FabSwingers.com forum: Elegant Play Party, Jan 21st, now taking bookings! :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello All!!

So, after much consideration and deliberation, myself and Dublincouple80 are pleased to announce the First Inaugural Elegant Ecstasy Play Party Event!!!

To take place in a decadent South Dublin location on Saturday the 21st of January.

5 bedrooms, 2 designated playrooms, dance floor, bar, 3 bathrooms and ample parking!

There will be (discrete) security and a bar lady present as well as an open bar.

The goal here is pure pleasure and self indulgence in an opulent hedonistic setting. As such we will ask for a modest contribution towards the cost, which is considerable! See below for a breakdown of costs....

If you are interested in attending please be aware that we are unfortunately limited to 20 people and we envisage the numbers breaking down as follows;

2 couples who wish to overnight at the residence, you'll have your own room to do with as you please as well as access to the playrooms etc.

Cost: €100.

5 couples to attend only

Cost: €60 per couple

4 single ladies to attend only

Cost: €25 per lady

2 'Exceptional' single males to attend only

Cost: €90 per guy... (Sorry lads but that's a damn bargin!)

This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!

Dress code; evening or smart wear.... dresses and suits please!

Please keep in mind there's already been a great deal of considerable interest and it's already proving difficult to keep in mind everyone who has mailed so if you wish to be considered please, when contacting, include a face pic, it expedites the whole process!

Once we've tallied our numbers invites will be issued!!!!

Thanks for all the interest so far and bearing with us as located the perfect venue!!

Hope to hear from you all soon!

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

Sounds great BFB.

Folks, you can message OP or us with your interest. Due to change of date please send interest again even if you messaged before!

And see you all there!

James n Sophie

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great night hope it's a great success .

ignore those moaning about the cost quite likely you wouldn't want their company anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck "
no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying

I've seen higher charges

But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?

Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?

That said why is anyone charged more?

Sorry for the hijack

Best of luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen higher charges

But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?

Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?

That said why is anyone charged more?

Sorry for the hijack

Best of luck OP

I've never understood why anyone is charged more either (not just for this party).

I guess single women are asked for less to lure the men in. Thats probably ok for clubs - not sure about for private parties.

Hope you all have a great night tho. It sounds wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fantastic best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the perfect way to beat those January blues.

I'm sure it will be a great night and a great success. It's most definitely picked my interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gentlemen.

Lads are charged more quite simply because for every 300 of us there is one lady.

Supply and demand is key here. Our original intention was to have no single men attend. And we'd still have had an amazing night.

Instead we've opted to invite some lucky guys..... and as such it would be nice (since you're not bringing a partner) if you contributed in a monetary fashion.

I've been to clubs in Milan, Colombia, Vegas and Amsterdam and it's been the same. Single dudes pay more. And I've always accepted that.

The price is of course lower for single fems because they're unicorns!!! And highly prized!!!

This is Swing101.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I wish ye the best of luck with the party.

I'd not attend a party that asks for ninety euro myself. Especially when couples are sixty. To me that reads as a Thirty euro penalty for not having a lady to bring. There is an element of shooting fish in the barrel to it, despite the fact that it might result in the wrong 'fish' being shot (if you understand the analogy).

I'm sure other events charge massive fees for single lads (clubs abroad etc) but I don't attend those either as I consider such ideas disrespectful. Anyway not everyone views the world as I do so I'm sure ye will get your crowd.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wilder....

That's exactly what it is!

Grab yourself a partner and come right along for 60 if you so wish.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Wilder....

That's exactly what it is!

Grab yourself a partner and come right along for 60 if you so wish.

Knowing that another single guy was there and paying considerably more then me make that not an option I'd be configurable with. As I said not everyone views the world that way, it's just me and one my principals. But I wish you well with the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't be able to make those dates, and I'm afraid I might be stealing some of your party goers too. Some friends I've made on here, are coming over to visit, and to sample some of the delights that some of libertine clubs on the Côte D'Azur have to offer

Best of luck with your night, I'm sure it will be a great success and hopefully I'll be able to make the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen higher charges

But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?

Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?

That said why is anyone charged more?

Sorry for the hijack

Best of luck OP

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ehhh ok il explain in past partys I have hosted in the uk and France there was always more and more guys looking for an invite compare too single ladys and couples the higher the price for the male the less guys that would message looking for an invite that's just my past experience.. This is also the reason for my past events and private play partys was too higher the cost for single males too reduce the unwanted mails and of course the no shows from single men I can only speak from my experience and in guessing it's the same for this party... Best of luck with the party guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No problem DoubleUB....

Plenty of good folk to go around!

Till next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gentlemen.

Lads are charged more quite simply because for every 300 of us there is one lady.

Supply and demand is key here. Our original intention was to have no single men attend. And we'd still have had an amazing night.

Instead we've opted to invite some lucky guys..... and as such it would be nice (since you're not bringing a partner) if you contributed in a monetary fashion.

I've been to clubs in Milan, Colombia, Vegas and Amsterdam and it's been the same. Single dudes pay more. And I've always accepted that.

The price is of course lower for single fems because they're unicorns!!! And highly prized!!!

This is Swing101.

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exactly well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem DoubleUB....

Plenty of good folk to go around!

Till next time!"

That there surely is

Till next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen higher charges

But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?

Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?

That said why is anyone charged more?

Sorry for the hijack

Best of luck OP

ehhh ok il explain in past partys I have hosted in the uk and France there was always more and more guys looking for an invite compare too single ladys and couples the higher the price for the male the less guys that would message looking for an invite that's just my past experience.. This is also the reason for my past events and private play partys was too higher the cost for single males too reduce the unwanted mails and of course the no shows from single men I can only speak from my experience and in guessing it's the same for this party... Best of luck with the party guys "

So basically you are looking for guys with money in their pockets??

So potentially the ultimate guy on fab is excluded cause he's a bit strapped for a few quid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.

Happy swinging

Agree with you _ilder

I prefer to see a price per head - equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the gender pay gap they keep banging on about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.

Happy swinging

Agree with you _ilder

I prefer to see a price per head - equality

A price per blow job? That could get expensive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Le sigh.....

Most parties exclude single guys outright... having been that solider I thought it would be nice to present an option or two....

But if everyone is that offended by the notion that they be asked to contribute a little more then we can simply scrub the option altogether.

And Yosser... I doubt the ultimate guy on Fab would be moaning about paying 90 to attend a gig like this.

But sure I've been wrong before. So I will bow to the offended masses and leave the single male option out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bow to the masses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.

Happy swinging

Agree with you _ilder

I prefer to see a price per head - equality

I'm inclined to agree too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!

5 couples = €300

4 single girls= €100

2 guys = €180

In total that's €580....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great value if there is an open bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"

I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A large house so!!!

Look folks if you don't wanna go... don't go!!

There's no sinister motive here...

We've put quite a bit of work into this and it will cost a large amount. As I've said we're merely asking people to contribute....

If you're not interested that's OK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?

I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms"

Gosh....

I live in a mansion!!!!

Whouooooo.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Le sigh.....

Most parties exclude single guys outright... having been that solider I thought it would be nice to present an option or two....

But if everyone is that offended by the notion that they be asked to contribute a little more then we can simply scrub the option altogether.

And Yosser... I doubt the ultimate guy on Fab would be moaning about paying 90 to attend a gig like this.

But sure I've been wrong before. So I will bow to the offended masses and leave the single male option out.

My comment was directed at another poster OP.

But seeing as you directed your post to me .. I find it peculiar that people use a higher charge as a filter for guys, it seems a bit tilted to me. What does it achieve?

Why not use height and hair colour? It's basically the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why exactly to do you need private security? That gives the impression that either the venue isn't that private or that the people attending haven't been very well screened. For a single male to attend does he only need €90 and decent a good looking face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"

Yes actually I do...

I have had the odd party or two...

And I apologise if I appeared negative however I've seen too many creeps get into venues merely because they had the monies to go, I'd prefer if it was a meeting process where's the two guys would be recommended by the people going and charge them the same fee as everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Single male option is now defunct!

