FabSwingers.com forum: Not Irish

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there anyone that dosent have problem to chat ,meet guy that's not Irish ???i can't believe that when I say I'm not from Ireland people stop conversation ...why..?i didn't insolt anyone or I was rude to anyone..why is so hard to find someone who just love need and want sex...?im not giving only sex and f..k off..someone normal..chat,walk,coffe dink,lunch,diner..anything..sex is only finish touch and strowbary on cake..and from my expiriance it's lot better when you feel good in someone company and not just fuck and go..cpls ,woman's any comment...?????

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

It happens to me very often. Some even dare asking if I have a visa to stay here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's not right man..I don't know what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you two Gentlemen don't think everyone's like that here, welcome to our little green corner of the globe.

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

Definitely not... It is just a fact that needs to be known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone that dosent have problem to chat ,meet guy that's not Irish ???i can't believe that when I say I'm not from Ireland people stop conversation ...why..?i didn't insolt anyone or I was rude to anyone..why is so hard to find someone who just love need and want sex...?im not giving only sex and f..k off..someone normal..chat,walk,coffe dink,lunch,diner..anything..sex is only finish touch and strowbary on cake..and from my expiriance it's lot better when you feel good in someone company and not just fuck and go..cpls ,woman's any comment...?????"

I met a man here who wasn't irish. It took a while for me to be able to understand the things he wrote as English wasn't his first or even his second language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not... It is just a fact that needs to be known

I'm pretty sure you have rude idiots back in the homeland too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who would just ignore you like that because you're not Irish is an idiot... and not worth meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok..you has little problems in conversation but that dosent mean that he is a bad person

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

Take it slowly one step at the time . Actions speak lauder then words and never give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we have but still

It happens with every single one that I had a chat..cpl and woman so..I was just asking is it problem in me or..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok..you has little problems in conversation but that dosent mean that he is a bad person "

I never assume anyone is a bad person. I always start with believing the good, no matter who I'm dealing with or what country they come from.

I'm sorry, I kind of meant to put that in my first reply, but posted it too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

In the right setting (probably face to face) I'm sure most people would try to not let the language barrier get in the way of getting to know you but if as you say it's every conversation you have then perhaps it's time you learned the language we use here a little better?

I have had many chats with foreigners who only have basic English, it can be a little frustrating at times but should I learn a different language to help them? Anyway I hope you find some nicer people along the way.

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

We think that would be great help if you add more pic showing how you enjoying yourself as everyone would love to join in with someone who's fun to be around . Hope that would help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok..you has little problems in conversation but that dosent mean that he is a bad person

I never assume anyone is a bad person. I always start with believing the good, no matter who I'm dealing with or what country they come from.

I'm sorry, I kind of meant to put that in my first reply, but posted it too soon. "

It's ok..I understand but lot of people here are not interest in meeting someone who is not from their country

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

Lol. That's not true . I'm Russian myself and I never had this type of problems . Confidence attractive and sexy . You should love yourself and update your photo gallery if you wanna be successful on the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We think that would be great help if you add more pic showing how you enjoying yourself as everyone would love to join in with someone who's fun to be around . Hope that would help "

I did that too

I put 12 pic..and all profile and pic where public..nothing to hide..than I get even less answers becouse I quote..I don't do guy with public pic of face or you don't have hidden face..when I hide face everyone ask in first msg face pic so..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block"

But that's normal for us Irish, if we hear an accent it's a way to start a conversation usually by asking where are you from, probably because we specialize in exports.

There is however certain nations that have a bad reputation and sometimes people stereotype.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block

But that's normal for us Irish, if we hear an accent it's a way to start a conversation usually by asking where are you from, probably because we specialize in exports.

There is however certain nations that have a bad reputation and sometimes people stereotype."

Ok I can understand that

I come from neutral country and country where a lot of Irish people go for holidays..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block

But that's normal for us Irish, if we hear an accent it's a way to start a conversation usually by asking where are you from, probably because we specialize in exports.

