FabSwingers.com forum: Impossible to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a bit of a rant here but I'm finding it very hard to get meets, I don't think I'm a model or anything but I'm certainly not horrible looking, I'm easy to chat to, have a good sense of humour and I'm respectable at all times....on the other hand I only ever can accom on short notice so that certainly doesn't help and I also missed the meet and greet in my own town as I got wisdom teeth out the day before, just bad luck I suppose!!! But anytime I'm free and can accom there doesn't seem to be anybody willing to meet!

So basically I'm flying a flag here for anybody that wants to meet up at some stage to get in touch and let's make some plans that we stick too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics for a start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll take that into account...thanks! Less is more I'm guessing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd you have had meets ...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit of a rant here but I'm finding it very hard to get meets, I don't think I'm a model or anything but I'm certainly not horrible looking, I'm easy to chat to, have a good sense of humour and I'm respectable at all times....on the other hand I only ever can accom on short notice so that certainly doesn't help and I also missed the meet and greet in my own town as I got wisdom teeth out the day before, just bad luck I suppose!!! But anytime I'm free and can accom there doesn't seem to be anybody willing to meet!

So basically I'm flying a flag here for anybody that wants to meet up at some stage to get in touch and let's make some plans that we stick too x"

Im finding the same problem i dont understand why though man and if you dont mind im flying my flag too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know but it's been a while since I had one, I'm going through a barren spell! And about the cock pics, all my face pics are private so prob looks worse than it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man it's not easy were all in the same boat but I looked at your profile and you had meets and more them me so I don't know why your complaining but it takes time so everybody tells me to get meets ????

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Both profiles look great. Just too young for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So have you been chatting to these women for a while?

If not then it's hardly surprising you struggle to get meets. You invite women over to yours at short notice, do you expect them just to come running and drop their knickers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both profiles look great. Just too young for me

That's okay, age is only a number but but we all have our preferences...enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So have you been chatting to these women for a while?

If not then it's hardly surprising you struggle to get meets. You invite women over to yours at short notice, do you expect them just to come running and drop their knickers? "

No mate, I have a bit more class than that to be honest...I'm not one of those lads who thinks that it's open season here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and pics look fine OP but there's not a hope I'd go to a guy's place that I didn't know quite well. My safety here is very important and I'm sure a lot of women feel the same.

So the last minute can accom wouldnt work for me but best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile and pics look fine OP but there's not a hope I'd go to a guy's place that I didn't know quite well. My safety here is very important and I'm sure a lot of women feel the same.

So the last minute can accom wouldnt work for me but best of luck

Oh I understand that totally, especially from a safety point of view you don't know who your meeting really, but there's lots of people who say they are interested after we have chatted a while but it just never seems to come to anything, I don't know if it's all talk or what but it just doesn't seem to be happening for me! It's not like I'm texting someone saying "fancy coming to mine for a ride" having never chatted to them before...I'm not one of those guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Redhott

perhaps plan a meet in a hotel and not at your place, then it won't be short notice and you have more time to find someone who can meet when the times suits you both!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with Redhott

perhaps plan a meet in a hotel and not at your place, then it won't be short notice and you have more time to find someone who can meet when the times suits you both!"

My problem is with working 2 jobs and then training on top of that it's hard to arrange in advance, I might only find out a few days before that I'm free, I know that's my prob and nobody elses but I just presumed some people are in the same boat as me, and as for hotels I have had fun in them but I also have had 2 late cancellations so I ended up renting a hotel room twice to have a wank basically!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers"

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??"

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with Redhott

perhaps plan a meet in a hotel and not at your place, then it won't be short notice and you have more time to find someone who can meet when the times suits you both!

That has happen to a lot of others too, myself included! I skipped the wank though and just checked out

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

It sucks when you stuck in a hotel on your own..

And not in a good way either...

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

The fact you can spell should help also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just arrange a coffee/drink with these people instead of just jumping straight in and inviting them to your place? That will make arranging a meet in your place a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet"

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with Redhott

perhaps plan a meet in a hotel and not at your place, then it won't be short notice and you have more time to find someone who can meet when the times suits you both!

That has happen to a lot of others too, myself included! I skipped the wank though and just checked out

Me too! It's a mistake I'll never make again.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol"

At least you have room to grow into the age bracket. Some of us out the far side of it now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol"

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women"

That's fair enough, each to their own! I think I'll have to leave and come back when I'm an auld lad so, only problem is I might not be in as good shape lol

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By *ilentgirlWoman
over a year ago

That place in

"Why not just arrange a coffee/drink with these people instead of just jumping straight in and inviting them to your place? That will make arranging a meet in your place a lot easier. "

I will only meet for a drink 1st and if it feels ok then arrange to meet up but I keep chatting to the person till the 2nd meeting

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Profile is good, distance is too far. I do however (& disagree with others) think OP that u should have a cock pic in your public photos, yes we do know what they look like but they still hold info as in girth, length, trimmed etc plus personally I do love a good cock pic, it is an adult swinging site after all & it is actually a turn off for me if guys say they've their cock pics in private cause that means Iv to add them as friends & I only accept f.requests from ppl Iv met or chatted too awhile. Sending cock pics is different to having them in ur public profile, so yup ppl relax with the 'too many cock pics'.

