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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's considered good etiquette?

I had to cancel a recent meet with a couple of hours to spare because of a genuine reason (that I sent proof of). I was then promptly blocked. Considering we had met before is that not a bit harsh?

The longer I'm on Fab the less I understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's certainly sending a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster"

ouch! OUCH! Be your better self & message them as soon as possible & be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

ouch! OUCH! Be your better self & message them as soon as possible & be honest."

I know!!! I have already waiting on a reply, fingers crossed they understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster"

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen "

Lol i will meet but its up to the other couple im just being nice telling them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen "

Hey hey Stranger. How's life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP "

Agreed ... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking for cancelling is very harsh!

Life must take precedence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no ethics in a cancellation. Real life comes first.

If we were due to meet and something came up i would be bummed. But i hope I wouldn't be childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Hey hey Stranger. How's life?"

Hi sexy boy ...was perving ur profile just now lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Lol i will meet but its up to the other couple im just being nice telling them first"

You said you cant meet them...You can but like u say its up to them..hope u didnt email and be like a wee bitch lol oh ive a coldsore ..sorry to waste ur time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP "

I was disappointed too. Really was because I enjoy(ed) being with him. I guess that's him showing his true colours and what he really thought of me. If i wasn't an easy accessible fuck for him, he didn't want ro know. I'm probably better off learning that now

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

He's a fool.

Chalk it up and move on.

Plenty more of us out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP

I was disappointed too. Really was because I enjoy(ed) being with him. I guess that's him showing his true colours and what he really thought of me. If i wasn't an easy accessible fuck for him, he didn't want ro know. I'm probably better off learning that now "

In time the mask always falls, and true colours show.

Likely he just reacted impulsively. How many times has this happened, they then regret their actions, knowing that they cut off their nose, and will get into contact again. It might not be now, but trust my words, it will happen..then it will be upto you

Good luck OP, go get yourself another hot meet

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't he come across as rather childish and petulant?

These are the types you're best to stay away from - doesn't sound as if he's actually mature enough to be on here..

A lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP

I was disappointed too. Really was because I enjoy(ed) being with him. I guess that's him showing his true colours and what he really thought of me. If i wasn't an easy accessible fuck for him, he didn't want ro know. I'm probably better off learning that now

In time the mask always falls, and true colours show.

Likely he just reacted impulsively. How many times has this happened, they then regret their actions, knowing that they cut off their nose, and will get into contact again. It might not be now, but trust my words, it will happen..then it will be upto you

Good luck OP, go get yourself another hot meet "

I agree. His blood will cool and the little general will take charge again and he will contact you.

But remember his behaviour. I wouldn't entertain him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ya need a Rebound Meet give me a buzz I have free hassle Cancellation policy on all my meets up to 1min before check in. Just book at Jock@WannaSeeUnderMyKilt. Fablife...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

"

If he cancelled you to met someone else ..hell yes id be annoyed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

"

A better offer?? I doubt that very much

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ha what a fool! You should have never met him, op, and be happy you didn't a second time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

If he cancelled you to met someone else ..hell yes id be annoyed too "

Thanks Jilly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

"

And you are allowed to be angry. Especially in this case. Your emotions are important and you don't need us to validate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen "

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

OP there are some mature gentlemen who'd love to meet you.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

And you are allowed to be angry. Especially in this case. Your emotions are important and you don't need us to validate them. "

I was annoyed and it's a pity as I'd a great meet with him previously...

I'll not be meeting him again and I told him, then he told me I was on the wrong site!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone thinks that their genitals are more important that your life I would be glad to be blocked by them. I always found that things here happen for a reason and to try not to let it get to you. His loss am sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

And you are allowed to be angry. Especially in this case. Your emotions are important and you don't need us to validate them.

I was annoyed and it's a pity as I'd a great meet with him previously...

I'll not be meeting him again and I told him, then he told me I was on the wrong site!!!

"

Lucky he's not the only guy here. So it would seem you are on exactly the right site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems and have experienced this some people are just to sensitive on Fab... shit happens life moves on Enjoy it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster "

That's horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster That's horrible"

And stupid. No football match is more important. None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life has to trump fab life always...

