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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice if they're worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive made a move a few times. If the right guy catches my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep no problem doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

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By *ublinBloke300Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Am I catching any of your eyes now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again! "

I find that hard to believe lollipop - esp that someone knocked you back. The fools!

Feel free to chase me...I have one leg and the other is not so good

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Irish ladies appear more open to it than those on the uk thread

Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

I find that hard to believe lollipop - esp that someone knocked you back. The fools!

Feel free to chase me...I have one leg and the other is not so good

Oh my god - how did you know I have a fetish for one legged witty men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

I find that hard to believe lollipop - esp that someone knocked you back. The fools!

Feel free to chase me...I have one leg and the other is not so good

Oh my god - how did you know I have a fetish for one legged witty men?? "

Wiki leaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again! "

Same Lolly

I've just been blocked too. So it happens to the ladies also. There's so many gorgeous guys on here, sometimes I'll just assume someone is out of my league. I need to stop doing that

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

Same Lolly

I've just been blocked too. So it happens to the ladies also. There's so many gorgeous guys on here, sometimes I'll just assume someone is out of my league. I need to stop doing that

How? Why?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

I find that hard to believe lollipop - esp that someone knocked you back. The fools!

Feel free to chase me...I have one leg and the other is not so good

why fools? Are guys not allowed a preference or say no thanks..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

Same Lolly

I've just been blocked too. So it happens to the ladies also. There's so many gorgeous guys on here, sometimes I'll just assume someone is out of my league. I need to stop doing that

Yep, I totally get this!

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Wish I was lucky enough to get a lady contacting me first.

Feel free to send a mail by the way, always love to chat on here and not expecting to much to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

I find that hard to believe lollipop - esp that someone knocked you back. The fools!

Feel free to chase me...I have one leg and the other is not so good

why fools? Are guys not allowed a preference or say no thanks.."

Indeed they are cork guy...I was expressing my own personal preference and reflecting on what I believe is their mental state to turn that down. Phew I now need to sit down. Brain hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, well I kinda have to always make first move since I got mail filters on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh what century are we in! If you like a guy/girl message them. Or wink them. Or fab them. Or all three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh what century are we in! If you like a guy/girl message them. Or wink them. Or fab them. Or all three

I wink or fab....it usually makes them make the move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my

Lilred, FPT & Geordie all in a row

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had a few ladies make a move on me n I never have a problem either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my

Lilred, FPT & Geordie all in a row

And your point is....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually."
You naughty little putty cat your always chasing after me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my

Lilred, FPT & Geordie all in a row

And your point is....?

It's almost

More than my eyes can take

And Boldy at the top of the age

I should have posted on the good news thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once ever, he blew me out and that was the end of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, well I kinda have to always make first move since I got mail filters on

Since I've filtered up, I have to make more effort with mailing first. I fucking hate rejection, though!

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Oh my

Lilred, FPT & Geordie all in a row

And your point is....?

Maybe he really likes the look of your profiles and has been keeping an eye on yous ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my

Lilred, FPT & Geordie all in a row

And your point is....?

It's almost

More than my eyes can take

And Boldy at the top of the age

I should have posted on the good news thread

Deep breaths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

(Stole this from the lounge

It's the fake hunts that leave you despairing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

(Stole this from the lounge

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It's the fake hunts that leave you despairing..."

Absolutely boils my pee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

(Stole this from the lounge

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It's the fake hunts that leave you despairing..."

Pmsl

See the fisherman is trying his best but getting sfa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

(Stole this from the lounge

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It's the fake hunts that leave you despairing...

Pmsl

See the fisherman is trying his best but getting sfa

They say it's a lonely life. Fishing.

"Break, break, break,

On thy cold gray stones, O Sea!

And I would that my tongue could utter

The thoughts that arise in me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....make the first move with guys on here?

For me, it's rare but I have done. I enjoy a good hunt!

BG x

(Stole this from the lounge

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It's the fake hunts that leave you despairing...

Pmsl

See the fisherman is trying his best but getting sfa

They say it's a lonely life. Fishing.

"Break, break, break,

On thy cold gray stones, O Sea!

And I would that my tongue could utter

The thoughts that arise in me.""

O, well for the fisherman's boy,

That he shouts with his sister at play!

O, well for the sailor lad,

That he sings in his boat on the bay!

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I'd love a few first moves being made on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done once or twice yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my time on here has a lady made the 1st move..lol id be a lucky duck.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if i like the profile n pics id say hi, if i get knocked bk its no big deal. We can't be everyones cup of tea.

Im a straight forward person, if i wana fuck someone then i will

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Yep, well I kinda have to always make first move since I got mail filters on

Same here....find it works very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again! "

Same here so I just don't bother now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ta Boldy for this thread. Just put me in the mood. Haven't spoken to anyone new in a while. So I fab a few hot pics of guy on my hotlist, then a wink, and I get mail..who knows sure, nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ta Boldy for this thread. Just put me in the mood. Haven't spoken to anyone new in a while. So I fab a few hot pics of guy on my hotlist, then a wink, and I get mail..who knows sure, nothing to lose

Go, you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive filters on but no id be why too shy to mail a fella

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm worth it ...sure if any one wants to drop the hand I won't mind

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm worth it ...sure if any one wants to drop the hand I won't mind

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By *artletWoman
over a year ago

Kerry

"Yes, if i like the profile n pics id say hi, if i get knocked bk its no big deal. We can't be everyones cup of tea.

