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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

Oh God, so sorry. I hope you get somewhere legally, how about civil case?

It's ridiculous we have blasphemy laws but no revenge porn laws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus that's terrible. U poor thing. What an asshole.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

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what an evil shit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg how scary is that... Horrible thing to happen to you.. Hope it's taken down from the site ASAP!!

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Sorry to hear this. I love recording but never show my face or identifying features but it still worries me somehow they'l be seen so I'm sure your devasted & disgusted. Is there anyway u can contact the guy & have a chat with him or threaten him (with some legal gargon of course)?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

South

He needs a visit from the boys in the Wooly Hats!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op horrible thing to happen you.. this is the risk people take accomadating in their homes sadly not everyone can be trusted... Personally we only host cpls we know really well in our home and when hosting a party in rented accom we will take all guests jackets and put them out of eye shot because weve heard about this happening to other people before...Hope the site removes the vid but you cud have a battle on your hands..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials "

That's a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is absolutely awful. What a shit he was!

Get his name passed around asap if he's still on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials

That's a good idea!"

Like pissing the wind guys..he wud use a new handle so unless OP has a face pic username no good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

Any chance of a link to this heinous act

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials

That's a good idea!"

He could still be here I lost track of him when he was on his third profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

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Are you recognisable in the video? If so, I think the guards can help you. We don't have revenge porn laws here, but if this is causing you hassle and trauma, there might still be a case to be made.

So sorry this has happened to you, and presumably all the people there on the night x

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's absolutely appalling! I heard of this being done and got a warning from a friend once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shiver me timbers

Any chance of a link to this heinous act "

If that's supposed to be funny I am not laughing its just made me do the exact opposite actually .I should have expected that response from the men on here I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiver me timbers

Any chance of a link to this heinous act "

There's always one insensitive asshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

Are you recognisable in the video? If so, I think the guards can help you. We don't have revenge porn laws here, but if this is causing you hassle and trauma, there might still be a case to be made.

So sorry this has happened to you, and presumably all the people there on the night x"

How do you know for sure who made the recording?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiver me timbers

Any chance of a link to this heinous act

If that's supposed to be funny I am not laughing its just made me do the exact opposite actually .I should have expected that response from the men on here I suppose

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Apologies, it wasn't meant to be offensive. Not a nice ordeal at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shiver me timbers

Any chance of a link to this heinous act

There's always one insensitive asshole "

No Kaizer has no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is awful, my worst nightmare. I hope you get it sorted. What an absolute scumbag. I hope karma gets him tenfold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is he still here? report him. mail me his name so i can block him so he cant go to socials "

Good thinking Batman.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I know this might not be words of comfort you want to hear right now but The Law Reform Commission are to produce updated recommendations under the Non Fatal Offences Against the Person Act. These recommendations are to include cyber harassment and revenge porn and are to be presented before the government before the end of this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you know for sure who made the recording? "

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo."

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording? "

Did i miss something? I read the op as there only being the two of them there. Her and the scumbag and I'm pretty sure it wasn't her that put it on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording?

Did i miss something? I read the op as there only being the two of them there. Her and the scumbag and I'm pretty sure it wasn't her that put it on the internet"

Oh! You're right, there isn't any suggestion of there being more people there. Apologies to the OP for my jumping to conclusions. And to myself for showing the fab forum how stupid I can be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a one on one meet only. The camera angle makes me think it was in a jacket he put on a chair in my bedroom .Since he was aware of the camera he never looked directly at it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording?

Did i miss something? I read the op as there only being the two of them there. Her and the scumbag and I'm pretty sure it wasn't her that put it on the internet

Oh! You're right, there isn't any suggestion of there being more people there. Apologies to the OP for my jumping to conclusions. And to myself for showing the fab forum how stupid I can be!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a one on one meet only. The camera angle makes me think it was in a jacket he put on a chair in my bedroom .Since he was aware of the camera he never looked directly at it ."

Did you come across the video - or did someone tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording?

Did i miss something? I read the op as there only being the two of them there. Her and the scumbag and I'm pretty sure it wasn't her that put it on the

internet"

No LC you didn't, after re-reading it I may have been a little dramatic in my visual representation...