Genuine reasons nobody should get annoyed or pissed over them...

I cancelled a coffee meet with a guy because my daughter got sick he still is bitter over it....

A few weeks ago a guy cancelled meeting me because he got a better offer, another meet I was annoyed over that!

Was I wrong?

And you are allowed to be angry. Especially in this case. Your emotions are important and you don't need us to validate them.

I was annoyed and it's a pity as I'd a great meet with him previously...

I'll not be meeting him again and I told him, then he told me I was on the wrong site!!!

Lucky he's not the only guy here. So it would seem you are on exactly the right site"

Thank you Mr.Arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster "

Ohh....that's awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster "

That guy most likely still lives with his parents and hasn't had a meet in is life.

He never had any intention of meeting you, he's the type that Jerks off at the excitement of actually chatting to a real life women.

Block him, let your fab girlfriends know who he is so they dont waste any time with him and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -("

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster "

If it was man utd he was watching I could understand but Liverpool how could he.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -( "

He's a coward and a fantasist. You didn't deserve to be treated that way. But the real loser was him. In every way,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

That guy most likely still lives with his parents and hasn't had a meet in is life.

He never had any intention of meeting you, he's the type that Jerks off at the excitement of actually chatting to a real life women.

Block him, let your fab girlfriends know who he is so they dont waste any time with him and move on "

Oh and MOST importantly don't be telling people where you live. Fab has its fair share of nutters ....be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

That guy most likely still lives with his parents and hasn't had a meet in is life.

He never had any intention of meeting you, he's the type that Jerks off at the excitement of actually chatting to a real life women.

Block him, let your fab girlfriends know who he is so they dont waste any time with him and move on "

Agreed...

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By *rdinaryladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It's just so childish(even more so because you have met previously), it's times like that, I.E. when things go wrong and you need a little understanding, that's when you see a person's true colours. Best of rid in my opinion. Completely his loss.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"What's considered good etiquette?

I had to cancel a recent meet with a couple of hours to spare because of a genuine reason (that I sent proof of). I was then promptly blocked. Considering we had met before is that not a bit harsh?

The longer I'm on Fab the less I understand it "

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At the end of the day which one is losing out?

Aren't you better off finding out what he is really like?

Yes you are probably cheesed off at the moment but he's the one who has shot himself in the foot!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -( "

What a complete dickhead!

It kills me to say this and do not want to hurt your feelings, but i reckon the whole meet was a lie and hed never any intention of meeting you Angelic. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I can understand giving a couple of hours notice in cancelling but to draw the arrangements out to the last minute and then cancel like that is wrong. What a twat! Id love to know who it was.Report him as a no show to admin!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me. "

Coldsores are infectious yes however like any virus they are infectious at a certain stage..compeed helps prevent the spread of the infection... Bigger risk taken by us all during oral with everyone theres always hidden infections ..covered coldsore be least of my worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

That guy most likely still lives with his parents and hasn't had a meet in is life.

He never had any intention of meeting you, he's the type that Jerks off at the excitement of actually chatting to a real life women.

Block him, let your fab girlfriends know who he is so they dont waste any time with him and move on

Agreed... "

That was a good while back and he was from my town, he contacted me on facebook i dunno jf he is on fab. I know him too see him but never met him personally, my son knows him from his local, says his a tosser. That would have been our first meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet "

how do you know they were lying ?

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?"

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -(

What a complete dickhead!

It kills me to say this and do not want to hurt your feelings, but i reckon the whole meet was a lie and hed never any intention of meeting you Angelic. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I can understand giving a couple of hours notice in cancelling but to draw the arrangements out to the last minute and then cancel like that is wrong. What a twat! Id love to know who it was.Report him as a no show to admin! "

He contacted me on facebook, hd sent me friend request, i had accepted, we talked over and back on it, before meeting, but was terrible what he had done, if he had been on fab more than likely he cud have done it,

I blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet "

It must have Tormented you lol...but I am glad you have shown your a master of the 3rd Choice lol...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet

It must have Tormented you lol...but I am glad you have shown your a master of the 3rd Choice lol... "

Lmao as you know I'm the master of torment and your the master of the 3rd choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character "

or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

i had a cancellation on Ryanair last week

that Michael O'leary is always letting people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July. "

If it's a women that cancelled there must be a good reason. But if it's a man well there just a time waster. ?