Im a straight forward person, if i wana fuck someone then i will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always even if its just a wink. If I like what I see then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive filters on but no id be why too shy to mail a fella

Ahemmm shy?? You sure lol. Sure what to lose sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times.. how can you get what you want if you dont ask??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again! "

Same as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often tbh I'm a chicken shit and always think they are out of my league

And the few times I have its been ignored so yep rejection is a bitch

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Well I'm shocked at some of the ladies being rejected. Although I know it's all about personal choice of course.

Still, surely most guys would have the decency to try a bit of chat first with anyone that winks/messages them? It's not all about looks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, as they say, ladies. Keep winking/messaging/Fabbing pics and I'm sure you will have plenty of success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire anyone who makes an effort, if u dont try u dont usually get

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Once - I feel sorry for lads coz I was ignored and totally knocked my confidence so never again!

Same Lolly

I've just been blocked too. So it happens to the ladies also. There's so many gorgeous guys on here, sometimes I'll just assume someone is out of my league. I need to stop doing that

Yep, I totally get this!

I assume that too..

Need to get over that, how do you know what the other person likes or dislike, and you do not know how you might connect.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"I have a few times.. how can you get what you want if you dont ask??

So True....

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Yep, well I kinda have to always make first move since I got mail filters on

Since I've filtered up, I have to make more effort with mailing first. I fucking hate rejection, though!

How could any Red Blooded mail, reject you, Stunning Lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like a simple wink works for me...

Or flanter in forums I think is enough of the first move for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm shocked at some of the ladies being rejected. Although I know it's all about personal choice of course.

Still, surely most guys would have the decency to try a bit of chat first with anyone that winks/messages them? It's not all about looks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, as they say, ladies. Keep winking/messaging/Fabbing pics and I'm sure you will have plenty of success

Why chat to someone that you are not interested in?

That smacks of double standards to me?

Do you chat to the fab guys that offer to blow the bejesus outa you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, if i like the profile n pics id say hi, if i get knocked bk its no big deal. We can't be everyones cup of tea.

Im a straight forward person, if i wana fuck someone then i will

if the feelings mutual

I do all my own chasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has made the moves into Dom hunting but not from here (yet). We've been approached once by a woman here for a meet but seems rare enough

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Well I'm shocked at some of the ladies being rejected. Although I know it's all about personal choice of course.

Still, surely most guys would have the decency to try a bit of chat first with anyone that winks/messages them? It's not all about looks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, as they say, ladies. Keep winking/messaging/Fabbing pics and I'm sure you will have plenty of success

Why are you shocked. Are the men not allowed to be choosy too? If she's not his type why should he engage further?

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

It depends on what meet we are looking for and what fantasy we want to fulfill. The search engine comes in handy. Also the forums are a good way to find out what men are like, if the have a gsoh, it's important to have a good personality at a meet because it breaks the ice if there is a bit of banter. There seems to be a lot of witty guys on here.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes I've contacted a guy before and like lollie I was ignored..

Last time I did that..

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Yes I've contacted a guy before and like lollie I was ignored..

Last time I did that.. "
his loss....true fact

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Well I'm shocked at some of the ladies being rejected. Although I know it's all about personal choice of course.

Still, surely most guys would have the decency to try a bit of chat first with anyone that winks/messages them? It's not all about looks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, as they say, ladies. Keep winking/messaging/Fabbing pics and I'm sure you will have plenty of success

Why chat to someone that you are not interested in?

That smacks of double standards to me?

Do you chat to the fab guys that offer to blow the bejesus outa you? "

Fair point. I actually do tend to say thanks but I'm sober straight, not Fab straight or bi inclined. I respond but friendly and in a thanks but no thanks way.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Well I'm shocked at some of the ladies being rejected. Although I know it's all about personal choice of course.

Still, surely most guys would have the decency to try a bit of chat first with anyone that winks/messages them? It's not all about looks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, as they say, ladies. Keep winking/messaging/Fabbing pics and I'm sure you will have plenty of success

Why are you shocked. Are the men not allowed to be choosy too? If she's not his type why should he engage further?

Agreed. However I don't think it costs you much to at least respond and say thanks but your not for me, at the moment, or whatever.

Not that I'd ever say that to your good self of course!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I am feeling very old fashioned at this point!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Yes I've contacted a guy before and like lollie I was ignored..

Last time I did that.. his loss....true fact"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. I'm shocked at the amount of people who won't contact a guy first. I nearlly always make the first move. Wel I think I am, I met a guy who said he had mailed me several times and I had never replied and then I mailed him. Sometimes the things men say in mails make no sense and just turns me off and I may not even look at the profile. I'm not really bothered if I don't get a reply. Its not like there aren't 100s of guys on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting....

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

"Wow. I'm shocked at the amount of people who won't contact a guy first. I nearlly always make the first move. Wel I think I am, I met a guy who said he had mailed me several times and I had never replied and then I mailed him. Sometimes the things men say in mails make no sense and just turns me off and I may not even look at the profile. I'm not really bothered if I don't get a reply. Its not like there aren't 100s of guys on here!!

Good for you and those you mail. Not so good for the other 99.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once or twice if they're worth it

We are all worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I've contacted a guy before and like lollie I was ignored..

Last time I did that.. "

I would be delighted to be contacted or moved on by you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you and those you mail. Not so good for the other 99.

Other 99??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something like a simple wink works for me...

Or flanter in forums I think is enough of the first move for me "

Is flanter flirt/banter?

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By *olferguy69Man
over a year ago

cork/Dublin

"Once ever, he blew me out and that was the end of that

Can we get a list of these stupid men.

Name and shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lady your going to have to make the first move with me this owl lad I'd way outside your age filters

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