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"According to an article I read earlier there are seven main things that make a woman good in bed. 1. Show enthusiasm in getting to know your lover - Learn their likes and dislikes and watch for their reactions and their breathing. 2. Communication - give feedback. Respond when the guy does it right and wrong. 3. Run your fingers through their hair - to feel an intimate connection while having sex. 4. Be uninhibited - be comfortable with your sexuality. Be expressive with your face voice and body language. 5. Don't be a dead fish - participate in the act. Wrap your legs around his back, run your nails down his back etc. 6. A little faking is ok - inbetween the time you cum and he cums don't be afraid to cheer him on and let him know how good he feels and how big he is. 7. Learn about your own plumbing and let him know - make sure you know how your body works and show him what you enjoy. Now I know some of these are similar but men do you agree? Or is there anything you'd add or remove? And I'm fishing for some tips " Don't forget the most important thing.They keep you warm on a cold night. | |||
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"I think no.2 is a very important point, it's lovely to get and give good feedback. I also think that the build up to sex is important, I love sending himself sexy pics and describing what I want to do to him and letting him know how wet he makes me. I still make the effort to look my best for him, even if we're just chilling on the sofa. I always wear nice underwear and I make sure my skin feels soft and I smell great. I also make sure I flirt with him, he knows that he still turns me on bigtime. I think it's important to remember that it's not just about sex either, he lives a bit away so I send him little surprises in the post, his favorite chocolate or a little love letter, he knows how important he is to me and I think men need to feel special too x " If I sent my hubby a love letter in the post he'd have me committed. He'd much prefer me to just drop the kickers and bend over the kitchen table when he comes in from work. Which I do. A lot. | |||
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"Not if they kick you out after Ah im sure that never happens. " Sure you're such a delight.. who would do that to you... | |||
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"Not if they kick you out after Ah im sure that never happens. Sure you're such a delight.. who would do that to you... " Ah thanks that means a lot to me. | |||
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"I think no.2 is a very important point, it's lovely to get and give good feedback. I also think that the build up to sex is important, I love sending himself sexy pics and describing what I want to do to him and letting him know how wet he makes me. I still make the effort to look my best for him, even if we're just chilling on the sofa. I always wear nice underwear and I make sure my skin feels soft and I smell great. I also make sure I flirt with him, he knows that he still turns me on bigtime. I think it's important to remember that it's not just about sex either, he lives a bit away so I send him little surprises in the post, his favorite chocolate or a little love letter, he knows how important he is to me and I think men need to feel special too x If I sent my hubby a love letter in the post he'd have me committed. He'd much prefer me to just drop the kickers and bend over the kitchen table when he comes in from work. Which I do. A lot. " lol when I'm out with him I sometimes come back from the bathroom and slip my panties into his trouser pocket so he knows he's onto a sure thing, plus knowing I'm going commando drives him wild | |||
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"According to an article I read earlier there are seven main things that make a woman good in bed. 1. Show enthusiasm in getting to know your lover - Learn their likes and dislikes and watch for their reactions and their breathing. 2. Communication - give feedback. Respond when the guy does it right and wrong. 3. Run your fingers through their hair - to feel an intimate connection while having sex. 4. Be uninhibited - be comfortable with your sexuality. Be expressive with your face voice and body language. 5. Don't be a dead fish - participate in the act. Wrap your legs around his back, run your nails down his back etc. 6. A little faking is ok - inbetween the time you cum and he cums don't be afraid to cheer him on and let him know how good he feels and how big he is. 7. Learn about your own plumbing and let him know - make sure you know how your body works and show him what you enjoy. Now I know some of these are similar but men do you agree? Or is there anything you'd add or remove? And I'm fishing for some tips " Wow you had me at according.... | |||
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"Enthusiasm and passion " That it pubes? Heartbeat maybe? | |||
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"I think no.2 is a very important point, it's lovely to get and give good feedback. I also think that the build up to sex is important, I love sending himself sexy pics and describing what I want to do to him and letting him know how wet he makes me. I still make the effort to look my best for him, even if we're just chilling on the sofa. I always wear nice underwear and I make sure my skin feels soft and I smell great. I also make sure I flirt with him, he knows that he still turns me on bigtime. I think it's important to remember that it's not just about sex either, he lives a bit away so I send him little surprises in the post, his favorite chocolate or a little love letter, he knows how important he is to me and I think men need to feel special too x If I sent my hubby a love letter in the post he'd have me committed. He'd much prefer me to just drop the kickers and bend over the kitchen table when he comes in from work. Which I do. A lot. lol when I'm out with him I sometimes come back from the bathroom and slip my panties into his trouser pocket so he knows he's onto a sure thing, plus knowing I'm going commando drives him wild " I'm loving your posts! | |||
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"Enthusiasm and passion That it pubes? Heartbeat maybe? " Kaizer has yet to see an enthusiastic cadaver | |||
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" let him know how good he feels and how big he is." Don't go on about how big he is anyway, unless he's genuinely big. I was seeing a woman who used to do this and I found it very difficult not to break my shit laughing whenever she did. | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they " That says more about you than the women who do that with you | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you " | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you " well men do all the work mostly..women just lie back and enjoy..rarely you'd find a wild 1 that would bounce on you | |||
