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"Report the profile, block it and press on regardless. Keyboards Bullies only win if you let them." Very true, he's been well and truely blocked. | |||
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"Report the profile, block it and press on regardless. Keyboards Bullies only win if you let them. Very true, he's been well and truely blocked. " And reported  | |||
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"Have to be honest and own up to the fact that he did travel to meet us one night. Unfortunately when he got here Mrs wasn't into him, which in my eyes is fair enough. Apologies were exchanged and he left, this was the first and last time we've ever had to do that. " Fair play and no, he still doesn't have the right. He'd have got a veri wouldn't he? | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin " And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking | |||
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"Have to be honest and own up to the fact that he did travel to meet us one night. Unfortunately when he got here Mrs wasn't into him, which in my eyes is fair enough. Apologies were exchanged and he left, this was the first and last time we've ever had to do that. " Hope you guys are ok. Report profile. Dont stand up to any threats | |||
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"Have to be honest and own up to the fact that he did travel to meet us one night. Unfortunately when he got here Mrs wasn't into him, which in my eyes is fair enough. Apologies were exchanged and he left, this was the first and last time we've ever had to do that. " If both party doesn't like each other then move on. I personally respect woman who said to me that I am not her type. Anyway, as the others fabbers had advised you just press the block button that why is there for. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking" Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception | |||
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"Just been threatened by a verified male about outting us as swingers in our home town, some people have nothing better to do "Tell him your gonna out him in his hometown. He deserves it for his pathetic behaviour. Don't let him ruin things for you guys. | |||
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"Have to be honest and own up to the fact that he did travel to meet us one night. Unfortunately when he got here Mrs wasn't into him, which in my eyes is fair enough. Apologies were exchanged and he left, this was the first and last time we've ever had to do that. " No pressure to play on anyone and never an excuse to resort to this behavior! Hurt or rejected... outing someone is nasty childish behavior and what you have handled it is right. Sorry to hear that you guy's went through this. Don't let it halt your fabbing. A lot of great people out there waiting for a chance | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception " So you kind of identify with him. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception " Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception So you kind of identify with him. " I guess you could say that. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception So you kind of identify with him. I guess you could say that. " Now you know why you find it so hard here... | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no." Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception So you kind of identify with him. I guess you could say that. Now you know why you find it so hard here..." Yup. Iam well aware ha | |||
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"No one likes rejection , but that's when ya see the true person. We ve all got the " thanks but no thanks" response. That's when ya pull up your big boy pants , dust yourself off and go again . This is going to sound harsh but , most guys on here will fuck anyone , there just to cheep to pay for a hooker and want it for free. " What gets me is that they think we can't see that! | |||
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"No one likes rejection , but that's when ya see the true person. We ve all got the " thanks but no thanks" response. That's when ya pull up your big boy pants , dust yourself off and go again . This is going to sound harsh but , most guys on here will fuck anyone , there just to cheep to pay for a hooker and want it for free. What gets me is that they think we can't see that!" Sure don't ya know all women on here are desperate and mad for a jump off anything . | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected " You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself " Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction " Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong...." Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there   | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there "I'm not arguing. I'm trying to understand your thinking on this. Maybe my way of thinking is wrong. So I'm asking you to explain your way....maybe I'll learn something. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there
I'm not arguing. I'm trying to understand your thinking on this.
Maybe my way of thinking is wrong.
So I'm asking you to explain your way....maybe I'll learn something. "Your sarcasm amuses me. I simply understand that when ppl experience certain emotions, they are capable of reacting / behaving out of character and it doesn't define who they are as a person. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there
I'm not arguing. I'm trying to understand your thinking on this.
Maybe my way of thinking is wrong.
So I'm asking you to explain your way....maybe I'll learn something.
Your sarcasm amuses me. I simply understand that when ppl experience certain emotions, they are capable of reacting / behaving out of character and it doesn't define who they are as a person. "It does define who they are. I often feel like doing things but I don't because it would be the wrong thing to do. Doing something wrong defines who you are the same as doing something right defines who you are. Everybody should strive to do the right thing. Be the bigger person and walk away from doing the wrong thing. Just my opinion and I respect yours too. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there
I'm not arguing. I'm trying to understand your thinking on this.
Maybe my way of thinking is wrong.
So I'm asking you to explain your way....maybe I'll learn something.
Your sarcasm amuses me. I simply understand that when ppl experience certain emotions, they are capable of reacting / behaving out of character and it doesn't define who they are as a person.