There is certainly no mention of a party, I assumed no one would have the neck to do it on a 1 to 1 meet.

I can't even imagine what excuse he'd have given if found out on a 1 to 1.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Oh jesus christ that's awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How do you know for sure who made the recording?

I can imagine you looking at a video of your party, in your house. You must almost be able to puncture (sometimes AutoCorrect is true!) nay, picture him standing there with an odd button or as you said, the guy who never took his jacket off.

What a weirdo.

It happened earlier this year. If there was a group of people at play, who could be sure who made the recording?

Did i miss something? I read the op as there only being the two of them there. Her and the scumbag and I'm pretty sure it wasn't her that put it on the

internet

No LC you didn't, after re-reading it I may have been a little dramatic in my visual representation...

There is certainly no mention of a party, I assumed no one would have the neck to do it on a 1 to 1 meet.

I can't even imagine what excuse he'd have given if found out on a 1 to 1."

Makes you wonder how many times he's done it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a one on one meet only. The camera angle makes me think it was in a jacket he put on a chair in my bedroom .Since he was aware of the camera he never looked directly at it ."

That's just so weird, so he had a whole room view? Thank you for sharing OP. I'm going to make a mental note to move any clothing left in the room from now on. That or start frisking them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a one on one meet only. The camera angle makes me think it was in a jacket he put on a chair in my bedroom .Since he was aware of the camera he never looked directly at it .

That's just so weird, so he had a whole room view? Thank you for sharing OP. I'm going to make a mental note to move any clothing left in the room from now on. That or start frisking them!"

I have heard of it happening when a meet happens in the home of the person secretly taping but never heard of anyone taking a video camera/taping thingy with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had this before when a vid of me and a girl pal entertaining a male surfaced on xhamster , another fabber who knew us made contact and sent us a link to the vid , the problem is that such vids often get harvested and reshared on other porn sites what you need to do is issue a DMI take down notice to the porn site , you do need to state that you did not give permission for that clip to be sharedor viewed , that will get it taken down , please note any keywords associated with the clip and even if its removed have a quick google now and then using the title it was uploaded under to ensure it hasnt been harvested to other sites .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had this before when a vid of me and a girl pal entertaining a male surfaced on xhamster , another fabber who knew us made contact and sent us a link to the vid , the problem is that such vids often get harvested and reshared on other porn sites what you need to do is issue a DMI take down notice to the porn site , you do need to state that you did not give permission for that clip to be sharedor viewed , that will get it taken down , please note any keywords associated with the clip and even if its removed have a quick google now and then using the title it was uploaded under to ensure it hasnt been harvested to other sites . "

Total lowlifes that do it. Was yours a man from here too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am genuinely very very sorry to read that someone could be so dangerous as to do this. I'm not in the republic of Ireland so i'm not aware of how the law stands but i know that the law is there to protect you and in that sense i would urge you to contact your local Garda station who will or should be able to direct you to their online crime division.

Not so long ago, here in the North, a young girl waived her right to anominity and revealed a similair story. The BBC spotlight programne took on this case in a one off special programme and the guy involved was brought up in court and sent to jail. At the very least this is an invasion of your privacy and he should be dealt with approoriately by a court of law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no in fairness ,it was our own fault ,we had been livestreaming on a cam site and we thought the webcam had been shut down unfortunately when we got a bit frisky that same stream was still broadcasting unknown to the 3 of us and some one copied the stream , enhanced it and uploaded it to porn sites , the issue for the 3 of us was that we were recognisable from the vid so thanks to the eagle eyed fabber who came across the clip and promptly got in contact to let us know some russian dude had claimed the vid was his own .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a total disgrace,and a total invasion of your privacy. He would want to be one very sad and one very f***ked up individual if this is how he gets his kicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame if u can remember. Likes of him that gives us men bad name. Assholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wed like to know who it was if at all possible?

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

"

That is a sickening thing to do to anyone. We had the same thing happen on more than one occasion onenof which was only found last week by another fab member and told us . It was online 10 months . We have reported it and the person that uploaded it . The person that did it is still on fab and active and has dont this to more people than us but we have figured out who he is .

But because of the site and forum rules and reproduction we can't name and shame just Yet .

Its bastards like this that ruin all the fun hear and make meeting genuine people hard .

