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Swinging v just getting a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably going to get all sorts of abuse for this,

However since I started to look into swinging and joined fab I've been more interested in actually meeting people I click with than just having sex hence why I haven't joined some of the other sites about.

Another thing I've noticed is that looks aren't my number one priority it's people that have the right attitude I'm finding really attractive!

I'm not looking to make friends for life etc as I have a life outside of fab, I just seem to be more interested in people who understand swinging as a lifestyle.

Has this happened to anyone else?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm not really sure what question you're asking there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Michael, apologies badly worded.

I'm just asking who has found that they are not simply just looking for a shag but actually want to meet with people who are interested in the swinging scene as a whole?

Other sites out there you can find people that just want to meet up and shag which you can do on here also, but you also see the social events and M&G's that people seem to enjoy

I hope that makes sense, even the way people can talk and ask questions on the forumsite and get advice etc is all part of it, in my eyes anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think swinging is very different to just having a fuck. The social side of swingimg is very important for (imo) real swingers. Most people here know each other from socials and parties. It's (mostly) a fantastic community as we can be more free about who we are. I for one have made some fantastic friends from here who I can just meet socially and have a fantastic time without any play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi SluttySnowWhite I think you hit the nail on the head when you say it's about being more free to be who we really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with snow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, there is no definition as such. Most people flux between a fuck, the social aspect and taking a break!

We were regular players before kiddies came along so now we're just frustrating ourselves even logging in LOL

Time is scarce so occasionally it is just a fuck!

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath


"I think swinging is very different to just having a fuck. The social side of swingimg is very important for (imo) real swingers. Most people here know each other from socials and parties. It's (mostly) a fantastic community as we can be more free about who we are. I for one have made some fantastic friends from here who I can just meet socially and have a fantastic time without any play. "
totally agree with miss snow the social side is top notch and great craic meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only went to one event so far. It was unreal. Surreal. The sex was hot and if I had seen it in a porn I would have turned the porn off because it was not realistic.

But it is the people we spoke to is the thing that has stuck with both of us the most.

Everyone was super nice, super _aid back, we laughed and learned things and made real connections.

I felt like I had found my people. I could relax and just talk about all the things in my head without offending someone.

And knowing that some of the people there would like to have sex with us was hot.

Watching people who we had been chatting to head off and have sex in front of us felt natural.

There is one couple in particular who i would love to see have sex while we are having sex. Not that we will have sex with them. I just think it would be hot as fuck to see our friends fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably makes no sense^

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm not really sure what question you're asking there? "

how do jacobs get the figs into the fig rolls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably going to get all sorts of abuse for this,

However since I started to look into swinging and joined fab I've been more interested in actually meeting people I click with than just having sex hence why I haven't joined some of the other sites about.

Another thing I've noticed is that looks aren't my number one priority it's people that have the right attitude I'm finding really attractive!

I'm not looking to make friends for life etc as I have a life outside of fab, I just seem to be more interested in people who understand swinging as a lifestyle.

Has this happened to anyone else? "

Welcome to the adult part of Fab Sir, may I take your coat & get you a drink?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I'm not really sure what question you're asking there?

how do jacobs get the figs into the fig rolls?"

dispensing tube(figs) inside a dispensing tube(biscuit) then rolled flat

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm not really sure what question you're asking there?

how do jacobs get the figs into the fig rolls?

dispensing tube(figs) inside a dispensing tube(biscuit) then rolled flat"

nope it's obviously witchcraft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes down to meaning different things to different people. Just as long as people are clear it should be all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's never been just a shag...its been about making friends and enjoying each other's company in or out of bed....never just a one off (that's just a fuck IMO) ...but never attend socials for various reasons.

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