It does define who they are.
I often feel like doing things but I don't because it would be the wrong thing to do.
Doing something wrong defines who you are the same as doing something right defines who you are.
Everybody should strive to do the right thing. Be the bigger person and walk away from doing the wrong thing.
Just my opinion and I respect yours too. "So you never in your life did the wrong thing? And if you did... It defined you? Don't be ridiculous ha we'll agree to disagree. Not everyone has the same coping skills. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Nothing justifies his behaviour. He should respect the ladies choice to say no. Understanding someone's behavior is not justifying it. Of course her decision should be respected You say her decision should be respected but you understand his decision not to respect it....your contradicting yourself Because your thinking in black and white. You think there has to be a right and a wrong. It's possible to understand both sides. It's kinda like somebody hitting you so you hit them back. Just because they hit you doesn't mean you had to hit them back or react at all but id understand the reaction Hitting somebody back would be defending yourself....he had nothing to defend. So I'm thinking in black and white like most people.....you explain the other colours and where my thinking is going wrong.... Just because you don't understand my point of view doesn't mean you have to be argumentative. Your missing the point entirely. I understand his reaction. You don't. Let's leave it there
I'm not arguing. I'm trying to understand your thinking on this.
Maybe my way of thinking is wrong.
So I'm asking you to explain your way....maybe I'll learn something.
Your sarcasm amuses me. I simply understand that when ppl experience certain emotions, they are capable of reacting / behaving out of character and it doesn't define who they are as a person.
It does define who they are.
I often feel like doing things but I don't because it would be the wrong thing to do.
Doing something wrong defines who you are the same as doing something right defines who you are.
Everybody should strive to do the right thing. Be the bigger person and walk away from doing the wrong thing.
Just my opinion and I respect yours too.
So you never in your life did the wrong thing? And if you did... It defined you? Don't be ridiculous ha we'll agree to disagree. Not everyone has the same coping skills. "I would never do the wrong thing in this situation. As I said we should always STRIVE to do the right thing. And it's OK to agree to disagree. We're all different | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception So you kind of identify with him. I guess you could say that. " If you haven't got the maturity to accept rejection gracefully (not even talking about turning into a vindictive stalker), then you don't belong on an adult site. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin " What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here" Well said Miss Lou... | |||
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"Op, it's awful being confronted with a threat like this and the guys behaviour is appalling. However learn from here and tighten up your selection process: ie just state the region you live not your town/village, use fab names and meet on neutral ground. Like that your identity is less exposed to attacks. " | |||
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"Op, it's awful being confronted with a threat like this and the guys behaviour is appalling. However learn from here and tighten up your selection process: ie just state the region you live not your town/village, use fab names and meet on neutral ground. Like that your identity is less exposed to attacks. " ^^This,we had a scare like this early in our fab journey ,doesn't half make you extra cautious . | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception So you kind of identify with him. I guess you could say that. If you haven't got the maturity to accept rejection gracefully (not even talking about turning into a vindictive stalker), then you don't belong on an adult site." This
Never thought about the dual meaning of adult before, great point. Yes, it's an adult site for sexual experiences but you should be an adult & all growded up to come play.  haha. Pram, toys, thrown? | |||
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"Just been threatened by a verified male about outting us as swingers in our home town, some people have nothing better to do "I don't see how anyone could possibly "out" you as a swinger without implicating something about themselves. How could they possibly know that for sure ? Even if they went ahead and told, I'm sure most people would second-guess him or just pass him off as a rumour-mongerer and shit-stirrer. Don't mind him, he just sounds like a total saddo. | |||
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"Just asking Did you not swap pics before hand to check if the lady are into him. I prefer seeing the pic first.i know some people got pic out dated but Skype would have been an option. " Who did this used to be? | |||
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"Just asking Did you not swap pics before hand to check if the lady are into him. I prefer seeing the pic first.i know some people got pic out dated but Skype would have been an option. Who did this used to be?" The charming gentleboy who needs BBW/BWW 24/7, he left early doors...  | |||
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"Just asking Did you not swap pics before hand to check if the lady are into him. I prefer seeing the pic first.i know some people got pic out dated but Skype would have been an option. Who did this used to be? The charming gentleboy who needs BBW/BWW 24/7, he left early doors... "What a great start to the day  | |||
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"Just asking Did you not swap pics before hand to check if the lady are into him. I prefer seeing the pic first.i know some people got pic out dated but Skype would have been an option. Who did this used to be? The charming gentleboy who needs BBW/BWW 24/7, he left early doors...