There is however certain nations that have a bad reputation and sometimes people stereotype.

Ok I can understand that

I come from neutral country and country where a lot of Irish people go for holidays..

You wanna say which one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we have but still

It happens with every single one that I had a chat..cpl and woman so..I was just asking is it problem in me or..?

It happens all the time to Irish guys too, I wouldn't take it personally or racially if I was you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block

But that's normal for us Irish, if we hear an accent it's a way to start a conversation usually by asking where are you from, probably because we specialize in exports.

There is however certain nations that have a bad reputation and sometimes people stereotype.

Ok I can understand that

I come from neutral country and country where a lot of Irish people go for holidays..

You wanna say which one?"

Think he's from Scotland haha

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I think a lot of people wouldn't have the patience to put up with someone who's written English isn't very good. I don't want to sound like an asshole but I'm sure there's a lot reading this thinking the same. They just don't want to put in the effort. If I was in your shoes I'd do the following:

Buy a phone/sim just for fab because if you're more willing so speak on the phone people will get a better idea of who you are when you're speaking a language that's not your first.

Seek invites to socials and parties. I've met so many different nationalities on the scene you may meet someone from your home country and straight away you've met someone with something in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not Irish but never had that kind of problem, to be honest.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

It's the same for all single guys on here... regardless of race .. so don't take it personally x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can agree but still every chat..?

I start to think that it's only me

I didn't have so much problem with conversation only the qouestion where are you from..?

I say and bum..no more answers or a block

But that's normal for us Irish, if we hear an accent it's a way to start a conversation usually by asking where are you from, probably because we specialize in exports.

There is however certain nations that have a bad reputation and sometimes people stereotype.

Ok I can understand that

I come from neutral country and country where a lot of Irish people go for holidays..

You wanna say which one?

Think he's from Scotland haha

Hahahaha maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many people will not meet men who are muslim , might this be the reason ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"many people will not meet men who are muslim , might this be the reason ? "

Maybe for some but Baby I'm not Muslim..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.stop looking for excuses as to why folk won't meet you and concentrate on the reasons why folk should meet you.you will find your time on fab much more enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".stop looking for excuses as to why folk won't meet you and concentrate on the reasons why folk should meet you.you will find your time on fab much more enjoyable."

Well.., thats him told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple won't meet men alone regardless of nationality period but no problem meeting women or couples from most as long as we click and an attraction is there. Yes conversation and messaging can be a little straining if English is poor but if it's worth the effort then we'll make the effort.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can hear your accent when reading your posts and I think you sound very sexy OP. Pity you're way too young for me.

Don't give up Op, not everyone in Ireland is xenophobic, actually most Irish are very welcoming. And those ones who don't want to meet you because of your nationality are not worth meeting.

I love strowbary cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of race, there are a lot of trolls and time wasters on this site. The idiots just pick on that to wind you up. There probably isn't the prospect of a meet with them regardless. Besides, you don't want to meet folk like that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can hear your accent when reading your posts and I think you sound very sexy OP. Pity you're way too young for me.

Don't give up Op, not everyone in Ireland is xenophobic, actually most Irish are very welcoming. And those ones who don't want to meet you because of your nationality are not worth meeting.

I love strowbary cake!

Yes you are...very welcoming,very warm,very friendly. For me not being Irish actually is a good thing,gives me a good ice breaking topic for chatting. And I haven't had a single bad situation since I arrived

Actually one junkie did tell me to f... off back to Poland but that was ok cause I'm not Polish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can hear your accent when reading your posts and I think you sound very sexy OP. Pity you're way too young for me.

Don't give up Op, not everyone in Ireland is xenophobic, actually most Irish are very welcoming. And those ones who don't want to meet you because of your nationality are not worth meeting.

I love strowbary cake!

Thanks for that..I don't think age are important in person life..honestly I was allways with older woman than me and has better time than young girls so..only think that is important is how you feal when you are close the that person..everything else is not important..people here are in search for other by some numbers ..age,hight,weight..and hair color body type ect..but real and ideal person can be far away from tis numbers so..I'm always for feeling..

