FabSwingers.com forum: Blindfolds & bed restraints

By *lowlearner OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Well ladies and gents, what are your thoughts? Too personal/intimate for a fun meet or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them, but it's necessary for me to have a high level of trust in the play partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person I trust enough for that.

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By *lowlearner OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Love them, but it's necessary for me to have a high level of trust in the play partner "

Blindfolds are very sensual and yes restraints require a trust in the play partner, it's an ultimate power exchange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely seems to turn the recipient on a lot more....

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By *lowlearner OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Definitely seems to turn the recipient on a lot more.... "

Which is the bigger turn on, being blindfolded and/or restrained or to be the person blindfolding or restraining??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person being restrained... Seems to heighten their sexual enjoyment more

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I keep them in my playbag in the back of the jeep.

Just love to slip a sexy female into them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person being restrained... Seems to heighten their sexual enjoyment more"

I'm not sure thats true - the one doing it likes the power. That can be a turn on in itself

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

All comes down to trust and only with one I'd let use on me.

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By *rownrocketMan
over a year ago

Cork

That's right

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

By using a blindfold and hand and leg restraints you are removing control of 2 senses (sight and touch) it therefore increases the sensual pleasure across the board and makes the mind drift. After all the mind is the most erotic organ and it's sensuality if caressed properly can release the bodies passion 10 fold. As for the earlier comment whether someone thinks it's a control thing for the person doing the tieing up as opposed to the person being tied up... IMHO if the person being tied up doesn't give permission and u agree a safe word then it won't happen. So in a sense they are the ones who are in control. Francis.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Depends who gets restraint.

Certainly not material for a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pack them.

Sometimes they get used when on a meet, sometimes they don't and sometimes I get to use the restraints

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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We have never been into bdsm so to speak but we do use wrist and ankle straps. Two ways of looking at this, with a stranger you of course need a safe word and also to be vocal about what can be done during play. Restraints don't mean you have to get to the point of pain and hating it. In the most intense sub/Dom roleplay you should always remain equals.i also believe if you know you partner well enough you shouldn't need a safe word. Tuning into what the body says will often serve you better than what the mouth might blurt out when it's already to late. Half the fun is learning to read those signs

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