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over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

Some guys or ladies might not verify straight away, they cud verify on a certain date, and it wud look like it was the following day, that she met someone, when it could have been few days back,

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet "

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July. "

The veri stated the night before.

Have a great day guys

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

Some guys or ladies might not verify straight away, they cud verify on a certain date, and it wud look like it was the following day, that she met someone, when it could have been few days back,

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July.

The veri stated the night before.

Have a great day guys "

verifications are hardly proof read or accurate. but you seem determined to be butt hurt. Enjoy your day

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July.

The veri stated the night before.

Have a great day guys

verifications are hardly proof read or accurate. but you seem determined to be butt hurt. Enjoy your day"

No butt hurt here. I do really well for myself. You'll never see me complain. I will thoroughly enjoyed my day and night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's considered good etiquette?

I had to cancel a recent meet with a couple of hours to spare because of a genuine reason (that I sent proof of). I was then promptly blocked. Considering we had met before is that not a bit harsh?

The longer I'm on Fab the less I understand it "

isnt it well for them that they can get a meet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol "

Have you a 3rd one for me Jock...I always take the 3rd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol "

There's enough to challenge an orchestra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol

Have you a 3rd one for me Jock...I always take the 3rd "

I thought you were a man that pleads the fifth

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol

Have you a 3rd one for me Jock...I always take the 3rd

I thought you were a man that pleads the fifth"

3rd choice always A wise man gave me that advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me.

Coldsores are infectious yes however like any virus they are infectious at a certain stage..compeed helps prevent the spread of the infection... Bigger risk taken by us all during oral with everyone theres always hidden infections ..covered coldsore be least of my worries

"

Thanks, I suppose it's like a tiny condom for a lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol

Have you a 3rd one for me Jock...I always take the 3rd "

Yes you do most of time but then that master of Torment just slips back in occasionally would you think ya can change username to 3rdChoiceGuy lmao

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

Fuck

And the chances are the shit is back on here and will do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

chap must have been gay to refuse pussy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site"

chap must have been gay to refuse pussy like that "

Or just a c*nt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site"

chap must have been gay to refuse pussy like that

Or just a c*nt"

A total one to do that! Some people have a sick sense of humour! That is just nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

That's a rotten thing too do,

I swear some just get off on playing jokes on us, it's just not rite, how can u tell the good from the bad nowadays? and unless its happend too u, personally people have no idea of the humiliation behind it, and dissapointment after getting prepared too look good for your meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer once cancelled on a lady.......she apologised profusely

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"

yeah plays very loud in here ... lol

Have you a 3rd one for me Jock...I always take the 3rd

Yes you do most of time but then that master of Torment just slips back in occasionally would you think ya can change username to 3rdChoiceGuy lmao"

Would that not infringe your copyright??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

That's sick

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Doesn't he come across as rather childish and petulant?

These are the types you're best to stay away from - doesn't sound as if he's actually mature enough to be on here..

A lesson learned "

good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kaizer once cancelled on a lady.......she apologised profusely "

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster "

that happened to me when I was single and meeting a date. It was about out fifth date, I'd booked and paid for a hotel, bought a bottle of champagne, lit the candles and was wearing hot lingerie, I had my nails done, hair done, and not a hair to be seen on the rest of my body when I got a txt an hour before he was due telling me he had a headache and couldn't come. I texted a man I liked and invited him over and he was in the lobby before I hung up my phone. I never bothered meeting the other guy again, life is too short to waste on twats!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

Disgraceful behaviour. Nothing worse than liars and time wasters ruining it for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster that happened to me when I was single and meeting a date. It was about out fifth date, I'd booked and paid for a hotel, bought a bottle of champagne, lit the candles and was wearing hot lingerie, I had my nails done, hair done, and not a hair to be seen on the rest of my body when I got a txt an hour before he was due telling me he had a headache and couldn't come. I texted a man I liked and invited him over and he was in the lobby before I hung up my phone. I never bothered meeting the other guy again, life is too short to waste on twats!"