Op you can pm us if you like if we can be any help .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

That is a sickening thing to do to anyone. We had the same thing happen on more than one occasion onenof which was only found last week by another fab member and told us . It was online 10 months . We have reported it and the person that uploaded it . The person that did it is still on fab and active and has dont this to more people than us but we have figured out who he is .

But because of the site and forum rules and reproduction we can't name and shame just Yet .

Its bastards like this that ruin all the fun hear and make meeting genuine people hard .

Op you can pm us if you like if we can be any help . "

Could you pm us who it was? Dont want to be getting caught out like that ourselves tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry too hear,

That is sick and twisted,

And pervy,

Well i will be definetly more aware who i let in house from now on, i be more suspicious thats for sure, it takes the enjoyment out of meeting in the comfort and privacy of your own home even,and of course having too watch out for guys more too, even though they are not all like him, but even so

Well hope you sort it, and get justice for what happened,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wed like to know who it was if at all possible? "

I would too if possible. Would hate to meet them

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By *edserMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people

What a f..king scum bag . Report and block ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you pm me too,

Wud be gud too know who it was, dont wanna get caught either,

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

I'm really sorry to hear this has happened. Truly awful. & totally illegal! Is there really no revenge porn laws there, that's shocking. Glad to hear they're bringing it in.

Was the asshole from the south too? Maybe if if posted it in the north you could prosecute him?

The site has to take the video down if you tell them what happened & that you didn't know he was filming it. It happened to a friend of mine.

I hope you are ok & everything works out.

My thoughts are with you. X

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By *ustful desiresCouple
over a year ago

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What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

My better half warned me about that before but I laughed it off, it's scary to think that could happen. I was terrified when I broke up with my ex husband that he would do the same. There should be laws put in place, that could destroy someone's life.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Op,this issue of revenge porn has been highlighted a few moments ago on breakingnews.ie. and on the rte news website. Check it out

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Could you describe details of him. Age, height, looks and where he's from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding "

I don't accom and have mostly gone to other people's homes with exception of hotels a cpl of times,,, if any fucker ever did that to me and I found out about it they'd be getting a late night or very early morning knock on their door and it wouldn't be from the boys in blue,, what an absolute horrible bastard to do that!!

Sorry this has happened to you OP I really hope you can do something about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you describe details of him. Age, height, looks and where he's from."

Guys forum rules dictate you can't name and shame or insinuate who people are. If you want to know pm people, don't expect a public declaration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op so sorry to hear this and to the others who have spoken up on this thread about their experiences. Worst nightmare!!!! I have a question though is there money exchanging hand's as that to the best of my knowledge would make it a criminal offence if the site paid for it. Hope we all get to know of the sick fuckers doing this!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

There's an article in the journal today about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would the porn site not have to act within the jurisdiction of where the site is run. If the porn site is UK based or U.S. based then surely it would be illegal for them to keep it to view if a complaint was made that it was revenge porn?

I hope it gets taken down for you. That's so upsetting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

post a link to the vid please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an article in the journal today about this."

Revenge porn or this case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please "

Grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

Grow up"

Thanks for that wonderful piece of advise

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Had similar happen to me. Not as bad though. Caught some dude secretly taking pictures of some play I was involved in at a hotel.

Confronted him immediately about it and of course he professed innocence. Told him he wouldn't mind showing me his phone then. Sure enough there were the photos

He was very lucky the photos the deleted and the phone wasnt lodged in his recrum afterwards.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding

I don't accom and have mostly gone to other people's homes with exception of hotels a cpl of times,,, if any fucker ever did that to me and I found out about it they'd be getting a late night or very early morning knock on their door and it wouldn't be from the boys in blue,, what an absolute horrible bastard to do that!!

Sorry this has happened to you OP I really hope you can do something about it xx"

While bating the shite outa the guy would give a certain sense of satisfaction, its not the answer as whos to say he wont do it to someone else? If that happened,the guy could have you prosecuted for GBH or ABH and you are charged with the offence.

