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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Robbed this from another forum

Yes or no? Personally I don't like to cuddle after a shag with a meet. Obviously it depends on the guy and I have with one or two but it's a bit too intimate for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be similar. One or two I meet a lot I'd be close with but I can leave the cuddles with new meets. I'm not overly cuddly anyways I like my space.

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By *uff pleaserMan
over a year ago

dublin

its nice to cuddle after sex while u have a rest for round 2 and 3 and 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a little bit but nothing to clingy,and obviously it depends on the person how well I know them etc

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Nope. Not for me.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I think it would depend on the situation or the person, I'm not overly fond of cuddles after sex in general but if its particularly intense session or if the person successfully makes me come then usually they get a nice hug....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much yes. I'd consider sex an intimate act for me so cuddling isn't a problem. Not too mention I'm normally far too tired to move.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It highly depends on the meet, there are some I can't keep my hands of but as a general rule rather not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit, I'm a fan of a cuddle. I like a bit of a spoon sesh when falling asleep with a girl (big spoon obviously) but since I tend to mostly meet couples on fab, cuddling has never really been an issue for me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles, keeps me warmed up to start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fond of spooning before round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always cuddle after sex it helps me get my breath back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - i want them out of my fecking bed so i can sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.

If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.

If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one "

This ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.

If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one

This ^^^^ "

Its the only way.. When u cuddle someone n melt in their arms, that's the way its meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little "

Sounds like you had a taste recently Ms E

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

Sounds like you had a taste recently Ms E "

Taste of what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit hard when you ordering them a taxi to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit hard when you ordering them a taxi to leave "

Ah here, I wouldn't even go that far

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little "

I agree just better to come and go - -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

I agree just better to come and go - -"

Yes I think so too

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

I agree just better to come and go - -

Yes I think so too "

Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

I agree just better to come and go - -

Yes I think so too

Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - -"

Well now I never mind a chat at all, it's the wrapped around each other thing that I find awkward

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little

I agree just better to come and go - -

Yes I think so too

Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - -

Well now I never mind a chat at all, it's the wrapped around each other thing that I find awkward "

That was fun. I will call you lol

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

Love a cuddle with a certain one but no one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends completely on the meet...

Mostly i do like a cuddle and a chat that usually ends up in a giggle then a snog then a bit of something stirring again and we're off....

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Likes an aul cuddle..

Or a spoon...

But before long the spooning usually turns to forking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little "

I must be on the opposite end of the spectum so. The thing I miss most, now that I'm single, is the intimacy. I can get everything else I need emotionally and physically from friends, family, FBs and fab meets but if I'm honest I do miss the closeness, "the intimacy" of sharing your life and yourself with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... only hubby gets a rare one. Let me sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a read through this and noticed it's mostly men who said they like to cuddle and women saying they don't. Not what i expected. I love a cuddle. My head on their chest, my arm around them or else playing with their chest hair and their arm around me rubbing my arm or my shoulder/back. Heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope - i want them out of my fecking bed so i can sleep "

Farts and leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope - i want them out of my fecking bed so i can sleep

Farts and leaves "

Its like you know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends completely on the meet...

Mostly i do like a cuddle and a chat that usually ends up in a giggle then a snog then a bit of something stirring again and we're off.... "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

annie that's what u did on me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope - i want them out of my fecking bed so i can sleep

Farts and leaves

Its like you know me "

We are made from the same mould girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"annie that's what u did on me lol "

Ya loved it gurrllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cuddling a girl after sex...

Not the guys (sorry!)

Except hubby of course..

Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, the post-coital cuddle is reserved for hubs. Although he doesn't partake very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore cuddles after sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddles after sex especially wit my reg we can lie there wrapped around each other and chathe and have a laugh then we start kissing and it starts becoming more again. It's very intimate I feel I'm a cuddly person as ya all can see in more ways then one lmao. Esp of the orgasm for us both has been intense it's heaven to cuddle up or if there's after been multiple orgasms which have happened a lot before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cuddle and some spooning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle especially after a really intense playdate as i fall pretty hard out of subspace if i dont .but if its just a quickie then no I wont cuddle at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, the post-coital cuddle is reserved for hubs. Although he doesn't partake very often."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle so I'm available who are like minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I should practice more. Practice makes perfect after all. Any takers?

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

With friends with benefits I love a cuddle & giggle. But with Fabbers It doesn't bother me, if they can fuck me good then a cuddle isn't too much of an effort to give then, I do enjoy a cuddle after a rough session tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends but probably not

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Call me old fashioned but do like the idea of mixing things up... lots of foreplay and tactile teasing before getting down and dirty with a good physical pounding then a warm embrace and friendly cuddle too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much yes. I'd consider sex an intimate act for me so cuddling isn't a problem. Not too mention I'm normally far too tired to move. "

That was my first thought... I'll show you my private parts for you to play with and Ill suck your hidden bits that you don't show to every tom dick or fanny but cuddle noooooo that's just too intimate.

I'd cuddle as it's the prelude to more or its foreplay.

I know some won't kiss because it's too intimate. ..but i wouldn't meet if they don't kiss.... for me it's like having a veg burger. ..BURGERS ARE NOT VEG! ...They're patties....not burgers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usen't like it tbh but always depends on how well you know them and whatever I'm getting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I should practice more. Practice makes perfect after all. Any takers? "

I'm available with notice can't private message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Robbed this from another forum

Yes or no? Personally I don't like to cuddle after a shag with a meet. Obviously it depends on the guy and I have with one or two but it's a bit too intimate for me.

"

Mostly not, but there are one or two of my favourites that I love to cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i do love to cuddle

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By *ike 50Man
over a year ago

North Cork

O.... I do like to spend time after an intimate session....good sex should never be rushed....and there is always time to repeat and repeat the experience !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I allowed cry while she holds me after sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i do love to cuddle"

no words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I allowed cry while she holds me after sex "

Yes as she walks you to the front door

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Am I allowed cry while she holds me after sex

Yes as she walks you to the front door"
Prefer the back door if you're adventurous

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Am I allowed cry while she holds me after sex "

Of course you are baby ... There there. ..xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only person getting a cuddle off me is Mr osmium.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pretty affectionate person in normal every day life so it shocked me that some people didn't cuddle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cuddling is definitely fine when you're a single person but as a couple I think its different i would not want to upset my other half .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I'm a pretty affectionate person in normal every day life so it shocked me that some people didn't cuddle....

"

I would consider myself an affectionate person. With a bf cuddling is great. I'm talking about a meet from here, rare that I'll indulge in cuddling then as most of the time I have just met them that night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles . "

"definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles "

Yo tambien Guapisima

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Love a cuddle after sex

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Just had a read through this and noticed it's mostly men who said they like to cuddle and women saying they don't. Not what i expected. I love a cuddle. My head on their chest, my arm around them or else playing with their chest hair and their arm around me rubbing my arm or my shoulder/back. Heaven. "

Yes, soooooo nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles .

"definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles "

Yo tambien Guapisima

"

Gracias por lo de Guapisima

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"annie that's what u did on me lol

Ya loved it gurrllllll "
haha u luved it xx

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