What a great start to the day "Oh you should check that thread out from 0300, just what you want on a Friday. | |||
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"Just asking Did you not swap pics before hand to check if the lady are into him. I prefer seeing the pic first.i know some people got pic out dated but Skype would have been an option. Who did this used to be? The charming gentleboy who needs BBW/BWW 24/7, he left early doors...
What a great start to the day
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here" Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. " Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? " Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? " Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. " Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception "  Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys"In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. " Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things. "Part of being an adult is understanding that you may be free to act as you wish, but that you also bear the responsibility for the consequences of those actions. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site." Don't be so stupid. Admin decide who's out of line and perhaps who deserves a ban. They don't dictate to who's entitled to be here. Some of you here clearly love drama. Look at the shit your spewing over one guy saying he understands another guys reaction. Never said the guy was right nor the op wrong but merely just understood how he would have felt. And here some of you are with your backs up and ur claws out. And ye talk about others being egotistical?? Get down off your high horses. Not everyone is perfect and behaves flawlessly like you guys. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things.
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site. Don't be so stupid. Admin decide who's out of line and perhaps who deserves a ban. They don't dictate to who's entitled to be here. Some of you here clearly love drama. Look at the shit your spewing over one guy saying he understands another guys reaction. Never said the guy was right nor the op wrong but merely just understood how he would have felt. And here some of you are with your backs up and ur claws out. And ye talk about others being egotistical?? Get down off your high horses. Not everyone is perfect and behaves flawlessly like you guys. " Not sure which planet you come from, but threatening people who turn you down for sex is outside the bounds of civilised behaviour for most. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things.
Part of being an adult is understanding that you may be free to act as you wish, but that you also bear the responsibility for the consequences of those actions."Part of being an adult is understanding.... You could have left it at that. Nobody said the guy shouldn't take responsibility. Why do you feel you have to jump to conclusions that iam saying things that i never even said? It's pathetic. Can you not win an argument without creating your own version of what was said? As a matter of fact. Given that ur an adult and you behave flawlessly. Aren't you not too mature enough to ignore opinions that don't coincide with your beliefs | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things.
Part of being an adult is understanding that you may be free to act as you wish, but that you also bear the responsibility for the consequences of those actions.
Part of being an adult is understanding.... You could have left it at that. Nobody said the guy shouldn't take responsibility. Why do you feel you have to jump to conclusions that iam saying things that i never even said? It's pathetic. Can you not win an argument without creating your own version of what was said? As a matter of fact. Given that ur an adult and you behave flawlessly. Aren't you not too mature enough to ignore opinions that don't coincide with your beliefs "No,I'm mature enough to debate the issue without resorting to insults. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site. Don't be so stupid. Admin decide who's out of line and perhaps who deserves a ban. They don't dictate to who's entitled to be here. Some of you here clearly love drama. Look at the shit your spewing over one guy saying he understands another guys reaction. Never said the guy was right nor the op wrong but merely just understood how he would have felt. And here some of you are with your backs up and ur claws out. And ye talk about others being egotistical?? Get down off your high horses. Not everyone is perfect and behaves flawlessly like you guys. Not sure which planet you come from, but threatening people who turn you down for sex is outside the bounds of civilised behaviour for most." Where did i say threatening ppl was acceptable? In fact, where do i even mention the guy was right to do what he did???? Don't spew your crap anymore. Just answer that pls. Your actually pathetic. Talking about how to be the perfect adult almost and here you are a grown fuckin adult arguing in a fuckin swingers forum. Get a life | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site. Don't be so stupid. Admin decide who's out of line and perhaps who deserves a ban. They don't dictate to who's entitled to be here. Some of you here clearly love drama. Look at the shit your spewing over one guy saying he understands another guys reaction. Never said the guy was right nor the op wrong but merely just understood how he would have felt. And here some of you are with your backs up and ur claws out. And ye talk about others being egotistical?? Get down off your high horses. Not everyone is perfect and behaves flawlessly like you guys. Not sure which planet you come from, but threatening people who turn you down for sex is outside the bounds of civilised behaviour for most. Where did i say threatening ppl was acceptable? In fact, where do i even mention the guy was right to do what he did???? Don't spew your crap anymore. Just answer that pls. Your actually pathetic. Talking about how to be the perfect adult almost and here you are a grown fuckin adult arguing in a fuckin swingers forum. Get a life " Perfect example of what I just referred to. How predictable. | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception " Always more than 1 side to every story .. Me personally I'd have reacted with a picture of him in his home town WARNING - HAVE YOU SEEN THIS MAN? Do not approach him ...just point and laugh he's only got a little pecker | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things.
