FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Does this actually work

Jump to newest
 

By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Just wondering does this actually work for the blokes on here when they send a random message asking can they call for sex without any build up or any time to get to know each other ?

The message kinda goes "can I call over to urs for a shag?" Or "I'm only a few miles away fancy a fuck?" Lol

Curious to know if that works or if there's women on here that would say yes come on ahead without spending time to suss them out ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no! Part of the excitement is the build up!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It's a marathon not a sprint lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We agree a lot of the excitement comes from the build up and messages etc

We get lots of messages from blokes asking if we have a spare half hour etc or can they call for a quickie etc was just wondering if they actually get lucky or is it a case of wishful thinking lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone has a good routine for breaking the ice and getting into the bedroom ....please please share

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just gets deleted and probably blocked cos some idiots send it repeatedly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Any guy that would send a message like that a couple or a girl needs head testing and would be best avoided

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just like fishing. If you do it long enough you will get a nibble eventually. You just don't know what's actually at the other end of the line. Could be a fine cod. Or nasty spiney thing. I think the only sexy responses they would get would be from guys or women who just want a quick thrill but would never dream of actually having sex

Another thing to remember is that they are not targeting you because you are beautiful. They are targeting you because your profile says you are female. Just like they are sending the exact same message to every woman.

I do often wonder what would happen if they got a positive response. How many would actually turn up as opposed to how many would be at home covered in their own cum after the success of nearly getting laid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like fishing. If you do it long enough you will get a nibble eventually. You just don't know what's actually at the other end of the line. Could be a fine cod. Or nasty spiney thing. I think the only sexy responses they would get would be from guys or women who just want a quick thrill but would never dream of actually having sex

Another thing to remember is that they are not targeting you because you are beautiful. They are targeting you because your profile says you are female. Just like they are sending the exact same message to every woman.

I do often wonder what would happen if they got a positive response. How many would actually turn up as opposed to how many would be at home covered in their own cum after the success of nearly getting laid

"
Speaking of fishing I used to have great success on fab when I went fishing.Unfortunately I always seemed to catch the same few fish.I used to throw them back where they came from.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like fishing. If you do it long enough you will get a nibble eventually. You just don't know what's actually at the other end of the line. Could be a fine cod. Or nasty spiney thing. I think the only sexy responses they would get would be from guys or women who just want a quick thrill but would never dream of actually having sex

Another thing to remember is that they are not targeting you because you are beautiful. They are targeting you because your profile says you are female. Just like they are sending the exact same message to every woman.

I do often wonder what would happen if they got a positive response. How many would actually turn up as opposed to how many would be at home covered in their own cum after the success of nearly getting laid

"

You guys need to stop fishing off of bridges...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Never been that easy, I have met the same day or week from chatting to people, a couple times.

But to be honest, I prefer a build up that has gone a couple of weeks.

A lot of the thrill is the chase...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone has a good routine for breaking the ice and getting into the bedroom ....please please share"

Enjoy the mails and chats without focusing on the bedroom. What happens will happen.

(Damn I think that's where I'm going wrong)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting even chatting to ladies that I find can be frustrating - due to the numbers game find its not easy to even strike up conversations - but as someone said - keep fishing lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you'll get many guys publically admitting they do this, or even women admitting they do as well. There tends to be a large dose of slut shaming against people who do.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it once or twice, no big deal.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt you'll get many guys publically admitting they do this, or even women admitting they do as well. There tends to be a large dose of slut shaming against people who do. "

yes.

Slut shaming on a swingers website. The hypocrisy is so strong you can taste it. Slut shaming is a form of control. You trying to control other people's joy because of Jealousy, envy and insecurity.

And it usually drives the object of your affection away. So its pointless

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Speaking of fishing I used to have great success on fab when I went fishing.Unfortunately I always seemed to catch the same few fish.I used to throw them back where they came from.

"

You should have tried better bait. Or different bait at least

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Speaking of fishing I used to have great success on fab when I went fishing.Unfortunately I always seemed to catch the same few fish.I used to throw them back where they came from.

You should have tried better bait. Or different bait at least "
That's the strangest thing I hadn't to use any bait.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *eedycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

belfast

For us we would not rush in so quick as we enjoy the fun in the chase etc but would deff not judge anyone who would meet so quick after all this is a sex site and the ppl who use it are here for their own reasons and it's a case of each to their own as long as they are happy and having fun then that's wot really matters

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top