If he had a migraine, it would have been very difficult for him to do much more than lie in a darkened room and wait for it to pass. A normal headache, not so much. But do you know for sure which it was, before calling him a that?

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster that happened to me when I was single and meeting a date. It was about out fifth date, I'd booked and paid for a hotel, bought a bottle of champagne, lit the candles and was wearing hot lingerie, I had my nails done, hair done, and not a hair to be seen on the rest of my body when I got a txt an hour before he was due telling me he had a headache and couldn't come. I texted a man I liked and invited him over and he was in the lobby before I hung up my phone. I never bothered meeting the other guy again, life is too short to waste on twats!

If he had a migraine, it would have been very difficult for him to do much more than lie in a darkened room and wait for it to pass. A normal headache, not so much. But do you know for sure which it was, before calling him a that?"

yeah, of course, I suffer migraines myself, he said he had a bit of a headcold, I even said that we didn't have to have a mad night, I could give him an Indian head massage as I am a qualified masseuse but he wasn't bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancellations can happen,and real life does take over.. Time waisting I had a friend arrange a meet good bit of travelling for her too. All the way up while she on public transport constant contact. She got to hotel and he still mailed saying "im running late go into bar"... Another while he said look " still running late if you want, I give you the my name pay the room go sort yourself out and I be there shortly... She asked for his name then as had been travelling wanted to freshen up ...the next thing message she got on a message was "Haha u been done " user no longer on site" "

There are no words ! What would someone get from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -(

What a complete dickhead!

It kills me to say this and do not want to hurt your feelings, but i reckon the whole meet was a lie and hed never any intention of meeting you Angelic. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I can understand giving a couple of hours notice in cancelling but to draw the arrangements out to the last minute and then cancel like that is wrong. What a twat! Id love to know who it was.Report him as a no show to admin! "

Amazing ! One type of reply for somebody who complains and completely different reply for somebody else

Hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a lady cancel a second meet recently which was genuine and no problem. We're meeting again in a few weeks.

What I detest is the ones that use a lie to cancel. Especially lies about close family members and then you see a veri the next day from another guy lol.

What kind of person would lie about a close family member being sick??? A person I'd rather not meet how do you know they were lying ?

Cos she was verified next day by a guy from a meet the night before lol....show's v poor character or its a re verification. I can get a verification from people I met at the venue last July. If it's a women that cancelled there must be a good reason. But if it's a man well there just a time waster. ?"

Very true Rosman!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -(

What a complete dickhead!

It kills me to say this and do not want to hurt your feelings, but i reckon the whole meet was a lie and hed never any intention of meeting you Angelic. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I can understand giving a couple of hours notice in cancelling but to draw the arrangements out to the last minute and then cancel like that is wrong. What a twat! Id love to know who it was.Report him as a no show to admin!

Amazing ! One type of reply for somebody who complains and completely different reply for somebody else

Hypocrites "

Excuse me but i actually sympathised with you but had an issue with you calling people a certain name so re -read your own thread before calling me a hypocrite..Now please do not attach any of your opinions to my comments again. I have you blocked. Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some great people on Fab.

But unfortunately some fantasists ( in a bad way) false profiles, time waters and plain old weirdos!

I think we all realise life can get in the way sometimes of our FAB escapades.

It only takes a 10 second message or a call. We're all adults here and should be mature enough to realise shit happens - or maybe people want to back out for whatever reason.

But People who cancel without a decent amount of time beforehand are in my view complete fuckwits.

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over a year ago


"My meet was cancelled too, was too meet in hotel, he had text me rite up too time, i was ready and waiting, he said he had booked a taxi and will pick me up on way, i waited in hallway, no sign still, next thing got message, i decided too stay watch liverpool match, here instead.

