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3sum 'just happened'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does a 3sum ever "just happen" or must there be an arrangement in place?

I've often asked women who have had 3sums how the actual 3sum came about. As in... How do you and your partner end up in bed with another man / woman. More often then not the answer i get is that it just happened?

How the hell does it just happen

What have your experiences been?

I always imagined a 3sum in most cases has to be planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens naturally at partys and meet and greets arent we lucky

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"Happens naturally at partys and meet and greets arent we lucky "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But ye gotta make it happen, no? I don't understand how anything "just happens"

Maybe i think too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But ye gotta make it happen, no? I don't understand how anything "just happens"

Maybe i think too much "

like any hook up..chemistry ..flirting etc ..yes i think u think to much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But ye gotta make it happen, no? I don't understand how anything "just happens"

Maybe i think too much

like any hook up..chemistry ..flirting etc ..yes i think u think to much "

Maybe iam thinking to technical. Like technically nothing just happens... There's a cause and an effect right?

Always confused me when ppl say "just happened"

I want a 3sum to just happen for me but it won't just happen lol

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out."

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My first was at a Bar in Co Clare!

Wasn't sure if it was a wind-up or not...

(until closing time came.)

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If you're referring to when threesomes "just happen" in the vanilla non fab world then you're forgetting the secret ingredient:

Alcohol.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

iv had spontaneous threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly with a fuck buddy they have tend to just happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ive had just happened spontaneously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone (two females preferably) want one to just happen with meself?

I'll leave you steal my 3sum virginity

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

at parties they can just happen.

In vanilla life its tougher but depends on the company you keep ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened with a FWB and her best friend.. Best night of my life

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By *red1972Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

First threesome started out as two couples playing separately but same bedroom. Girl 2s partner fell asleep so a seond set of hands joined me and girl 1 then proceeded from there. So i think sometimes you have to be in the right place at the right time.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

First one I had was when I was being a perfect gentleman as a student, walking 2 girls back to their place to make sure they got home alright, and passing my place they asked if they could use the bathroom, sure no problem. Then oooo we are two tired to walk the rest of the way, can we stay here, being the gentleman I am I said yes I have a double bed ye take that and I will sleep on the couch, oooo no need for that they said and the rest is just a big smile on my face. Anyway I thought I would be quite about and not tell anybody as you never know might be a chance of it happening again. Anyway I went into the library on Monday morning and there was a big cheer, whoop and shouts of things like one woman is not enough and the kinky pair had told their friends that I was a bit of a beast in the bed, well let's just say I was glad of that double bed ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First one I had was when I was being a perfect gentleman as a student, walking 2 girls back to their place to make sure they got home alright, and passing my place they asked if they could use the bathroom, sure no problem. Then oooo we are two tired to walk the rest of the way, can we stay here, being the gentleman I am I said yes I have a double bed ye take that and I will sleep on the couch, oooo no need for that they said and the rest is just a big smile on my face. Anyway I thought I would be quite about and not tell anybody as you never know might be a chance of it happening again. Anyway I went into the library on Monday morning and there was a big cheer, whoop and shouts of things like one woman is not enough and the kinky pair had told their friends that I was a bit of a beast in the bed, well let's just say I was glad of that double bed ha ha. "

What a gentleman. I envy you though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out."

Has worked for me on several occassions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out.

Has worked for me on several occassions"

Was dancing involved?

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

4 3sums in vanilla life, 3 ffm, and 1 mfm, and they all "just happened", now granted a public house, night club and alcohol contributed to the "just happened"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out.

Has worked for me on several occassions

Was dancing involved?"

A little how well you know me

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By *orning Sex GuyMan
over a year ago

Cavan

Had a threesome a few months ago but it was organised on Fab with a couple, and a good time was had by all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've seen it "just happen" but I've also made it happen

It helps to not be a dick!

It also helps to have met the other 2 before and to make sure everyone is comfy with each other and with no alcohol involved it makes for a damn good night

Now to just do it again and again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some planned, some just present themselves who am I to argue with the gods

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Love it when it just happens whether a 3 sum or one on one

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