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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge

For those about to rant we salute you ..jeez girls just had a third guy cancel on me last minute , is there something I should know !!!! To pull the fab plug or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

"
but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all i can say what were those guys thinking,if you havent the balls to go through with a meet,dont propose one

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Hang in there......"
ye think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months "

Change your age blockage on your messages and lets get this party started...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months "

Maybe that's the problem...some here are happy to chat but never meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months "

you can speak to me also with a different ending i can assure you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its there loss try and not to dwell on it.......(its normal to feel pissed off )

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

Maybe that's the problem...some here are happy to chat but never meet

"
utter timewasters is rather meet and no chat

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Its there loss try and not to dwell on it.......(its normal to feel pissed off )"
really annoying it takes ages to make this head presentable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

"

I hate when guys say this.... what exactly the is the right type of fella? You?

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

you can speak to me also with a different ending i can assure you!!"
I'm giving up chatting its socials from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would probley have been shite in bed if there heart was not in it.....maybe you got a lucky escape

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Maybe they saw your profile name op and realised they were guys.... It's one theory anyway....

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Maybe they saw your profile name op and realised they were guys.... It's one theory anyway.... "
been on since last year though on "musicmad1971" profile and was also chatting to all three in both profiles plus they were in on my "broadening my horizons " new profile name so I dunno

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"They would probley have been shite in bed if there heart was not in it.....maybe you got a lucky escape"
block and move on it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

I hate when guys say this.... what exactly the is the right type of fella? You? "

The right fella is someone who goes through with what he promises... it's not that hard is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

I hate when guys say this.... what exactly the is the right type of fella? You?

The right fella is someone who goes through with what he promises... it's not that hard is it??

"

Yea it is.. on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on there loss....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

you can speak to me also with a different ending i can assure you!! I'm giving up chatting its socials from now on "

That's a good idea

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

you can speak to me also with a different ending i can assure you!! I'm giving up chatting its socials from now on

That's a good idea "

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy "
looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort "

That's the way to put together your to do list

Look forward to seeing you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort "

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min "

Socials give you a chance to talk to others about nice meets they've had too. I know everyone's likes are different, but it got me off to a good start here by asking other ladies & couples who they would recommend

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If it's happening a lot the common denominator is you, change something that you're doing or stop doing the same things., change your selection process ,

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort "

Enjoy Saturday night and have some fun wish i could make it but i have xmas party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously not going for the right type of fella....

but fuck me ive spoken to all for months

you can speak to me also with a different ending i can assure you!! I'm giving up chatting its socials from now on

That's a good idea "

How many meets had they?

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's the way to put together your to do list

Look forward to seeing you there"
looking forward to meeting you too x

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min "
shit it's not just me so sooo annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Lolly who wouid cancel on you.
"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min "

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min

Socials give you a chance to talk to others about nice meets they've had too. I know everyone's likes are different, but it got me off to a good start here by asking other ladies & couples who they would recommend "
that's the exact experience I had at a kildare meet and greet , honest fabbers helping each other out !!

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else"
my bad trying to jump straight to the fun bit I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else my bad trying to jump straight to the fun bit I know "

Can't win I always suggest coffee meet first and yet still been stood up, beginning to think time to give up too

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else my bad trying to jump straight to the fun bit I know

Can't win I always suggest coffee meet first and yet still been stood up, beginning to think time to give up too "

ladies... We have met and enjoyed a few nice guy who turn up when they say they will....p.m.if you want usernames..... Mrs Davie t

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

It says more about them than you. Lots of them do the big talk but when it comes to it, talk is all the have. I'd a mmf planned for last night & 1 cancelled & I text a few others that always said they were up for fun but when I contacted them, all I got was excuses, the biggest been they only want 1-1 meets, which to me isn't swinging. Hotel room was looked after, there was no socialising involved just good ole fashioned dirty naughty sex & I still culdnt find a 2nd guy.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"It says more about them than you. Lots of them do the big talk but when it comes to it, talk is all the have. I'd a mmf planned for last night & 1 cancelled & I text a few others that always said they were up for fun but when I contacted them, all I got was excuses, the biggest been they only want 1-1 meets, which to me isn't swinging. Hotel room was looked after, there was no socialising involved just good ole fashioned dirty naughty sex & I still culdnt find a 2nd guy. "

Very very annoying.... I think a lot of men lack the confidence to engage when there's another guy around....great in theory not in practice... Better luck next time xx

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else my bad trying to jump straight to the fun bit I know

Can't win I always suggest coffee meet first and yet still been stood up, beginning to think time to give up too

ladies... We have met and enjoyed a few nice guy who turn up when they say they will....p.m.if you want usernames..... Mrs Davie t"
recommendations is the way to go alright .ive also done it with fab girls !!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"Very early in the chat suggest a coffee meet...if they can't commit to that forget trying to arrange anything else my bad trying to jump straight to the fun bit I know

Can't win I always suggest coffee meet first and yet still been stood up, beginning to think time to give up too

ladies... We have met and enjoyed a few nice guy who turn up when they say they will....p.m.if you want usernames..... Mrs Davie t recommendations is the way to go alright .ive also done it with fab girls !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang in there...... ye think "

Haha you need to talk with me

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min "

Sorry lolli but as I explained that paper cut on my little finger just made it impossible for me to drive!

