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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all just wondering would you guys know of a decent way to get verified without the social events?

I'm not a huge fan of large gatherings of people (very antisocial I know) plus I'd be going on my own which doesn't help!

Would by cam be my best bet? Tried looking in the chat section but couldn't make heads or tails of the format..

Thanks for any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by those pics just give it a little longer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha thanks guys, think though most people search by verified no? Not much luck so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try arrange to meet for a coffee buddy. They will verify you and then you can rock on. Single guys going to socials alone usually look for another guy to rock up with. Use the forum to build friendships and something will happen lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha thanks guys, think though most people search by verified no? Not much luck so far "

It's something that's considered, amongst many other things. Stay nice, don't be pushy & great things will be revealed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer a free keyring and/or signed portrait

People love free Shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use? "

Yes but it doesn't hold as much weight as a f2f.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha thanks guys, think though most people search by verified no? Not much luck so far

It's something that's considered, amongst many other things. Stay nice, don't be pushy & great things will be revealed..."

True true but am very aware that females and couples on the site get bombarded with messages so might be hard to fit in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Offer a free keyring and/or signed portrait

People love free Shit "

Bahaha if only if only...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha thanks guys, think though most people search by verified no? Not much luck so far

It's something that's considered, amongst many other things. Stay nice, don't be pushy & great things will be revealed...

True true but am very aware that females and couples on the site get bombarded with messages so might be hard to fit in "

pardon the pun...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use?

Yes but it doesn't hold as much weight as a f2f. "

Ah ye but better than nothing no? If not, suppose best to work on the coffee buddy idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offer a free keyring and/or signed portrait

People love free Shit

Bahaha if only if only..."

Signed Kaizer portraits and Manbeast cuddly toy go down a treat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha thanks guys, think though most people search by verified no? Not much luck so far

It's something that's considered, amongst many other things. Stay nice, don't be pushy & great things will be revealed...

True true but am very aware that females and couples on the site get bombarded with messages so might be hard to fit in

pardon the pun..."

Didnt even notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient OP, get to know people on the site. Don't try to rush it.

You'll find someone you click with and bring them for a coffee or whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use?

Yes but it doesn't hold as much weight as a f2f.

Ah ye but better than nothing no? If not, suppose best to work on the coffee buddy idea!"

Aim for coffee first time if all goes well and your not a headcase you will have a play meet im sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be patient OP, get to know people on the site. Don't try to rush it.

You'll find someone you click with and bring them for a coffee or whatever..."

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Signed Kaizer portraits and Manbeast cuddly toy go down a treat "

Haha may I respectfully request an autograph then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signed Kaizer portraits and Manbeast cuddly toy go down a treat

Haha may I respectfully request an autograph then? "

Over a pint?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use?

Yes but it doesn't hold as much weight as a f2f.

Ah ye but better than nothing no? If not, suppose best to work on the coffee buddy idea!

Aim for coffee first time if all goes well and your not a headcase you will have a play meet im sure."

While I fully agree with this, it seems getting the coffee meet is no easy measure... I'm probably just rushing it, patience was never one of my strong suits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand you, how you can see I'm in the same situation as you. Normally what I do (without success until now) is read the entire profile and if I have any interest I send a respectful message and then if I get answer I chat. But I respect always their opinion, nobody have any obligation here... Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use?

Yes but it doesn't hold as much weight as a f2f.

Ah ye but better than nothing no? If not, suppose best to work on the coffee buddy idea!

Aim for coffee first time if all goes well and your not a headcase you will have a play meet im sure.

While I fully agree with this, it seems getting the coffee meet is no easy measure... I'm probably just rushing it, patience was never one of my strong suits "

I send maybe 3 mails a week if even. Try find someone you have common ground with. Mail and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile, pretty spot on for a newbie.

Don't blanket message a load of profiles. Most profiles are kind enough to explain what they are looking for. Read what they are saying and message if you think you'd match. A good mail always works well. Maybe say why you feel it would be worth getting to know each other.

Try not get dis heartened if it gets ignored. If it does just move on to the next. Try and get a coffee or drink. Don't beg, people will or won't so don't sweat the small stuff. Never forget you may meet further down the road so it pays to always keep the head

Relax and enjoy the flirting if it doesn't move forward panic not. It will happen elsewhere.

Be happy about your choices and do things cause it's what you want not cause it will get you further on fab. Never compromise on that.

Have fun. It really is a great place even if it takes a little time. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your profile, pretty spot on for a newbie.

Don't blanket message a load of profiles. Most profiles are kind enough to explain what they are looking for. Read what they are saying and message if you think you'd match. A good mail always works well. Maybe say why you feel it would be worth getting to know each other.

Try not get dis heartened if it gets ignored. If it does just move on to the next. Try and get a coffee or drink. Don't beg, people will or won't so don't sweat the small stuff. Never forget you may meet further down the road so it pays to always keep the head

Relax and enjoy the flirting if it doesn't move forward panic not. It will happen elsewhere.

