FabSwingers.com forum: Wasted time

By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I see very often 'no time wasters' or 'f* off time wasters' or something similar on profiles. Does that really work???Seriously, do you really think that a time waster will recognise him/herself as such and think: hmm I'm a time waster, I better stay away from this profile'.

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

I think they know they are but no it won't stop them mores the pity.. less keyboard swingers around would be great. Nothing more annoying if you don't have a lot of free time.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

One person's timewasting can be another person's being cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters don't waste their own time,just other peoples,every time they waste your time is a result for themselves.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Time wasters don't waste their own time,just other peoples,every time they waste your time is a result for themselves."

That's if their sole purpose is to waste other people's time. A lot of people get referred to as time wasters for simply being careful. This seems to be especially true of certain male members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time wasters don't waste their own time,just other peoples,every time they waste your time is a result for themselves.

That's if their sole purpose is to waste other people's time. A lot of people get referred to as time wasters for simply being careful. This seems to be especially true of certain male members. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Time wasters don't waste their own time,just other peoples,every time they waste your time is a result for themselves."

Case in point they won't stay away just because one states on the profile to do so.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

It's funny the amount of time waster threads here when the forums seem to be full of ppl with time to waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I responded to a message and respectfully declined stating I didn't want to waste either of our time and got called a time waster and a prick tease! Lmao some people click their finger's because they are horny and get abusive when they don't get their own way. I have no doubt that there are people on here that do go slowly but fab at your own pace people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time wasters don't waste their own time,just other peoples,every time they waste your time is a result for themselves.

Case in point they won't stay away just because one states on the profile to do so. "

They don't have time to read profiles

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

isn't teasing the best part of the fun !!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"It's funny the amount of time waster threads here when the forums seem to be full of ppl with time to waste"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see very often 'no time wasters' or 'f* off time wasters' or something similar on profiles. Does that really work???Seriously, do you really think that a time waster will recognise him/herself as such and think: hmm I'm a time waster, I better stay away from this profile'.

Excellent observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"isn't teasing the best part of the fun !!!"

Depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"It's funny the amount of time waster threads here when the forums seem to be full of ppl with time to waste"

When you waste your time on the forum it's your own decision, if someone else is wasting your time it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like."
....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else."

Whats the nature of the site?

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?"

Swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging "

Exactly.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly."

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?"

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

I don't want pen pal's but am very sociable and love bantering that doesn't make me a prick tease because I didn't drop my knickers because someone winked at me! I fab how it suits me and works for me.

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

I lied Don, I am not wearing any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

Its not about dropping your knickers as you say. Alot are confused about the definition of swinging. Sexually liberated or promiscuous is what it means. If someone of just here to post on message boards thats fine but its not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs."

And that's how you fab...no right or wrong here...just people using the different elements of the site that suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs.

And that's how you fab...no right or wrong here...just people using the different elements of the site that suits them."

Im not saying there is right or wrong. Just pointing out there is many time wasters who organise meets but have no intentiom of meeting. I rarely mail anyone for a meet maybe 2 a week. I try click with someone before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs."
...how do you know what other people are doing or have done on this site?. Some choose to keep details of their swinging life private...and don't boast about it on forums. Either way..its all about personal choice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs....how do you know what other people are doing or have done on this site?. Some choose to keep details of their swinging life private...and don't boast about it on forums. Either way..its all about personal choice...."

Please show me where i stated what others do on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

Dropping my knickers quote was in reference to the original post about being called a time waster.

Again fab has many elements to it and how people choose to fab is their own prerogative. I have been to parties/club's, I post on the forums, I pm, I post pic's, have done solo meets and upwards... I am a fabber which is more than swinging and what's in a title! Am here for the interaction not the title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

It's a swinging site that has several elements to it. Parties, solo meets, forum's, messaging, cams etc...

Dropping my knickers quote was in reference to the original post about being called a time waster.

Good stuff

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs."

So only when there's 3+ people then it's swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like."

Ahem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might as well talk to the wall guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs.

So only when there's 3+ people then it's swinging? "

Yes in my opinion

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs.

So only when there's 3+ people then it's swinging?

Yes in my opinion"

I don't really agree with that and the definitions of swinging I looked up wouldn't fit to that either. However I think I can live quite well with the fact that people have different ideas what swinging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of people are looking for penpals not a fuck buddy or a party situation. Pretty sad like.....isn't that the beauty of fab....use it as you see fit....not to suit someone else.

Whats the nature of the site?

Swinging

Exactly.

There's a social part to swinging - just in case you're not aware of it.

Yes of course there is but using site as a social media tool isnt swinging. Neither is one on one meets swinging. Ive been to 3 clubs in UK regularly. They are swing clubs.

So only when there's 3+ people then it's swinging?

Yes in my opinion

Of course i said in my opinion. Im not saying its correct just my own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not time-wasting,that is,as you say,someone being careful.

I'm talking about those folk that deliberately go out of their way to mess people about,waste other peoples time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our book, someone only "wastes your time" if they don't show for an arranged meet, everything else is within your control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our book, someone only "wastes your time" if they don't show for an arranged meet, everything else is within your control. "

Yep have to agree with this. I've been on the site a while and only met one person (a social meet) so to be honest I'd love to get a point where I arranged a meet and was stood up! Would be progress...!

But seriously yes everything else is in the persons control....once people are respectful everything prior to arranging a meet should not be considered time wasting in my book...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more time wasteing

Everybody should Just drop their Knickers ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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