FabSwingers.com forum: So whats going on?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of acrimony going on here of late.... am I missing something? A lot of old friends are leaving the site and I wondering why? anyone got any ideas? keep it polite please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea. Sometimes I think I'm living in a parallel world! I read a thread and think it's fine and next thing there's talk of hidden meanings, sly digs and bullying. Goes straight over my head!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

People come and go, nothing new about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people come and go here , some go because they are pushed , some because life changes and this site no longer suits their needs . To all who leave , best of luck in your life , hope you carry some nice memories with you .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People come and go, nothing new about it."

so it's not just me then thinking I am missing out on something? ok.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmh lilli & lolli

Afternoon girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmh lilli & lolli

Afternoon girls

'Sup

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely no idea. Sometimes I think I'm living in a parallel world! I read a thread and think it's fine and next thing there's talk of hidden meanings, sly digs and bullying. Goes straight over my head!

over my head too, I don't come in here often but ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same shit, different day. Any hint of drama and the same crew are buzzing around it like flies to shit. Steer clear of the gossips, drama queens and backstabbers and you've got nothing to worry about - just as in real life.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

and some hide their profiles

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

some people seem to have to have a say on almost every post , mocking , insulting treads and it just continues to spiral out of control and gets nasty

That my tupence worth

Mrs crazy

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

over my head too, I don't come in here often but ........ "

I'm quite happy letting it in over my head. I'm here for fun, I'm not interested in any dramas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same shit, different day. Any hint of drama and the same crew are buzzing around it like flies to shit. Steer clear of the gossips, drama queens and backstabbers and you've got nothing to worry about - just as in real life."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely use the forum for that reason, but various passive aggressive or just plain aggressive status updates on my news feed over the past few days piqued my interest and I came to have a look. Grown adults acting like children, nothing new

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Same as Lolli . I must live in a parallel universe to the one which contains Fab. I read the posts on this and rarely see nothing only banter. Suggests to me that some may be unable to accept/partake in the banter so maybe this place ain't right for them.

If it's malicious then yes u have the right to feel aggrieved but there's always the block button.

I don't see the need to leave a group ... Just block the offender, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on .. There's enough shite in real life without your online life too .. Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's too much jealousy & bullying on this site & nasty status up-date...... it's a disgrace to be honest......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as Lolli . I must live in a parallel universe to the one which contains Fab. I read the posts on this and rarely see nothing only banter. Suggests to me that some may be unable to accept/partake in the banter so maybe this place ain't right for them.

If it's malicious then yes u have the right to feel aggrieved but there's always the block button.

I don't see the need to leave a group ... Just block the offender, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on .. There's enough shite in real life without your online life too .. Just sayin

The block button does nothing but stop someone sending you nasty abusive messages. It doesn't stop people spreading rumours, it doesn't stop people poking you on the forum in a way that makes you feel ridiculous if you complain, because it's made to look like a joke even though you know it isn't. It also doesn't stop your aggressor from making other profiles to send you more messages, to contact other people about you, and on and on it goes. The block button is mostly a pile of useless shite, because at the end of the day, if someone wants to get at you, they will. One way or another.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I don't let anyone rule my life I'm here to enjoy myself n would not bully anyone

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

My lady friend get lots of abusive messages , there's lots of sickos on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very true..

some people will always run with the herd. even if they know their in the wrong, to weak to stand up in their own two feet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we really need to know why people leave?

Why get involved.Their business, end of.

If a friend, yes them ask privately but why the need to discus in forum. Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to fight my battles.

Again, I believe it 'not my circus, not my monkeys', or maybe more apt, 'not my circus, not my clowns'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we really need to know why people leave?

Why get involved.Their business, end of.

If a friend, yes them ask privately but why the need to discus in forum. Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to fight my battles.

Again, I believe it 'not my circus, not my monkeys', or maybe more apt, 'not my circus, not my clowns'

(Although, I still haven't a fckn clue what you're on about

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim

There's some very good & valid points on this thread, and unfortunately most bullies will not stop as long as they're getting a response from someone, it doesn't even have to be the person they are bullying. Personally I always ask someone not to give in (be that here or in real life) because

1. We shouldn't be forced to do something we don't want to.

2. That is when they win & it does not mean that they are going to stop.

I'd like to think my friends know me well enough to dismiss out of hand any lies/crap being said about me. I know a few people here and my opinion would not change about them no matter what I was to read or was told.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

"Do we really need to know why people leave?

Why get involved.Their business, end of.

If a friend, yes them ask privately but why the need to discus in forum. Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to fight my battles.

Again, I believe it 'not my circus, not my monkeys', or maybe more apt, 'not my circus, not my clowns'"

I'm loving this phrase, think I prefer the monkey version. Monkeys are always better.

This is going to go up there beside "If the baby ain't dirty don't wash it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we really need to know why people leave?

Why get involved.Their business, end of.

If a friend, yes them ask privately but why the need to discus in forum. Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to fight my battles.

Again, I believe it 'not my circus, not my monkeys', or maybe more apt, 'not my circus, not my clowns'

(Although, I still haven't a fckn clue what you're on about

Not sure I do either, but I like it, so I keep repeating it, then it'll catch on..we all be saying it then not having a foggiest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i dunno whether i'm cummin or goin!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's kinda what I was thinking too just by pipping in every now and again just for a look.....

some people seem to have to have a say on almost every post , mocking , insulting treads and it just continues to spiral out of control and gets nasty

That my tupence worth

Mrs crazy

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

That's kinda what I was thinking too just by pipping in every now and again just for a look.....

some people seem to have to have a say on almost every post , mocking , insulting treads and it just continues to spiral out of control and gets nasty

That my tupence worth

Mrs crazy

Just as well it's an ADULT site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blonde!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me wonder.....where do you come?

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