So don't worry about that eh?!

Private security simply because it can be done... doesn't require myself or other hosts to be glued to the front door. Or checking our phones constantly.

There'll be a guest list. Those who are not on it... don't get in.

That's why.

Dear Lord!

I'm sorry for offending so many people! :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A large house so!!!

Look folks if you don't wanna go... don't go!!

There's no sinister motive here...

We've put quite a bit of work into this and it will cost a large amount. As I've said we're merely asking people to contribute....

If you're not interested that's OK!

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they would moan about anything and like what you said the genuine fab guy wouldn't have an issue in giving 90 euro for what is going too be great night by the sounds of it and I do hope you all have a great night some folks just don't understand the money that's involved in hosting a party especially in a private 5 bed house and security and an open bar anyway I'm leaving this thread too many cry babies on it have a good one mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is so far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amalthea...

I've been on this scene for many a summer.

I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.

Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.

I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.

This is not my first rodeo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amalthea...

I've been on this scene for many a summer.

I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.

Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.

I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.

This is not my first rodeo.

Just because you think he's a nice guy the others may not want to play with him...

I know lots of well verified "ladies" and no guarantee you'd want to play with them at a party...

Enjoy your as you put it rodeo...

Very classy alright

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually met him at a play party.... so am fairly certain of his ability to appeal to women.

For a lady who doesn't wish to be negative you seem to be very... well... negative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck bull. Hope your night turns out as you planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amalthea...

I've been on this scene for many a summer.

I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.

Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.

I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.

This is not my first rodeo.

We've never met

I knew organising a party is no easy task but Jay-sus, some people sure know how to make it even harder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you Slutty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh DoubleUB a boy can but dream!

And thank you!

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

Hey BFB mate, don't worry, we'll stick to the original plans. You know how these forums work.

You've done a lot of work organising this event and it'll be a fun one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually met him at a play party.... so am fairly certain of his ability to appeal to women.

For a lady who doesn't wish to be negative you seem to be very... well... negative! "

I'm just pointing out all the complaints and negativity at having a small gathering as yours...

It's not negative it's just my personal experiences...

Enjoy your party...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why thank you Amalthea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you all the best with the party, I'm sure you and your guests will have a night to remember and fair play for organising.

I can see the points for both sides on the charging issue - but at the same time, your party = your rules so best of luck and it's great to see new things being organised

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

I'd love to join

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

Wanted to bring this to a cool "50 replies!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a question? Who's gonna fucm the 4 single girls just because in my maths that don't add up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That would be the joy of women... they will happily pleasure one another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would be the joy of women... they will happily pleasure one another!

dance monkeys dance ! Good idea though

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be up for this if ye'd have me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

S'true....

And I think you'll find at these events it's the male who are the lady's dancing monkeys! :D

The women rule the roost I'm afraid.

Probably to do with their superior numbers!

;)

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

11 Ladies

9 Men + OP and his friend.

Enjoyyyyyy

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

"11 Ladies

9 Men + OP and his friend.

Enjoyyyyyy"

Those numbers add up for us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything is so far away

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if you need a lift (taxi) to anywhere in Ireland I'll take you. All I ask for is half the fuel cost.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

I doubt anyone take a lift off you seen as your not verified !! Anytime i offer a lift to anybody i never ask for money thats just mean thats just how i am .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Um... thanks for those.... interesting.... additions lads...

Let's not make it weird now!

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By *excouple69Couple
over a year ago

wexford

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Good luck with the party - as for people complaining about the price to me it seems an absolute bargain for a good night out. Enjoy .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Willy Mc!

I dig your name brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with your party hope its a great sucess guys

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

"Good luck with your party hope its a great sucess guys "

Thank you! Such nice fuzzy feels when we read positive nice comments!

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By *0.shades.of.greyMan
over a year ago

Swords

Good luck with it, sounds like it will be a good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen higher charges

But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?

Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?

That said why is anyone charged more?