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

After reading your profile the problem may be....

1. This is not a bdsm site and women on here would probably be wary of wanting to be your sub (with what submission entails).

2. You refer to women as sluts. Some might not mind. Many would mind.

I think you're on the wrong site to find what you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding the original post I wouldn't have a problem meeting anyone who isn't Irish but then I do love accents.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"After reading your profile the problem may be....

1. This is not a bdsm site and women on here would probably be wary of wanting to be your sub (with what submission entails).

2. You refer to women as sluts. Some might not mind. Many would mind.

I think you're on the wrong site to find what you're after"

Besides that the op didn't ask for a profile review, it is a bit harsh. Plenty of peeps on here into bdsm and domination (not me though). It is allowed to have preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After reading your profile the problem may be....

1. This is not a bdsm site and women on here would probably be wary of wanting to be your sub (with what submission entails).

2. You refer to women as sluts. Some might not mind. Many would mind.

I think you're on the wrong site to find what you're after

Besides that the op didn't ask for a profile review, it is a bit harsh. Plenty of peeps on here into bdsm and domination (not me though). It is allowed to have preferences. "

But also like I wrote domination is not only about pain

Dominate person is also a person that like to lead in sex and give her or his partner just a pure pleasure it dosent need to be pain at all..

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

No he didn't ask for a profile review but he DID ask why he's not getting responses or why ppl won't talk to him. I saw lots of posts go for the race card bc he's foreign (race card NOT racist before anyone accuses me of misreading posts). I merely suggested another reason as to why he may not be having luck. So no darlin. I was not being harsh.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

"After reading your profile the problem may be....

1. This is not a bdsm site and women on here would probably be wary of wanting to be your sub (with what submission entails).

2. You refer to women as sluts. Some might not mind. Many would mind.

I think you're on the wrong site to find what you're after

Besides that the op didn't ask for a profile review, it is a bit harsh. Plenty of peeps on here into bdsm and domination (not me though). It is allowed to have preferences.

But also like I wrote domination is not only about pain

Dominate person is also a person that like to lead in sex and give her or his partner just a pure pleasure it dosent need to be pain at all.."

Yeah hun. I get that and am well versed in D/s dynamic. But again. Like I said a swinger site may not be the place to find what your profile suggests you're after so you may find it a bit tougher that someone looking for just a swing partner, ect. Not saying go off here just telling you why you could possibly be finding fab a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same story . That happens to me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are u a romenian , o why u can't tell us wher u from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are u a romenian , o why u can't tell us wher u from. "

I can..I'm from Croatia

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Are u a romenian , o why u can't tell us wher u from.

I can..I'm from Croatia

Really? Then I get to use my favourite croation joke!

"Why don't you make like a city in Croatia, and Split!"

(Sorry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are u a romenian , o why u can't tell us wher u from.

I can..I'm from Croatia

Really? Then I get to use my favourite croation joke!

"Why don't you make like a city in Croatia, and Split!"

(Sorry)"

It's ok it's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads you get abuse because you are not irish born.

I get abuse because I'm "old ".

Girls get abuse because they are too skinny or not skinny enough.

Couples get abuse because they have "too many verifications "

It has zero to do with your nationality. It simply an attempt by some muppet to throw abuse based on what they read on your profile

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I'm not Irish and have no issues with meets. But then I come from an English speaking country

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not Irish and have no issues with meets. But then I come from an English speaking country

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By *orkclickCouple
over a year ago

Cork

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By *orkclickCouple
over a year ago

Cork

i second this. Personally I prefer foeign guys - cou;les. It may well be that your profile does not show respect to women...

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

We have met quite a few non Irish people. It's pretty irrelevant as long as they are nice and there is some attraction and chemistry.. in fact they are more likely to meet up rather than just chat we find

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have met quite a few non Irish people. It's pretty irrelevant as long as they are nice and there is some attraction and chemistry.. in fact they are more likely to meet up rather than just chat we find "

Than you can meet me?

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