Wot a wowser and timewaster

Ohh....that's awful :

The worst part he had said that really pissed me off was

That he had ordered taxi and will pick me up, he obvioused lied about that, -(

What a complete dickhead!

It kills me to say this and do not want to hurt your feelings, but i reckon the whole meet was a lie and hed never any intention of meeting you Angelic. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I can understand giving a couple of hours notice in cancelling but to draw the arrangements out to the last minute and then cancel like that is wrong. What a twat! Id love to know who it was.Report him as a no show to admin!

Amazing ! One type of reply for somebody who complains and completely different reply for somebody else

Hypocrites

Excuse me but i actually sympathised with you but had an issue with you calling people a certain name so re -read your own thread before calling me a hypocrite..Now please do not attach any of your opinions to my comments again. I have you blocked. Thank you!"

Chill out and relax

The lack of oxygen going to your brain on that high horse of yours is affecting your judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he had a migraine, it would have been very difficult for him to do much more than lie in a darkened room and wait for it to pass. A normal headache, not so much. But do you know for sure which it was, before calling him a that?yeah, of course, I suffer migraines myself, he said he had a bit of a headcold, I even said that we didn't have to have a mad night, I could give him an Indian head massage as I am a qualified masseuse but he wasn't bothered"

Ah well, that's a whole other story then. Thanks for clarifying x

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Booked hotel in portlaoise for a meet and i travel down on the day to received text at hotel that she she was not coming .

She still on this site

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Life can get in the way and stuff comes up so people have to cancel.

Its a pain when you sitting in a hotel last minute all alone...

But thats life sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here people I know it's annoying and inconvenience to you if pissed around but seriously has it stopped you have fun since the event happened??? I would say No so what's the problem!!!??. OK I have been stood up and meet cancelled (advanced warning) it happens I get on with it as they were genuine reasons which I took word for it. That's what ya do. Ended up meeting the two people and they were incredible meets if I followed some attitudes to assume is time waster and blocked would have missed out... for people who keep bringing it up a bad experience over and over again please get over it .. it doesn't make you look good or superior constantly saying it and even more responding to it constantly just fuels it ..... Why can't people just get on with there Fablife and don't worry about other peoples fablife... your are all here for your own reasons and everyone should respect that fact

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Here people I know it's annoying and inconvenience to you if pissed around but seriously has it stopped you have fun since the event happened??? I would say No so what's the problem!!!??. OK I have been stood up and meet cancelled (advanced warning) it happens I get on with it as they were genuine reasons which I took word for it. That's what ya do. Ended up meeting the two people and they were incredible meets if I followed some attitudes to assume is time waster and blocked would have missed out... for people who keep bringing it up a bad experience over and over again please get over it .. it doesn't make you look good or superior constantly saying it and even more responding to it constantly just fuels it ..... Why can't people just get on with there Fablife and don't worry about other peoples fablife... your are all here for your own reasons and everyone should respect that fact "
is this not a forum where people can discuss things and people can comment, if you don't want to read it then don't? But you shouldn't be telling people what they should and should not be discussing on an open forum unless your name is admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd been chatting to a guy I'd wanted to meet for aaaages, he was number one on my fuckit list on here. We had chatted before on my old profile and talked on the phone and he was really keen to meet. Almost on the verge of being pushy. Now, as I'm sure most of you would understand, we have "real life" to take care of before we get down to some Fab fun, and he had suggested meeting up this particular night. Told him I'd try get a sitter etc and we'd confirm the next day. Anyway, I couldn't make the necessary arrangements to meet up and told him so. Well he was seriously put out. Apparently I was wasting his time cancelling as he'd cancelled other plans to be with me. I'm like "I wouldnt call it a cancellation since it was never confirmed in the first place" his reply went something like "Later smart arse. I wont be meeting ya" and I was blocked. Fair enough says I, plenty more sexy black men in the sea, and who wants to meet with an ass like that? Well... I guess he was curious enough to unblock me again, and I guess he liked what he saw cos he had the gumption to message me the other day "oi". (Charming right?) Well, I dont think I need to tell u what happened next but let's just say it was definitely his loss!