Sorry for the hijack

Best of luck OP

I've never understood why anyone is charged more either (not just for this party).

I guess single women are asked for less to lure the men in. Thats probably ok for clubs - not sure about for private parties.

Hope you all have a great night tho. It sounds wonderful

Single women arent charged less to lure men in. Men would be lures in by a piece of mouldy cheese ffs. Single women are charged less cos theyre far less plentiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Willy Mc!

I dig your name brother!

:D"

90 eur including an open bar in nice surroundings? Cant see what all the moaning is about frankly. Youd drop that in temple bar on a night out in the blink of an eye

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By *assdrumsMan
over a year ago

city

Am sure there is a difference in standards between south Dublin and limerick..... just saying oh did you hear private bar\security?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be an amazing party

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

We have read this thread an seen a lot of positive and negative posts??

We would like to congratulate the organizers for the time and effort they have put in for this event and we as fabbers should embrace such efforts in trying to present something new to the Irish forum

We must remember the guests who are attending this event it's a chance for them to kickback and enjoy what the lifestyle is all about!!

We should also remember the host's throwing an event can be a stressful endeavor making sure it all comes together for people who are attending and most importantly making sure they enjoy the evening

That being said we hope the night is a great success for the host's and guests enjoy and Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea and well worth the money, which is quite reasonable. I've been to parties and clubs in Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Brusssels and Manchester etc and am used to the scene. I'm definitely interested if a slot is available.

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

We really appreciate the positive vibes and comments! Bull has done an amazing job and we're throwing in some support here and there to create a very special evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are all the single lady spots taken if so where in we'll do the over night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic idea and really wish you the best , swing with style and class

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are all the single lady spots taken if so where in we'll do the over night

Hey guys... unfortunately as a single male I can't message you but if you're interested in attending drop me a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms"

Me too. I mean we own a 5 bedroom house. It's a large house by any standards but it's no mansion.

It's hosted quite a few cracking parties all the same.

This party sounds good. As for the price, well you get what you pay for I'd imagine.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Thanks Willy Mc!

I dig your name brother!

90 eur including an open bar in nice surroundings? Cant see what all the moaning is about frankly. Youd drop that in temple bar on a night out in the blink of an eye"

You would spend a lot more in Temple Bar, full of d*unks and messy people, where as here, you have fun, drink, with sexy people, with no Last Orders, lol.

Enjoy All.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck guys,sounds like it will be an amazing night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds absolutely fabulous and as a single woman on Fabs I'd gladly pay 90 quid to attend and help with the costs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Yolo

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

Can't wait for this! Need a dash of classy and sexy mixed together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen this venue online and it has the total wow factor as I looked to book it myself but hrs crazy expensive. It's extremely expensive to organise this venue and these guys are making a loss on expenses just to have fun. I've looked at the venue myself and you can't have more than 20 people or they start needing their own staff present. Hence he price. But whoever goes will be in the lap of luxury Victorian style all night it's beautiful and extremely lavish. Have an amazing night guys and chin up. You don't need many people so it will be easy to fill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind words Ruby!

We're gonna miss you on the night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the kind words Ruby!

We're gonna miss you on the night!!"

Delighted to hear you are still going ahead with this, I'm sure it will be a class evening, shame I can't make it. Maybe next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any of couple (not overnight) spots still available ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have seen this venue online and it has the total wow factor as I looked to book it myself but hrs crazy expensive. It's extremely expensive to organise this venue and these guys are making a loss on expenses just to have fun. I've looked at the venue myself and you can't have more than 20 people or they start needing their own staff present. Hence he price. But whoever goes will be in the lap of luxury Victorian style all night it's beautiful and extremely lavish. Have an amazing night guys and chin up. You don't need many people so it will be easy to fill"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it would be a good night..id love a spot if there's one going bull... Im sure there will be some amazing people at it

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"
open bar?

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?

Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?

Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018

"
haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?

Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018

haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha "

I know be safer dosing Ireland in petrol and giving everyone sparklers to hold

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Amalthea....

Yes we can all count.

Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?

Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018

haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha

I know be safer dosing Ireland in petrol and giving everyone sparklers to hold

"
sounds like a party haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering if this is booked out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha"

Oh you've a bitter taste in your mouth for me baby cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a beautiful venue I can't go because I've moved country and will be working. Other than that I'd be there

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

I'd love to join if any room x

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.

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By *m233Man
over a year ago

dublin

Cheap night out if you ask me... because that's what it is... it is an organised party/night out

Always costs me a lot more to go out in town and pull a chick... I'd give €90 with a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck to the organisers of this party. It sounds like they have put a lot of thought in to creating a very classy event. Considering what's on offer and the location the costs seem very reasonable.We hope you have a great night.

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over a year ago

"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance."

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think 90 is too much to pay for a night like this - look at what you're getting.

I just don't see why 2 men have to pay more. 50 ish per person would generate the same amount of money

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?

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over a year ago

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice."

Agreed but in this case where the OP is going to pains to point out how they are losing money on the event and how they only wasn 2 "exceptional" males this makes the event fall into just another swingers party where the single guy will be ripped off by comparison.

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over a year ago

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.

Yes, and?

Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life isn't "fair", and we tend to get the treatment we are willing to put up with.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.

Yes, and?

Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.

in reply to the "yes,and" this then becomes just a regular event not an exceptional one

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over a year ago

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.

Yes, and?

Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.

in reply to the "yes,and" this then becomes just a regular event not an exceptional one "

I didn't get the impression that the claims of being "exceptional" were on the basis of equal pricing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!

No such thing as bad publicity!!

Whoop!

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!

No such thing as bad publicity!!

Whoop!

;)

I'll email my invoice shortly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!

No such thing as bad publicity!!

Whoop!

;)

I'll email my invoice shortly

Seeing as I'm a single male I trust and hope it will be suitably and outlandishly inflated!!

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over a year ago

"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!

No such thing as bad publicity!!

Whoop!

;)

I'll email my invoice shortly

Seeing as I'm a single male I trust and hope it will be suitably and outlandishly inflated!!

Naturally

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

We always thought when an event is organized that the proceeds go towards the venue etc!!

So just out of our curiosity when ye say pay "premium" for sex??

Do they then feel like they have the right to play with anyone at the event no matter what??

What if all the attendees decided not to play with said guy's do they then feel hard done by?

Our reason for saying this is the mention of paying for sex completely take's it out of the realm of the swinging lifestyle!!

As we say we are just curious as to such a comment

Happy fabbing xx

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over a year ago

People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.

We always thought when an event is organized that the proceeds go towards the venue etc!!

So just out of our curiosity when ye say pay "premium" for sex??

Do they then feel like they have the right to play with anyone at the event no matter what??

What if all the attendees decided not to play with said guy's do they then feel hard done by?

Our reason for saying this is the mention of paying for sex completely take's it out of the realm of the swinging lifestyle!!

As we say we are just curious as to such a comment

Happy fabbing xx"

You'd have to ask each man who attends these parties whether he felt he got value for money.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either.

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

"The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either."

Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money

It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes

It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this

Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!

In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..

So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented

Happy fabbing xx

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over a year ago

Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money

It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes

It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this

Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!

In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..

So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented

Happy fabbing xx"

So you think it's entirely appropriate that single males should pay extra, despite there being no valid reason for this. That's your opinion, mine is different, and to pretend men aren't willing to pay this extra because of the possibility of sex is, also in my opinion, somewhat disingenuous.

Happy fabbing. This isn't an attack on anyone organising parties, and as I said, people are free to choose to attend at whatever price level they are being charged.

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money

It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes

It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this

Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!

In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..

So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented

Happy fabbing xx

Happy fabbing. This isn't an attack on anyone organising parties, and as I said, people are free to choose to attend at whatever price level they are being charged.

To set a precedent, by saying paying to an event your guaranteed to have sex is wrong on so many levels.

Whether it being a party event m&g etc.Which in our eyes is not the case at all.

