FabSwingers.com forum: Choking

By *ob Gobb OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've seen a girl a couple of times and grabbing her throat and squeezing is a massive turn for her which in turn is a turn on for me but to be honest I don't get it as I've never experienced it before. Whilst I'm pretty cautious not to hurt her I am intrigued by it and where else it may go.

Does anyone else like this and why? Any guidance would also be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I've seen a girl a couple of times and grabbing her throat and squeezing is a massive turn for her which in turn is a turn on for me but to be honest I don't get it as I've never experienced it before. Whilst I'm pretty cautious not to hurt her I am intrigued by it and where else it may go.

Does anyone else like this and why? Any guidance would also be appreciated.

Thanks in advance."

Jesus, wouldn't be my thing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It increases pleasure approaching orgasm. The relief of orgasm cpupled with choking makes for cumming HARD! Also some Gals just like it rough.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street

I have a male lover who adores this especially when I'm on top x

You need to set safe hand jesture (like a safe word) three taps on my thigh is ours x

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, Is it the act itself that turns you on or seeing her being turned on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a male lover who adores this especially when I'm on top x

You need to set safe hand jesture (like a safe word) three taps on my thigh is ours x

He likes you to do it to him? Or he does it to you and watches for you tapping your thighs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women often want to do this to me...often not even sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women often want to do this to me...often not even sexually

Funny that! - a few men I would happily do that to

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Women often want to do this to me...often not even sexually

I could think of better things to do to you

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it massive turn on for me..

Each to their own. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone need an undertaker gimme a shout... my mate works for the co-op funeral services and guves me a 10% discount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else like this and why? Any guidance would also be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

Jesus, wouldn't be my thing now "

Never meet him, I'm guessing he's Mexican with a name like Jesus, but I'm like you single lads wouldn't be my thing either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else like this and why? Any guidance would also be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

Jesus, wouldn't be my thing now

Never meet him, I'm guessing he's Mexican with a name like Jesus, but I'm like you single lads wouldn't be my thing either"

Is it the single lads that don't like this? Are you suggesting the non single ones like it? are they thinking of strangling the wives?

I'm pissed. Ignore me

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By *ob Gobb OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Op, Is it the act itself that turns you on or seeing her being turned on? "

It's seeing her getting off on it that's does it for me, as would any kind of turn on for her.

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By *ob Gobb OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks guys, much appreciated.

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By *ob Gobb OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Love it massive turn on for me..

Each to their own. ..

Absolutely, each to their own

. Is it the pressure the makes you cum harder or you enjoy it for a different reason? Would love to know more to see if she's likes those also

Feel free to PM me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Did this once with a guy. It was the strangest thing I've ever done. We met for coffee and I said yeah sure fuck it let's get a room and fuck each others brains out. Perfect. I dunno what came over me that day I was just feeling something different. I was on top and his arm was extended and his hand was around my neck. I was applying the pressure to my neck using his hand and could pull back at any stage so I was in total control. I went a bit wild that day and it was amazing. Was just something about him and that day that made me want it rough.. we met another time and it was crap!! Lol

The End.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Few men I'd gladly love to choke in my time and it would not be done sexually either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Few men I'd gladly love to choke in my time and it would not be done sexually either lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the control element combined with heightened sensations caused by having breathing cut off.

It's potentially very dangerous, you should research it more if it's something you are interested in practicing.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street

"I have a male lover who adores this especially when I'm on top x

You need to set safe hand jesture (like a safe word) three taps on my thigh is ours x

He likes you to do it to him? Or he does it to you and watches for you tapping your thighs?"

He likes me to do it to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a male lover who adores this especially when I'm on top x

You need to set safe hand jesture (like a safe word) three taps on my thigh is ours x

He likes you to do it to him? Or he does it to you and watches for you tapping your thighs?

He likes me to do it to him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, usually I have to ask a lad to do it but there was one fab time where a lad was on top and his hands naturally drifted to my neck and he didn't stop his stride but nodded at me to get the go ahead and I smiled and feeling his whole power and strength on top of me and me pinned underneath. Heaven!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

having a neck like a jockeys bollox the one time a woman tried to choke me it failed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like watching it in pornos...it just turns me on...but yeah youd wanna be carefull if thats your thing, its easy to kill someone by accident....and they wouldnt be first people to have a fatal misshap due to some form of sexual strangulation.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Few men I'd gladly love to choke in my time and it would not be done sexually either lol "

Ya fecker ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it, usually I have to ask a lad to do it but there was one fab time where a lad was on top and his hands naturally drifted to my neck and he didn't stop his stride but nodded at me to get the go ahead and I smiled and feeling his whole power and strength on top of me and me pinned underneath. Heaven!"