The moral of the story? We all have lives to lead outside of Fabfockingswingers and a few lines of chat exchanged about the possibility of meeting up doesn't mean I owe you anything!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen "

Herpes anyone????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone thinks that their genitals are more important that your life I would be glad to be blocked by them. I always found that things here happen for a reason and to try not to let it get to you. His loss am sure x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd been chatting to a guy I'd wanted to meet for aaaages, he was number one on my fuckit list on here. We had chatted before on my old profile and talked on the phone and he was really keen to meet. Almost on the verge of being pushy. Now, as I'm sure most of you would understand, we have "real life" to take care of before we get down to some Fab fun, and he had suggested meeting up this particular night. Told him I'd try get a sitter etc and we'd confirm the next day. Anyway, I couldn't make the necessary arrangements to meet up and told him so. Well he was seriously put out. Apparently I was wasting his time cancelling as he'd cancelled other plans to be with me. I'm like "I wouldnt call it a cancellation since it was never confirmed in the first place" his reply went something like "Later smart arse. I wont be meeting ya" and I was blocked. Fair enough says I, plenty more sexy black men in the sea, and who wants to meet with an ass like that? Well... I guess he was curious enough to unblock me again, and I guess he liked what he saw cos he had the gumption to message me the other day "oi". (Charming right?) Well, I dont think I need to tell u what happened next but let's just say it was definitely his loss!

The moral of the story? We all have lives to lead outside of Fabfockingswingers and a few lines of chat exchanged about the possibility of meeting up doesn't mean I owe you anything!

Rant over "

Love it!!!

Brilliant

I really like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the OP was male would the answers have been different. Probably definitely. People are perfectly entitled to block you for whatever reason they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd been chatting to a guy I'd wanted to meet for aaaages, he was number one on my fuckit list on here. We had chatted before on my old profile and talked on the phone and he was really keen to meet. Almost on the verge of being pushy. Now, as I'm sure most of you would understand, we have "real life" to take care of before we get down to some Fab fun, and he had suggested meeting up this particular night. Told him I'd try get a sitter etc and we'd confirm the next day. Anyway, I couldn't make the necessary arrangements to meet up and told him so. Well he was seriously put out. Apparently I was wasting his time cancelling as he'd cancelled other plans to be with me. I'm like "I wouldnt call it a cancellation since it was never confirmed in the first place" his reply went something like "Later smart arse. I wont be meeting ya" and I was blocked. Fair enough says I, plenty more sexy black men in the sea, and who wants to meet with an ass like that? Well... I guess he was curious enough to unblock me again, and I guess he liked what he saw cos he had the gumption to message me the other day "oi". (Charming right?) Well, I dont think I need to tell u what happened next but let's just say it was definitely his loss!

The moral of the story? We all have lives to lead outside of Fabfockingswingers and a few lines of chat exchanged about the possibility of meeting up doesn't mean I owe you anything!

Rant over

Love it!!!

Brilliant

I really like you "

Aww thank you by the way, your profile pic looks spookily like it could be me in the photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I reckon that harsh considering you have met before. For me the etiquette is good communication, keep each other informed but things crop up unexpectedly.

Just be honest and forthcoming. What more can you ask for

Can't control or sometimes understand others actions, so I don't labour on them, just move on. Very much their loss OP

I was disappointed too. Really was because I enjoy(ed) being with him. I guess that's him showing his true colours and what he really thought of me. If i wasn't an easy accessible fuck for him, he didn't want ro know. I'm probably better off learning that now

In time the mask always falls, and true colours show.

Likely he just reacted impulsively. How many times has this happened, they then regret their actions, knowing that they cut off their nose, and will get into contact again. It might not be now, but trust my words, it will happen..then it will be upto you

Good luck OP, go get yourself another hot meet "

This, they always come bk.. Make him beg or pay for this tanturm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me. "

While Cold sore is a relatively minor and common thing it's still an open wound with the herpes virus and blood. I would never play/kiss anyone while I had an active cold sore. At the least I would tell the person I am meeting that I can't play and if there okay for a social fine. But if I was feeling crap i would try for a rain check for another date.

