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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."

go halves always..in this day and age men are women are supposed to be equal but some women only want equality when it suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a guy. I'd pay for the room but not because I wish to have some sort of demand due to it just out of manners. But I'd let you buy dinner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50..aren't both parties having fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . "

Exactly what I think & part of the reason I prefer to go halves. Good on you leaving him there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a guy. I'd pay for the room but not because I wish to have some sort of demand due to it just out of manners. But I'd let you buy dinner lol"

You are too kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely pay half. If the room is booked for a meet then the cost should be split 50/50 between both.

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By *ary Givin lovinMan
over a year ago

cork

I usually pay and then charge for each orgasm I give...works out 50/50 most times

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."

I would say paying 50/50 would be fair. It doesn't need to be agreed, it doesn't need to be asked either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half and half. Simples!

Every hotel meet ive had it was split. Except on one occasion when i paid for it all. She brought the wine and surprise so it was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have no issue paying but only if we met regular so i knew there was summit there. If it's only a once off then 50/50 otherwise it would be cheaper for me to pay a prostitute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . "

Massive standing ovation girl...

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By *otguyd9Man
over a year ago

Monaghan/Dublin

as a guy i would offer to pay (not sure why!!) but would be happy to go 50 50

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Whoever pays for the room gets to keep the kettle, hair dryer and trouser press though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoever pays for the room gets to keep the kettle, hair dryer and trouser press though"

Fact! And it's hard to halve a hair dryer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50...

Or phone a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."

Your friend is deluded beyond all belief

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By *ork3SomeCouple
over a year ago

BaileSexy

What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan

On the first meet I would book and pay for the room. Any further meets then 50:50

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix"

Nothing like a good three way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would normally say 50:50 but it depends. There was a meet I had where the guy refused to touch anywhere but the boobs in case he'd get his hands wet..... Needless to say I walked out and left him there with his dry hands

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

If i was booking the room im the perfect gentleman i pay it sounds mean asking for half to be honest not every1 will agree with me but thats the way it is with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have booked rooms before where I had planned to stay the entire night and would have a meet but he wasn't staying more than a few hours. In that case I pay.

Then there's been times where a guy I might meet regularly is already in a hotel for another reason and I would go for a few hours. In that case he pays (although I would always offer to go halves)

But if it's just simply for a hookup then it's 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmeline would have wanted you ladies to pay your way

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Whoever shouts or screams the loudest and longest should pay for the room Who's up for that challenge then?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I have booked rooms before where I had planned to stay the entire night and would have a meet but he wasn't staying more than a few hours. In that case I pay.

Then there's been times where a guy I might meet regularly is already in a hotel for another reason and I would go for a few hours. In that case he pays (although I would always offer to go halves)

But if it's just simply for a hookup then it's 50/50. "

Sounds perfect. If both only using it for meet, then 50/50 but if one gets to sleep for the night, then they pay. Logical to me.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I actually prefer to pay

Maybe I'm old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pay half if an Mfm, but all if it's a lady.

We never usually stay the night though, unless away from home, so the other person or people can usually have the room.

Sam

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway .

Massive standing ovation girl..."

You were dead right, would of loved to see his face as you left him there....

Priceless....

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix

Nothing like a good three way "

& what about the breakfast "room service" whose gona do without ! pull straws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

go halves always..in this day and age men are women are supposed to be equal but some women only want equality when it suits them"

If that's your reason then let's say 40/60 since we haven't reached pay equality yet.

But if the reason is good manners, defo 50/50. But if I'm on a trip and had the room booked anyway, I pay of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay none of my meet questioned it except one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha depends on the price of the room!!!!

No seriously though I would be 50/50. Like everything else 50/50 I give as good as I get. If a man won't give me oral why should I give him oral.. If the man won't go on top why should I go on top!!! Sideways it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What man doesn't want to give oral I personally love giving a lady oral and I get my pleasure from pleasuring I wouldn't expect it back in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What man doesn't want to give oral I personally love giving a lady oral and I get my pleasure from pleasuring I wouldn't expect it back in return"

Oh there are plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to spoil a ladies pussy with my tongue

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

I would akways feel obliged to pay for room.