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"bring cheese sandwiches to bed is all a woman needs to do." Grated or sliced? | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you well men do all the work mostly..women just lie back and enjoy..rarely you'd find a wild 1 that would bounce on you " I'd bounce you alright - out the window | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you well men do all the work mostly..women just lie back and enjoy..rarely you'd find a wild 1 that would bounce on you I'd bounce you alright - out the window " I'll hold the window open | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you well men do all the work mostly..women just lie back and enjoy..rarely you'd find a wild 1 that would bounce on you I'd bounce you alright - out the window I'll hold the window open " And I'll make sure there's a thorn bush outside it | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they That says more about you than the women who do that with you well men do all the work mostly..women just lie back and enjoy..rarely you'd find a wild 1 that would bounce on you I'd bounce you alright - out the window I'll hold the window open And I'll make sure there's a thorn bush outside it " *high five* excellent teamwork ladies | |||
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"bring cheese sandwiches to bed is all a woman needs to do. Grated or sliced? " dude have you seen me? It's not like I can afford to be fussy. | |||
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"bring cheese sandwiches to bed is all a woman needs to do. Grated or sliced? dude have you seen me? It's not like I can afford to be fussy." Grated cheese could be messy Ya gotta be thinking buddy | |||
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"I think it's a two way thing. Let's face it if your with somebody who's not interacting and getting involved you won't have much interest in putting in a good performance yourself. Your only as good as your partner. Works both ways." The whole point of the thread is from a mans point of view. I'm looking for mens opinions of what women do right or wrong not of the whole experience. | |||
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"A woman who can take control and knows what she wants " Get your ass up here now with vodka so I can grope you | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man " I love being on top, I work up quite a sweat thank you very much, I could knock you out spark with my big tits, then we'll see who's the bag of potatoes yeah cheeky git lol | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man I love being on top, I work up quite a sweat thank you very much, I could knock you out spark with my big tits, then we'll see who's the bag of potatoes yeah cheeky git lol " is that a promise..what would your husband say | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man " In fairness, it's understandable that sex dolls have warped your own perception. | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man I love being on top, I work up quite a sweat thank you very much, I could knock you out spark with my big tits, then we'll see who's the bag of potatoes yeah cheeky git lol is that a promise..what would your husband say " he'd have to say something very loud, the barring order keeps him at bay....my boyfriend on the other hand wouldn't have a problem, as long as he could join in | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man In fairness, it's understandable that sex dolls have warped your own perception." now now pete this isn't the time or place for trolling | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man " Of course you'd blame women You must have very little experience if you think all women are like that. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. You ever think that maybe it's you? That maybe they just aren't really that interested in having sex with you. Maybe you're just bad and they are just wishing it to be over. After all, you're the common denominator with all those women. | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man I love being on top, I work up quite a sweat thank you very much, I could knock you out spark with my big tits, then we'll see who's the bag of potatoes yeah cheeky git lol is that a promise..what would your husband say he'd have to say something very loud, the barring order keeps him at bay....my boyfriend on the other hand wouldn't have a problem, as long as he could join in " sounds good we could do an eiffel tower | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man Of course you'd blame women You must have very little experience if you think all women are like that. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. You ever think that maybe it's you? That maybe they just aren't really that interested in having sex with you. Maybe you're just bad and they are just wishing it to be over. After all, you're the common denominator with all those women. " well why have sex with somebody in the first place if you aren't interested in them sure that argument holds no water..I have that affect on women they freeze and become rigid as the hammer action is turned on..sure why would a woman need to move at all when shes getting hammered senseless..I only had 1 that bounced on me and she was a gym freak | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man Of course you'd blame women You must have very little experience if you think all women are like that. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. You ever think that maybe it's you? That maybe they just aren't really that interested in having sex with you. Maybe you're just bad and they are just wishing it to be over. After all, you're the common denominator with all those women. well why have sex with somebody in the first place if you aren't interested in them sure that argument holds no water..I have that affect on women they freeze and become rigid as the hammer action is turned on..sure why would a woman need to move at all when shes getting hammered senseless..I only had 1 that bounced on me and she was a gym freak " You're the one telling me the women you sleep with don't move do you tell me why they're having sex with you? Cause I sure as hell don't know | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man Of course you'd blame women You must have very little experience if you think all women are like that. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. You ever think that maybe it's you? That maybe they just aren't really that interested in having sex with you. Maybe you're just bad and they are just wishing it to be over. After all, you're the common denominator with all those women. well why have sex with somebody in the first place if you aren't interested in them sure that argument holds no water..I have that affect on women they freeze and become rigid as the hammer action is turned on..sure why would a woman need to move at all when shes getting hammered senseless..I only had 1 that bounced on me and she was a gym freak " Sounds like ud rather fuck a space hopper | |||
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" ok how could I rephrase this for you my dear..women in general remain stationary when being fucked..does that clear up any of your queries? " Ha! in your vast experience | |||
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" ok how could I rephrase this for you my dear..women in general remain stationary when being fucked..does that clear up any of your queries? " No... I'm still wondering how you manage to get any women into bed to know this... | |||