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"It says more about them than you. Lots of them do the big talk but when it comes to it, talk is all the have. I'd a mmf planned for last night & 1 cancelled & I text a few others that always said they were up for fun but when I contacted them, all I got was excuses, the biggest been they only want 1-1 meets, which to me isn't swinging. Hotel room was looked after, there was no socialising involved just good ole fashioned dirty naughty sex & I still culdnt find a 2nd guy. "
fit to be tied up (literally).. my fab hubby wudve definitely obliged last night had he not also been on a meet ..I'd love to downsize fab to the "actual" meeters

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Hang in there...... ye think

Haha you need to talk with me "
talk to me beef x

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By *edserMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"For those about to rant we salute you ..jeez girls just had a third guy cancel on me last minute , is there something I should know !!!! To pull the fab plug or not "

There loss the egits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min

Sorry lolli but as I explained that paper cut on my little finger just made it impossible for me to drive! "

Ah yes, a paper cut, that ol chestnut!!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"It says more about them than you. Lots of them do the big talk but when it comes to it, talk is all the have. I'd a mmf planned for last night & 1 cancelled & I text a few others that always said they were up for fun but when I contacted them, all I got was excuses, the biggest been they only want 1-1 meets, which to me isn't swinging. Hotel room was looked after, there was no socialising involved just good ole fashioned dirty naughty sex & I still culdnt find a 2nd guy.

Very very annoying.... I think a lot of men lack the confidence to engage when there's another guy around....great in theory not in practice... Better luck next time xx"

Yeah... Those other single guys.. :-absolute twats...imagine ...Saturday night and not dropping everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few genuine males here keep the faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop that age limit by a year. I'm a man of my word I'll meet if I say I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few genuine males here keep the faith "

That's right. But they can't write to you because it's blocked That's a pity

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"There are a few genuine males here keep the faith "

Indeed there are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of hot sexy genuine males thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those about to rant we salute you ..jeez girls just had a third guy cancel on me last minute , is there something I should know !!!! To pull the fab plug or not "

Stop meeting single guys, meet couples instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont narrow the field....cast the net wider....theres great single guys on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont narrow the field....cast the net wider....theres great single guys on here too"

Don't have single guys blocked and still not happening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will keep that one in the back pocket...what kills me is they ask for a face photo then nothing.....sometimes blocked......wtf...

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I normally stick to well verif & I have in d past contacted a verif of a guy just to make sure he's reliable but last night was too spur of moment & impulsive so I'm not too disappointed, will just make me more wary of 'talkers' & teach me to stick to my usual ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of hot sexy genuine males thank god "

Don't forget the girls too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep positive about it.....your on here for fun it does need 2 to tango but you want someone that wants to play not talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few genuine males here keep the faith

Indeed there are"

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min shit it's not just me so sooo annoying "

Lady's there are also couples like us to meet up with Twice the fun and pleasure of a single man , and we always cum when arranged and never leave a lady alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of hot sexy genuine males thank god

Don't forget the girls too"

Just have to be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to be born lucky than rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is thankfully I've met some pretty cool people and been very lucky in doing so

But just lately the gobshites and bullshitters keep appearing out of the woodwork

Sometimes it's just not worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There everywhere in all walks of life sowe must not let them get us down....head up chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say is thankfully I've met some pretty cool people and been very lucky in doing so

But just lately the gobshites and bullshitters keep appearing out of the woodwork

Sometimes it's just not worth it!"

