FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic etiquette

By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

Just wondering what people's thoughts are on sharing face pics? personally I hate sharing them...but if I do send one I think it's only polite it goes both ways when they asked for the share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time wasters always seem to ask for Face pics ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be in an ideal world where everyone was polite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time wasters always seem to ask for Face pics ??"

We must be timewasters,we ask for them but don't send ours.but then we have that stated on our profile.up to others wether they make contact or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what people's thoughts are on sharing face pics? personally I hate sharing them...but if I do send one I think it's only polite it goes both ways when they asked for the share?

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...I think if a pic swap is agreed that both should send regardless of whether interested or not...its common courtesy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind showing but only fair to show as well if one is asking ??

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you look at the Mantlepiece when your stoking the Fire ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too."

Wait until you meet Mr "I wanted to know you but now I've seen your picture, I don't think so..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its basic manners surely? We don't ask for face pics but have been asked loads and with the condition that if they don't like them they'll just not reply!! Seriously?? Kiss my a#@%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a butt like that ailann I don't c ye having any problems ??

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

"I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too.

Wait until you meet Mr "I wanted to know you but now I've seen your picture, I don't think so...""

Oh no! Nightmare! Haha, find a lot of misters are glad to have someone to send them anything, in my experience. It's a tough world for the genuine single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too.

Wait until you meet Mr "I wanted to know you but now I've seen your picture, I don't think so..."

Oh no! Nightmare! Haha, find a lot of misters are glad to have someone to send them anything, in my experience. It's a tough world for the genuine single guys."

But you won't often find one of the good guys whining, they just keep ploughing.

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

"Its basic manners surely? We don't ask for face pics but have been asked loads and with the condition that if they don't like them they'll just not reply!! Seriously?? Kiss my a#@% "

At least there's a heads up and u can tell them to jog on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With a butt like that ailann I don't c ye having any problems ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd share with a verified profile.

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

"I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too.

Wait until you meet Mr "I wanted to know you but now I've seen your picture, I don't think so..."

Oh no! Nightmare! Haha, find a lot of misters are glad to have someone to send them anything, in my experience. It's a tough world for the genuine single guys.

But you won't often find one of the good guys whining, they just keep ploughing."

'Ploughing' haha, love it!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Its basic manners surely? We don't ask for face pics but have been asked loads and with the condition that if they don't like them they'll just not reply!! Seriously?? Kiss my a#@% "

Holy sweet devine I just discovered ur profile it could be the ruination of me

Hate being asked for a face pic and then they don't reply a simple sorry not for me would be so much better, having said that it's not nessiary to see a pic before meeting if u don't stimulate my mind it ain't going forward

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo

"I agree....you know me now, it's only fair if I know you too."

Totally agree , if someone can ask for face pics , they should send their's back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of couples ask for a face pic from me ,, then I never hear from them again

It does leave me Feeling ever so low .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even had an event like this as recent as today..

Not nice feeling at all

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

"I even had an event like this as recent as today..

Not nice feeling at all"

I've only had one experience of this, most people are nice, not a nice feeling though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah lads it just means that you werent their type. No hard feelings.

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

We swap face pics once we've a meet arranged.

Personally I don't understand why people will ask for face pics and refuse to send one back.

Everyone has their own way of doing things, I just don't get the idea behind that. Surely its only fair to send a face pic if ur requesting one sent to u

Tina

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

If you ask for a face pic then you should either have one showing yourself or send a face pic in the message.

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By *imnher123 OP Couple
over a year ago

carlow

"Ah lads it just means that you werent their type. No hard feelings."

I've not issue, no connection is no connection, it's more a 'I put myself out there' kinda thing....and a 'I hope I haven't shared my face pic with my neighbour' haha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Ah lads it just means that you werent their type. No hard feelings.

I've not issue, no connection is no connection, it's more a 'I put myself out there' kinda thing....and a 'I hope I haven't shared my face pic with my neighbour' haha

Think if they ask they should be first to send a pic otherwise let em off

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I prefer to have a good chat first. I only ask for a face pic when I'm interested to meet and have a good feeling about the person I'm talking to.

Most of the time I don't return a face pic when I get a unsolicited one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time wasters always seem to ask for Face pics ??

We must be timewasters,we ask for them but don't send ours.but then we have that stated on our profile.up to others wether they make contact or not."

So you ask for face pics....but don't send any yourselves? Right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ,,,agreed so right Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent several to women and couples and they don't return one. Thinks it's very unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have sent several to women and couples and they don't return one. Thinks it's very unfair."

Did they ask you for one or did you just send it and expect one in return?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too....and anyone I've met verified me as Handsome so I think its just downright ignorance on the behalf of those that ask for them ,,then don't even bother to say no Thanks when they get them ..Personally I'd be worried that there are pic collectors on the site trying to collect Blackmailing pics m

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

The first part of the party of the first part shall be known as the first part of the party of the first part asking for pics...!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I only send a face pic back if I'm interested and I generally state this first, I never send mine first unless I'm speaking to a verified couple as that's in my opinion very different, but for my own safety if I'm not interested I don't send I politely say sorry, not everyone is everyone's cup of tea, I live in a small place.

Also I've had ppl pretend to be my boyfriend, send me lots of abuse also I don't want that on my doorstep, some creepy ppl on here (obviously there are genuine ppl I've met some) and I've had a couple of bad experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you look at the Mantlepiece when your stoking the Fire ?"

Er... yes I have a lazy eye so that is often the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time wasters always seem to ask for Face pics ??

We must be timewasters,we ask for them but don't send ours.but then we have that stated on our profile.up to others wether they make contact or not.

So you ask for face pics....but don't send any yourselves? Right "

Yes,we make that clear on our profile.No one is forced to do anything they aren't comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They asked and agreed to send knew back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yeah i hate when someone asks for one then doesnt send one back...fook..thats the way it is with some though...have often got people sending me some randomly and to be fair i dont send one to those people that often...if theyre verified id send one back no bother (...and not in a verified web of people that just go back to each other or just verified to hidden profiles) ...id often have a problem sending face pics to those out of caution....sometimes wonder what happens to my face pic in the wrong hands, am i set as a screensaver or stuck on their fridge or something or are they keeping a range of face photos in their private gallery to mail to people.

I would say they just get looked at and deleted if im honest mind you...but hey..ye never know do ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person can make you send a face pic.

If you are going to send one, do so because you want to; not in the hope of anything else or just because you were asked. Best not to have expectations for others and just control what you can.

If ever I send one it's because I'm happy to, not in hope of getting one back. Sure just the other day I scared a profile off

but that just means we wouldn't meet anyway so why dwell on it.

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By *exywexMan
over a year ago

Gorey

If asked for a face pic,I will send one but only if one is sent to me first,if they dont like it tuff

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I always send a face pic n expect one in return cos one time I went to meet some one without a face pic n there was no chemistery n waste of time going . I think it's fair if u send one d others should send one back in return .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I know women get a lot of abuse on here n I know this from my lady friend .i know it must b scarey for d ladies in case some nutjob sees their face n decides to blackmail them. I had trouble myself from one such nutjob .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for a pic.

if I'm asked for one - I'll send ..after the asker has sent to me first

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Its basic manners surely? We don't ask for face pics but have been asked loads and with the condition that if they don't like them they'll just not reply!! Seriously?? Kiss my a#@% "

Exactly. it's only fair that if you ask for them, you should be willing to send your own, even if you dont' like the other party.

Mind you, having just seen your profile you're not a million miles away. So i'd be shitting it in case you actually knew me. i'd risk it though.....mrs looks hot! you've just made my hotlist.

See you in athlone sometime

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