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"This is actually a very good thread and unfortunately there hasn't been a lot of constructive male answers to it so far. Don't get me wrong some good ones there are but it would be very interesting to read some more profound stuff " They haven't really answered it at all.. guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing. | |||
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" ok how could I rephrase this for you my dear..women in general remain stationary when being fucked..does that clear up any of your queries? No... I'm still wondering how you manage to get any women into bed to know this... " well I guess the women I meet are decent and would give a fella the time of day..this place is certainly lacking in women like this | |||
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" ok how could I rephrase this for you my dear..women in general remain stationary when being fucked..does that clear up any of your queries? " Generalising, is that the best you can do to back up your nonsense? but to be fair you really do live up to your username | |||
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"This is actually a very good thread and unfortunately there hasn't been a lot of constructive male answers to it so far. Don't get me wrong some good ones there are but it would be very interesting to read some more profound stuff " The answers wouldn't be that different to what you'd probably want a man to do. | |||
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" ok how could I rephrase this for you my dear..women in general remain stationary when being fucked..does that clear up any of your queries? No... I'm still wondering how you manage to get any women into bed to know this... well I guess the women I meet are decent and would give a fella the time of day..this place is certainly lacking in women like this " I'm not decent then? Lovely | |||
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"bring cheese sandwiches to bed is all a woman needs to do. Grated or sliced? dude have you seen me? It's not like I can afford to be fussy. Grated cheese could be messy Ya gotta be thinking buddy " nowt wrong with being messy in bed | |||
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"This is actually a very good thread and unfortunately there hasn't been a lot of constructive male answers to it so far. Don't get me wrong some good ones there are but it would be very interesting to read some more profound stuff They haven't really answered it at all.. guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing. " excuse me but my reply was frickin earth shatteringly profound | |||
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"My brain hurts after reading that ... big thicko seriously ..you have to be messin ..just tryin to get a reaction... you couldn't be that thick .. ..oh wait.... " You'd be surprised i bet | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they " A well known side effect while experiencing something traumatic is being "frozen with fear" | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they A well known side effect while experiencing something traumatic is being "frozen with fear"" Not necrophilia no? | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they A well known side effect while experiencing something traumatic is being "frozen with fear" Not necrophilia no?" I was referring to the women unlucky enough to experience louth's best "hammer action" Sadly lots here have taken his bait when it's quite obvious he's trolling. Worst of all, the mindset behind it is rather......creepy. | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they A well known side effect while experiencing something traumatic is being "frozen with fear" Not necrophilia no? I was referring to the women unlucky enough to experience louth's best "hammer action" Sadly lots here have taken his bait when it's quite obvious he's trolling. Worst of all, the mindset behind it is rather......creepy. " Ah sure hes doing all the lovely women a favour in putting himself out there in that manner | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they A well known side effect while experiencing something traumatic is being "frozen with fear" Not necrophilia no? I was referring to the women unlucky enough to experience louth's best "hammer action" Sadly lots here have taken his bait when it's quite obvious he's trolling. Worst of all, the mindset behind it is rather......creepy. " I think he is mighty crack. | |||
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"This is actually a very good thread and unfortunately there hasn't been a lot of constructive male answers to it so far. Don't get me wrong some good ones there are but it would be very interesting to read some more profound stuff They haven't really answered it at all.. guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing. excuse me but my reply was frickin earth shatteringly profound" cheese... I got it | |||
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"I think it's a two way thing. Let's face it if your with somebody who's not interacting and getting involved you won't have much interest in putting in a good performance yourself. Your only as good as your partner. Works both ways. The whole point of the thread is from a mans point of view. I'm looking for mens opinions of what women do right or wrong not of the whole experience." Communication and enthusiasm | |||
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"Buns and tea. Any woman who takes the time to bake buns and make tea for when you are having a sexual athletics break is a winner. " Does it count if she buys them in Sainsburys? | |||
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" Looks like I've struck a nerve with you ladies the truth hurts I'm not complaining thought thats the way nature has it..women have very little to do when it comes to sex only remain still for her man Of course you'd blame women You must have very little experience if you think all women are like that. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. You ever think that maybe it's you? That maybe they just aren't really that interested in having sex with you. Maybe you're just bad and they are just wishing it to be over. After all, you're the common denominator with all those women. well why have sex with somebody in the first place if you aren't interested in them sure that argument holds no water..I have that affect on women they freeze and become rigid as the hammer action is turned on..sure why would a woman need to move at all when shes getting hammered senseless..I only had 1 that bounced on me and she was a gym freak " He's obviously not paying them enough | |||
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"Buns and tea. Any woman who takes the time to bake buns and make tea for when you are having a sexual athletics break is a winner. Does it count if she buys them in Sainsburys?" As long as she takes all the wrappers off who would know | |||
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" most women just lie there like a bag of spuds when you're giving them 1..lets face it they don't have to do much of the work do they " Try picking a live one next time | |||
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