Part of being an adult is understanding that you may be free to act as you wish, but that you also bear the responsibility for the consequences of those actions.
Part of being an adult is understanding.... You could have left it at that. Nobody said the guy shouldn't take responsibility. Why do you feel you have to jump to conclusions that iam saying things that i never even said? It's pathetic. Can you not win an argument without creating your own version of what was said? As a matter of fact. Given that ur an adult and you behave flawlessly. Aren't you not too mature enough to ignore opinions that don't coincide with your beliefs
No,I'm mature enough to debate the issue without resorting to insults. "Well when you make shit up. Try and dictate to me what i mean and don't mean and try put words in my mouth. Iam insulted. I understand the guy feeling hurt n angry. I don't condone his reaction. Now get over it and move on. Since when do adults love causing drama? Some of you should look in the mirror before you judge others. Your more egotistical then you realize | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin What was she supposed to do....take one for the team to save his feelings? I did that once when I started on here years ago - not a nice feeling. If he can't take rejection he needs to rethink why he's here Nobody is saying she did anything wrong. Iam simply saying i understand his hurt. This is the problem with these forums. Ppl here read/listen to reply instead of listening to understand. Understanding someone's hurt, frustration etc does not justify there actions. It's understanding that some ppl aren't as tough mentally as others, some ppl perhaps are more sensitive to rejection for various reasons and ultimately some ppl don't have the coping skills that others have. It's not their fault. Ye can argue someone like that should not be here but they are entitled to be here just as much as you or me. Right, so other users should just tolerate threatening and abusive behaviour? Have you read what i said at all? Where do i say that users should tolerate that? Nobody is "entitled" to anything,participation on the site is subject to being able to behave in an appropriate manner with others, anyone incapable of doing so has no business here. Wether or not someone has business being here is for them to decide not you. Actually, no, it's for the site admin,which is why they ask people to report those who are abusive to other users. You should perhaps familiarise yourself with the terms of the site. Don't be so stupid. Admin decide who's out of line and perhaps who deserves a ban. They don't dictate to who's entitled to be here. Some of you here clearly love drama. Look at the shit your spewing over one guy saying he understands another guys reaction. Never said the guy was right nor the op wrong but merely just understood how he would have felt. And here some of you are with your backs up and ur claws out. And ye talk about others being egotistical?? Get down off your high horses. Not everyone is perfect and behaves flawlessly like you guys. Not sure which planet you come from, but threatening people who turn you down for sex is outside the bounds of civilised behaviour for most. Where did i say threatening ppl was acceptable? In fact, where do i even mention the guy was right to do what he did???? Don't spew your crap anymore. Just answer that pls. Your actually pathetic. Talking about how to be the perfect adult almost and here you are a grown fuckin adult arguing in a fuckin swingers forum. Get a life " Look who's talking, jackass People in glass houses n all  | |||
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin And if an unsatisfactory meet followed by a threat to shame you are the only 2 interactions you've had with this person what exactly would lead you to think he's "a decent guy"? #justasking Iam not saying he is. Iam just saying that generally speaking i could understand a guy feeling hurt over that situation. The reaction may not be mature but it's understandable because it's coming from a place of hurt etc I just always try and see it both ways. There's rarely right or wrong. Everything is speculation and perception Hurt???? me bollix, his ego got a bruising. Him, you, me, whoever, should be a man and as a man should be big enough to take it on the chin. Ohhhhhhh she said no, big deal. Now what you gonna do, have a little cry, pull a strop and throw your toys out of the pram. Grow the fuck up and dry your eyes, seriously, any guy who acts like that, excuse the language, is a little bitch, no decent guy should, would, or could ever act that way. Whats the big problem, if a girl on here or in civilian life says "you know what, I'm just not that into you, sorry" Is that really that bad, C'mon to fuck lads. You are better than that, there is no excuse for acting aggressively, rudely or in a threatening manner to women. I absolutely deplore that kind of behavior, and will never condone it.