Hopefully the new laws that are on the way will allow people have their say and their day,and its all legal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please "

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes don't do anything together that you wouldn't do in front of other people in public..you can hardly be surprised if somebody records such meets..I wouldn't be embarrassed after all it is only sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it"

well doooh of course its the own fault

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


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As the saying goes don't do anything together that you wouldn't do in front of other people in public..you can hardly be surprised if somebody records such meets..I wouldn't be embarrassed after all it is only sex "

This isn't about you. People have a right to privacy.

You're some piece of work.

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Sorry this happened u op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault "

You need some seriuos professional help

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it"

Youre right,however these new laws will tackle the issue of cyber bullying and revenge porn as a whole. Im sure many have read of teenagers taking their lives because of social media bullying and the use of video footage and pics without consent of the person involved.With technology moving so quickly, we need these laws to protect our people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help"

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding

I don't accom and have mostly gone to other people's homes with exception of hotels a cpl of times,,, if any fucker ever did that to me and I found out about it they'd be getting a late night or very early morning knock on their door and it wouldn't be from the boys in blue,, what an absolute horrible bastard to do that!!

Sorry this has happened to you OP I really hope you can do something about it xx

While bating the shite outa the guy would give a certain sense of satisfaction, its not the answer as whos to say he wont do it to someone else? If that happened,the guy could have you prosecuted for GBH or ABH and you are charged with the offence.

Hopefully the new laws that are on the way will allow people have their say and their day,and its all legal. "

Hopefully the new laws are on their way,, and can protect and help a lot more ppl that are in a situation like the OP is now,, if they weren't and it happened to me I would do all I have said above,, how dare any horrible scumbag do that to any woman/couple/or man and be let away with it,, it's disgusting and boils my blood

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty "

You've already lost mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op of the person is still on this site can you pm me the profile name so I can block.

This is truly awful what's happened to you. What a scumbag to have done this to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

You've already lost mate. "

firstly I'm not you're mate and secondly I didn't know we were playing a game

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

You've already lost mate.

firstly I'm not you're mate and secondly I didn't know we were playing a game "

Your

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

You've already lost mate.

firstly I'm not you're mate and secondly I didn't know we were playing a game

Your "

Checkmate

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I never take photos of a lady when on a meet . I met this one where her bf took photos of us together but they never went anywhere . My lady friend takes photos of us but thats for her private use . But he must have been a scumbag to do such a thing

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding

I don't accom and have mostly gone to other people's homes with exception of hotels a cpl of times,,, if any fucker ever did that to me and I found out about it they'd be getting a late night or very early morning knock on their door and it wouldn't be from the boys in blue,, what an absolute horrible bastard to do that!!

Sorry this has happened to you OP I really hope you can do something about it xx

While bating the shite outa the guy would give a certain sense of satisfaction, its not the answer as whos to say he wont do it to someone else? If that happened,the guy could have you prosecuted for GBH or ABH and you are charged with the offence.

Hopefully the new laws that are on the way will allow people have their say and their day,and its all legal. "

That's only if you get cought for gbh

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"What a bastard to do that he needs a good hiding

I don't accom and have mostly gone to other people's homes with exception of hotels a cpl of times,,, if any fucker ever did that to me and I found out about it they'd be getting a late night or very early morning knock on their door and it wouldn't be from the boys in blue,, what an absolute horrible bastard to do that!!

Sorry this has happened to you OP I really hope you can do something about it xx

While bating the shite outa the guy would give a certain sense of satisfaction, its not the answer as whos to say he wont do it to someone else? If that happened,the guy could have you prosecuted for GBH or ABH and you are charged with the offence.

Hopefully the new laws that are on the way will allow people have their say and their day,and its all legal.

That's only if you get cought for gbh "

Very true dirty pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Six minutes of video from a meet I had from here earlier in the year has been posted up on a certain well known porn site . I didn't even know he was filming the meet.I sought legal advice yesterday and under Irish Law nothing can be done about it. I have asked the porn site to remove it, but its still there this morning.The meet was in my house and the camera must have been in a jacket pocket from what I can work out. Be on your guard people .

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If it's a site outside Ireland,is there legislation for revenge porn in the country is registered in ?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty "

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel? "

Don't feed the troll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 yrs ago a guy on here revealed he was about to have a hotel meet and that he would broadcast it in the chatroom....

Nobody really believed he'd do it but sure enough at the time he'd said his cam sprung to life before his 'meet' arrived!