I find that there is a lot of fake down our way

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"For those about to rant we salute you ..jeez girls just had a third guy cancel on me last minute , is there something I should know !!!! To pull the fab plug or not

There loss the egits "

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Drop that age limit by a year. I'm a man of my word I'll meet if I say I will"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great tread ...well done

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"For those about to rant we salute you ..jeez girls just had a third guy cancel on me last minute , is there something I should know !!!! To pull the fab plug or not

Stop meeting single guys, meet couples instead "
im interested in couples also x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now your talking...spread the net wide....happy fishing

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment "
oh yes I've had those ..a,b and c

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"I normally stick to well verif & I have in d past contacted a verif of a guy just to make sure he's reliable but last night was too spur of moment & impulsive so I'm not too disappointed, will just make me more wary of 'talkers' & teach me to stick to my usual ways. "
I would've imagined there would be guys single would love spur of the moment meets but alas not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally stick to well verif & I have in d past contacted a verif of a guy just to make sure he's reliable but last night was too spur of moment & impulsive so I'm not too disappointed, will just make me more wary of 'talkers' & teach me to stick to my usual ways. I would've imagined there would be guys

single would love spur of the moment meets but alas not "

Either did I. I'm single and if I was offered I'd be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"If it's happening a lot the common denominator is you, change something that you're doing or stop doing the same things., change your selection process , "
ahhh hat could I do , I know stop chatting as I'm too bloody nice that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says more about them than you. Lots of them do the big talk but when it comes to it, talk is all the have. I'd a mmf planned for last night & 1 cancelled & I text a few others that always said they were up for fun but when I contacted them, all I got was excuses, the biggest been they only want 1-1 meets, which to me isn't swinging. Hotel room was looked after, there was no socialising involved just good ole fashioned dirty naughty sex & I still culdnt find a 2nd guy. "

You mean none of the men who you texted at the last minute didnt suddenly drop everything they were doing just to meet your requirements?? Imagine that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote"

Plus for all we know there could have been genuine reasons for the cancellations...OP doesnt seem interested in sharing those though, just in collecting a raft of sympathetic 'you go girl' comments and fawning desperation from the white knights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Have to say, very surprising behaviour. There are always the last minute crisis situations that may cause this but if none of them had the manners and decency to explain themselves, then that's them thrown to the ditch. If I ever schedule, I'd be in contact before and confirm when I had begun traveling to meet, at the least. Maybe that's something you could ask, a text to say they are on their way.

Then again, if they're too scared to meet, they'll probably pretend they're in the car already!

Sympathize with you OP and I do hope that the lucky gent you select next is more genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's happening a lot the common denominator is you, change something that you're doing or stop doing the same things., change your selection process , ahhh hat could I do , I know stop chatting as I'm too bloody nice that's why "

Ask them to book a hotel and you'll find out for sure if they're really up for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote

Plus for all we know there could have been genuine reasons for the cancellations...OP doesnt seem interested in sharing those though, just in collecting a raft of sympathetic 'you go girl' comments and fawning desperation from the white knights"

You can tell I've been drinking when I agree with you lol

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Seems to be a mixture of luck and being careful. But Ive had meet verified cancel on me the second I say Im a couple minutes away. Very frustrating. Seems to always be some time wasters around no matter what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a mixture of luck and being careful. But Ive had meet verified cancel on me the second I say Im a couple minutes away. Very frustrating. Seems to always be some time wasters around no matter what you do."

Unfortunately you won't get the sympathy the OP got - you're a man

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By *ornyminx13Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

They play games worse than women

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By *ornyminx13Woman
over a year ago

lurgan

Worse are ones say they can accom ..... ive hea4d it all but my mum stays at mine. The exwife lives with me ect grow a set say u cant accom dont waste my time

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By *van awfellornMan
over a year ago

belfast

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin


"Seems to be a mixture of luck and being careful. But Ive had meet verified cancel on me the second I say Im a couple minutes away. Very frustrating. Seems to always be some time wasters around no matter what you do.

Unfortunately you won't get the sympathy the OP got - you're a man"

Ha ha, well Im ok without the sympathy. Its just a shame theres so many timewasters around making it harder for the rest of us! Besides I find Tinder way better. Never been stood up and far easier to find someone to meet up with. But fab has its charms too.

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote"
it's over the last 6 months and I'm not looking for a sympathy vote thank you

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote

Plus for all we know there could have been genuine reasons for the cancellations...OP doesnt seem interested in sharing those though, just in collecting a raft of sympathetic 'you go girl' comments and fawning desperation from the white knights"
if you must know two of the three were to help a mate out excuses to me pretty lame when plans had already been made and again if you knew me darling I'm definitely not a sympathy vote collector .

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Have to say, very surprising behaviour. There are always the last minute crisis situations that may cause this but if none of them had the manners and decency to explain themselves, then that's them thrown to the ditch. If I ever schedule, I'd be in contact before and confirm when I had begun traveling to meet, at the least. Maybe that's something you could ask, a text to say they are on their way.

Then again, if they're too scared to meet, they'll probably pretend they're in the car already!