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By *0.shades.of.greyMan
over a year ago

Swords

I have this problem too, I put it down to a lot more men on here than women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll take that into account...thanks! Less is more I'm guessing?"

But zero is less than less...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id guess the men out number the women 50:1 and if you compare it to being down the pub your not going to pull each time everytime because your not their type or their not in the mood. Not much of difference here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women

That's fair enough, each to their own! I think I'll have to leave and come back when I'm an auld lad so, only problem is I might not be in as good shape lol"

Don't worry, your age is perfect for lots of women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do hav same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do hav same problem

Get rid of the hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys, I'll take it all on board and hopefully my luck will change in the new year!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women

That's fair enough, each to their own! I think I'll have to leave and come back when I'm an auld lad so, only problem is I might not be in as good shape lol

Don't worry, your age is perfect for lots of women

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women

That's fair enough, each to their own! I think I'll have to leave and come back when I'm an auld lad so, only problem is I might not be in as good shape lol

Don't worry, your age is perfect for lots of women

Thanks

Nice pics too btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best advice is to be yourself, don't bend to the bizarre rules others impose.

Some will like you as you are and that's all you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sucks when you stuck in a hotel on your own..

And not in a good way either..."

Some of you might remember the swinging section in the Buy and sell years ago, worked well before sites like this.

I booked a hotel room in dublin one night, around the year 2000, to meet up with a couple in their 40s. When they turned up they were actually in their 70s. in fairness they were nice people and we ended up having a good few drinks, but I had no sexual interest in the Mrs.

They had driven a long way, so we split the cost of the room and i let them have the double bed, and i took the single one. I couldnt get a wink of sleep with the 2 of them shoring their heads off, so I left about 5 am and drove home still a bit d*unk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sucks when you stuck in a hotel on your own..

And not in a good way either...

Some of you might remember the swinging section in the Buy and sell years ago, worked well before sites like this.

I remember the buy and sell ads

I have to say i had some great blind meets from the ads - some so good I'm still in touch with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice body OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the trouble with the Buy and Sell ads is that I ended up with a load of stuff I hadn't meant to buy!

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By *omtom500Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nice body OP

It's almost as nice as yours

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By *dyskuMan
over a year ago

derry

"I agree with Redhott

perhaps plan a meet in a hotel and not at your place, then it won't be short notice and you have more time to find someone who can meet when the times suits you both!

That has happen to a lot of others too, myself included! I skipped the wank though and just checked out

Happened myself too, but be nice, and understand - ull only lose the meet altogether if u grumpy.....

But it is real difficult to get started on here if u single guy, even 2nd time round....

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By *dyskuMan
over a year ago

derry

"Get rid of dick pics, a closer pic of your abs as well on main profile.

Your age probably doesnt help. Cheers

Thanks guys.... advice appreciated! Get rid of em all though? Surely I'd need one or 2??

No - have one private if you must bit trust me we all know what they look like and it's not going to be the deciding factor for a meet

Well I think I'll make em private so...it seems to be the general consensus!! But I don't get my age being an issue, I'm not exactly a baby...I'm 30 next year!!! Lol

A couple of my babies are already there. Thats why the age is a problem for me - and some other women

That's fair enough, each to their own! I think I'll have to leave and come back when I'm an auld lad so, only problem is I might not be in as good shape lol"

Man true words, gets a lot harder to stay in shape especially after 40....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people dont have much spare time so message woman say when they finish work or a friday or saturday night.

Most people are in the same boat less chance at that time of getting a message read.

The worst thing you can do is get frustrated or annoyed easy thing to happen tho this site has a few negative things for single men to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible is nothing

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By *cilWoman
over a year ago

Wexford

Just be yourself. I wouldn't go to a guy's house by myself for a first meet. Maybe meet in a public place first for coffee or a drink. I personally don't like too many dick pics but lots of people do like them. You can't change your age so that is a personal choice for a woman whether she is comfortable or not. You seem like a lovely guy, you should have no bother getting a girl. Best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have veris - get yourself to an M&G or The Venue. They are known about well in advance so you can then book time off/change shifts or drop out of training.

These are the best places to meet people - you can then sort out mutual dates if you want to meet again

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