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Important job and I live too close

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can fully respect that point of view to be fair.We dont meet or play with locals and prefer to travel a distance for fun, this is a personal choice and people have the right to chose with who, how, when or where they want to play .Freedom swinging gives us all..

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By *arney n BettyCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important"

We agree, but can see both points. We personally think nearer is handier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I prefer an exclusion zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I prefer an exclusion zone. "

I think there are a lot of Galwegians applying this rule - every time I land in the opposite side of the country I'm surrounded by rakes of them all of a sudden

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I wouldn't go near anybody near

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go near anybody near "

This is a far better idea.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Yep, no locals for me. And there are some hotties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call. "

Nasty!

Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer someone near by it means ya can have reg meets it's not something that yu have to plan and schedule in advance.

However I do want discretion so I don't swap pics till I have chatted for a while and I want to meet.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't meet anyone to near.....alot of people think they know what discretion is but actually don't practice it

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Dont see the problem with living to close, at the end of the day we are all here for the same thing , we have met neighbours and family through this lifestyle and never had an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can kinda understand it in a very small town. I'm assuming Dublin people don't have the same stance, or maybe just in their locality in Dublin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.

Nasty!

Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?"
Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

Love the ones that say. Oh I can't travel far so closer the better. Then excuse no.1 is you're too close for comfort

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

Personally we prefer people near that can accommodate but in the countryside near = less than a 15-20 min drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get all sides of the realities to both sides of the point but I have met someone local and was lucky that both our attitudes to respectful discretion matched but would be slow to take chances on a regular basis.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

Spot on madame b that's exactly what it's about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot on madame b that's exactly what it's about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.

Nasty!

Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx"

Well done - there's enough fakes/ weirdos and fuckwits on Fab to make you wary of meets.

But also some lovely people. I think it comes with experience, knowing who you feel comfortable taking to or meeting.

I got knocked back by a couple as they said they used to live in my area 15 years ago!

For Christ sake.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

If you have the right person then distance is not important but closer is more practical. But if you drive sure whats a little time spent behind the wheel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important"

Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....

You can look in my trolley anytime guys

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important

Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....

You can look in my trolley anytime guys "

Trolly dolly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important

Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....

You can look in my trolley anytime guys "
we already know what you buy and where don't worry

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Close as in less than 50 miles is ideal. Then there isn't a big deal when arranging meets.

But around the corner can be a bit hairy unless both parties are mature enough to keep things in perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.

Nasty!

Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!

Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!

I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important

Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....

You can look in my trolley anytime guys we already know what you buy and where don't worry "

Wouldn't you at least help me carry it to the car ffs....

I'll give you a reward when you do

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