FabSwingers.com forum: First ever mmf

By *ornyminx13 OP Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None but enjoy it. Der 2 very lucky guys.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I remember my first mmf very well like you I was very nervous.... Just make sure everyone knows your boundaries... Enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it and make sure u get what u want and nothing u don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow x enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, breath deeply, get stuck in and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Just dig in! Enjoy!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Just remember, it's not just men that can multitask!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Just enjoy....don't have a set play list just let it develop organically its much better fun..if you leave anything out you'll just have to do it again lol

Enjoy your night xx

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

You'll have a ball or two gorgeous girl enjoy every second it's amazing X

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Just relax and go with the flow, its amazing and so much fun

Hope u enjoy the night xx

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing -enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"
..lucky b*tch..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not as nice as mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it !!!!!

U never forget ur first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally jealous!

As others have said, go with the flow. Don't drink too much, you want to remember everything and enjoy!

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Just make sure the guys know your limits tell them and enjoy

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By *hadow74Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny/ Dublin

Set the bar and go for it, there'll be lots of enjoyment for you.. Lucky lads..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy im so jealous would love to but im a coward lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it."
pria ffm is nicer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol "
i will take your word for that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol i will take your word for that lol"
so u wanna try it

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

Make sure you come back and tell us how it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my advice would be to make sure you discuss what you hope to experince out of the scenario BEFORE you get down to business otherwise you might find you ended up pleasuring two fellas who didnt reciprocate ! I know several ladies whos fantasies of a 3 way with two men did not go anything like they had hoped , for example if your thing is to have one man lick your clit while the other one fucks you ( lets be honest girls this is mainly what a woman wants from a 3 some ) or to be double penetrated ( also high on the wish list ) then make sure you tell them this is what you expect . That way they cant say you never said etc after its all over and they both had an orgasm while your still frustrated and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol i will take your word for that lol so u wanna try it "
im on the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my advice would be to make sure you discuss what you hope to experince out of the scenario BEFORE you get down to business otherwise you might find you ended up pleasuring two fellas who didnt reciprocate ! I know several ladies whos fantasies of a 3 way with two men did not go anything like they had hoped , for example if your thing is to have one man lick your clit while the other one fucks you ( lets be honest girls this is mainly what a woman wants from a 3 some ) or to be double penetrated ( also high on the wish list ) then make sure you tell them this is what you expect . That way they cant say you never said etc after its all over and they both had an orgasm while your still frustrated and horny "

This

Men aren't mindreaders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wed another fab 3sum mmf last week.oh yes I enjoyed.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol i will take your word for that lol so u wanna try it im on the way"

And if you need an M, I'm available....

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

If you're nervous, have a drink beforehand. Not to get blocked or even tipsy, but just one to relax you. That applies for all involved. Ideally, you should all have it together; an ideal opportunity and reason for having a toast!

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Enjoy it;-)

Really need to organise 1 myself, it's been too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"

Just relax and enjoy mmf r amazing so is mff btwo enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're nervous, have a drink beforehand. Not to get blocked or even tipsy, but just one to relax you. That applies for all involved. Ideally, you should all have it together; an ideal opportunity and reason for having a toast!"

Get the champagne in SB xx

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By *ornyminx13 OP Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

I will x

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Get the champagne in SB xx"

Nothing but the best for you, gorgeous Goldie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not as nice as mff"

Il have to be shown, I need proof lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"

Hope you have fun! Sorry in advance for hijacking your thread here but I'm thinking about popping a cherry myself with a ffm with a lovely couple I met. My only question is....how can you set boundaries when you've no preconceived ideas of what will/is meant to happen? Genuine question....

(Oh and let me know how you get on as that'll be next on my list!)

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice

(Oh and let me know how you get on as that'll be next on my list!)

You could either sit and have a chat with the other people involved or, if doing so face to face is too embarrassing, perhaps draw up by e-mail a checklist of things you'd like to happen and don't want to happen. It sounds terribly formal, almost legalistic, but it needn't be. Just think about what you want from it and what you consider to be no-nos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol "

No it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been reading this form and must say had a few mmf times myself. The only thing was we didn't talk about what we all wanted and looking back the only thing I did not do was lick her clit as she had a cock inside her. I could not get my head round it but now a few years on it's the one thing I have not done and would like to remedy it turn into a fantasy now which sucks pardon the pun lol anyone who can help? (SOS)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my fav

relax and enjoy every minute of it. pria ffm is nicer lol

No it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"

Make sure you wash off that double cock smell before you go home to hubby after it

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

What was better? The fantasy or the reality?