Sympathize with you OP and I do hope that the lucky gent you select next is more genuine"
he shall be vetted within an inch of his life

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"If it's happening a lot the common denominator is you, change something that you're doing or stop doing the same things., change your selection process , ahhh hat could I do , I know stop chatting as I'm too bloody nice that's why

Ask them to book a hotel and you'll find out for sure if they're really up for a meet."
will do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote

Plus for all we know there could have been genuine reasons for the cancellations...OP doesnt seem interested in sharing those though, just in collecting a raft of sympathetic 'you go girl' comments and fawning desperation from the white knights if you must know two of the three were to help a mate out excuses to me pretty lame when plans had already been made and again if you knew me darling I'm definitely not a sympathy vote collector . "

Sure you arent

Theres not a woman in here who doesnt enjoy the occassional charge of the white knight brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raise your age li ei talk to the owl lads like me we womt lat you down

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"I have no idea over what time range these three men have cancelled but if its in the last week/2 weeks then you need to change your selection criteria.

If its over the last year .. oh well

I know I'm just in from the pub and on zero tolerance - but this happens to men all the time and they don't get the sympathy vote

Plus for all we know there could have been genuine reasons for the cancellations...OP doesnt seem interested in sharing those though, just in collecting a raft of sympathetic 'you go girl' comments and fawning desperation from the white knights if you must know two of the three were to help a mate out excuses to me pretty lame when plans had already been made and again if you knew me darling I'm definitely not a sympathy vote collector .

Sure you arent

Theres not a woman in here who doesnt enjoy the occassional charge of the white knight brigade."
and I ain't one of them ..I'm more of a "balls like a bengal tiger" kinda girl me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel.

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. "
ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap "

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then.

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By *ildaremaleMan
over a year ago

athy


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap "

love to meet u xxxxxx.

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. "
that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style " "

Thought that would encourage them meet up.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment "

Have to agree with point a) if a guy is always trying to turn the chat into a wanking chat. He's not a person that meets.

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment

Have to agree with point a) if a guy is always trying to turn the chat into a wanking chat. He's not a person that meets. "
I've been chatting to s few "wankers" so !!!

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

Thought that would encourage them meet up. "
maybe I'll try the softly softly approach "want to go for a drive in my car boys" failing that rohypnol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

Thought that would encourage them meet up. maybe I'll try the softly softly approach "want to go for a drive in my car boys" failing that rohypnol "

Don't forget to mix it with a bit of viagra. You don't want the fuckers to be completely useless.

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

Thought that would encourage them meet up. maybe I'll try the softly softly approach "want to go for a drive in my car boys" failing that rohypnol

Don't forget to mix it with a bit of viagra. You don't want the fuckers to be completely useless. "
two lolly pop sticks and sellotape

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

Thought that would encourage them meet up. maybe I'll try the softly softly approach "want to go for a drive in my car boys" failing that rohypnol

Don't forget to mix it with a bit of viagra. You don't want the fuckers to be completely useless. two lolly pop sticks and sellotape "

Skitten

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment

Have to agree with point a) if a guy is always trying to turn the chat into a wanking chat. He's not a person that meets. I've been chatting to s few "wankers" so !!!"

Haven't we all girl!!

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By *irl4girls OP   Woman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"ive learned a few things in my time on here and on of them is this .... if you are talking to someone who says any of the following ... a ) what will you do to me when we meet b) do you ever be in such and such a town c) what will you wear for me when we meet ..... you can pretty much write them off as arm chair swingers who will never turn up . This has been more than 90 % accurate for me and saved me the bother of disappointment

Have to agree with point a) if a guy is always trying to turn the chat into a wanking chat. He's not a person that meets. I've been chatting to s few "wankers" so !!!

Haven't we all girl!! "

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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago

nutbushcitylimits


"Do not give up and forget about it .think of ahead and emjoy looking forward to Dublin social on Saturday full of lovely fab people that make the effort

That's exactly how I see it now, if they bother showing up for the social then it's a higher chance they will show for a meet!! But I hear ya, every fella I arranged to meet in the last few months bar two - all cancelled last min "

Pups !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Just do your home work..

OR is it fab me

plenty of them here

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By *arney n BettyCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Ask them to meet up asap, at least then you won't have invested a huge amount of time and energy into them if they do cancel. ok so you free in let's say 20 mins)))) joking x...no more beating around the bush so I'll drag them kicking and screaming asap

Get the handcuffs out. Won't be able to escape then. that's what it was so word got out I've been forcing the fuckers to fuck "handcuffs style "

Thought that would encourage them meet up. maybe I'll try the softly softly approach "want to go for a drive in my car boys" failing that rohypnol

Don't forget to mix it with a bit of viagra. You don't want the fuckers to be completely useless. two lolly pop sticks and sellotape "

Anybody else getting slightly nervous now

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