I am all up for open communication I have been cancelled and had to cancel so role with the punches. Just be honest and give as much notice and Info as possible.

Be nice people treat others as you want to be treated. And don't take risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd been chatting to a guy I'd wanted to meet for aaaages, he was number one on my fuckit list on here. We had chatted before on my old profile and talked on the phone and he was really keen to meet. Almost on the verge of being pushy. Now, as I'm sure most of you would understand, we have "real life" to take care of before we get down to some Fab fun, and he had suggested meeting up this particular night. Told him I'd try get a sitter etc and we'd confirm the next day. Anyway, I couldn't make the necessary arrangements to meet up and told him so. Well he was seriously put out. Apparently I was wasting his time cancelling as he'd cancelled other plans to be with me. I'm like "I wouldnt call it a cancellation since it was never confirmed in the first place" his reply went something like "Later smart arse. I wont be meeting ya" and I was blocked. Fair enough says I, plenty more sexy black men in the sea, and who wants to meet with an ass like that? Well... I guess he was curious enough to unblock me again, and I guess he liked what he saw cos he had the gumption to message me the other day "oi". (Charming right?) Well, I dont think I need to tell u what happened next but let's just say it was definitely his loss!

The moral of the story? We all have lives to lead outside of Fabfockingswingers and a few lines of chat exchanged about the possibility of meeting up doesn't mean I owe you anything!

Rant over

Love it!!!

Brilliant

I really like you

Aww thank you by the way, your profile pic looks spookily like it could be me in the photo "

Loads of guys always going on saying that females have two profiles you might be my second profile...lol

Only joking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me.

While Cold sore is a relatively minor and common thing it's still an open wound with the herpes virus and blood. I would never play/kiss anyone while I had an active cold sore. At the least I would tell the person I am meeting that I can't play and if there okay for a social fine. But if I was feeling crap i would try for a rain check for another date.

I am all up for open communication I have been cancelled and had to cancel so role with the punches. Just be honest and give as much notice and Info as possible.

Be nice people treat others as you want to be treated. And don't take risks."

I thought the same Re the coldsore

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me.

While Cold sore is a relatively minor and common thing it's still an open wound with the herpes virus and blood. I would never play/kiss anyone while I had an active cold sore. At the least I would tell the person I am meeting that I can't play and if there okay for a social fine. But if I was feeling crap i would try for a rain check for another date.

I am all up for open communication I have been cancelled and had to cancel so role with the punches. Just be honest and give as much notice and Info as possible.

Be nice people treat others as you want to be treated. And don't take risks.

I thought the same Re the coldsore "

I had to cancel due to unexpected work commitments. I'm now too embarrassed to make further contact

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

sometimes things happen outside of our control'the benifit of the douth should be given'after all we do live outside of fab blocking without a good reason is common on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im supposed to meet a couple tonight, and ive woken up with a coldsore, can't meet now and i dunno how to tell them without them thinking im a timewaster

You can meet because of a coldsore?? ...now come on ffs no wonder lads get a bad name..Stick on a Compeed cold sore patch and on u go .....drama queen

Really? Do you think that would be enough? I'd be a bit wary of a coldsore even if it was covered up.

As for cancellations, they happen and usually for good reason. I'd hope that if I cancelled on someone they'd be understanding, so I understand when someone cancels on me.

While Cold sore is a relatively minor and common thing it's still an open wound with the herpes virus and blood. I would never play/kiss anyone while I had an active cold sore. At the least I would tell the person I am meeting that I can't play and if there okay for a social fine. But if I was feeling crap i would try for a rain check for another date.

I am all up for open communication I have been cancelled and had to cancel so role with the punches. Just be honest and give as much notice and Info as possible.

Be nice people treat others as you want to be treated. And don't take risks.

I thought the same Re the coldsore

I had to cancel due to unexpected work commitments. I'm now too embarrassed to make further contact"

I think If you are honest and sincere when telling someone you can'tmn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try and let them know as soon as possible as we'd hate a short notice cancellation ourselves.

Short of that being polite wherever possible

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