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice

Make sure you wash off that double cock smell before you go home to hubby after it"

Wow, immaturity alert

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By *illy2Couple
over a year ago

birr

First time is so nervous....but with a good partner....eye contact... and a safe word..you,look have a ball and be excillerated after x

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Have experienced mff twice and wow it was hot. Would love to try mmf next. Best of luck and keep us posted x

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"What was better? The fantasy or the reality? "
that is a good point, I had a ffm prior to the meet she was eager and keen.... when it came down to it she was too nervous.

So the fantasy for her was much better.

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By *ornyminx13 OP Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

Il report my findings tomorrow

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice

Make sure you wash off that double cock smell before you go home to hubby after it"

Ah here!

you just cant help yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Enjoy im so jealous would love to but im a coward lol"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll miss chochilloic d smell of sex can b pretty smelly excuse me so that guy saying having a shower I recommend it . Especially since she's married mmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gotta let the inhibitions go..

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By *lik UrgeeMan
over a year ago

mallow

Make sure camcorder battery is fully charged !!!

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By *ornyminx13 OP Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and now we can add you to list of disappointed women whos fantasy of a 3 some yielded fuck all pleasure for her. Sorry to hear that hun .

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross"
sorry to hear that

(( Hopefully it won't stop you trying for it again x

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sorry to hear that op, nothing worse than a whole night wasted.

Best is to organise a mfm with a repeat meet you know well, you can trust and you know that he delivers. Then bring a second guy in or your repeat might know one. Like that you know you've at least one that will pleasure you.

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By *rownrocketMan
over a year ago

Cork

Just live the moment and make sure you enjoy it.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Awww op sorry too hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your hubby left?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My last mfm the lad was on his way....never showed up.

Never mind I still had fun.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Awh sorry to hear it didn't go as well as u hoped. Don't get disheartened tho, I guess stick to experienced ppl who've a proven track record of performance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your hubby left?"
"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband. "

I get that - but he's the one that left?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband.

I get that - but he's the one that left? "

Ha...if so left me recapitalise: a fb nicknamed 'hubby' who cums prematurely but has no balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband.

I get that - but he's the one that left?

Ha...if so left me recapitalise: a fb nicknamed 'hubby' who cums prematurely but has no balls.

He may have even less balls if she gets hold of him after leaving her!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Ah OP I was really hoping this was going to go well for you. I've been wanting a mfm for ages and have had no luck. Sorry it didn't work for you this time hopefully next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"

I've yet to experience mind I know what your feeling at the minute lol

Sorry I can't help with advice bed of things xx

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

So sorry to hear it didn't end well . Thats why we rather mff or couples and never go to a meet with a with a loaded gun (excuse the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, enjoy and Savour every moment

hopefully like my first it'll be even better than you'll expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relax, enjoy and Savour every moment

hopefully like my first it'll be even better than you'll expect

You need to read the whole thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know... oops!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know... oops!!"

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By *evilinsidemeMan
over a year ago

Trim

I have to admit that sometimes, not all, after I cum, I feel less inclined to have sex and even a little bit guilty.

In saying that though, the feeling doesn't last long and its just not right to run asap.

Give the situation a chance to develop. Maybe it's not the right place for you? Maybe you feel better, get turned on again and relax while enjoying yourself?

I was lucky my first swing time, I meet a lady that was understanding and helped me enjoy the experience, even though I'm sure it could have been more enjoyable for her if I had more experience with swinging.

Although this post seems to be slightly laying blame on one side its not!

I think it's unfair to do that either way.

It does show why people look for verified meets more and more.

I had my secound real experience at a party and it was much more relaxed and fun. "MMFFMFM cigarette" somewhere along that lines of that. Haha. (#Exaggerated)

Maybe miss hornyminx, you could join us (fellow fab party goers) at the next one and a mmf would be more than possible then.

Sorry to hear you were let down. Hopefully the next time some lucky guy will help you feel better about the fantasy becoming reality.

Don't let one mistaken guy let you stop trying to make your own smile wider.

Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of bollix. You should have to do a bleeding stamina test before you're allowed join this site. If u cum in less than 15 mins, you're barred. Never heard the likes in my life. Swingers are supposed to be good lovers but loads of thicks on this cumming before they even get their jocks off. What are they even doing here ffs

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband. "

That could be the end of him, for ruining the Fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what a let down our first mmf was amazing just goes to show you have to be a bit picky we got our first recommended to us and didn't disappoint although took awhile before we were all comfortable but that's the nature of the beast (hate those one minute men stamina all the way)... maybe you will have better luck next time..

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