos.

I've also spoken to some people about their horror stories of being stalked, Harassed and physically assaulted.

Throw in a few seriously dangerous ( and Violent) sexual predators and it's a disaster.

Ok there are some genuine really really nice people, but they are in my view in the minority,

And here's another 48 ban on the way for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side.

you meen like going to M&G partys etc"

Yes exactly

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had a guy try to blackmail me but called his bluff n blocked him n reported n gone but I don't know how d women put up with abuse they get just cos they won't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side.

you meen like going to M&G partys etc

Yes exactly "

what about those who cant or dont want to go to M&G, were not ready for full on swingers just yet,so it would kinda put us off if thats the only way,if were making sense lol

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know people say this all the time but if u are looking to meet genuine people get into the social side.

you meen like going to M&G partys etc

Yes exactly

what about those who cant or dont want to go to M&G, were not ready for full on swingers just yet,so it would kinda put us off if thats the only way,if were making sense lol"

A m&g is basically just like a normal birthday party normally in a hotel function room . So it is a fantastic way to meet people and just have a drink and and chat with people in a normal relaxed place .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then we might give that a try,cheers but kinda heading more towards just deleting here

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"then we might give that a try,cheers but kinda heading more towards just deleting here"

Yea they are great. But do what ever you think is best for you . Just read your profile, we dont share pics and dont send face pics. We have found that when you say no to pics or ask to meet for a coffee the fakes stop talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheers thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of this is why it took Cate so long to get into all of this! Fair play for posting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have a few arrrgh stories and as Sean said above it really does take time to suss out the fakes and it isn't fool proof but with each experience good and bad, we learn. It's almost like a fab initiation process!!!! Trust your gut, go at your own pace and always have Safety as your first and foremost thought. I agree that the meet & greets and other parties are the safest bet especially for women.

Great post op....there is a warning on tips on how to get started and a swingers support section in the forum's but at the end of the day....you are responsible for your safety. Newbies hang in there, it is tough, stay aware and safe, filter up and turn the corner to some amazing fabbing with great people... it's worth the slog. Happy, safe fabbing

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I've had the same thing . Almost caught a fellas wang on my side mirror as I sped away . McDonald's car park in the middle of the day with loads of families milling about ! Was supposed to be a coffee . Dude hopped in my car and almost took my eye out with his dick no hello no do you want a cappuccino . I opened my passenger door and reefed him out of my car cock in hand and drove off . Cnut had a cheek to badger me for a veri after as well !!!! "

I shouldn't laugh but the last part made me giggle. He asked u to verify him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I've had the same thing . Almost caught a fellas wang on my side mirror as I sped away . McDonald's car park in the middle of the day with loads of families milling about ! Was supposed to be a coffee . Dude hopped in my car and almost took my eye out with his dick no hello no do you want a cappuccino . I opened my passenger door and reefed him out of my car cock in hand and drove off . Cnut had a cheek to badger me for a veri after as well !!!!

I shouldn't laugh but the last part made me giggle. He asked u to verify him "

The sad part of that is he clearly thought he was doing something acceptable. That's the trouble with some people, they think just because you're here anything goes.

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