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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First time posting a thread here, but wanted to ask if anyone else has experienced this. I have rejoined fab after a break so not meet anyone new for quite a while, I feel more nervous about the whole meeting thing than ever. Its not the sex part that has me worked up ...its like I have the FEAR!!!

Any tips??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like riding a....oh forget it

Just relax and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time posting a thread here, but wanted to ask if anyone else has experienced this. I have rejoined fab after a break so not meet anyone new for quite a while, I feel more nervous about the whole meeting thing than ever. Its not the sex part that has me worked up ...its like I have the FEAR!!!

Any tips??"

I just visualise the other person im meeting is more nervous than me, n I'm quite a shy person..it works for me..only you have the power to overcome it..good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time posting a thread here, but wanted to ask if anyone else has experienced this. I have rejoined fab after a break so not meet anyone new for quite a while, I feel more nervous about the whole meeting thing than ever. Its not the sex part that has me worked up ...its like I have the FEAR!!!

Any tips??

I just visualise the other person im meeting is more nervous than me, n I'm quite a shy person..it works for me..only you have the power to overcome it..good luck"

Ok

Thank you, once its planned I will be fine and confidant etc to strutt it out and enjoy myself..its just this in between bit right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would savour the fear. Swim in it. Not many times in life you get that nervous rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would savour the fear. Swim in it. Not many times in life you get that nervous rush "

The fear is great as long as it is a nervous excitment in the tummy but not an overwhelming fear where it will stop u meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not much good if it has me rushing on the opposite direction though

But I know what you are saying, hard to beat an evening of firsts, first sight, first touch, first kiss. I get high thinking of it!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Not much good if it has me rushing on the opposite direction though

But I know what you are saying, hard to beat an evening of firsts, first sight, first touch, first kiss. I get high thinking of it!!"

I'd he happy to meet you for coffee to ease you back into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not much good if it has me rushing on the opposite direction though

But I know what you are saying, hard to beat an evening of firsts, first sight, first touch, first kiss. I get high thinking of it!!

I'd he happy to meet you for coffee to ease you back into it

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Thanks gorgeous, I honestly wasn't scouting for offers, more for advice.. Watch this space xx

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Totally agree..

I didn't leave I've just not met anyone new (for playtime) in about 8 months and think I've lost my nerve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After having met you in person before I don't think you've much to be nervous about just don't meet for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After having met you in person before I don't think you've much to be nervous about just don't meet for the sake of it. "

Ah thanks huni xx

Its a strange one, once am doing it am doing it, if you get me, right now am just on the edge!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"After having met you in person before I don't think you've much to be nervous about just don't meet for the sake of it.

Ah thanks huni xx

Its a strange one, once am doing it am doing it, if you get me, right now am just on the edge!!"

Do it.....and let me know when you're free

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree..

I didn't leave I've just not met anyone new (for playtime) in about 8 months and think I've lost my nerve! "

Totally get you girl, I think once I start I won't stop haha

That will be fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've been on and off longer than I've been on Madonna...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you've been on and off longer than I've been on Madonna..."

I have been coming and going on here for the last three years. Like many on here at certain times, for a variety of reasons, I leave fab and then re-join usually several mths later. Just doing my own thing thank you.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Just take your time and have a few vanilla meets first.

If the guy is decent he wont mind taking it at your pace.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you've been on and off longer than I've been on Madonna...

I have been coming and going on here for the last three years. Like many on here at certain times, for a variety of reasons, I leave fab and then re-join usually several mths later. Just doing my own thing thank you."

You know the score then no need for the fear!!

Just enjoy it...

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