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Occasional players or rampant deviants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being relative neebies, we consider ourselves occasional players as opposed to rampant deviants. We accept every one as they are but we have seen some profiles saying that they are not hardcore swingers. Is being a hardcore swinger a bad thing???????? And where exactly is the line from crossing from one to the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all that can be agreed upon is that there is a line. In some sand somewhere. But it keeps moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Succubus

We'll I don't know if it is a bad thing going but I think a lot of verifications might scare some people off. Think newbies ano maybe the fear they are meeting a walking std.

Still I see plenty of profiles pop up for a few weeks, dissappear and the reappear under a new name. Maybe they are the real hard-core ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, an interesting phrase, one has to wonder how those using it quantify it, and what it says about their real attitude to having multiple sex partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they prefer soft swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be an occasional deviant instead OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooooooo basically what I'm getting from this is that it is fine to be the occasional rampant deviant so long as you don't cross that line that we all agree exists but no one can quite say where but if we could say where it is it would probably move as soon as we defined it. It all makes sense now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point. Who exactly are the sex police and why do they get to quantify it. Is it really multiple sex partners though. To us, when we play we generally consider the others as sex toys with a heart beat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair point. Who exactly are the sex police and why do they get to quantify it. Is it really multiple sex partners though. To us, when we play we generally consider the others as sex toys with a heart beat."

Lol! That's one way to look at it I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" To us, when we play we generally consider the others as sex toys with a heart beat."

I am okay with this.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

what actually makes a hardened swinger is it length of time swinging?

how many meets?

things they get up to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what actually makes a hardened swinger is it length of time swinging?

how many meets?

things they get up to?

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You're definitely a rampant deviant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People should get some sort of badge like they have in macdonalds. With one glance we could tell what ye are into and how hardcore ye are. It would make things so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should get some sort of badge like they have in macdonalds. With one glance we could tell what ye are into and how hardcore ye are. It would make things so much easier."

Feck badges, I want some medals!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People should get some sort of badge like they have in macdonalds. With one glance we could tell what ye are into and how hardcore ye are. It would make things so much easier.

Feck badges, I want some medals!"

mao. Touché. "For valour above and beyond" instead of the Purple Heart would could call it the purple knob. Could be on to something here.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"what actually makes a hardened swinger is it length of time swinging?

how many meets?

things they get up to?

You're definitely a rampant deviant "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what actually makes a hardened swinger is it length of time swinging?

how many meets?

things they get up to?

You're definitely a rampant deviant

"

Haha the original one

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"what actually makes a hardened swinger is it length of time swinging?

how many meets?

things they get up to?

You're definitely a rampant deviant

Haha the original one "

jesus will you stop im not that bad you'll end up scaring away potential meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should get some sort of badge like they have in macdonalds. With one glance we could tell what ye are into and how hardcore ye are. It would make things so much easier.

Feck badges, I want some medals!

mao. Touché. "For valour above and beyond" instead of the Purple Heart would could call it the purple knob. Could be on to something here."

The Purple Nob with pearl droplet cluster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should get some sort of badge like they have in macdonalds. With one glance we could tell what ye are into and how hardcore ye are. It would make things so much easier.

Feck badges, I want some medals!

mao. Touché. "For valour above and beyond" instead of the Purple Heart would could call it the purple knob. Could be on to something here."

What about a loyalty program? Pmsl

L

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

The Purple Nob with pearl droplet cluster? "

lmao. well in that case we are a double winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The Purple Nob with pearl droplet cluster?

lmao. well in that case we are a double winner "

Stripes will be worn with pride...

*bends crop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll show you my battle scars if you show me yours.

* Breaks crop*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Being relative neebies, we consider ourselves occasional players as opposed to rampant deviants. We accept every one as they are but we have seen some profiles saying that they are not hardcore swingers. Is being a hardcore swinger a bad thing???????? And where exactly is the line from crossing from one to the other."

You know you are a hardcore deviant when you go for your quarterly std checkup and realise you have to get in touch with over 100 other swingers because the results are bad ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And there we have a winner. We now know where the line is. Good man/woman.

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