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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i get like that at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take too long to polish a diamond

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

This describes me most of the time. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pain in the neck having to keep polishing my halo ffs like!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I can relate to that of late!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take too long to polish a diamond "

#korneyscouser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno alot of pressure on guys 2, I always want to look and feel my best, depends on who u meeting I guess, if the attraction is there id go all out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

Put on make up ...... I prefer a natural look so no need.

Fix your hair ........ why bother when hopefully it'll end up all tussled and you will end up with bed head anyway.

Shave your legs ........ they can't be THAT bad .....as bad as mine anyway or most other guys.

So where's the problem !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only gets more difficult the older you get ladies -Really is a mans world !!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Balaclava, stockings, heels and a coat and you're sorted, takes a minute to put on and it works well with the boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only part of that I do is shave my legs... I'm probably the laziest person you'll ever meet tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

That's what partners are for no?

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Yep.. I get ye... I need to get waxed but it bloody hurts my fo fo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good. It's not just me

And no my legs aren't that bad!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"It's a pain in the neck having to keep polishing my halo ffs like!!! "

I never have to polish mine. It has an eternal natural shine...never been tarnished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We appreciate the effort ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, just be yourself

Go as u please, dress as you please, if a guy cant see you for who u are, then their not for you, beauty is skin deep, personality is important, having a gud laugh, u will be more remembered for that, then getting all dressed up, and then maybe not hearing from them after that, after all the effort u put in,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i hear ha sista!!! I've cancelled meets coz just thinking about the effort exhausts me. If snowy is the laziest I'm defo a contender for second laziest

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Ohhh it's effort everyday but worse when meeting. The joy of make Up. Downside of wearing it, some days I can't be bothered to blow dry my hair or slap the make Up on. But if I don't I get you look really ill or you look really tired and pale . I'm none I just look shite without it . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take too long to polish a diamond

#korneyscouser "

Kaizer is referring to himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult but I always find the effort worth it..... manscaping my Mickey..,.. arguing with mammy cos she didn't iron my underpants properly.... jump-startingthe tractor...t the list is endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls"

Have you ever tried to squeeze something the size of a water melon out of your vagina. .?

Get back to me when u have...

Yes men have it easy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sur yer all lovely au naturelle. We'll always want ye whatever ye don't or do wear. Youis are just beautiful beautiful women.

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "
worse when you go to all that effort only to jump out of shower ten minutes ago to a "going out with the lads" message ......and "Block".......

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By *otstuff21Man
over a year ago

Dublin citywest


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

You'd be stunning either way hun

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

These days by the time I get all the paraphernalia on me I'm too knackered to bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, I thought it was only me!

I almost do a happy dance when someone cancels. (Apologies gents). Can stay on the settee in my favourite outfit - one of my boys trackie bottoms and a hoodie that someone left in my house about 8 years ago

You have a rival for the title of laziest !!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls"

I have! Slippery wee feckers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jeez, I thought it was only me!

I almost do a happy dance when someone cancels. (Apologies gents). Can stay on the settee in my favourite outfit - one of my boys trackie bottoms and a hoodie that someone left in my house about 8 years ago

You have a rival for the title of laziest !!

"

Haha love it

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

These days, the guy has to seriously excite me to encourage me to make all the effort to get ready etc..

I'm with you ladies..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

That's what partners are for no?"

For what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls

I have! Slippery wee feckers! "

Especially with shaving foam on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i hear ha sista!!! I've cancelled meets coz just thinking about the effort exhausts me. If snowy is the laziest I'm defo a contender for second laziest "

Sure who'd turn ya down even if you were the yeti ffs

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By *otstuff21Man
over a year ago

Dublin citywest


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

You would be stunning either way hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i hear ha sista!!! I've cancelled meets coz just thinking about the effort exhausts me. If snowy is the laziest I'm defo a contender for second laziest

Sure who'd turn ya down even if you were the yeti ffs "

After the laser hair removal thread I'm sure the rumour mills are rife that I am in fact a yeti!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i hear ha sista!!! I've cancelled meets coz just thinking about the effort exhausts me. If snowy is the laziest I'm defo a contender for second laziest

Sure who'd turn ya down even if you were the yeti ffs

After the laser hair removal thread I'm sure the rumour mills are rife that I am in fact a yeti!!"

Well the hair phobia is a real thing for some guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

You would be stunning either way hun "

Oh you smooth talker

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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Taking my inspiration from my wine rack here i put in the effort & can't see why a lady cant be arsed.

TBH haven't came across that lady just yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

That's what partners are for no?

For what? "

When you don't have to dress or feel like a star.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

That's what partners are for no?

For what?

When you don't have to dress or feel like a star."

I'll take your word for it

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By *otstuff21Man
over a year ago

Dublin citywest


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this?

