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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?"

Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Wearing the face off me

Pm if you don't get that

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By *heDevilsownMan
over a year ago

Go West

Smart but casual will do the trick &

Some nice perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dress and a big happy head on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspenders, and heels. Catching a glance of the top of the suspenders as she is sitting down, imagining what else she has on and how good she'd look when she is out of all of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?

Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression"

I make an effort with how I look every day, if they didn't like that... neeeeexxxxxt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fantacy would be heals and 3 quarter lenth jacket with nottin under it. Maybe drop a spood and give snakey flash duren the coffee lol but i wouldnt be fussy either way. What ever is comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?

Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression

I make an effort with how I look every day, if they didn't like that... neeeeexxxxxt!

Good for you

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

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I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking and smelling good would be enough for me i like a lady in skinny jeans and chuck taylors doesnt take much for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A white top.....shows up the coffee stains perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

Told you it doesn't matter what ya wear when we are meeting only thing I asked was when and where?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend. "

Had a little giggle imagining going for a coffee meet with the clothes I had on two days ago when I met a friend for coffee, looking like a builder with a hat, dirty trousers and jacket and heavy boots...

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

Wiff you Miss Car surely it would have to be one of your best smiles ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe"

I'd encourage that kinda thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe"

Once they have the buttons on the sides so I can rip em off

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend.

Yes I can see a time and place for that

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

Why ???

Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned

As I said what ever u feel sexy in

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit

I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe

I'd encourage that kinda thing!

Ffs and here's me ironing my O'Neil shorts

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more

Ur pics leave me wanting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

Why ???

As I said what ever u feel sexy in

Ok... fleecy pjs it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever she is comfortable in for the occasion. If she feels uncomfortable then it'll come across and could be misread as not too interested as well. What been said by others and I concur that their face is first contact...eyes and smile...If someone is more concerned about what they are wearing then I'd say they were a bit shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend.

That's the thing, I've no doubt you still looked hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy business outfit and red lipstick.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

Why ???

As I said what ever u feel sexy in

Ok... fleecy pjs it is

Ffs at least complete the ensemble with rollers

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

Why ???

As I said what ever u feel sexy in

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gym gear

I'd feel a bit scruffy I'd throw on jeans .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

If it was tight running gear I'd be headed to the nearest pharmacy for tissues and chloroform!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i would make an effort so i would hope the lady or couple would also.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it

Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me

Why ???

As I said what ever u feel sexy in

gym gear

I'd feel a bit scruffy I'd throw on jeans ."

Who's scruffy

is he on here

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By *harlieparkerCouple
over a year ago

naas

Whatever makes her feel attractive and sexy

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Jeans ,white shirt, blazer and boots is sufficient to meet for coffee. Its a whole different ball game if it goes further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual dressy...heels always, dress or skinny jeans and leather jacket

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By *its and blondeCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Smart casual is all ways good a little revealing but not to much as its all ways better to leave the rest to the person imagination. And of course wanting more

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford

Tight white trousers I really love them on a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.

Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.

Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym gear for the win

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Channel No.5 otherwise naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual dressy...heels always, dress or skinny jeans and leather jacket "

This, plus a nice perfume and impeccable manicure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gym gear for the win "

I actually wore this for a social during the summer. He was fucking delighted with himself because he had a bit of a Lycra fetish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's whatever the person is comfortable in your meeting cause u like the person so she or he dosent have to blow u away nice chat and maybe a lingering kiss and use will be wanting each other more then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual dressy...heels always, dress or skinny jeans and leather jacket

This, plus a nice perfume and impeccable manicure

And a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the lady feels comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever the lady feels comfortable in

An NUFC shirt is OK by you then?

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

I'd like her to wear whatever she felt comfortable & sexy in & a beautiful confident smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wear whatever I'm comfortable in. So that could be jeans and top or something. Once I wore a jumper and he was disappointed I wasn't showing off the boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a coffee meet, surely anything as long as its tidy / smart......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks lads and ladies I usually wear what I'm confident and comfortable in just trying to gauge what males on Fab expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

If it was tight running gear I'd be headed to the nearest pharmacy for tissues and chloroform!!

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting a lady for a meet i like to see them smartly dressed not over the top but lets be honest first 30 seconds we humans judge a person by their looks i always dress well for a meet and expect the same in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever they're comfortable in,nothing worse than wearing something yer not quite feeling comfortable in.especially as they might be nervous already about the meet.i quite like a woman in a nice fitted pair of jeans and a sexy top..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Whatever makes the lady feel comfortable/confident/sexy, depending how she wants to be.

If it's genuinely just coffee, then surely it's mostly about the conversation, so she should not be under any pressure to impress. Usually at that stage you've likely seen a lot of her naked, so should not be overly concerned about what shes wearing.

Obviously if she turns up looking like one of the Fat Slags, then best the guy is wearing his trainers for a speedy getaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I look a million dollars n some days I look like a tramp, just depends on which job I'm coming /going to o.

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

miss carr'what make any one comfortable and confident in themselfs

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

MissCarr ... if a woman is comfortable in her own skin, she will ooze confidence, sexiness and hopefully after the coffee, she'll just ehhhh oooze

We all like to impress, but if it's a casual coffee, casual attire should be the order of the day.