(He'd said she didn't know about it and he was doing it for the laugh so everyone could see!!)

It was reported to admin about what was going on and his account was pulled....

Just be careful peeps, if you're on a 'play meet' with someone, be aware of open laptops in the room, your fun could be getting broadcast somewhere without you realising!

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over a year ago


"I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video"

and can i ask why you are so afraid..are you married or does your job deal with the public much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel? "

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


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post a link to the vid please

You sir, are a gobshite

now now don't call names over the internet..I'd happily let you say that to my face sometime..don't be afraid

Who's afraid? Ive no problem calling a spade a spade. You're a typical internet troll and I'd have no problem calling you a gobshite to your face

well if you did that we'd have to put our hands up and sort it out like men..don't get brave on the internet "

You are an absolute asshole to post comments like you have here . Being honest your the type of person why so many ladies or couples leave this site .

If this is not a funny or joke topic and is quite a serious issue.

So if you have nothing good to say then your best keep your keyboard warrior fingers to playing with yourself.

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By *ewryswingerMan
over a year ago

newry

If it is the video that I saw , it has also been edited to zoom in on your face which is even worse. Obviously I won't be providing links, needless to say he is an absolute scumbag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please make sure you issue a takedown notice to the porn site as soon as possible .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

You sir, are a gobshite

now now don't call names over the internet..I'd happily let you say that to my face sometime..don't be afraid

Who's afraid? Ive no problem calling a spade a spade. You're a typical internet troll and I'd have no problem calling you a gobshite to your face

well if you did that we'd have to put our hands up and sort it out like men..don't get brave on the internet

You are an absolute asshole to post comments like you have here . Being honest your the type of person why so many ladies or couples leave this site .

If this is not a funny or joke topic and is quite a serious issue.

So if you have nothing good to say then your best keep your keyboard warrior fingers to playing with yourself. "

That told me

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video

and can i ask why you are so afraid..are you married or does your job deal with the public much?"
that's has nothing to do with it, marital status or her occupation..the fact is he took footage without her consent or knowledge and posted on a website.

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

Anyone with any info on this please pm me

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"

post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place "

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

OP very sorry for you. A despicable act carried out by a gobshite.

Not sure I see why Gardai can't do anything. If someone records audio without one of the parties being aware, it's inadmissible in court, so surely posting something, where one of the parties is unaware, is also illegal?

I do hope Karma kicks the guy in the nads somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video

and can i ask why you are so afraid..are you married or does your job deal with the public much?"

Good God you are a plonker

It's got to do with permission!

OP could be a porn star and be all over the net.

Fact is there was no consent for this video to be shared ...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with any info on this please pm me"

Think the only info you be getting is what you have read on the thread so far,,, your post screams 'anyone with the link send it to me' don't think the OP wants the link sent around she'd have done it herself if she did,, and rightly so she hasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then? "

Ifs buts and maybes its all hypothetical situations...If my aunt had Balls she'd be my uncle..lets deal with facts

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over a year ago


"I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video"

He went out of his way to remain anonymous. That you knew absolutely nothing whatsoever about him and brought him to your house is quite worrying. But thats a growing trend on fab that I dislike that there are far too many fabbers who won't even give a contact number now. All they want is the anonymity of Kik. As a single fem it doesn't sit well with me at all. I really hope it's sorted for you and it's great that you've warned us what can happen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then?

Ifs buts and maybes its all hypothetical situations...If my aunt had Balls she'd be my uncle..lets deal with facts "

I suppose one fact would be that your profile name suits you

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over a year ago


"I posted to warn others. I would like to thank those of you who have been supportive. . His original profile that I meet him from was in Waterford. When I refused a second meet with him I started getting messages from an all most identical profile in Kilkenny . Both profiles are deleted now.He was in his early thirties and tall six foot plus.He was that good at the deception I can only assume he has done it before. He looked nothing like his profile pictures . I never got a proper phone number Kik only. (I did ask but he would kik and then ring from a withheld number). He said he was discrete and insisted he would park his car one street away and then walk to my house. So no I don't even know his phone number or what sort of car he might have.

Finally for the rubberneckers No I won't be posting a link to to the video

and can i ask why you are so afraid..are you married or does your job deal with the public much?

