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Simple question Fit or Flab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In real life what are you most atracted to fit or flab at first sight?? i.e when peoples clothes are on not on fab as everybody has a sex appeal here showing off there bits in sexy gear and what not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremes of either are not attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

We don't look for fit/flab, we look for fun/filth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest "
I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So would u buy a book on the way a cover looks or a car on the body and not the engine

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

I often go for the eyes first, as the saying goes windows to the soul, and if you see some trouble...run, if you see a twinkle ...go for it...then see what they have on offer, boobs, bums, curves (you may call her fat but I see curves on a positive nature)

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"

An ass that fills jeans nicely...be it fit or fat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So would u buy a book on the way a cover looks or a car on the body and not the engine "
its not the same judgement..someone may have a great personality dose.nt say there gonna be great in the sack and when the clothes come off there has to be inital attraction

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By *haz0101Man
over a year ago

london

Love an ass that fills the jean, there's more to grab onto, cushion for the pushing haha

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh

What is fit, I can run 20km dead lift 240kg, but still I have good love handles around my waist, hell you gota take me as I am lol!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I like fit guys but not too skinny or muscley.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

As a great man once said...

"sexy is more an attitude than a dress size or numbers on a scales"

Oh feck, wait a minute, that was me on my profile

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Fit or curvy, at first sight, there's so much to be said about warm eye contact, a friendly smile and a little charisma

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fit or curvy, at first sight, there's so much to be said about warm eye contact, a friendly smile and a little charisma "
totally agree with friendly eyes and a warm smile but I may not want to tear there clothes off

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "

Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes every time....

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA!"

You can have some of mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice Eyes and a nice smile are a great start, sex appeal comes in different shapes and sizes

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "

It looks like the question is too difficult...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course its fit . If any guy on here says different there lying . And before anyone shoots me down i have been the lady who was size 22 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "

I see you've never encountered a fitness bore or an orthorexic then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim waist and nice round ass is optional but once they are healthy I'm happy

Obesity is killing this country and yes be happy in your body and shape as you don't need to be skinny to be happy or healthy but when it affects your life you got to take a look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence in their own body is a big thing for me, how they carry themselves and show off their body off in right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "

Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips

But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA!

You can have some of mine lol"

Oh if I must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips

But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips

But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water

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just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!

Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People don't put on weight by eating sensibly and excersing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't put on weight by eating sensibly and excersing "

But some people do if they suffer from a medical condition!

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath


"People don't put on weight by eating sensibly and excersing "

I normally put weight on when eating sensibly, especially if they happen to be sitting on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence in their own body is a big thing for me, how they carry themselves and show off their body off in right way "

Definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People don't put on weight by eating sensibly and excersing

I normally put weight on when eating sensibly, especially if they happen to be sitting on my face "
Lmao

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane

We agree with the fun/filth comment above!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I go filth all the time I know I am shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with brains, personality, and sense of humour

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Course its fit . If any guy on here says different there lying . And before anyone shoots me down i have been the lady who was size 22 . "

Then or now the filth remains an I have seen the pic I'd still have had fun

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"

Fit girls all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like ladies I'd all shapes and sizes as each one is a work of art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"

Fit girl, no question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips

But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water

just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!

Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question"

Dont you know, you cant ask a straight question in here because nobody will give an honest answer for fear of upsetting overweight people and thus jeopardising their chances of getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings "

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??"
My point exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??"

No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??

No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy

Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy

Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished

You did ask for it now I await the backlash

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Call me shallow Hal but I like a bbw with confidence. Always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy

Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy

Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished

You did ask for it now I await the backlash"

If you would stop labelling people on your own perceptions and on how you personally categorise people then you might get a broader view....Ive seen overweight people as you describe above in the gym full of energy and the toned fresh faced as you say tired and sluggish ...so your defo wrong again in what 3 cats you have described above ....Thank god most people do not judge on "fit or flab"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.

I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.

In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??

No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer"

For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.

I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.

In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic "

The only people in here who are making this divisive are those who are at pains to stress that they dont 'judge' people based on looks etc etc. Well thats wonderful, but thats not the subject matter...its just a simple bloody question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.

I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.

In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic "

well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy

Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy

Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished

You did ask for it now I await the backlash

If you would stop labelling people on your own perceptions and on how you personally categorise people then you might get a broader view....Ive seen overweight people as you describe above in the gym full of energy and the toned fresh faced as you say tired and sluggish ...so your defo wrong again in what 3 cats you have described above ....Thank god most people do not judge on "fit or flab" completely disagree I think I.ve sumed up the majority of people pretty well in my opinion!! all depends on what category you see you self!! "

I dont put myself in any category I am what I am and just thankfull to be healthy and comfortable in my own skin of which I have my imperfections glad im not perfect !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna say fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings

Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??