yes I love it

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I love it too - an incredible endorphin rush - but only with some I REALLY trust. There is a knack to it - just not a case of throttling someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it myself and will casually guide their hand to my throat. I can't explain it... I just know it's such a turn on for me. it doesn't have to be in a tough context, just a bit of a grab with some passionate kissing is so so intense too. Great...now I'm horny

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I once held a lady against the wall by throat while I fingered her. That was quite enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex say's I enjoy squeezing the life out of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it but it has to be with someone I trust. When they tighten their grip just as I'm about to have an orgasm it makes it more intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah wouldn't be into choking someone, I like grabbing them by the neck firmly enough to hold them there though.

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By *orethanenough73Man
over a year ago

City centre

Only tried this a wee while ago. Seemed odd when she asked me.

Feck sake she went wild when I did. Had to try it myself & it is a huge turn on for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm this is one of my favorite things.. makes me cum so hard. Its weird because i cant even wear a necklace without freaking out aboutvabout it

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

It sounds like your partner is into Erotic Asphixiation.Its deprivation of oxegen and blood flow to the brain by pressing on the veins on either side of the neck. It gives a feeling of euphoria along with a very intense orgasm.Having been the reciever, to the point of a fainting episode on one occassion, with a well informed and experienced partner, Id advise you to learn and learn more about it. Take the softly softly approach. It can have dire consequences such as unconsciousness or death if youre not fully aware of what youre doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love light choking...not asphyxiation, just having my throat held. It's definitely a control thing as I love being dominated. Even just some kissing with a hand lightly around my throat is such a turn on. Being held a bit tighter by the throat and looked in the eyes and called a dirty slut...well... *fans self*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm this is one of my favorite things.. makes me cum so hard. Its weird because i cant even wear a necklace without freaking out aboutvabout it

This!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a no no from my side, pain and domination isn't doing anything for me, besides I need all my breath to roide as long as the fella can keep up with me and then there's very few with 3 hands to strangle a three headed dragon.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"It's a no no from my side, pain and domination isn't doing anything for me, besides I need all my breath to roide as long as the fella can keep up with me and then there's very few with 3 hands to strangle a three headed dragon.

Jeeeaysus!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Jeeeaysus!

He was crucified not strangled if I remember that right

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Jeeeaysus!

He was crucified not strangled if I remember that right "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think there is a knack to this. Somethings sound strange when explained in the cold light of day. But during the act I love a lot of aspects of being smothered, whether that's with tits, pussy, a hand over the mouth and throat. There's an element of violence to a lot of sex but there's a playful dimension. I often find when I'm with a girl who likes a bit of rough play that I get berated for actually slapping a bit too lightly etc. I eer on the side of caution when in fact there are plenty of ladies that do want it as rough as possible. Every woman is different though, so every liason is unique with different limits each time.

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By *orethanenough73Man
over a year ago

City centre

Only tried this a wee while ago. Seemed odd when she asked me.

Feck sake she went wild when I did. Had to try it myself & it is a huge turn on for both parties.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Only tried this a wee while ago. Seemed odd when she asked me.

Feck sake she went wild when I did. Had to try it myself & it is a huge turn on for both parties.

Wouldn't it be difficult riding her and trying to choke yourself at the same time though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought it was weird and a bit extreme, until I try it. The girl I try it with went nuts for it. Started off with a gently grab of the neck when kissing her then got tighter as I fingered her until she was screaming for me to choke her as I fucked her. We both loved it. We got lost in the moment and was so good once we both came! I'm getting hard thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so enjoyable doing it and also getting it done to me .

Great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neve been asked to choke, but def hard spanking and hair pulling, ive heard some even like plastic bags over heads affixation etc.. whats the weirdest thing ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a possession action. It's me claiming my wife.

Just be very very careful. The idea behind asphyxiation play I'd to deprive oxygen to the brain for a short period of time. You shouldn't actually block the airway however. The carotid artery is on the side of the neck. You can place your hand on her neck, apply a little pressure on the throat but constrict the artery and hey presto, asphyxiation play without getting anyone dead

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By *orethanenough73Man
over a year ago

City centre

"Only tried this a wee while ago. Seemed odd when she asked me.

Feck sake she went wild when I did. Had to try it myself & it is a huge turn on for both parties.

Wouldn't it be difficult riding her and trying to choke yourself at the same time though?

Aye you could say that. Just as well she has hands & used them on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this and the amount of ladies I've come across that are into it too has been pleasantly surprising.

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over a year ago

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