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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So!!

I've been trying to organise a play party for January and have a few potential venues... but have a wee conundrum!

Opinions?

Would people prefer a kooky unique space that I could get for a reasonable rate and would therefore not ask anyone for a contributory fee....

Or would people prefer a swanky fancy place where I'd have to ask for around 50 euro a couple to chip in?

(Both scenarios end with me at a loss but hey I'm doing it for the fun!!)

What would people prefer?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why you should be at a loss. Charge people a fair rate to cover the cost of the venue. I think that's fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate that Slutty... but just wanted to throw an enjoyable elegant and sexy event for my Fab friends....

I've already hired (discrete) security and a barmaid for the night...

I'm just in two minds about the venue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea i get that. But the right people won't mind paying their way. It's unfair on you to have to pay it all. You're very good to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Slutty.... not at all....

I'll get the ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't doubt it for a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swanky.we don't mind paying are way

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Most don't mind paying their way swanky or not reasonable rates are desirable in exchange for a safe clean place to meet others and play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try TH on harcourt st?

Been to a few parties there before, they take bookings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try TH on harcourt st?

Been to a few parties there before, they take bookings"

Been to a few there myself!

But looking for somewhere a wee bit more upmarket...

Not to knock it or anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try TH on harcourt st?

Been to a few parties there before, they take bookings

Been to a few there myself!

But looking for somewhere a wee bit more upmarket...

Not to knock it or anything! "

you get what you pay for, swanky costs more... end of... the guests either pay or dont attend, most will, long as it aint mad money, and 50 aint mad money....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not mind paying that or more for a nice swanky venue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Consensus seems to be swank!!!

Any dissenting voices?!

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane


"Consensus seems to be swank!!!

Any dissenting voices?! "

Swanky place, swanky suits, swanky ladies... sounds like a sexy mix!

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By *assionfruitfunCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Swanky, no contest here. People will pay for quality and it ensures everyone there is committed to making the party a success. I believe we will be in Berlin the weekend you have in mind but best of luck with this, we would have loved to attend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Annndddd swank has won the day! :D

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Def swank bfb. The right ppl for a party don't mind paying extra for it. And agree with slutty,for a well hosted party you should at least break even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a Swanky venue, if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An arrangement has been made.... keep ye all posted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to do both ... Swanky in January and kooky in feb .

Don't leave urself short BFB

I will attend both if invited

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

€50 sounds good and reasonable for a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swanky lol and when you book it can I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swanky wouldn't expect anything less from yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will probably be looking for a certain calibre of guest then. Will potential attendees be vetted for suitability?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You will probably be looking for a certain calibre of guest then. Will potential attendees be vetted for suitability?"

Very much so Storm.... there's been a lot of interest so far so am having to whittle down those who are interested!

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Is it a party (play space / bedrooms at the venue) or a social (night out in club / bar)?

The key for a party is the right number of play spaces for the number of guests you have invited.

And certainly don't plan to leave yourself out of pocket. Yes our events usually leave us slightly out of pocket but no more than a good weekend. We ask a modest fee (e30) per couple to cover the main costs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a party (play space / bedrooms at the venue) or a social (night out in club / bar)?

The key for a party is the right number of play spaces for the number of guests you have invited.

And certainly don't plan to leave yourself out of pocket. Yes our events usually leave us slightly out of pocket but no more than a good weekend. We ask a modest fee (e30) per couple to cover the main costs. "

Hey guys..... yes in fact a big concern with choosing the right venue has been to balance social areas with appropriate play areas.... however after an (exhaustive!) search I believe I've found three venues that will work perfectly!

We hope to have a total of 20 attendees. Security and bar service will be provided and there will be a (modest!) open bar...

The goal is to create a night of pure self indulgence and opulence! I feel the goal is worth the cost!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have listened....

And... we... are...in!!!

Swanksville!

Post to follow!

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