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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Sneaky, we've been looking for someone who knows what we want...Oh, you're not single. And giving out about other guys attitudes. Well the single knuckledragger would place above the lying White Knight anyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks Sneaky, we've been looking for someone who knows what we want...Oh, you're not single. And giving out about other guys attitudes. Well the single knuckledragger would place above the lying White Knight anyday.

"

Fair enough, I am giving out about other guys attitudes... I don't make any claim to White Knight status though, I'm far from it, and will admit to that.

As to my relationship status, I do state it in my profile, I'm upfront about it and those who take issue with my status should note I'm not making any judgements about theirs. I would expect the same feckin courtesy in return.

We all are here for the same few reasons, but perhaps you enjoy the abusive messages? If you do, then I apologise, far be it for me to judge your proclivities.

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

Bad mood today kip?? Although I do agree with you x

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

My sentiments there entirety

I whole heartedly agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bad mood today kip?? Although I do agree with you x "

Not as much Gorgeous, just annoyed with the bad apples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My sentiments there entirety

I whole heartedly agree"

Cheers LJ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true then, irony is lost on some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But she doesn't want your best wishes. She has stopped communication while you would be trying to prolong it.

If she hadn't of blocked you and you had messaged again - she would probably have deleted unread .. and you'd still be moaning.

Count yourself lucky she replied. Many don't - as fab rules says is ok

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Are you okay, op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure exactly who you're having a go at there.. but it's my profile and I can do what I like with it. Don't think I've ever had a guy 'beg' as I think they've (majority) more respect for themselves. If I'm not interested in someone I will block them as a filtering tool. Usually when I say no thanks I'm still hounded by them so it saves me and them the trouble. Does that make me full of myself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you okay, op? "

Yeah, I am thanks. Thank you.

It's not an issue that I wasn't able to reply, that I don't mind in the least, and I am thankful to have gotten the reply.

I have an issue that she felt she had to block me, and (I'm assuming here mind you...) it's as a result of being on the receiving end of abuse in the past.

To Ms LonCav: you have made a good point, she doesn't want to hear from me, and I'm not interesting in further pursuing any correspondence - I do feel she should at least have the courtesy she was good enough to offer me returned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure exactly who you're having a go at there.. but it's my profile and I can do what I like with it. Don't think I've ever had a guy 'beg' as I think they've (majority) more respect for themselves. If I'm not interested in someone I will block them as a filtering tool. Usually when I say no thanks I'm still hounded by them so it saves me and them the trouble. Does that make me full of myself? "

Not at all, and you have every right to do with your profile as you wish.

To clarify, I'm having a go at the lads who bombard women with abuse. That's all.

Actually, I'm having a go at everyone who hurls abuse at others who don't share the same opinions and views.

The old saying my mother taught me has my hackles up... If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you okay, op?

Yeah, I am thanks. Thank you.

It's not an issue that I wasn't able to reply, that I don't mind in the least, and I am thankful to have gotten the reply.

I have an issue that she felt she had to block me, and (I'm assuming here mind you...) it's as a result of being on the receiving end of abuse in the past.

To Ms LonCav: you have made a good point, she doesn't want to hear from me, and I'm not interesting in further pursuing any correspondence - I do feel she should at least have the courtesy she was good enough to offer me returned."

Perhaps the courtesy is to respect the fact that she didn't want further communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why she winked back if she wasn't interested.

You sound like a decent, polite man, there'll be people who will reply to you and eventually meet you. Focus on them and forget the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads you have to remember how many single guys are on here. Blocking is actually the easiest way for women and couples on here to keep track of who they're not interested in.

Consider the amount of daily mail single ladies and couples receive, it would be impossible for them to remember every profile name or avatar.

If they block you it's usually nothing you did it's just easier for them to keep track of who they don't have an interest in chatting to or ever meeting.

Everyone always gets up in arms over blocking or not being responded to, personally I don't care if someone hasn't taken the time to respond or will block me. I move on as there are others who I will get on with, have some banter and maybe meet up with.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Rant over. Have a good day.

"

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What difference does it make??

So you "can't wish her all the best" .... no point in moaning about that!!

Get a grip!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the courtesy is to respect the fact that she didn't want further communication."

Point well made, and noted.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Are you okay, op?

Yeah, I am thanks. Thank you.

It's not an issue that I wasn't able to reply, that I don't mind in the least, and I am thankful to have gotten the reply.

I have an issue that she felt she had to block me, and (I'm assuming here mind you...) it's as a result of being on the receiving end of abuse in the past.

"

Each lady has her own way of dealing with approaches from the juicy and not so juicy lads on here. Blocking you after reply might have to do with previous experienced verbal abuse but it also could be just a filter method. So just get on with it and don't make things even more complicated as they already are.

On another note I've to say I'm always getting a bit nauseatic when the admiration, praise and adoration of the ladies is pushed to an extent that it just comes across as slimy and fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

On another note I've to say I'm always getting a bit nauseatic when the admiration, praise and adoration of the ladies is pushed to an extent that it just comes across as slimy and fake. "

You mean DH?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

On another note I've to say I'm always getting a bit nauseatic when the admiration, praise and adoration of the ladies is pushed to an extent that it just comes across as slimy and fake.