You would be stunning either way hun

Oh you smooth talker "

Ha ha no just been honest with you hun x

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone" "

In the words of radio head....come as u are....I think....like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone"

In the words of radio head....come as u are....I think....like"

Or Nirvana

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone"

In the words of radio head....come as u are....I think....like

Or Nirvana "
was it?? U know the one I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone"

In the words of radio head....come as u are....I think....like

Or Nirvana was it?? U know the one I mean... "

Yes,Nirvana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once cut my privates while shaving. And you think you ladies have problems ??

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"Lol in the words of Michael Jackson " you are not alone"

In the words of radio head....come as u are....I think....like

Or Nirvana was it?? U know the one I mean...

Yes,Nirvana "

I guess I will cancel dinner reservations and the limousine with champagne

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By *londie BabeWoman
over a year ago

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I thought it was just me felt like that !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh totally... and I actually don't think the men even notice or appreciate it. Like it's so much effort.. I havnt met someone new since may cause I just couldn't be arsed. I don't think many of the men here are actually worth all that effort.

Like men do put the effort in in fairness to them but most women could have a meet every night of the week if they wanted so I think it's just effort unless it's someone I really want.

This bottle of wine requires no effort and a glass. End of story!

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

My sexy bitch Hazel never lazy and always looks better then me Tranny style

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

As previous poster says, be comfortable. Don't go to huge effort to look like something you aren't.

Presuming that you have chatted prior to the meet a bit in advance, so s/he's seen some, or all, of what's underneath all the facade and hopefully (s)he's interested in the mind that comes with it and all the potential fun that might ensue.

No amount of mascara or blusher will change their mind in that regard, if all those have worked accordingly, so just go and enjoy.

If they don't like what you really are, then all that went before was bullshit and you can still go out with your mates instead, without them querying what you are dolled up to the nines for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As previous poster says, be comfortable. Don't go to huge effort to look like something you aren't.

Presuming that you have chatted prior to the meet a bit in advance, so s/he's seen some, or all, of what's underneath all the facade and hopefully (s)he's interested in the mind that comes with it and all the potential fun that might ensue.

No amount of mascara or blusher will change their mind in that regard, if all those have worked accordingly, so just go and enjoy.

If they don't like what you really are, then all that went before was bullshit and you can still go out with your mates instead, without them querying what you are dolled up to the nines for "

That actually makes sense lol.

I've had evening meets for a drink where I knew I'd be off to the pub with friends after. Have found myself wandering down the road to my local wiping lipstick off in case they asked a whole load of questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find the getting ready for a meet is what puts me off, more if I am in the mood for company, or not

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Probably cos I have a minimalist approach to makeup (hate the feel of heavy makeup)and lingerie comes off. So as long as I am showered, hair washed and run brush through it, some body lotion, put mascara on, I ready.

My meets pretty much get me as I am, don't look any different on a meet than i do normally. That maybe not the attitude but that how I roll

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By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Mmmm I love getting ready for a meet ... especially if I'm meeting someone for the first time, anticipating the first touch...

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

We definitely have it easy

The three S's and out the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Men have it easy.

"

That's probably the first time I've heard that on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Men have it easy.

That's probably the first time I've heard that on Fab "

Ha so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the drawback on here , can become to easy to sext or swap pictures , takes a lot for someone to stand out and give you that rush and excitement ahead of a first meet .

Maybe the biggest drawback for fab as opposed to real life , who doesn't love the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take too long to polish a diamond "

You old silver tongued devil, you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get dolled up for meets, I go as I am and if they don't like it sorry bout it! Haven't been turned away yet

Obviously some regular grooming is necessary but half the time I'm just in gym gear and very little makeup. Men don't actually care or notice as much as us ladies think they do.

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Love getting ready but need to be seriously in the mood and excited about who we're meeting...hasn't happened in a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just show him a photo of your Ma and say "thats what i'll look like in 30 years"...he'll shit himself... no fecker will wanna meet you so you'll not need make up or your hair done or sexy undies or feck all else... job done

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By *ary Givin lovinMan
over a year ago

cork

I love when the woman makes an effort to impress. It usually makes the woman feel confident and it starts the meet off well. I make an effort myself so it's not a sexist thing. Having said all that.... funplaything....Come as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to be fair we notice way more than you ladies think. There is nothing nicer than a pretty lady who's hair looks great and is dress to kill and just looks like she spent ages making her self look that effortlessly good. Will always turn my head.. casual is ok too. Especially if you have no knickers under them sweatpants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love when the woman makes an effort to impress. It usually makes the woman feel confident and it starts the meet off well. I make an effort myself so it's not a sexist thing. Having said all that.... funplaything....Come as you are "