Be happy about your choices and do things cause it's what you want not cause it will get you further on fab. Never compromise on that.

Have fun. It really is a great place even if it takes a little time. xx"

Thanks Cocquette , yes I'm not trying to force anybody into anything (no interest is absolutely no problem). Suppose I was more just thinking along the lines if someone gets a message from a unverified male (like myself), its going straight in the bin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Signed Kaizer portraits and Manbeast cuddly toy go down a treat

Haha may I respectfully request an autograph then?

Over a pint? "

Two pints (minimum requirement)

And yes you may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your profile, pretty spot on for a newbie.

Don't blanket message a load of profiles. Most profiles are kind enough to explain what they are looking for. Read what they are saying and message if you think you'd match. A good mail always works well. Maybe say why you feel it would be worth getting to know each other.

Try not get dis heartened if it gets ignored. If it does just move on to the next. Try and get a coffee or drink. Don't beg, people will or won't so don't sweat the small stuff. Never forget you may meet further down the road so it pays to always keep the head

Relax and enjoy the flirting if it doesn't move forward panic not. It will happen elsewhere.

Be happy about your choices and do things cause it's what you want not cause it will get you further on fab. Never compromise on that.

Have fun. It really is a great place even if it takes a little time. xx"

There ya go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your profile, pretty spot on for a newbie.

Don't blanket message a load of profiles. Most profiles are kind enough to explain what they are looking for. Read what they are saying and message if you think you'd match. A good mail always works well. Maybe say why you feel it would be worth getting to know each other.

Try not get dis heartened if it gets ignored. If it does just move on to the next. Try and get a coffee or drink. Don't beg, people will or won't so don't sweat the small stuff. Never forget you may meet further down the road so it pays to always keep the head

Relax and enjoy the flirting if it doesn't move forward panic not. It will happen elsewhere.

Be happy about your choices and do things cause it's what you want not cause it will get you further on fab. Never compromise on that.

Have fun. It really is a great place even if it takes a little time. xx

Thanks Cocquette , yes I'm not trying to force anybody into anything (no interest is absolutely no problem). Suppose I was more just thinking along the lines if someone gets a message from a unverified male (like myself), its going straight in the bin! "

No I have a couple of unverified people as friends on here. It's who you click with at the end of the day. Don't loose heart if it's unread or deleted. Sadly it can be the nature of the site but it's nothing personal. Best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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No I have a couple of unverified people as friends on here. It's who you click with at the end of the day. Don't loose heart if it's unread or deleted. Sadly it can be the nature of the site but it's nothing personal. Best of luck xx"

Ah ok thats good to hear I'll keep at it then thanks for all the great advice! Such lovely people on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I have a couple of unverified people as friends on here. It's who you click with at the end of the day. Don't loose heart if it's unread or deleted. Sadly it can be the nature of the site but it's nothing personal. Best of luck xx

Ah ok thats good to hear I'll keep at it then thanks for all the great advice! Such lovely people on this site "

The rest will be along shortly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Signed Kaizer portraits and Manbeast cuddly toy go down a treat

Haha may I respectfully request an autograph then?

Over a pint?

Two pints (minimum requirement)

And yes you may "

I think I'll have to take you up on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does one go about finding someone like that? Seems like posting in the forum wouldnt work would it?

Was hoping to avoid the meets just as not a fan in general so would a cam veri be no use? "

Cam veris are about the lowest, just slightly ahead of photo verified. A lot of women don't accept them as being genuine. If you can't do the socials, then patience will be your best bet. Keep posting on the forums, show you're not an idiot and someone will meet you, even just for coffee.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Some good advice for you here OP, and based on this thread alone you've a lot going for you. You seem polite, you can string a sentence together and it's plain to see you've *ahem* other attributes.

Give 'er time, when I were a lad all this used t'be fields.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i met gud view guys, and no verifs, so that doesnt always work either, and im too shy too meet at socials, i get tongue tied, so even by webcam or or chat on phone, or viber chat can get u verified, so i wouldnt worry about it too much. Verifs arent that important,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I have a couple of unverified people as friends on here. It's who you click with at the end of the day. Don't loose heart if it's unread or deleted. Sadly it can be the nature of the site but it's nothing personal. Best of luck xx

Ah ok thats good to hear I'll keep at it then thanks for all the great advice! Such lovely people on this site

The rest will be along shortly..."

The 'others' come out after dark!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

No I have a couple of unverified people as friends on here. It's who you click with at the end of the day. Don't loose heart if it's unread or deleted. Sadly it can be the nature of the site but it's nothing personal. Best of luck xx

Ah ok thats good to hear I'll keep at it then thanks for all the great advice! Such lovely people on this site

The rest will be along shortly...

The 'others' come out after dark! "

Glad to see everyones having fun

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