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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Jasus its impossible to even get a lunch time coffee meet. What do i have to do!!! I must be horrendous!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You paying for coffee? Lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

ok maybe have a look at your approach if the past number of months you can't even get a coffee meet then change how your way of doing things. its clearly not the site or the women's fault because lots of guys get meets so it has to be you

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Your profile looks empty ... paint a picture of yourself ... liven it up with pics and what your after.

And be positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is bare, no pics and the text is sparce just 'lookong for girls', as most guys are

perhaps add something a little different.

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Profile is bare your right. And i havent put up any pics, bit private like that. But can send on a pic if chatting. Im not good over typing. But in person im deadly. Dont think I'll ever win this battle.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"Profile is bare your right. And i havent put up any pics, bit private like that. But can send on a pic if chatting. Im not good over typing. But in person im deadly. Dont think I'll ever win this battle. "

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sort the profile buddy - there's a lot of competition out there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo agree with other posters - no profile text, no pics, it gives no indication of what type of person you are..

and like someone else said..there's lots of males on here - make yourself stand out from the rest

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Don't mind them op. I have less on my profile than yours and someone viewed me yesterday

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"Don't mind them op. I have less on my profile than yours and someone viewed me yesterday "

And today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't mind them op. I have less on my profile than yours and someone viewed me yesterday "

You have pictures tho

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Right must work on profile. Im crap righting about myself. But im deadly

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"You paying for coffee? Lol

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yes. And a bun if you like.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?"

Defo, love the mystery. In fairness if any girl took any interest id probably jump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?"

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You talkin' to me?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that. "

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""You talkin' to me?""

Negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?"

Scrupple time

If you looked at Kaizer while Kaizer looked at you would you still wanna be you

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

""You talkin' to me?""

Sure why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

Specially your last verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

We did. We both went insane for a bit. Just a ikle bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

Specially your last verification

You're only human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

We did. We both went insane for a bit. Just a ikle bit. "

Well done that's self control

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

One verification and I'll be flying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One verification and I'll be flying

Godspeed OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't mind them op. I have less on my profile than yours and someone viewed me yesterday "

That was a fab straight guy Hal.

But hey any port .......

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Why don't people just ask to look at my photo? I'll let people look at it. But im i wont open it for the world to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

We did. We both went insane for a bit. Just a ikle bit.

Well done that's self control

Self control? Nope.

In the words of Roy Castle "medication's what ya need. If ya wanna be a record breakerrrrrrrrrrrr yeaaaaahhhhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't people just ask to look at my photo? I'll let people look at it. But im i wont open it for the world to see."

Doesn't have to be a face pic, OP.

Male profiles are a dime a dozen so you're better trying to stand out in some way. You'll be a long time waiting for someone to ask

especially when there are copious amounts of other profiles offering some degree of window shopping

When you message someone it's because you find something has drawn/attracted you to them, not the other way about obviously, so you need to give them a reason to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your profile and ask yourself, if you weren't you, would you meet you?

Is that dating in the third person? Bet Keizer does that.

Don't take the Manbeasts name in vain

Kaizer looked at his own profile earlier and went "Godaaaaaam"

Try it....

We did. We both went insane for a bit. Just a ikle bit.

Well done that's self control

Self control? Nope.

In the words of Roy Castle "medication's what ya need. If ya wanna be a record breakerrrrrrrrrrrr yeaaaaahhhhh" "

Dedication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One verification and I'll be flying

Where abouts you livin op?

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"One verification and I'll be flying

Where abouts you livin op? "
working city centre, living malahide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For just coffee maybe use Tindr or PoF? Also try getting to know people in chats. Thn joy things might grow from there. Remember though, you aren't owed anything for the time you spend setting up an account, browsing and messaging to no avail. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we decided to swing our first thoughts were,who could we give a "chance" to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes while but if you use peoples advice here it shouldn't be too hard to meet someone.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

"You paying for coffee? Lol

I will pay for your coffee bonnetyler74

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Like how hard is it to find a woman who doesnt give 2 fecks and just wants to meet up get rodgered and have a laugh. There must a few ladies around the city centre who would like to meet up for a coffee at lunchtime and see if we would meet up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like how hard is it to find a woman who doesnt give 2 fecks and just wants to meet up get rodgered and have a laugh. There must a few ladies around the city centre who would like to meet up for a coffee at lunchtime and see if we would meet up again."

Theres plenty on escort-ireland.com you can "roger" away there for about €100 a half hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evidently quite. Maybe don't tell them your name's Roger?