Well right now I'm in tracksuit pants and hoody with fleecy socks sexxxxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love when the woman makes an effort to impress. It usually makes the woman feel confident and it starts the meet off well. I make an effort myself so it's not a sexist thing. Having said all that.... funplaything....Come as you are

Well right now I'm in tracksuit pants and hoody with fleecy socks sexxxxy "

Could we pretend the socks are stockings and pull them up to your knees?? Otherwise sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the Lady is clean and tidy and shaved I see no problem

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By *ary Givin lovinMan
over a year ago

cork


"I love when the woman makes an effort to impress. It usually makes the woman feel confident and it starts the meet off well. I make an effort myself so it's not a sexist thing. Having said all that.... funplaything....Come as you are

Well right now I'm in tracksuit pants and hoody with fleecy socks sexxxxy "

With the fabulous body underneath the tracksuit and hoody I still bet you rock...

I may have to insist on removing the socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOOO! Leave the socks on. There the sexy bits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh god. I can't decide! Socks off/on/off/on

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By *ary Givin lovinMan
over a year ago

cork


"Oh god. I can't decide! Socks off/on/off/on "

Haha

Decisions decisions.

Maybe one on one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup fun...

Got a date tonight!!!!!

I've the fluffy socks on...

Legs and kitty resemble a yeti!!

But Dermot couldn't give a fck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no then she would have a limp and wander round like the hunce back of notre damn. One sock I've never heard such nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't have it easy, they make it easy lol women complicate it so much, trying to out do each other. I've never gone to bed sober with a woman and wanted to fuck her less in the morning. With her makeup all over the place, her hair a mess and buck naked. In fact sometimes I find them more attractive in the morning. Yes I get that women need to feel sexy, totally understandable, it's just the concept of sexy that's a bit skewed and makes it so hard. Probably going to get lynched now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually. I'd settle to have a meet. Let alone worry how said victim presented themselves. I'm definitely putting the cart before the horse lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men don't have it easy, they make it easy lol women complicate it so much, trying to out do each other. I've never gone to bed sober with a woman and wanted to fuck her less in the morning. With her makeup all over the place, her hair a mess and buck naked. In fact sometimes I find them more attractive in the morning. Yes I get that women need to feel sexy, totally understandable, it's just the concept of sexy that's a bit skewed and makes it so hard. Probably going to get lynched now lol "

Well I see your point. Men aren't going to notice if you put that mascara on. Yet some women feel sexier with these final touches. As do I. Once I'm nude and after shagging a few hours I no longer look nicely presented but I definitely care less at that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't have it easy, they make it easy lol women complicate it so much, trying to out do each other. I've never gone to bed sober with a woman and wanted to fuck her less in the morning. With her makeup all over the place, her hair a mess and buck naked. In fact sometimes I find them more attractive in the morning. Yes I get that women need to feel sexy, totally understandable, it's just the concept of sexy that's a bit skewed and makes it so hard. Probably going to get lynched now lol "

Thats actually really sweet and very true too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men don't have it easy, they make it easy lol women complicate it so much, trying to out do each other. I've never gone to bed sober with a woman and wanted to fuck her less in the morning. With her makeup all over the place, her hair a mess and buck naked. In fact sometimes I find them more attractive in the morning. Yes I get that women need to feel sexy, totally understandable, it's just the concept of sexy that's a bit skewed and makes it so hard. Probably going to get lynched now lol "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this a bit of a depressing read. Women, and men, shouldn't feel the need to go to excessive lengths to make them feel desirable. As for make-up, the phrase "less is more" comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard "

Ouch!

I'm not talking about caking on makeup at all btw. But I wouldn't meet with none on at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard

Ouch!

I'm not talking about caking on makeup at all btw. But I wouldn't meet with none on at all "
don't forget the tight white blouse and pencil skirt and the line'd tights an killer heels

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard

Ouch!

I'm not talking about caking on makeup at all btw. But I wouldn't meet with none on at all don't forget the tight white blouse and pencil skirt and the line'd tights an killer heels "

Ha yes I've written it all down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard

Ouch!

I'm not talking about caking on makeup at all btw. But I wouldn't meet with none on at all don't forget the tight white blouse and pencil skirt and the line'd tights an killer heels

Ha yes I've written it all down "
with nutter underlined at the top of the page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm knackered reading this lol (first time in the forums) ..

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By *londie BabeWoman
over a year ago

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I think its the first fun meet I want to put effort into, first impressions and all that, after Ive met a few times I tend to relax a bit and not as particlar about the way Im dressed and look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm calling bs on men having it easy.

Try defluffing the play area and then the hair regrowth decides to go into reverse leaving a very very painful spot on the sack.