You mean DH?

"

Ahhh Fooey dahling, you know there's a difference between nauseous and nauseatic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I an example of said nausea-inducing behaviour, Ms DH? Curious is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure exactly who you're having a go at there.. but it's my profile and I can do what I like with it. Don't think I've ever had a guy 'beg' as I think they've (majority) more respect for themselves. If I'm not interested in someone I will block them as a filtering tool. Usually when I say no thanks I'm still hounded by them so it saves me and them the trouble. Does that make me full of myself?

Not at all, and you have every right to do with your profile as you wish.

To clarify, I'm having a go at the lads who bombard women with abuse. That's all.

Actually, I'm having a go at everyone who hurls abuse at others who don't share the same opinions and views.

The old saying my mother taught me has my hackles up... If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!"

But then we'd have nothing to give out about and you wouldn't have been able to have your rant this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

"

If ever there was a mangina or white knight it's you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But then we'd have nothing to give out about and you wouldn't have been able to have your rant this morning "

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

"

Nice rant ...i like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If ever there was a mangina or white knight it's you "

In deference to my poor mother, I'll refrain from commenting, well other than to say at least you're honest - referring to your username. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

"
Im sure the ladies on here get lots of abusive messages as lots of people point out .But what about the abusive ladies and couple's. All you need to do is read the forums to see how rude and abusive some of those so called ladies and couple's are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ever there was a mangina or white knight it's you

In deference to my poor mother, I'll refrain from commenting, well other than to say at least you're honest - referring to your username. :P"

Your poor mother probably died listening to your drivel..mangina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

Im sure the ladies on here get lots of abusive messages as lots of people point out .But what about the abusive ladies and couple's. All you need to do is read the forums to see how rude and abusive some of those so called ladies and couple's are."

Finally somebody has taken their blinkers off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, did you even read the post before spouting your asinine response?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Am I an example of said nausea-inducing behaviour, Ms DH? Curious is all."

It's not inducing nausea, it's having the feeling of nausea. Yes you clearly overdid it in your rant. It's nice to get respect and adoration but when it's just a general blab and over the top, you achieve the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She should have said she wasn't interested, and you say thanks for chatting.If someone block's a polite person for no apparent reason they are ignorant and not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I an example of said nausea-inducing behaviour, Ms DH? Curious is all.

It's not inducing nausea, it's having the feeling of nausea. Yes you clearly overdid it in your rant. It's nice to get respect and adoration but when it's just a general blab and over the top, you achieve the opposite. "

Good to know, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She should have said she wasn't interested, and you say thanks for chatting.If someone block's a polite person for no apparent reason they are ignorant and not for you."

Ah Mike, she winked at me was all, after I had winked at her. Some people change their mind after a message, it's understandable.

Thanks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

On another note I've to say I'm always getting a bit nauseatic when the admiration, praise and adoration of the ladies is pushed to an extent that it just comes across as slimy and fake. "

Agree 100%. The white knighting is in abundance lately on the forum. The OP made me cringe so much. A woman blocked him, so he made a post gushing over her, and blaming her actions on all the other single men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

On another note I've to say I'm always getting a bit nauseatic when the admiration, praise and adoration of the ladies is pushed to an extent that it just comes across as slimy and fake.

Agree 100%. The white knighting is in abundance lately on the forum. The OP made me cringe so much. A woman blocked him, so he made a post gushing over her, and blaming her actions on all the other single men! "

Gushing? Hardly, I don't even like water sports.

And I certainly didn't blame ALL other single men, but then who bothers to read posts and profiles these days anyway...

Clearly some prefer abusive, dismissive and disrespectful relationships, shame on me for suggesting that a lifetime of conditioning on women's rights, equality and tolerance of others should extend to FabSwingers, but sure when physical abuse, over mental abuse, is propagated against women, ALL single men can use the usual, "but she was asking for it" bullshit excuse.

White Knight? Yeah feck that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what did you want her to do OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all,

I'all preface this post with the story, and then get to the moaning.

Lad seeing ladies profile, likes what he sees and sends her a wink (on his profile it asks her to wink back if she might be interested, and he'll initiate contact), and she winks in reply.

Lad messages her politely and respectfully, as all lads should, just once...

She replies with a version of thanks, but no thanks, and blocks him.

Right - so fair enough and fair play. She's taken the time to reply and say she's not interested, all well and good, and she's prevented him from replying to her message.

Here is the moan - I want to thank the lady for taking the time to reply, to let me know I'm not for her and I want to wish her all the best.

Unfortunately I can't do this, not because of anything she has done, but because of all the arrogant, entitled fuckwits on here that expect women to beg these fuckwits for it, and be grateful for the attention.

Because a woman has joined Fab, certainly shouldn't a bunch of knuckle-dragging Neanderthals with an entitlement complex are in fact entitled to have fun with said woman.