If the lady played or not was never a primary concern and I always made that clear before meeting. A few hours company in intimate private surroundings was well worth the cost.

I was happy enough to share a bottle of wine and some chit chat and have a laugh with no pressure on either side.

Every hotel meet actually ended with play, usually later on when we were relaxed and enjoying each others company, and as a result was less pressurised and much more enjoyable and inevitably led to further meets.

I guess I'm not the fuck and go type and in my experience girls are not either.

Hazel

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East

I'm not working so can't afford to pay for a hotel. My solution is that you come to my home.

Needless to say there have been exceptions and in those cases I gracefully accept the accommodation provided but I provide dinner and some few drinks and of course it's only with people I know well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as the hotel maybe necessary to accommodate people to meet,the experience is the most important thing and if the people involved have a great evening and the night turns out to be a success then neither person would be bothered who paid.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I had me paying, him paying and 50/50. It all depends on the situation and the person you're meeting. The standard should be 50/50, and certainly not that the man has to pay it fully.

My preference is private accommodation, cuts out all those tricky bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay half's unless one is staying over night and then they can foot the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be meeting the wrong woman I must change my tactics lol ive rarly had a womam offer to pay half for the hotel room or dinner or drinks ,,then maybe im not worth going halfs with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 regardless of who is staying the full night. If one person has to leave why should the cost be thrown on to the other person. You are going halves to play regardless of what happens beyond that.

Have gone thirds in a threeway meet also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha now I know what's wrong im too old all the ladies that pay half I can't pm im outside there age range ,, should I retire ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50 regardless of who is staying the full night. If one person has to leave why should the cost be thrown on to the other person. You are going halves to play regardless of what happens beyond that.

Have gone thirds in a threeway meet also"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha thanks Pria ,, I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have booked rooms before where I had planned to stay the entire night and would have a meet but he wasn't staying more than a few hours. In that case I pay.

Then there's been times where a guy I might meet regularly is already in a hotel for another reason and I would go for a few hours. In that case he pays (although I would always offer to go halves)

But if it's just simply for a hookup then it's 50/50. "

yes my thoughts exactly you beat me to it. That's the way to do business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."

Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill?

However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill?

However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch."

My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill?

However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely have a hotel meet but 50/50 is fare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill?

However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch.

My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay."

Agree with both here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill?

However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch.

My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay.

Agree with both here!! "

Yep agree too makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! "

What?

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?"

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

It all depends on the meet, have split the costs or paid in full myself.

No matter what the situation, like to have a couple of sociable drinks and a chat first instead of just jumping straight into action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 or if one booked the hotel other gets dinner and drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess"

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant..."

Think it was a play on "pay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant..."

Nor me lol

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

Think it was a play on "pay" "

Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is,

is it not the mans place to do so i think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

Think it was a play on "pay"

Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is,

is it not the mans place to do so i think so

"

I just couldn't work out what

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen

meant. It made no sense to me

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By *ogtrainerCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . "

Couldn't agree more and very well put, the perfect example of meet politics and etiquette! Fair play for turning on your heels! 50/50 all the way

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

Think it was a play on "pay"

Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is,

is it not the mans place to do so i think so

I just couldn't work out what

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen

meant. It made no sense to me

"

Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen .

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

Think it was a play on "pay"

Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is,

is it not the mans place to do so i think so

I just couldn't work out what

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen

meant. It made no sense to me

Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen .

hope this helps "

That makes more sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to hijack the thread but , has anyone booked hotel room & when it came to the day of meet other person uses a lame excuse & doesn't turn up but your debit card already charged & no return of cost. Take it on the chin i suppose & drive on. What does anyone else think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take her to a Declan Nerney country dance then back to the barn for some rollin in the hay!!! No need for 50/50's! Keep er lit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do....

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen !

What?

Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess

Still no idea what your previous comment meant...