He's just a bully OP, ignore him, tell your friends on here who he is, word will get around what kind of guy he really is, pretty sharpish, and I guarantee you, he won't get too many more veris.
Chin up guys
In an ideal world mate. The fact is not everyone is as mentally tough as you are or has the coping skills you have. Trying to dictate how others should behave just because you have the skills to behave that way is your own ego speaking. The guy is apparently well verified so he must be a decent enough guy. For you to think you know the guys feelings is again your ego talking. Wether it's warranted or not. The guy clearly felt hurt for him to react the way he did. Is it right or even fair on the op. No probably not but it's not understandable imo at least. You can't expect others to behave, and think a certain way just because it coincides with how you would do things.
Part of being an adult is understanding that you may be free to act as you wish, but that you also bear the responsibility for the consequences of those actions.
Part of being an adult is understanding.... You could have left it at that. Nobody said the guy shouldn't take responsibility. Why do you feel you have to jump to conclusions that iam saying things that i never even said? It's pathetic. Can you not win an argument without creating your own version of what was said? As a matter of fact. Given that ur an adult and you behave flawlessly. Aren't you not too mature enough to ignore opinions that don't coincide with your beliefs
No,I'm mature enough to debate the issue without resorting to insults.
Well when you make shit up. Try and dictate to me what i mean and don't mean and try put words in my mouth. Iam insulted. I understand the guy feeling hurt n angry. I don't condone his reaction. Now get over it and move on. Since when do adults love causing drama? Some of you should look in the mirror before you judge others. Your more egotistical then you realize "You're the one here who just can't let it go. I'm done. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. " I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously." Have you ever reacted inappropriately to a woman? Ever hurt a woman with words? Ever in your life? | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. " Change the channel hun.... I get your point that the guy was reactive in the moment because he was hurt but your point of understanding his behavior is dead in the water. No excuse for that level of nasty. Yes people get hurt by rejection... that shit Sting's but how you handleyourself beyond that speaks volumesabout youas a person. Come on are you actually saying you would threaten to out someone if they turned you down. I don't think you are but hey it happensas this post proves. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. Change the channel hun.... I get your point that the guy was reactive in the moment because he was hurt but your point of understanding his behavior is dead in the water. No excuse for that level of nasty. Yes people get hurt by rejection... that shit Sting's but how you handleyourself beyond that speaks volumesabout youas a person. Come on are you actually saying you would threaten to out someone if they turned you down. I don't think you are but hey it happensas this post proves. " At least you made an effort to understand where i was coming from. Your right. The actual behavior whilst the emotions behind it are understandable, the reaction itself is not acceptable. I wouldn't be quick to judge however as most are here. Some ppl do not know how to cope with rejection. The vast majority of ppl don't imo. It's incredibly hard not to be bothered by it imo but others may feel it's easy and credit to them but it's not easy for most ppl. What i don't like, is ppl making out it defines the person. Nobodies perfect. Good guys do wrong. Good guys mess up and good guys can sometimes be assholes. Some ppl here think they are perfect | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously. Have you ever reacted inappropriately to a woman? Ever hurt a woman with words? Ever in your life? NO" You deserve a medal. What a hero | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously. Have you ever reacted inappropriately to a woman? Ever hurt a woman with words? Ever in your life? NO You deserve a medal. What a hero "
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He wasn't trying to hurt their feelings. He was trying to ruin their lives....all because she didn't fancy him.
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. Change the channel hun.... I get your point that the guy was reactive in the moment because he was hurt but your point of understanding his behavior is dead in the water. No excuse for that level of nasty. Yes people get hurt by rejection... that shit Sting's but how you handleyourself beyond that speaks volumesabout youas a person. Come on are you actually saying you would threaten to out someone if they turned you down. I don't think you are but hey it happensas this post proves. At least you made an effort to understand where i was coming from. Your right. The actual behavior whilst the emotions behind it are understandable, the reaction itself is not acceptable. I wouldn't be quick to judge however as most are here. Some ppl do not know how to cope with rejection. The vast majority of ppl don't imo. It's incredibly hard not to be bothered by it imo but others may feel it's easy and credit to them but it's not easy for most ppl. What i don't like, is ppl making out it defines the person. Nobodies perfect. Good guys do wrong. Good guys mess up and good guys can sometimes be assholes. Some ppl here think they are perfect " Ok fair point's if you weren't slamming other's opinions...healthy debate is good. That is basically what I said except I did say how you act beyond that point does define you as it's morals behind that emotional outbursts that dictate the action. If someone is hurting because they have been rejected and feeling undermined by that...what is right about hurting the person who rejected them by black mail or threats of outing. Put this couple's shoes on and imagine how that feels... have empathy with understanding for both sides. My mother has a saying...you are right but how you handle it can make you wrong. That is the point here. Am off out. Have a good one folks. | |||
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He wasn't trying to hurt their feelings. He was trying to ruin their lives....all because she didn't fancy him.
