FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a meet as a single male help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure how to get a meet no interest from people that do chat a I'm ignored completely anyone else have this problem ??

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By *lumber4FunMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Yes, have the same problem, this site can be a waste of time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just thought their was a higher percentage of males to female ratio are I'm hope that's wot it's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just thought their was a higher percentage of males to female ratio are I'm hope that's wot it's lol"

Single men are by far the majority on here

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Well lads, if it helps, you can think of Fab as just one big night club:

- You can be cheeky and charming, but as long as you don't whip out your cock as an intro with "wanna fuck?" you'll be further on than most guys here.

- Even a bit of funny banter with a sexy woman here can be good craic and hone your social skills in "the real world" Yes, women crave sex as much as men (Fact:took me a while to suss that)

- Now, we all want great sex but you need to break it down to a chat... leading to coffee... leading to a meet... leading to action

Unlike some knuckle-dragging troglodytes you guys both seem to have game so use your charm and even though "there's always something riding on it" don't take it too seriously. So HAVE FUN!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice one bro good advice ! I'm always pleasant and respectful although fake profiles don't help !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice one bro good advice ! I'm always pleasant and respectful although fake profiles don't help !"

How don't they help? They are never gonna meet - that ups your chances

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ur right in a way bro ! I think trust has alot to do with meeting to and the fakes have even put myself off abit

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Try to get to a meet and greet thats one way of expanding your options.

I find im too old,too young not tattooed dont have a beard.etc etc

Then you mail someone they just delete your mail with no reply its so annoying

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Nice one bro good advice ! I'm always pleasant and respectful although fake profiles don't help !"

Spin that around fella.

.. The fakes, disrespectful folks ...do help..

It makes the good folk stand out, you alone are in charge of what folk think of you..

others have no bearing on my behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice one bro good advice ! I'm always pleasant and respectful although fake profiles don't help !

Spin that around fella.

.. The fakes, disrespectful folks ...do help..

It makes the good folk stand out, you alone are in charge of what folk think of you..

others have no bearing on my behaviour"

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

It's just patience buddy, and don't get down or take it personally if nothing is happening.

It takes a bit of time and effort to allow your personality to come out on here.

It's been very slow for me since I joined but I'm ok with that but after some time and participation on the forums I seem to be getting on alright at the moment. I have some chats going on with the possibility of a meet or two down the line (at least I hope anyway haha)and have been invited to a social next week. I'm in no rush to be honest. It will happen when it happens.

It would be a good idea though if you participated in some of the discussions on the forum as it will show your personality and other members will get a better idea of who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be funny. Works everytime

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"Yes, have the same problem, this site can be a waste of time!"

If you feel you're wasting your time here you may want to try any number of escort services.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ur right in a way bro ! I think trust has alot to do with meeting to and the fakes have even put myself off abit "

Maybe don't call everyone bro, especially women

Be polite

Be patient

Have fun and relax, in chat and the forums

Go to a meet and greet

Oh and did I mention, be patient!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Be yourself ignore the haters join in on the forums. Get yourself out there in that respect. You're gona get the single guy cold shoulder but evolve your profile as you go. Have fun dude and don't let others bring you down. Now go get ya some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how to get a meet no interest from people that do chat a I'm ignored completely anyone else have this problem ??"

You've a really nice profile,everything I look for actually, shame about the distance.

But my advice would be persistent while being patient. Good banter can be great foreplay.

Wish you the best of luck.

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x"

Take her up on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x"

*men everywhere "The lucky..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/10/16 19:10:56]"

Her choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x"

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

Your not on your own there lol .. Broken glass and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be funny. Works everytime"

totally agree!!

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By *layful40Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Haven't had one yet, despite a few tries, but it happens when it happens

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Need someone to hand around the biscuits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile's great OP, I'd definitely be interested if you messaged. As others said, just give it time, and don't take it personally!

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Need someone to hand around the biscuits?

Always was a sucker for your Hobnobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Ooooh, room for another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how to get a meet no interest from people that do chat a I'm ignored completely anyone else have this problem ??"
all the time it's a pain in the ass. But hang in there it will happen

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Ooooh, room for another?

ALWAYS room for another

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Need someone to hand around the biscuits?

Always was a sucker for your Hobnobs

My hobnobs have achieved legendary status indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Ooooh, room for another?

ALWAYS room for another

Awesome, I'll bring cake!

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By *utieAndBootyCouple
over a year ago

SoCal

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Ooooh, room for another?

ALWAYS room for another

Awesome, I'll bring cake!

Aww and here we just got back from a weekend trip in Belfast! That's a party we'd drive back up for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much everyone for the advice!! sorry I'm late too My op!! Im a big fan of tea and biscuits . Iv only found the forums after being on fab a few months lol so I'll definitely be posting more and getting involved with all u like minded folk have a good day lady's and gents x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about patiances I was on this for ages only getting my second meet. Give it time fab will deliver ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how to get a meet no interest from people that do chat a I'm ignored completely anyone else have this problem ??"

Yep.ive chatted to a few but majority ignore mails. Been not verified myself but anyone else dosent help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same my gf gets the meets but nothing for Me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the same my gf gets the meets but nothing for Me lol "

Meet the OP

Have a beer and veri him as genuine. You're close to one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the same my gf gets the meets but nothing for Me lol "

Strange? Nice pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im the same my gf gets the meets but nothing for Me lol

Strange? Nice pics."

Yes they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks i have been to parties and couple meets but when we play single i get nothing but gf could get 10 meets easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drop me a mail and I'll meet you for coffee and verify that you're genuine x

God I nearly wish I needed a veri

I was thinking the same

'mon over girls, kettle's boiled

Glass of water will be grand

How are ye keeping !!!!!

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