Think it was a play on "pay"

Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is,

is it not the mans place to do so i think so

I just couldn't work out what

They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen

meant. It made no sense to me

Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen .

hope this helps "

But whats the 'pay attention' part about??

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By *saDrennanWoman
over a year ago

Tallaght


"I would have no issue paying but only if we met regular so i knew there was summit there. If it's only a once off then 50/50 otherwise it would be cheaper for me to pay a prostitute lol"

WTF "Cheaper for me to pay a prostitute lol " I am not laughing that's so insulting to us women on this site.

Even for regular meets its 50 /50 for me I can pay my own way and would never be beholding to no man.

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By *ockin nice guyMan
over a year ago

wexford

I'm old fashioned to , I like to pay and dinner to, if she insists well that's grand to .. But not to have a girl under a complement but more treat her well and ensure she has a really good night !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm old fashioned to , I like to pay and dinner to, if she insists well that's grand to .. But not to have a girl under a complement but more treat her well and ensure she has a really good night !! "

I'd be the same,it's nice to be nice, not gonna break the bank,

If she insists on paying I'll let her get a few drinks.

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

i do not mind paying once the two of us have plenty of fun

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

is there any nice lady looking to stay in a nice hotel soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say i have never been offered half of the room cost. Dont mind paying but would be nice to get the offer especially when you have meet them a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can honestly say i have never been offered half of the room cost. Dont mind paying but would be nice to get the offer especially when you have meet them a few times.

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Why do you keep meeting these spongers??

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By *uff pleaserMan
over a year ago

dublin

50/ 50 is good both saves money on the room but make sure u order breakfast in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "

That's a shitty way to be treated

Some good points on here which I wouldn't have considered.

Like a previous poster, I'm a bit old fashioned, and would have expected to foot the bill if we were hosting, but the point about feeling obliged is very valid too. On the flip side if we ever got invited to a hotel meet (maybe one day we'll be brave enough) I may not have offered to split the bill but will be more conscious if it were to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "

I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway.

If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt.

As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i

I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway.

If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt.

As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet. "

I'd have gone back down to reception and checked they took his card details before heading to bed, if not, I'd have left as well. (Without paying)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i

I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway.

If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt.

As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet.

I'd have gone back down to reception and checked they took his card details before heading to bed, if not, I'd have left as well. (Without paying)"

Good thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he said we split it in the morning,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But i know why he said it now, coz he didnt wanna pay, and did a runner,

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By *LLY69Man
over a year ago

Gorey

Hi

Old school prefer to pay if Ive suggested the hotel , but ok with 50/50 or dinner or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just didnt see it coming

He seemed so nice and genuine, even on phone we had talked,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some low lifes out their, they can fool ya, till the cows come home, be nice too ya on phone, just too get into your underwear, and then do a runner,

Be vigilant, be careful,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like me and would take people at face value.

Once bitten, twice shy and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeez the more I hear stories on here the more I realise the age of chivalry is long dead, theres a huge bunch of cunts around and a lot of people make bad choices.....

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By *ugarandKandiCouple
over a year ago

dub


"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix"

Cpl get the room id say ...

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Angelic48 that not nice what happened to you . So i will take you out and spoil you for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . "

Good woman!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some low lifes out their, they can fool ya, till the cows come home, be nice too ya on phone, just too get into your underwear, and then do a runner,

Be vigilant, be careful, "

I would have made a night of it and invited someone else over. Some men are just here for a quick fuck really. And some women are sometimes too. I'd prefer them to just be honest about wanting a fast and furious thing rather than admit they can't last all night or they're a stingy fuck and won't pay their share...

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Some low lifes out their, they can fool ya, till the cows come home, be nice too ya on phone, just too get into your underwear, and then do a runner,

Be vigilant, be careful,

I would have made a night of it and invited someone else over. Some men are just here for a quick fuck really. And some women are sometimes too. I'd prefer them to just be honest about wanting a fast and furious thing rather than admit they can't last all night or they're a stingy fuck and won't pay their share... "

I would want you,

Allllll night longggggg....

