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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you??

Had a deep conversation with someone recently that i quiet liked. She told me nobody had ever done anything for her that she would class as romantic so i decided it would be nice to send her some flowers just to say "well now you can say someone did something nice for you"

What's the kindest thing anyone has done for you?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Someone on FAB actually read one of my messages before deleting it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone on FAB actually read one of my messages before deleting it!! "

Awwwwwwwwww

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

The kindest thing anyone ever did for me was when I was sick and barely able to get off the couch a lovely friend of mine cooked a lasagne and delivered it to the house so I didn't have to worry about getting the kids a dinner. She thought it was a very small thing to do, but it was a very big deal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you??

Had a deep conversation with someone recently that i quiet liked. She told me nobody had ever done anything for her that she would class as romantic so i decided it would be nice to send her some flowers just to say "well now you can say someone did something nice for you"

What's the kindest thing anyone has done for you? "

Coming through newark airport and had lost my bank card night previous. My case was over weight and i was at desk taking stuff out to give away to others in airport that i couldnt pay for the extra weight due to not having my card. A german couple watched what happened walked away and took out money and walked over tapped me on shoulder and gave me 155 dollars. I took their details and returned a transfer to them 2 days later of doubke what they provided. It was 8 years ago i will never ever forget the gesture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The kindest thing anyone ever did for me was when I was sick and barely able to get off the couch a lovely friend of mine cooked a lasagne and delivered it to the house so I didn't have to worry about getting the kids a dinner. She thought it was a very small thing to do, but it was a very big deal to me. "

They do say "it's the small things..." and personally iam of that belief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through something very traumatic in my 20s and needed to get away and a person very close to me spent nearly 2000 to fly me half way across the world for a holiday and to recuperate. To this day is the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went through something very traumatic in my 20s and needed to get away and a person very close to me spent nearly 2000 to fly me half way across the world for a holiday and to recuperate. To this day is the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me."

Jesus. Wow. Was he/she minted? That's a lot to spend on a kind gesture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went through something very traumatic in my 20s and needed to get away and a person very close to me spent nearly 2000 to fly me half way across the world for a holiday and to recuperate. To this day is the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me.

Jesus. Wow. Was he/she minted? That's a lot to spend on a kind gesture "

No they werent minted, they done it for me and never wanted anything back. Im always waiting for the day I can repay them in any way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went through something very traumatic in my 20s and needed to get away and a person very close to me spent nearly 2000 to fly me half way across the world for a holiday and to recuperate. To this day is the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me.

That's super nice of them. You must of been in a bad place. Hopefully some day you can repay them

Jesus. Wow. Was he/she minted? That's a lot to spend on a kind gesture

No they werent minted, they done it for me and never wanted anything back. Im always waiting for the day I can repay them in any way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon it was the vasectomy some doc gave me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reckon it was the vasectomy some doc gave me! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mama TK thanks for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That one time she used lube instead of going in dry

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By *rdinaryladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Mama TK thanks for life "

What about Daddy TK?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The blowjob from a lady I met on pof. You know who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mama TK thanks for life

What about Daddy TK?"

She carried the cub in her womb for 40 weeks.....Papa slept on the sofa

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By *rdinaryladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Mama TK thanks for life

What about Daddy TK?

She carried the cub in her womb for 40 weeks.....Papa slept on the sofa "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone returned a sim card full of precious memories to me after I lost my phone.

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

When my eldest was born I hadn't slept for two weeks solid. The night nurse seen I was struggling on my first night tears the lot she took my her away and told me to sleep. I will be forever greatful for the kindness she showed me. But a tad bad for not being the good mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a few ladies here on Fab that have been pretty good to me on different occasions in different ways and to them women I'm very grateful xxx thanks girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When everything was too much. My best friend came in. And organised everything, prioritising and fixing. Suddenly the impossible task seemed possible! She also washed my dishes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived abroad for a few years, one day I got chatting a lovely old Irish couple in my job. We had such a laugh together and a heart to heart about home. The wife was from the same county as me. Anyways the next day they popped in with a framed picture for me. I of course started bawling, they reminded me so much of my grandparents. When they were gone I took out the picture of home to look at and noticed an envelope stuck to the back. They wrote a lovely note to me and had stuck in a €100 gift card for the local supermarket. I was in shock I couldn't believe it. I've never forgotten it though.