If it were a last minute/spur o the moment meet, you'd not have time to put thought into what ur wearing... in fairnesss though, it wouldn't last long in u anyway hehe

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Anything as long as I can see her shins in case there is the track of a rubber boot round them - then I know there is a good chance she has a bit of ground

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

PJ bottoms or penneys track suit mmmm-

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

"PJ bottoms or penneys track suit mmmm-

Obviously the 'going out' pjs !!!

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"PJ bottoms or penneys track suit mmmm-

Obviously the 'going out' pjs !!!

Lol of course...the jerry springer ones wouldnt push my buttons at all-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as there looking smart. The chequered shirt look on women is a favourite lately going thru a phase lol

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

1st impressions are already made thru the fab profile so coffee meets are just to confirm a persons real & to check if there's chemistry. I don't go scruffy by any means but I don't make any unnecessary effort. I go comfortable & wearing whatever suits me (if it's cold jeans & jumper, work is my uniform etc), it's only half hour vanilla meet so il not go sexified. Also works both ways, I wouldn't be bothered by his attire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.

Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.

Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr69: a Sombrero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something casual that they feel comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never judge a book by cover.. but it's a big turn on when a woman knows how to look after herself

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

For a coffee I'm usually coming or going to work so I wear my uniform

It's a pilot uniform and not all that comfortable but we lead a busy life us pilots. Hope you ladies don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be amazed at the amount of men that ask if you'll be wearing a short skirt and stockings to a coffee meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually for coffee meets it's skinny jeans and a top but sexy undies on too

Just in case lol

I don't wear short skirts and stockings so wouldnt dream of wearing them for first meet.

Then again the guys don't be in their jocks waiting for me either so guess we're all happy lol

Once he smells good and looks good I'm happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st impressions are already made thru the fab profile so coffee meets are just to confirm a persons real & to check if there's chemistry. I don't go scruffy by any means but I don't make any unnecessary effort. I go comfortable & wearing whatever suits me (if it's cold jeans & jumper, work is my uniform etc), it's only half hour vanilla meet so il not go sexified. Also works both ways, I wouldn't be bothered by his attire. "

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over a year ago

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

What ever she is comfortable in, wouldn't be expecting her to get all dolled like if it was a Saturday night. Casual and what ever she feels comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress comfortable,

Pair of jeans, nice low cut top show bit of flesh, sexy shoes, nice perfume, & i'm

Good too go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever the lady feels comfortable in

An NUFC shirt is OK by you then?

Haha someone has to keep Mike in his millions

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Coming to this late...I like to see that some effort has been made. That's not to say that they should look like they're going to the Oscars. Could be sexy jeans and a nice top, could be a business suit; could be a skirt and blouse.

I always put some effort into my appearance for a meet, so if someone came up in their pyjamas or looking like they were just lounging round the house, I'd be disappointed.

Obviously if someone explained in advance that they were hurrying from work or whatever and wouldn't be dressed up, I'd understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rarely dress specially for a simple coffee meet, the game of unravelling doesn't start until the connection is made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coming to this late...I like to see that some effort has been made. That's not to say that they should look like they're going to the Oscars. Could be sexy jeans and a nice top, could be a business suit; could be a skirt and blouse.

I always put some effort into my appearance for a meet, so if someone came up in their pyjamas or looking like they were just lounging round the house, I'd be disappointed.

Obviously if someone explained in advance that they were hurrying from work or whatever and wouldn't be dressed up, I'd understand. "

I'd just need time to slip into a pair of seamed stockings after work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A white top.....shows up the coffee stains perfectly

It was an exceptional coffee xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A white top.....shows up the coffee stains perfectly

It was an exceptional coffee xx

Get a room you two love birds

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

Pants that aren't tights that look like tights

But if they're wearing confidence they'll look sexy in anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing some leg can only be a good thing

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing

anything bar a littlepool top unless the coffee shop has no toilet paper then it could come in handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything but a chastity belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to be relaxed and herself and if it's there it's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A white top.....shows up the coffee stains perfectly

It was an exceptional coffee xx

Get a room you two love birds

We have many, many rooms booked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress too impress leave him wanting more of me I'd say

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Dress too impress leave him wanting more of me I'd say

I think that would happen if you were wearing a coalbag Sultry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little black dress with cum fuck me boots does the trick too!! Efforts Very much appreciated to be fair lol

Might wear them more often!!!!!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Little black dress with cum fuck me boots does the trick too!! Efforts Very much appreciated to be fair lol

Might wear them more often!!!!!

Jaysus! I'll grind and brew the coffee myself!

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By *murmasterMan
over a year ago

sligo

knee high boots of course miss car u shud know by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something not too seductive. Just in case the social isn't for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.

Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.

Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing

Thought it was the guys job to make the woman feel sexy...

...have I been doing fab all wrong....

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

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By *olvereneMan
over a year ago

Donegal

A Liverpool shirt!

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

As long as lady is comfortable in what she wants to wear im just a casual dress person jeans t shirt and hoodie

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