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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating "

Yes indeed I have. It can be very frustrating and you can be quick to judge. It might just be the way they are over text. Some just dont like expressing themselves via that medium.

I met a couple at an event recently and they were the most down to earth and chatty people ive ever met. But via pm they're always very short and sweet. That's just how they roll.

It can be annoying but you just gotta develop as much patience as you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating

Yes indeed I have. It can be very frustrating and you can be quick to judge. It might just be the way they are over text. Some just dont like expressing themselves via that medium.

I met a couple at an event recently and they were the most down to earth and chatty people ive ever met. But via pm they're always very short and sweet. That's just how they roll.

It can be annoying but you just gotta develop as much patience as you can. "
thats so very true also.willow doesnt like the textin and mailing so leaves it up to me.however in a face to face shes more at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to leave it to Emma. Text can be interrupted wrongly all the time. In person ya can't shut me up ....lol much to Emma's discontent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to leave it to Emma. Text can be interrupted wrongly all the time. In person ya can't shut me up ....lol much to Emma's discontent "
lol.get that . maybe others should do that also.however is the most comfortable on the keyboard let them at it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to leave it to Emma. Text can be interrupted wrongly all the time. In person ya can't shut me up ....lol much to Emma's discontent lol.get that . maybe others should do that also.however is the most comfortable on the keyboard let them at it. "
whoever

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway


"Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating "

This drives me bananas, its what I refer to as the fab haiku

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of this ,short and sweet and to the point .Im much better at chatting face to face

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I'm guilty of this ,short and sweet and to the point .Im much better at chatting face to face "

I just keep staring at ur boobies have u a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guilty of this ,short and sweet and to the point .Im much better at chatting face to face

I just keep staring at ur boobies have u a face "

Behave Cj !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always easier to talk in person and sometimes messages can be read in the wrong way but yes tennis match messaging can be frustrating

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I'm guilty of this ,short and sweet and to the point .Im much better at chatting face to face

I just keep staring at ur boobies have u a face

Behave Cj !"

Do I have to I am in a naughty mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find sometimes when mailing others its like pulling teeth . Short answers back. No information and so on.and this is from people who have initiated the chat first.very frustrating "

This is about 90% of the people I've encountered here. 1 line answers later that day if not the day after. Why mail someone if that's the best you can manage?!

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Yeah I've encountered this a bit aswell. My profile says if the conversation feels like it has to be dragged then we probably wouldn't have a great encounter and I stick by this.

When all I get is repeatedly short line replies with nothing to work with from a woman my instinct tells me she's probably one or more of four things:

1: Not that interested in me(which is fine).

2: Not very interesting herself.

3: Too shy.

4: Too full of herself to put in at least some effort. I have no problem playing the game and doing the chasing but it only goes so far.

Each to their own and all that but these are traits that just aren't for me personally so I lose interest very quickly and let the conversation die off.

Jesus I didn't realize I was so picky haha.

There are plenty on here though that are good craic and can throw a bit of banter out there. Those are the ones I enjoy chatting to and keep my interests.

Y'all know who ye are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it textibg isn't the best form of communication. Things frequently get lost in translation ..misconstrued ..misunderstood.

I hate when a guy is texting essays to me ..he is SO hot its nuclear ..blah blah blah..then like a thief in the night they're gone OR it comes to the meet and they run for the hills in fear!

We can all be very different people when texting..just saying .

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