FabSwingers.com forum: single male on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on fab for a couple of months now but have only recently posted more about myself etc. Have messaged a few people and barely ever get a reply. I'm in no way pushy or anything in fact I'm very well mannered. I'm thinking alot of people avoid single males here? Or is it me? :P could maybe do with some advice or tips perhaps. I just want to have fun like everyone else here, no drama good clean fun

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

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Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Makes sense. What do you do to stand out ha?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shamrock...just be patient!

It takes time...

Try to get a invite to a meet and greet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Stand out like a thumb tack?

We have enough cock picks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile."

I'd say the odds are similiar alright finding a meet is like finding the Holy Grail haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Stand out like a thumb tack?

We have enough cock picks

Perhaps a picture of me watching a sunset with a cute puppy might win me some brownie points haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Makes sense. What do you do to stand out ha?"

Apparently he's packin' around 12 inches. That'll do wonders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile."

This is good advice!

Basically, don't be a dickhead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Stand out like a thumb tack?

We have enough cock picks

Perhaps a picture of me watching a sunset with a cute puppy might win me some brownie points haha"

Actually that's not a bad idea....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile.

This is good advice!

Basically, don't be a dickhead!

Ha thanks for the advice BoldGirl :P Don't think I'm a dickheadthough I am slightly biased haha ha.

Packing 12 inches seems like a good idea I might try that :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not nessiarly avoid but there's so many here u have to stand out from the crowd

Stand out like a thumb tack?

We have enough cock picks

Perhaps a picture of me watching a sunset with a cute puppy might win me some brownie points haha

Actually that's not a bad idea....

Haha I'll get on it the next beautiful sunset I see :P

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan

"Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile.

Hi, I have tried that and unfortunately it's hasn't worked. I have chatted with some nice ladies but they seem to talk the talk but when the walk comes it turns out to be a step too far. I know the ratio is balanced towards the ladies but being judged on a few texts is outrageous. The ability to write a witty text is no way to make a decision on what type of person/partner you are if nonsense. You coukd be copying and pasting the heck out of it. Now, I may be criticised for airing a view but I am just sharing my experience of the site. I have always treated women with the utmost respect and will continue to do so but it is extremely frustrating. Ok rant over.

This is good advice!

Basically, don't be a dickhead!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont know the ratio from men to couples and women is over the water,but if its like here it must be 100 to 1.So you need luck and a good profile.

This is good advice!

Basically, don't be a dickhead!

I totally get you though yeah. like ladies say one liners will be deleted and whatnot which is fair enough but sometimes a simple hi how are you is a good way to start like. Being judged and not replied to because you said that is a bit mad. There's no to a fro. How can you determine if you'd like someone or not before even talking to them?

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan

Even if you do have some texts you can be told, I'm not feeling it or something similar but really how can anyone make a decision on the type of person you are by reading some words you managed to type. The mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyones entitled to the right to not want to but a little bit of effort on their behalf goes a long way. Trying to reply to one lined messaged is so annoying I dont even bother! I'd like some good conversations that are more than a line long. I'm actually sound ans very genuine, wish there were more people who'd give a chance..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

No gender or demographic has it easy on here... Maybe for very different reasons it's not easy.

Single guys think single ladies have it easy because they're inundated ... That'd be fab if they were what you're looking for... Chances are it's like looking for the needle in a haystack..not easy

Couples imagine finding four folk that find each other attractive ...not easy..

Single guys yeah there's lots of us ...the majority do themselves no favours with their profiles and messages ...the minority do it right and enjoy the site and all of the fun laughs and frolic s it holds..

My advice ... Be yourself .. be an individual ... Most of all enjoy and have fun.

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By *utieAndBootyCouple
over a year ago

SoCal

Well your profile isn't full of dick pics so that's a plus. Having said that, you might do well with getting rid of your verification photo and adding some more. Maybe you in a suit, out on a hike, doing something unique to you. The puppy/sunset thing is not a bad idea at all. Take a look at profiles of guys who are doing well and see what you can do better.

Following that, you need veris. Get to a party, any party. Be social, introduce yourself, get to know everyone. You'll find you get tons of veris and that will make a huge difference.

Lastly, please please please don't send dick pics. No one wants that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well your profile isn't full of dick pics so that's a plus. Having said that, you might do well with getting rid of your verification photo and adding some more. Maybe you in a suit, out on a hike, doing something unique to you. The puppy/sunset thing is not a bad idea at all. Take a look at profiles of guys who are doing well and see what you can do better.

Following that, you need veris. Get to a party, any party. Be social, introduce yourself, get to know everyone. You'll find you get tons of veris and that will make a huge difference.

Lastly, please please please don't send dick pics. No one wants that. "

Totally agree. Be a social bunny. Eventually you'll be a rampant rabbit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some better pics mate and just be yourself, if a women doesn't like how you are just move on. Plenty more fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there? Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain big man

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By *utieAndBootyCouple
over a year ago

SoCal

"I feel your pain big man

You might find going easy on those dick pics will help..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain big man

You might find going easy on those dick pics will help..

Cutie&bootie, your newest pic... well done... well f##king done!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I've been on fab for a couple of months now but have only recently posted more about myself etc. Have messaged a few people and barely ever get a reply. I'm in no way pushy or anything in fact I'm very well mannered. I'm thinking alot of people avoid single males here? Or is it me? :P could maybe do with some advice or tips perhaps. I just want to have fun like everyone else here, no drama good clean fun

Forums are the place to be the private messages most likely won't get read by most females they do bulk deletes quite a lot and some actually seem to love bragging about how many times they bulk delete,so my advice is use the forums be yourself don't bend over backwards for people on here that you wouldn't bend over for in daily life.

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By *utieAndBootyCouple
over a year ago

SoCal

"I feel your pain big man

You might find going easy on those dick pics will help..

Cutie&bootie, your newest pic... well done... well f##king done!

Haha thank you. That was from an afterparty post-fab party. Like we said before, getting into parties and being social is the key to unlocking many doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever suits you...personally ive never been to a meet and greet or party...and probably never will...patience is all you need...some good pics if you can take them...caming in the chat room...or even chatting like a normal person off cam might get you noticed there....get a few meets and get verified by a few people...the only thing that will hold you back is the amount of fabbers in your location...unless you like driving here there and everywhere...but hey whatever suits...sure weve all noticed ye now in the forums...also dont even expect a reply from half the people...mail and forget about it, if they reply they reply...you might still never ever meet them....just have fun.

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