Good God you are a plonker

It's got to do with permission!

OP could be a porn star and be all over the net.

Fact is there was no consent for this video to be shared ...simples

"

sure look I doubt the woman has something we haven't already seen..the amount of videos of ordinary people floating about is unreal..I believe there is 1 of myself doing the rounds

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then?

Ifs buts and maybes its all hypothetical situations...If my aunt had Balls she'd be my uncle..lets deal with facts "

Youve no idea of the effect that this topic can have on people who have to live with it or worse,who choose not to live because of it!!! Which is more a fact and my point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a sizable percentage of men here who never stop telling women on here that this is a sex site and if your not here for no holes barred sex on receipt of a crappy cock pic and a dodgy kik address then youve no business being here . To these plonkers who cause women to nuke their profiles and rethink ever meeting anyone here , id like to say a heartfelt go fuck yerselves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then?

Ifs buts and maybes its all hypothetical situations...If my aunt had Balls she'd be my uncle..lets deal with facts

Youve no idea of the effect that this topic can have on people who have to live with it or worse,who choose not to live because of it!!! Which is more a fact and my point!! "

I have a fair idea I've heard of people who have killed themselves over the shame..the most recent 1 was an italian girl who sent a vid of her having sex with her current boyfriend to her ex boyfriend in the hope of making him jealous..ex boyfriend uploaded it to a porn site and the rest is history..now do you think that was very intelligent of her? That lady should be given a Darwin award

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"there is a sizable percentage of men here who never stop telling women on here that this is a sex site and if your not here for no holes barred sex on receipt of a crappy cock pic and a dodgy kik address then youve no business being here . To these plonkers who cause women to nuke their profiles and rethink ever meeting anyone here , id like to say a heartfelt go fuck yerselves . "

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"there is a sizable percentage of men here who never stop telling women on here that this is a sex site and if your not here for no holes barred sex on receipt of a crappy cock pic and a dodgy kik address then youve no business being here . To these plonkers who cause women to nuke their profiles and rethink ever meeting anyone here , id like to say a heartfelt go fuck yerselves . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Bigthicko:

sure look I doubt the woman has something we haven't already seen..the amount of videos of ordinary people floating about is unreal..I believe there is 1 of myself doing the rounds "

I have little doubt there is - I suspect there are several: however the vast majority of fab users are not into bestiality and have no interest in watching you f**k pigs, so I wouldn't hang my hat on making it as a porn star just yet.

Besides, the pic of you standing in your bedroom in your mammys house, showing off how you can't get a full horn may deter any few remaining who would. Maybe it only sticks out straight now due to the pig f**king.

Perhaps you could try variety and go bovine every now and again..? I'm sure you may have a goat tethered in your front garden.

Anyway, as fruitless as this appeal may be, I'll try it anyway, and I'll even use small words.

Please stop. This is a very traumatic (look it up) experience for the OP.

Congratulations. You hijacked the post and took the focus away from what the OP suffered (sorry, more than one syllable there) and placed it on yourself. Well go you.

Please stop this and allow the people with a modicum of compassion to comfort and advise the OP.

If you wish to vent at someone of have an online fight, I will oblige - feel free to PM me. But please do stop posting on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Bigthicko:

sure look I doubt the woman has something we haven't already seen..the amount of videos of ordinary people floating about is unreal..I believe there is 1 of myself doing the rounds

I have little doubt there is - I suspect there are several: however the vast majority of fab users are not into bestiality and have no interest in watching you f**k pigs, so I wouldn't hang my hat on making it as a porn star just yet.

Besides, the pic of you standing in your bedroom in your mammys house, showing off how you can't get a full horn may deter any few remaining who would. Maybe it only sticks out straight now due to the pig f**king.

Perhaps you could try variety and go bovine every now and again..? I'm sure you may have a goat tethered in your front garden.

Anyway, as fruitless as this appeal may be, I'll try it anyway, and I'll even use small words.

Please stop. This is a very traumatic (look it up) experience for the OP.

Congratulations. You hijacked the post and took the focus away from what the OP suffered (sorry, more than one syllable there) and placed it on yourself. Well go you.

Please stop this and allow the people with a modicum of compassion to comfort and advise the OP.