If ye read our comments we never said it was acceptable to charge any amount for anyone to attend!!

We actually stated the organizers felt it was an appropriate costing for an invite to their event.

We ourselves have no idea the costing of running such an event or no experience in holding one either

Now if ye do have experience in such organization of party's and events do enlighten us we are always willing to learn

And as always Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never said anyone was guaranteeing sex, did I? People's expectations are another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes an "Exceptional Male" anyway?

Just wondering.

Is the OP exceptional?

Exceptional enough that people would still show this much interest if he was hosting alone without a couple?

Either way it's a private party that they've invested financially in and luxury wi cost more. If he wants to charge people in bitcoin, chicken wings or sparkle dust then that's his choice. If people are willing to pay what he is asking then where's the problem?

Good luck with the party. Hope it's a success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met the OP socially on a few occasions and for a "single" male on Fabswingers I would class him as exceptional enough to co host a party and I wish himself and his co hosts a successful and fun packed night to remember

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

"I never said anyone was guaranteeing sex, did I? People's expectations are another matter."

Not to take up anymore space in this thread

Our last comment on this would be when someone says willing to pay "premium" for sex.It is in every way implying a guarantee !!

We can only have an opinion on what we read here as all who read this, especially new people joining this and other sites could interpret this in the same way for the broad spectrum of events.

Op we apologize for any inconvenience our comments may have been in yer thread

As we have posted in our first post here well done for bringing something new to the Irish forum and good luck with yer event

Happy Fabbing all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeeessuuss

Thank frack none of ye are looking to attend....

We'd never have any fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeeessuuss

Thank frack none of ye are looking to attend....

We'd never have any fun!!!

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that price is more than reasonable.

I find wording such as "exceptional guys" a little uncomfortable - who defines that really? Is it looks? Veris (that they show) ? Cock size? Personality? Who you know?

But yeah anyway whinging about that price is just silly...

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

"Jeeessuuss

Thank frack none of ye are looking to attend....

We'd never have any fun!!!

Haha you should be so lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think that price is more than reasonable.

I find wording such as "exceptional guys" a little uncomfortable - who defines that really? Is it looks? Veris (that they show) ? Cock size? Personality? Who you know?

But yeah anyway whinging about that price is just silly..."

Glad you asked Stranger!

(Cool name btw!)

Since there's only to be two single males there... by exceptional I mean.... good looking, tall, well verified, fit, well hung, openmimded and a good laugh!!!

Since this forum story broke I've managed to secure 2 of the best... with a waiting list. A very comprehensive waiting list....!

So am not too worried about the rest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it works if ur trying to stop single guys and am a single guy and I went to an adult party before in Dublin wit my ex and the single guy paid €50 and couples €25 and single woman paid €20 and I think €50 is costly it shouldn't be more then €50 but best of luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello All!!

So, after much consideration and deliberation, myself and Dublincouple80 are pleased to announce the First Inaugural Elegant Ecstasy Play Party Event!!!

To take place in a decadent South Dublin location on Saturday the 21st of January.

5 bedrooms, 2 designated playrooms, dance floor, bar, 3 bathrooms and ample parking!

There will be (discrete) security and a bar lady present as well as an open bar.

If you are interested in attending please be aware that we are unfortunately limited to 20 people and we envisage the numbers breaking down as follows;

2 couples who wish to overnight at the residence, you'll have your own room to do with as you please as well as access to the playrooms etc.

Cost: €100.

5 couples to attend only

Cost: €60 per couple

4 single ladies to attend only

Cost: €25 per lady

2 'Exceptional' single males to attend only

Cost: €90 per guy... (Sorry lads but that's a damn bargin!)

This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!

Dress code; evening or smart wear.... dresses and suits please!

Once we've tallied our numbers invites will be issued!!!!

Thanks for all the interest so far and bearing with us as located the perfect venue!!

Hope to hear from you all soon!

Ummmm can you have a "First Inaugural" ??? pretty sure you can't have a second one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah sure we'll have as many Inaugurals as we'd like!

The sky's the limit!

An infinity of Inaugurals!

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