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By *rdinaryladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I lived abroad for a few years, one day I got chatting a lovely old Irish couple in my job. We had such a laugh together and a heart to heart about home. The wife was from the same county as me. Anyways the next day they popped in with a framed picture for me. I of course started bawling, they reminded me so much of my grandparents. When they were gone I took out the picture of home to look at and noticed an envelope stuck to the back. They wrote a lovely note to me and had stuck in a €100 gift card for the local supermarket. I was in shock I couldn't believe it. I've never forgotten it though. "

Lovely story, you obviously made their day and reminded them of home and family too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lived abroad for a few years, one day I got chatting a lovely old Irish couple in my job. We had such a laugh together and a heart to heart about home. The wife was from the same county as me. Anyways the next day they popped in with a framed picture for me. I of course started bawling, they reminded me so much of my grandparents. When they were gone I took out the picture of home to look at and noticed an envelope stuck to the back. They wrote a lovely note to me and had stuck in a €100 gift card for the local supermarket. I was in shock I couldn't believe it. I've never forgotten it though. "

That's awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A neighbour I hardly knew that gave me a very simple bunch of flowers when I was grieving.

31 years later I can still picture them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was stressing out about an inevitable situation I had to face, a friend listened, reassured me and rang me back five minutes later to say that they had booked a break away for me...so lovely.

So many amazing moment's that were humanity and kindness is proven, pay it forward people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A neighbour I hardly knew that gave me a very simple bunch of flowers when I was grieving.

31 years later I can still picture them"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"A neighbour I hardly knew that gave me a very simple bunch of flowers when I was grieving.

31 years later I can still picture them"

The neighbours or the flowers?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah come on... I wasn't the only one who wondered, or was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A neighbour I hardly knew that gave me a very simple bunch of flowers when I was grieving.

31 years later I can still picture them

The neighbours or the flowers? "

The flowers

Hardly knew the neighbours then - certainly can't remember them now - except her name was Geraldine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets."

You're still not well? Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww "

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!!

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By *rdinaryladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!! "

I have

But I do have empathy for you. Hopefully three times is the charm for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!! "

I did read it - when you were on your 2nd lot. Had just hoped it had cleared by now.

Is the doc giving you different anti biotics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!!

I did read it - when you were on your 2nd lot. Had just hoped it had cleared by now.

Is the doc giving you different anti biotics?"

Yeah went back today as other lot is finished tomoro and im no better and didn't want to let it go without getting it cleared. 3rd different lot now today. If this doesn't do it I give up!

I've even gone on the nicotine mist thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!!

I did read it - when you were on your 2nd lot. Had just hoped it had cleared by now.

Is the doc giving you different anti biotics?

Yeah went back today as other lot is finished tomoro and im no better and didn't want to let it go without getting it cleared. 3rd different lot now today. If this doesn't do it I give up!

I've even gone on the nicotine mist thing. "

Is that the nasal spray?

My daughter gave up smoking using patches and was never out of the doctors with breathing problems and chest infections. she went back on the ciggies

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Reckon it was the vasectomy some doc gave me! "

Maybe that was the kindest thing to womankind too??

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"When my eldest was born I hadn't slept for two weeks solid. The night nurse seen I was struggling on my first night tears the lot she took my her away and told me to sleep. I will be forever greatful for the kindness she showed me. But a tad bad for not being the good mum."

Aww you weren't bad, just tired..it's ok to be tired!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!! "

You poor thing....I'd go homeopathic now though, Propolis and Bee Pollen tablets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!!

I did read it - when you were on your 2nd lot. Had just hoped it had cleared by now.

Is the doc giving you different anti biotics?

Yeah went back today as other lot is finished tomoro and im no better and didn't want to let it go without getting it cleared. 3rd different lot now today. If this doesn't do it I give up!

I've even gone on the nicotine mist thing.

Is that the nasal spray?

My daughter gave up smoking using patches and was never out of the doctors with breathing problems and chest infections. she went back on the ciggies

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I hope not cause I sprayed it in my mouth!!! Lol I'm barely able to smoke at the moment so doc told me its best time to go off them. I'll see how I get on like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The doctor gave me a script for more antibiotics today... that's about as good as it gets.

You're still not well? Aww

Ah stop I've never felt so miserable. On my 3rd lot of antibiotics. Surprised u didn't read about it in my other self pity posts around here!!!

I did read it - when you were on your 2nd lot. Had just hoped it had cleared by now.

Is the doc giving you different anti biotics?

Yeah went back today as other lot is finished tomoro and im no better and didn't want to let it go without getting it cleared. 3rd different lot now today. If this doesn't do it I give up!

I've even gone on the nicotine mist thing.

Is that the nasal spray?