It also means that these wonderful women should have torrid abuse hurled at them should they refuse these clumsy advances, too often devoid of proper sentence structure, punctuation and wholly devoid of any semblance of intelligence.

To the lovely women who grace Fab with their presence, I would like to say both thank you and I hope you enjoy your day - and further hope you aren't harassed and harangued too much today.

Finally, to the lovely lady who refused my (probably equally clumsy) advance, thank you for your reply, your forthrightness and I wish you a wonderful week ahead.

To the lads who should know better, try spellcheck and take rejection like a real man. No one is entitled to anything!

Rant over. Have a good day.

For real? What are you hoping to achieve with this??

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing, absolutely nothing. I do remember mentioning that I would preface a rant with a bit of backstory.

This has nothing to do with her, other than as an example of the results of the constant cyber bullying purported by ghoulish keyboard warriors without a backbone, or manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing, absolutely nothing. I do remember mentioning that I would preface a rant with a bit of backstory.

This has nothing to do with her, other than as an example of the results of the constant cyber bullying purported by ghoulish keyboard warriors without a backbone, or manners."

Who's to say she blocked you because she's been abused or bullied? She may just have decided you weren't for her and done it

I think you've read far too much into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone blocking you is cyber bullying? Would you rather she didn't and sent you a load of abuse instead? It's a swing site. She obviously had second thoughts and blocked you. She owes you nothing. I don't see how that classifies as bullying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone blocking you is cyber bullying? Would you rather she didn't and sent you a load of abuse instead? It's a swing site. She obviously had second thoughts and blocked you. She owes you nothing. I don't see how that classifies as bullying? "

He's not saying she's bullying him. He's saying he thinks she blocked him to avoid him being nasty after she said she wasn't interested. He's also saying he thinks this is probably because she has experienced that in the past from other people, and so now blocks everyone she isn't interested in to avoid it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone blocking you is cyber bullying? Would you rather she didn't and sent you a load of abuse instead? It's a swing site. She obviously had second thoughts and blocked you. She owes you nothing. I don't see how that classifies as bullying?

He's not saying she's bullying him. He's saying he thinks she blocked him to avoid him being nasty after she said she wasn't interested. He's also saying he thinks this is probably because she has experienced that in the past from other people, and so now blocks everyone she isn't interested in to avoid it happening again. "

Ah ok.. so who's he having a bitch at now? Other single guys?

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By *ennylaputeTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin 18

Ah come on there will be another bus along in a minute. Jaysus the separation anxiety is killing me. Think yourself lucky .... you would have quickly got down to who's turn it is to get the shopping, clean the flat, walk the dog, do the laundry, not to menetion we don't talk much any more, you've gone off me, your a pig blah de blah de blah. now get out of the way of my sky sports!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't overthink things, OP.

It's not healthy. Nor is it to make such general assumptions. Yes some can't handle a "no thanks" but everyone uses the site, and thus the block button, in their own way.

She may have blocked you to simply prevent you showing up in search results and save you both some time in the future, who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't overthink things, OP.

It's not healthy. Nor is it to make such general assumptions. Yes some can't handle a "no thanks" but everyone uses the site, and thus the block button, in their own way.

She may have blocked you to simply prevent you showing up in search results and save you both some time in the future, who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone blocking you is cyber bullying? Would you rather she didn't and sent you a load of abuse instead? It's a swing site. She obviously had second thoughts and blocked you. She owes you nothing. I don't see how that classifies as bullying?

He's not saying she's bullying him. He's saying he thinks she blocked him to avoid him being nasty after she said she wasn't interested. He's also saying he thinks this is probably because she has experienced that in the past from other people, and so now blocks everyone she isn't interested in to avoid it happening again.

Ah ok.. so who's he having a bitch at now? Other single guys? "

I don't think he intended to bitch, he was just posting his thoughts. How we interpret them is up to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone blocking you is cyber bullying? Would you rather she didn't and sent you a load of abuse instead? It's a swing site. She obviously had second thoughts and blocked you. She owes you nothing. I don't see how that classifies as bullying?

He's not saying she's bullying him. He's saying he thinks she blocked him to avoid him being nasty after she said she wasn't interested. He's also saying he thinks this is probably because she has experienced that in the past from other people, and so now blocks everyone she isn't interested in to avoid it happening again.

Ah ok.. so who's he having a bitch at now? Other single guys?

I don't think he intended to bitch, he was just posting his thoughts. How we interpret them is up to us. "

I'm interpreting it as bitching

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Reckon it's a male moaning about injustice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Sneaky, we've been looking for someone who knows what we want...Oh, you're not single. And giving out about other guys attitudes. Well the single knuckledragger would place above the lying White Knight anyday.

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Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blessed are the Cheesemakers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Sneaky, we've been looking for someone who knows what we want...Oh, you're not single. And giving out about other guys attitudes. Well the single knuckledragger would place above the lying White Knight anyday.

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Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey knuckledraggers, keep up the good work it makes the rest of us seem wildly intelligent, charming and handsome in comparison to your shite...

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

This thread is just a load of crap...

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