No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer

For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other "

Nicole scherzinger - fit

Scarlett moffatt - flab

Two hot girls. But prefer nicole scherzinger body. Its not really fat shaming here in this thread at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"

Fit girls butt would have my eyes.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I fell madly in luv with a lady at first glance , now she was just a nice down to earth lady don't know what happened but was smitten bye her . 3 weeks of heaven I was floating in dream land . I could not tel u how r why it happened . It always differes from woman to woman it could b looks r personality r it could b a few things all roled up together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fell madly in luv with a lady at first glance , now she was just a nice down to earth lady don't know what happened but was smitten bye her . 3 weeks of heaven I was floating in dream land . I could not tel u how r why it happened . It always differes from woman to woman it could b looks r personality r it could b a few things all roled up together ."

You old romantic Chocko.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Thanks

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

To b honest I'm very romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!

Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....

I just love telling them where to go...

Thank you private notes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!

Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....

I just love telling them where to go...

Thank you private notes!

"

Fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread was just started to cause division and drama. Even the title is designed to be a put down.

Pick people you want to fuck. If you have a preference that's fine. Keep it to yourself. Don't go trying to hurt people. Or offend them. It's unnecessary.

We are all supposed to be here for sex and socialising. Let's keep it inclusive.

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By *iss SadisticWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere

I'm attracted to stocky, tall men. They may be fit, they may be flab. That's my type.

I'm a flab girl, well able to admit I've often look at fit girls and thought, I do her, and I'm straight.

But also think that this thread and the tone of the op is a bit fat shaming which is unfortunate. I also think if you have a preference for slim, fit people then you should be able to say that without backlash, it a just the tone of it that makes a difference.

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By *3XyFUNMan
over a year ago

costa blanca , Spain. near BENIDORM


"I like fit guys but not too skinny or muscley. "

Thats me then !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit all the way.

This type of question always gets the same type of reply.

You shouldnt label

You shouldnt pigeon hole

Everybody is beautiful

Personality

Fit people are brain dead and boring.

Curvy girls are best

Which is all fine, but dont tell someone not to "label".

The question is about peoples preference in body types.

Personally, if im not physically attracted to someone then i wont have sex with them even if they are the most interesting, humourous, and all round amazing personality.

And yes i would have sex with a stunning woman with no personality.

We're here for sexual encounters and not intellectual stimulation.

Dont judge us for this and we dont judge others for their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course its fit . If any guy on here says different there lying . And before anyone shoots me down i have been the lady who was size 22 . "

If I could choose a size 16, 18,20 I'd choose them far quicker that a size 8 or 10 every time. Personal preference. I find them far sexyier

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh


"Fit or curvy, at first sight, there's so much to be said about warm eye contact, a friendly smile and a little charisma "

I couldn't agree more, so true, as people around here say, "depends if you click or not". But a smile goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fit all the way.

This type of question always gets the same type of reply.

You shouldnt label

You shouldnt pigeon hole

Everybody is beautiful

Personality

Fit people are brain dead and boring.

Curvy girls are best

Which is all fine, but dont tell someone not to "label".

The question is about peoples preference in body types.

Personally, if im not physically attracted to someone then i wont have sex with them even if they are the most interesting, humourous, and all round amazing personality.

And yes i would have sex with a stunning woman with no personality.

We're here for sexual encounters and not intellectual stimulation.

Dont judge us for this and we dont judge others for their preferences"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!

Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....

I just love telling them where to go...

Thank you private notes!

"

Theres more overweight irishmen than woman and in 2030 nearly everybody in ireland will be classed as overweight.

Scary thought

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thread was just started to cause division and drama. Even the title is designed to be a put down.

Pick people you want to fuck. If you have a preference that's fine. Keep it to yourself. Don't go trying to hurt people. Or offend them. It's unnecessary.

We are all supposed to be here for sex and socialising. Let's keep it inclusive. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!

Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....

I just love telling them where to go...

Thank you private notes!

Theres more overweight irishmen than woman and in 2030 nearly everybody in ireland will be classed as overweight.

Scary thought "
look around it could be sooner than that checkout....http://healthyliving.herbalife.ie/bmi-calculator...it.ll put extra strain on an already suffering medical service.. more people will be taking sick days or have to give up work completely.everybody else will have to pay more taxes in order for the government to be able to sustain this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!

Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....

I just love telling them where to go...

Thank you private notes!

Fantastic"

These threads and private notes go hand in hand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other "

Great observation.... Even half the forum titles are about dissecting pointlessness into further minute pieces of more precise pointlessness

Do you like your toast buttered on the top or the bottom? What is your favourite root vegetable? Are red socks sexier than blue socks?

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By *ingercarpetMan
over a year ago

louth

For me it has to be fit, you can't beat a hot fit ass in leggings, gets me worked up every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other

Great observation.... Even half the forum titles are about dissecting pointlessness into further minute pieces of more precise pointlessness

Do you like your toast buttered on the top or the bottom? What is your favourite root vegetable? Are red socks sexier than blue socks? "

Bottom? The side that's on top if you grill it of course, it's hotter.

Potato.

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping

Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips

But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water

just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!

Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question

Dont you know, you cant ask a straight question in here because nobody will give an honest answer for fear of upsetting overweight people and thus jeopardising their chances of getting a meet"

Fit all the way thanks.

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