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By *asyladMan
over a year ago

Sligo

I AGREE, PEOPLE LIKE THAT SHOULD BE BANNED OFF THE SITE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem paying for the hotel but some ladys expect a present diner and drinks ,, and they might earn more then me ,,it's a swing site not a dateing site ,, or a call girl site ,,I love treating any lady but some can take the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "

Terrible thing for any Man or Woman to do to any meet,, sorry this has happened to you

But looks like your not getting to get to know the guys abit or communicating properly,, between meeting and getting their end away with you an then leaving no verifications to getting their end away with you and leaving you in a hotel afterwards and to pay the whole bill to think you need a sit down with yourself and to give yourself a shake to start picking your meets abit more carefully more so when it comes to having their wicked way with you and then doing a runner leaving you to foot the bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or worse stiil a lady arangeing a meet get you to book the hotel then she cancels less then two days beforeshand and you have to pay for the hotel happened me last year in Dublin hotel but will never happen me again I hope

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath


"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "
thats lousy act to do anyone and such a mean thing to do on you . Your such a lovely person anyone can see that just be careful we all learn from diffrent situations in life and some like your good self get taken advantage of should have named and shamed the miserable fecker on your profile but hes probly long gone from the site all the best sexy beautiful lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . "

What a clem ha delighted you walked out on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoever pays for the room gets to keep the kettle, hair dryer and trouser press though"
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there even such a thing anymore as a hotel that allows check-in without taking card details?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there even such a thing anymore as a hotel that allows check-in without taking card details?"

I didn't think so.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Is there even such a thing anymore as a hotel that allows check-in without taking card details?

I didn't think so."

It all depends who checked in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally always book the hotel and pay for it. I like old school suduction, so ladies never pay in my company, hotels drinks or food, but in saying that I really appreciate when a lady offers to pay, I never except it, but it's nice to know she appreciates my generosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your a thorough gentleman,

Very scarce these days,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But i always offer too split it of coarse, but if guy insists, then by all means let them, no arguments their,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But u know when that kinda situation happens you, u lose trust in guys, your confidence goes, as in u dont know why they did it, and why too you, i was dressed nice i thought, not flirty or anything or slutty, i never dress slutty, i dress too impress but sophisticated like, i know wasnt me, but at same time it goes around in your head, i even talked with him on phone, he sounded respectful descent, either some guys are just good actors r wot, or he just gets his kicks out of doing it too women, he is gone off site now and i did report it, coz i cant find him anywhere so his profile deleted, but who knows he cud have made other id now, and do it under different id, to someone else,

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By *ach-kCouple
over a year ago

westmeath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 you share the fun you share the costs

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By *ockin nice guyMan
over a year ago

wexford

There's a big problem of last minute drop outs , plans made ,schedule moved around to suit a meet/ night away and then last minute ... Nothing ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well your a thorough gentleman,

Very scarce these days, "

Why? Cos he likes to empty his wallet for a woman? Is that the measure of a gentleman now??

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

50/50.

I don't expect to be paid for, nor do all the paying.

Share it out. Fairs fair.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath


"But u know when that kinda situation happens you, u lose trust in guys, your confidence goes, as in u dont know why they did it, and why too you, i was dressed nice i thought, not flirty or anything or slutty, i never dress slutty, i dress too impress but sophisticated like, i know wasnt me, but at same time it goes around in your head, i even talked with him on phone, he sounded respectful descent, either some guys are just good actors r wot, or he just gets his kicks out of doing it too women, he is gone off site now and i did report it, coz i cant find him anywhere so his profile deleted, but who knows he cud have made other id now, and do it under different id, to someone else, "
no doubt the miserable sod is back on under a new name even if other users new what area he was from they could be wary of meeting newbies from that area i know cant tar everyone with same brush x

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

We prefer to pay, after a good sex session I like to roll over and snore me tits off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll always pay.. regardless

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...."
I would think it might depend on the circumstances of each party. Sharing costs should only be a broad generalisation. It might be that one party cannot afford a room. Each case should probably be reviewed on its merits

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