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously. Have you ever reacted inappropriately to a woman? Ever hurt a woman with words? Ever in your life? NO You deserve a medal. What a hero
I posted before I had finished.
He wasn't trying to hurt their feelings. He was trying to ruin their lives....all because she didn't fancy him.
If you got rejected by a woman in a nightclub do you set out to ruin her and get revenge???
You clearly have the assumption that i feel the op deserved to be threatened. Why do you think that? "Probably because you admitted identifying with the man who threatened the couple. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I was raised to respect people for doing the right thing and avoid those who do the wrong thing. This is where we are different. We weren't raised the same obviously. Have you ever reacted inappropriately to a woman? Ever hurt a woman with words? Ever in your life? NO You deserve a medal. What a hero
I posted before I had finished.
He wasn't trying to hurt their feelings. He was trying to ruin their lives....all because she didn't fancy him.
If you got rejected by a woman in a nightclub do you set out to ruin her and get revenge???
You clearly have the assumption that i feel the op deserved to be threatened. Why do you think that? "I never said that.....answer the question I asked you | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. " I try not to ruin people's lives and have them live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. In this state I'm gonna take the moral high ground cause I try my best to not make people feel like shit. He shouldn't be on a swinging site if he's that sensitive to rejection. Sure who's to say he wouldn't have done the same even if they did have sex? He sounds like a complete douchebag. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I try not to ruin people's lives and have them live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. In this state I'm gonna take the moral high ground cause I try my best to not make people feel like shit. He shouldn't be on a swinging site if he's that sensitive to rejection. Sure who's to say he wouldn't have done the same even if they did have sex? He sounds like a complete douchebag." What's the theme tune to that kids movie frozen?? | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I try not to ruin people's lives and have them live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. In this state I'm gonna take the moral high ground cause I try my best to not make people feel like shit. He shouldn't be on a swinging site if he's that sensitive to rejection. Sure who's to say he wouldn't have done the same even if they did have sex? He sounds like a complete douchebag. What's the theme tune to that kids movie frozen?? "Disney movies ain't just for kids!! | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I try not to ruin people's lives and have them live in a constant state of fear and anxiety. In this state I'm gonna take the moral high ground cause I try my best to not make people feel like shit. He shouldn't be on a swinging site if he's that sensitive to rejection. Sure who's to say he wouldn't have done the same even if they did have sex? He sounds like a complete douchebag. What's the theme tune to that kids movie frozen??
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"I can understand his frustration personally, that's gotta hurt in fairness. Obviously what he said is wrong but it's coming from a place of hurt etc He could well be a decent guy. Just sayin Are you actually being serious with that, or just trying to get a reaction? What don't you understand? I'll try explain it like iam talking to a baby if you like? " No but I'd expect a child to understand what was wrong with the post I replied to. You see, you seem to have the words sussed, you just don't actually understand what they mean. How do you understand his frustration, the only way you could possibly do that is if you too suffer from a massively over exaggerated sense of entitlement. You are trying to display empathy, bravo, but you seem to be missing that you are empathising with a complete narcacistic ballbag. There was no right, there was no entitlement, he had nothing whatsoever to feel hurt by or hard done by. She didn't fancy him, if you were to go around threatening everyone who didn't fancy you, you'd probably be arrested. What exactly is it you think you are empathising with? | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I really don't think fab is for you buddy! " Madame was able to see where i was coming from yet at the same time she got her own point across and left it at that..... Do you know why?? Intelligence. I respect ppl like that not you idiots that essentially hear about the guy doing bad and ye go off on one like your perfect human beings that behave impeccably at all times and oh no id never ever dream of doing bad to a woman. Ye go on like ur saints / hero's. Get over urselfs and wake up. Not everyone is like you. And you don't have to argue with someone just because they're views differ from yours. Be the amazing perfect adult you are and move on and get over it. You don't like my opinion? Boo hoo.... Be a man and get over it. Take your own advice | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I really don't think fab is for you buddy! Iam capable of deciding that for myself dude, thanks your judgment is of incredible value to me "If you don't understand the simple concept of how much people value their anonymity/privacy, which clearly you don't from what you posted, then no you don't. There you go again, you know the words but the meaning escapes you. I'm not judging you, I'm making an observation on what you post. It's not a personal thing at all. | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I really don't think fab is for you buddy! Iam capable of deciding that for myself dude, thanks your judgment is of incredible value to me