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100. "

30.7

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

A typical crap empty profile whinging about not getting any meets & using excuses as to why there's no pics & write-up. It doesn't take a genius to know if ppl put effort in their profile they just might get some attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100. "

Mate youve misunderstood this site. Swinging is a lifestyle choice, not just in and get rogered. Your referring to women like their sluts- Not the case. Just set up a new profile tell nobody this was your former put some pictures up yap about yourself. And chat openly in forum. You will have a meet withinn a month

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"A typical crap empty profile whinging about not getting any meets & using excuses as to why there's no pics & write-up. It doesn't take a genius to know if ppl put effort in their profile they just might get some attention. "

Agreed, im currently in the process of writing a masterpiece of a profile..... noble prize will be coming my way when i finish.

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100.

I was only joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100.

I was only joking. "

I understane like but women can be apprehensive when they read it as they have no idea how to take someone they dont know.

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100.

I was only joking.

I understane like but women can be apprehensive when they read it as they have no idea how to take someone they dont know."

True. But if someone reads it and takes it the way it is meant, we're probably meant to be together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you actually taking any of this advice on board? People are telling you what you need to do to get noticed and you're just shooting everyone down. As someone has said, you're competing on here with hundreds of guys, and you need to stand out. I wouldn't even consider messaging you with that profile. You don't have to have face pics up, but you should definitely have some public pics plus a profile pic. Similarly, you don't have to write a novel in your profile but you should try and be putting yourself across well...explain what you're looking for, write about yourself a bit, but most importantly make it interesting and witty.

You should check out profiles of other single guys who have posted on this thread, try pick up some tips. You'll see why they're the ones getting verifications and you're not!

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"OP are you actually taking any of this advice on board? People are telling you what you need to do to get noticed and you're just shooting everyone down. As someone has said, you're competing on here with hundreds of guys, and you need to stand out. I wouldn't even consider messaging you with that profile. You don't have to have face pics up, but you should definitely have some public pics plus a profile pic. Similarly, you don't have to write a novel in your profile but you should try and be putting yourself across well...explain what you're looking for, write about yourself a bit, but most importantly make it interesting and witty.

You should check out profiles of other single guys who have posted on this thread, try pick up some tips. You'll see why they're the ones getting verifications and you're not! "

I am indeed. Just got to put all of it together. Thanks for all the comment and everyones help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires."

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

Happens to 90% of my mails mate. Dont take it personal women get 100s of mail if they are to reply to everyone theyd be at it all day.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Any advice that has be given has been on the button.

If he still chooses to have a bare profile with no pics, then he is definitely to blame for not taking others advice.

As much as some people might think when joining this site, it ain't as easy as clicking your fingers and they all come running.

Like in normal life, a little effort is needed and it will pay off.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

Happens to 90% of my mails mate. Dont take it personal women get 100s of mail if they are to reply to everyone theyd be at it all day."

^^ this.

The 10% that do even answer, there is small percentage that actually turn into meets.

Not complaining, always very happy when I do get as far as meeting other fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

Your profile isn't filled out. It has one line. And four pics of your cock. Nothing stands out about it. You have to put more effort in than that. You don't have to have a six-pack or rugby player thighs or an 8-inch cock to get noticed. There are plenty of "average" guys on here with very tasteful and sexy photos and an interesting bio. They send messages that make them stand out from the crowd of "hi how are you?", "nice pics", "fancy a meet?" type messages. I know guys on here have it tough but there's no point playing the victim if you're not actually putting the effort in.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

Had a lot of pics up before of me playing with others. Through coming onto the forum and chatting to others I discovered that not a lot of ladies like to see cock pics. Changed my pics on advice from others and since then, I have gotten a lot more replies from single females, when I do mail them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

And funnily enough I was just admiring your pics and profile a few mins ago

See OP and others?? This guy took advice on board and now has a great profile!

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

If your so 'deadly' then write about what your looking for and put pics to friends only.

Ps. It's not a battle, more like a journey of your sexual desires.

I agreed. I've pics up and filled out profile. I sent u a nice friendly message yesterday and you deleted it with out a reply even saying not interested . It's hard for lads here

And funnily enough I was just admiring your pics and profile a few mins ago

See OP and others?? This guy took advice on board and now has a great profile!

ah thanks...

Had a sneaky look at your profile and pic's, sent yous a wink to show my interest.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

"But how many cups of coffee could i buy for 100.

I was only joking. "

Even president hopeful like D Yrump doesn't get away with this kinda jokes, so be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You meed a few cock pics up at least . Then insist on posting and sharing every vague though that enters your head on the Irish forum . That seems to work for a lot of people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same happens to me pal, your not alone

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Pic up now thanks, offers will come flooding in no doubt.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Look mate d ladies r not here for u there here to enjoy themselfs n if u don't suit their requirements then sorry for u . U have to sell urself to them if u don't do d job properly tuff shit .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Put up nice body shots not cock pics

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By *ubguy4u OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Put up nice body shots not cock pics "

Confused. I put up a nice body shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even get a coffee meet I know!!!!!!

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