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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a coworker who I have a massive crush on turned out to be a faber, wondering should I approach her or would it be unprofessional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you find out?

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin


"So a coworker who I have a massive crush on turned out to be a faber, wondering should I approach her or would it be unprofessional "

Very dodgy territory, a lot of people would want to keep their fab activities seperate from their professional life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were chatting and she fit the discretion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a coworker who I have a massive crush on turned out to be a faber, wondering should I approach her or would it be unprofessional

Very dodgy territory, a lot of people would want to keep their fab activities seperate from their professional life."

I know that's why am looking for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd avoid it, could think of nothing worse. If I was to do it I'd drop a subtle hint and judge her reaction and act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd avoid it, could think of nothing worse. If I was to do it I'd drop a subtle hint and judge her reaction and act accordingly. "

Thanks, fingers crossed I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo OP, don't mix fab with work. And I reckon if she was interested you would know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risky business,if you know her profile name or have an idea why not start there but she will probably run a mile because its too close to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghostbusters moment. Never EVER cross the streams OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Risky business,if you know her profile name or have an idea why not start there but she will probably run a mile because its too close to home."

A mere mention of knowing and the girl will delete and bolt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Risky business,if you know her profile name or have an idea why not start there but she will probably run a mile because its too close to home.

A mere mention of knowing and the girl will delete and bolt. "

Ok now am confused, should I just stick with my naughty neighbors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghostbusters moment. Never EVER cross the streams OP. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Risky business,if you know her profile name or have an idea why not start there but she will probably run a mile because its too close to home.

A mere mention of knowing and the girl will delete and bolt.

Ok now am confused, should I just stick with my naughty neighbors "

As I see it if you come out straight with her it puts her in a really awkward and uncomfortable position. It's unfair on the women imo. I can only imagine how unpleasant going into work would be for her realising you knew. She might start worrying if you've told people, she might start worrying you'll use it against her etc. For your own career/reputation you should be wary of putting her in this position as well.

By dropping a hint it gives her the option of returning the hint or ignoring it, in which case you can both pretend neither knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Risky business,if you know her profile name or have an idea why not start there but she will probably run a mile because its too close to home.

A mere mention of knowing and the girl will delete and bolt.

Ok now am confused, should I just stick with my naughty neighbors

As I see it if you come out straight with her it puts her in a really awkward and uncomfortable position. It's unfair on the women imo. I can only imagine how unpleasant going into work would be for her realising you knew. She might start worrying if you've told people, she might start worrying you'll use it against her etc. For your own career/reputation you should be wary of putting her in this position as well.

By dropping a hint it gives her the option of returning the hint or ignoring it, in which case you can both pretend neither knows. "

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By *otmyrealname!!Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"Ghostbusters moment. Never EVER cross the streams OP. "

Great reference

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"We were chatting and she fit the discretion "

So your only guessing..Jez resist the temptation and think with your brain not your willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont know how deep a puddle is until you step into it.

If i were you i would be keeping my feet dry.Non runner fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooooo. What if you're wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you potentially want her to report you for sexual harassment really doesnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if you potentially want her to report you for sexual harassment really doesnt it?"

Report me after approaching her on fab??

Anyway I cut my losses and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were chatting and she fit the discretion

So your only guessing..Jez resist the temptation and think with your brain not your willy"

Try and convince my willy

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By *upoftea2Man
over a year ago

Dublin

The real question is, should one (ever) mix pleasure with business...

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Seems obvious to me. If you are her type, she'll find you here. If she recognized you, the balls in her court as to how she handles it. Otherwise I wouldn't bother.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

You could send her a face pic on here with a standard message and see how she reacts to that. But I wouldnt do anything at work it could make things very uncomfortable no matter how you approach it because even the knowledge that someone she knows is aware of it could make her feel shes in a bad spot.

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