My daughter gave up smoking using patches and was never out of the doctors with breathing problems and chest infections. she went back on the ciggies

I hope not cause I sprayed it in my mouth!!! Lol I'm barely able to smoke at the moment so doc told me its best time to go off them. I'll see how I get on like. "

Try it up your nose - kill or cure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention

I've had a few unfortunate episodes in my life, but have been fortunate to have some wonderful people around to make the pain more bearable

It restores my faith in human nature

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Too many to mention

I've had a few unfortunate episodes in my life, but have been fortunate to have some wonderful people around to make the pain more bearable

It restores my faith in human nature"

like sharing body heat on a very cold night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention

I've had a few unfortunate episodes in my life, but have been fortunate to have some wonderful people around to make the pain more bearable

It restores my faith in human nature

like sharing body heat on a very cold night "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention

I've had a few unfortunate episodes in my life, but have been fortunate to have some wonderful people around to make the pain more bearable

It restores my faith in human nature

like sharing body heat on a very cold night

Exactly! "

I think I'm suffering with hypothermia my bits are turning blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually the one that does kind things lol one friend made me a cake for my birthday though and to be fair she doesn't bake! ! At all!! She knew I needed cheering up and to be fair it made me laugh

Twas atrocious lol but it's the thought that counts and it's usually the little things that count too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usually the one that does kind things lol one friend made me a cake for my birthday though and to be fair she doesn't bake! ! At all!! She knew I needed cheering up and to be fair it made me laugh

Twas atrocious lol but it's the thought that counts and it's usually the little things that count too "

It IS the little things. Not the money ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when my sister had cancer, i wanted take her on a holiday too the states, as she always wanted too go, so gux friend in florida, friend of the family, gave us her house for 3 weeks, as she was away on a cruise, neved forget what she done, my sis loved her break too,

God rest her soul now,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky to have a lot of kind people in my life.

One thing that always sticks in my mind is....

I was young, pregnant, single and had just been told I was very ill. I was sitting in work one day kinda zoned out. A lady I worked with left for the day but came back 20 mins later and handed me a bottle of baby talc. Opened the seal and squeazed the bottle up close to my face and said to me "no matter what life throws at you wee dear you just smell this and remember you will have your baby in your arms very soon"

Might sound silly but it truly was thee kindest thing anyone has ever done for me.

Now I'm not so young not pregnant and not ill but I still love the smell of baby talc it just cheers me up.

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By *ssalotCouple
over a year ago

dungannon

It was a fabber,an ex fabber actually.I was quite ill last year and a guy I had met from here made a three hour round trip to bring me a hug and a cup of tea on the way home from the hospital.What made it even more significant was that he had a mad schedule himself at the time,but said he knew I needed the hug,ive never forgotten it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a fabber,an ex fabber actually.I was quite ill last year and a guy I had met from here made a three hour round trip to bring me a hug and a cup of tea on the way home from the hospital.What made it even more significant was that he had a mad schedule himself at the time,but said he knew I needed the hug,ive never forgotten it."

Aww that was really sweet of him to do that for you!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Surely the tea was cold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lucky to have a lot of kind people in my life.

One thing that always sticks in my mind is....

I was young, pregnant, single and had just been told I was very ill. I was sitting in work one day kinda zoned out. A lady I worked with left for the day but came back 20 mins later and handed me a bottle of baby talc. Opened the seal and squeazed the bottle up close to my face and said to me "no matter what life throws at you wee dear you just smell this and remember you will have your baby in your arms very soon"

Might sound silly but it truly was thee kindest thing anyone has ever done for me.

Now I'm not so young not pregnant and not ill but I still love the smell of baby talc it just cheers me up. "

Beautiful memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usually the one that does kind things lol one friend made me a cake for my birthday though and to be fair she doesn't bake! ! At all!! She knew I needed cheering up and to be fair it made me laugh

Twas atrocious lol but it's the thought that counts and it's usually the little things that count too "

Betty Crocker is my best friend in those moment's

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By *ssalotCouple
over a year ago

dungannon


"Surely the tea was cold? "

.. .it was, but the smooch was hot.

You're funny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention, people have literally saved my life by talking to me, they will probably never fully understand the weight of their words. Sometimes an act of kindness can be just taking a few minutes to talk to another human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely stories on this thread, goes to show you can never under estimate a random act of kindness and it's effect on others. Inspiring stuff

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By *oveyou2Couple
over a year ago

somewhere Kerry

My husband saved my life one morning after I got a stroke. The doctor in hospital told me two days later, if he didn't do what he did when he did it, our kids would have come up stairs an hour later to find me dead as there was another massive clot heading to my brain which doctors were able to break up with emergency treatment.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

True genuine friends who are your rock no matter what you do.

Friends from home who you may not talk to for years ... but when you meet up its like you never left.

Not into loads of false friends, just the ones who know me well.

Can't beat true friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get that door for you Sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to mention, people have literally saved my life by talking to me, they will probably never fully understand the weight of their words. Sometimes an act of kindness can be just taking a few minutes to talk to another human being. "

Beautifully put. So true... sometimes we don't recognise the value or impact of a kind word or gesture at the right moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband saved my life one morning after I got a stroke. The doctor in hospital told me two days later, if he didn't do what he did when he did it, our kids would have come up stairs an hour later to find me dead as there was another massive clot heading to my brain which doctors were able to break up with emergency treatment. "

Wow...just wow. No turning him down for anything

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