It makes me cry now thinking about it

Also makeup is well overdone by some ladies. Myself much prefer no make up on a lady just the natural look

Mr Hard "

And u think women's hair doesn't decide to regrowth doesn't go into reverse????? Just as painful for women ya know. Although men are whips so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are wimps. Some men are real men and have hair in their balls no razor could shave.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing worse than being under prepared though!! Sometimes I could just kick myself for not wearing matching undies!!!

First world problems and all that jazz!!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I love the morning after look on a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg!!! I can't believe so many women think the same like me!

And I have felt relieved receiving a cancellation so I didn't have to get ready!

And I really don't mind putting only little make up on, but the hair removal takes ages. And yes, my legs are that hairy!

I've also cancelled meets with regulars who I've invited to my home because I was too lazy to tidy and clean my apartment lol

I'm a real lazy bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You all sound like you have the manflu

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"It's difficult but I always find the effort worth it..... manscaping my Mickey..,.. arguing with mammy cos she didn't iron my underpants properly.... jump-startingthe tractor...t the list is endless "

You have it hard

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"It's difficult but I always find the effort worth it..... manscaping my Mickey..,.. arguing with mammy cos she didn't iron my underpants properly.... jump-startingthe tractor...t the list is endless

You have it hard "

We were told that ye like it hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about it is, no matter how well the presents wrapped, we really want the gift inside and the wrapping is just going to get ripped off and thrown on the floor.

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

As a TV I don't understand the attitude of the majority of girls commenting on this thread.

A shower and all over body shave takes 30 minutes, dressing and make up another 30 minutes and you feel a million dollars.

I really don't see the problem with one hours preparation for a meet.

I would honestly have no interest in meeting a girl who was too lazy to spend an hour preparing for a meet.

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By *lassyFabulousCouple
over a year ago

Las Swings

As a TV I don't understand the attitude of the majority of girls commenting on this thread.

A shower and all over body shave takes 30 minutes, dressing and make up another 30 minutes and you feel a million dollars.

I really don't see the problem with one hours preparation for a meet.

I would honestly have no interest in meeting a girl who was too lazy to spend an hour preparing for a meet.

Hazel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I really don't see the problem with one hours preparation for a meet.

I would honestly have no interest in meeting a girl who was too lazy to spend an hour preparing for a meet.

Hazel.

"

But it's not like we're meeting Without getting ready. We just decide not to meet.

Maybe it's because we have to do it every day and it's somewhat expected from women to always look perfect and groomed. And maybe sometimes I'm just not horny enough to make an effort for a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a TV I don't understand the attitude of the majority of girls commenting on this thread.

A shower and all over body shave takes 30 minutes, dressing and make up another 30 minutes and you feel a million dollars.

I really don't see the problem with one hours preparation for a meet.

I would honestly have no interest in meeting a girl who was too lazy to spend an hour preparing for a meet.

Hazel.

"

Duly noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balaclava, stockings, heels and a coat and you're sorted, takes a minute to put on and it works well with the boys "

Im strangely aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balaclava, stockings, heels and a coat and you're sorted, takes a minute to put on and it works well with the boys

Im strangely aroused "

So am i

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Meh...we have to hold in our bellies until ye ladies leave. It's tough when ye decide to stay the night .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh...we have to hold in our bellies until ye ladies leave. It's tough when ye decide to stay the night ."

Some of us girls do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men have it easy!!! Have you ever tried to shave a set of balls

Yup "

Naughty miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

I enjoy getting ready..& all things mentioned above..nice feeling sexy & adds to build up for me

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation

Maybe I don't want to shave my legs. Or put on makeup. Or choose lingerie. Or fix my hair. Just can't be arsed. Men have it easy.

Is it just me or do ye other ladies feel like this? "

Ditto

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The thing about it is, no matter how well the presents wrapped, we really want the gift inside and the wrapping is just going to get ripped off and thrown on the floor. "

This would also be my opinion. Don't get me wrong I appreciate the effort you ladies go to. But there's something attractive to me when you have a regular meet on the go and she's comfortable enough to show up casual. I'd perceive that as her being comfortable enough around me to be herself. I can find that sexy in and of itself.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Also I like how to the outside world you look like a pair of normal people just having a coffee or a drink...but of they only knew what was about to happen later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put effort in first few meets but got stood up so now jeans top and minimal makeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in that mood. I kind of want to meet but the effort is just too much. I'm talking about the preparation "

Just find a man who likes natural woman, with no make-up and all this hussle. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put effort in first few meets but got stood up so now jeans top and minimal makeup "

If you keep getting stood up will you eventually go to your meets naked?

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I love the natural casual look on a woman; t-shirt, jeans, no make up or at least subtle or minimal make up. That's how I dress most of the time, except I put a little too much make up on now and then .

But yeah, confidence and attitude is a turn on for me and I love a 'I'm sexy in whatever I'm wearing' attitude.

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