If you don't understand the simple concept of how much people value their anonymity/privacy, which clearly you don't from what you posted, then no you don't. There you go again, you know the words but the meaning escapes you. I'm not judging you, I'm making an observation on what you post. It's not a personal thing at all. "What meaning would that be? Enlighten me. Can you pls point me aswell to where i said ppl don't value privacy? Is it the norm here for ppl to make up their own shit? | |||
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"Thanks for the kind replies, he'll not be putting us off this site or the scene. We can fully understand how anyone would be put out and feel like crap when rejected. We did get a face pic before meeting but unfortunately as we all know sometimes these can be old pics, Mrs has, I feel the absolute right to say no at any stage during our meets. Also this guy has only recently rejoined after being away working and this incident happened about 8-9 months ago. Anyway, we've learnt our lesson Happy fabbing everyone xxx"The incident happened months ago, he was then away for a while and has come back and is NOW threatening you? Wow 
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I really don't think fab is for you buddy! Iam capable of deciding that for myself dude, thanks your judgment is of incredible value to me
If you don't understand the simple concept of how much people value their anonymity/privacy, which clearly you don't from what you posted, then no you don't. There you go again, you know the words but the meaning escapes you. I'm not judging you, I'm making an observation on what you post. It's not a personal thing at all.
What meaning would that be? Enlighten me. Can you pls point me aswell to where i said ppl don't value privacy? Is it the norm here for ppl to make up their own shit? "You called it a "mistake", an "over reaction", in other words a sure it was a little faux pas. Threatening someone's privacy here isn't a mistake, it's the lowest of the low. Yet you choose to defend his actions, based on "understanding how he feels"? I'll keep this simple, these are yes no questions. If you meet some one, do you think you are entitled to have sex with them? If they don't give you what you want, is it ok to abuse them? Is it ever ok to threaten someone's privacy on here? 3 questions yes or no? | |||
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"Some of you here are great ppl altogether. Must of never made a mistake in your lives nor ever reacted to something inappropriately. Much easier to take the higher moral ground and judge people then it is to try and understand. Not everyone was raised to be exceptional human beings like you all clearly are. I really don't think fab is for you buddy! Iam capable of deciding that for myself dude, thanks your judgment is of incredible value to me
If you don't understand the simple concept of how much people value their anonymity/privacy, which clearly you don't from what you posted, then no you don't. There you go again, you know the words but the meaning escapes you. I'm not judging you, I'm making an observation on what you post. It's not a personal thing at all.
What meaning would that be? Enlighten me. Can you pls point me aswell to where i said ppl don't value privacy? Is it the norm here for ppl to make up their own shit?
You called it a "mistake", an "over reaction", in other words a sure it was a little faux pas. Threatening someone's privacy here isn't a mistake, it's the lowest of the low. Yet you choose to defend his actions, based on "understanding how he feels"?
I'll keep this simple, these are yes no questions.
If you meet some one, do you think you are entitled to have sex with them?
If they don't give you what you want, is it ok to abuse them?
Is it ever ok to threaten someone's privacy on here?
3 questions yes or no? "Iam sure you can work the answers out on your own like a big boy The subject is dead. Move on | |||
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"As I expected, those three questions mean your original post was bull and as I suspected originally you are just a WUM. " I was going to ask what a WUM was - then I realised
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"As I expected, those three questions mean your original post was bull and as I suspected originally you are just a WUM. " Jesus man you know everything. I don't even say anything and you know what i mean. How do you do it? | |||
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"As I expected, those three questions mean your original post was bull and as I suspected originally you are just a WUM. I was going to ask what a WUM was - then I realised
I'm on the ball today "Gold star | |||
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"As I expected, those three questions mean your original post was bull and as I suspected originally you are just a WUM. I was going to ask what a WUM was - then I realised
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I have the chest to pin it on
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"As I expected, those three questions mean your original post was bull and as I suspected originally you are just a WUM. I was going to ask what a WUM was - then I realised
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