If you wish to vent at someone of have an online fight, I will oblige - feel free to PM me. But please do stop posting on this thread."

hey that was quite funny..take a bow sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - genuinely so sorry to hear this and your absolutely dead right to post on the forums and remind us all to be more aware and on the look out, so thank you for sharing and I hope the site removes the video for you xxp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and I have no intention of hijacking the thread or stop people saying what they want to say ..say whatever the hell you like

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Issue a DCMA immediately. The site will have their own fill out form. Make sure you get the technical details (most importantly the full offending URL) right.

Your grounds are

1) copyright (allege its a work for hire situation in that you paid him to shoot it)

2) illegality (likely the laws of the US will apply as it will pass through US servers ) as non-consensual pornography without the requisite federal papers for adult material.

Good luck and sorry to hear such vile conduct exisits

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it"
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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post a link to the vid please

This not amusing nor is the time to be funny. I've read an artical the other day about a young italian girl who had the same thing. Tried everything...police,courts,quit her job and moved elsewhere...the video haunted her no matter what she did. Fell into deep depression and committed suicide in the end. It is a very serious thing but the lawmakers and public in general are very insensitive with this sort of thing. It almost as they're saying it's your own fault,deal with it

well doooh of course its the own fault

You need some seriuos professional help

seriuos? do you want to go back to school and learn how to spell you numpty

Id not be too worried about his spelling im more worried about your flippant attitude to such a sensitive topic! So ill ask you! If this was your sister, a relative or friend how would you feel?

well you play with fire you get burnt..I'd probably be annoyed yeah but I'd be more annoyed at how stupid my sister , relative or friend was in the first place

Lets up this for a moment and im speaking hypothetically here. Lets say your sister was a victim of revenge porn and it affected her mind so badly where her personality changed and she became withdrawn and depressed ,that eventually she committed suicide. Would you still be annoyed at her stupidity then?

Ifs buts and maybes its all hypothetical situations...If my aunt had Balls she'd be my uncle..lets deal with facts "

The issue of consent is central here. Have you difficulty understanding the notion of consent? If ever a user name was appropriate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you OP & others for making us aware. I will be extra careful in who I meet and play with. Its not an easy thing to say out loud on forums when someone violates your privacy in such a vile way. I hope all videos are removed from sites and the scum that recorded without your knowledge or consent & posted them are somehow exposed and dealt with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame him so he can't do this again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry this happened op , I would never have thought this would happen so thank you for sharing & helping a very naive me be a little more careful xx

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Revenge porn is now a crime in the UK, including NI. If this man has uploaded it from the north, then you could report it to the PSNI.

I would've thought that the act of recording the footage was itself a crime south of the border, whatever about the upload?

Sorry this has happened to you. A despicable thing to do.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Wed like to know who it was if at all possible?

I would too if possible. Would hate to meet them"

Sorry we are outside your age range so cant message.

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Revenge porn is now a crime in the UK, including NI. If this man has uploaded it from the north, then you could report it to the PSNI.

I would've thought that the act of recording the footage was itself a crime south of the border, whatever about the upload?

Sorry this has happened to you. A despicable thing to do."

From what i believe from the news today it is here too now..or going to be.. also "upskirting and downblowsing" too...

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim


"there is a sizable percentage of men here who never stop telling women on here that this is a sex site and if your not here for no holes barred sex on receipt of a crappy cock pic and a dodgy kik address then youve no business being here . To these plonkers who cause women to nuke their profiles and rethink ever meeting anyone here , id like to say a heartfelt go fuck yerselves . "

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beyond despicable... Sorry to hear this.

But other than repeated take down requests... every time you find it online this is one of the downsides of the net. The sites geberally accept no liability for things uploaded by third parties and national jurisdictions mean it's virtually impossible to pursue cross border prosecution even if you could get police to investigate.

Glad to see so many guys on here think it's beyond appealing and hope you succeed in getting it taken down wherever it may appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should say Beyond appalling in last post Wish I could type. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's an awful thing to happen to anyone and questioning the girl t about why she met him or how doest help she's not in court he should be ,I hope the negative comments don't effect her but she has a lot of support and it could happen to anyone ,, sorry op I can't message you im outside you age limit ,but be happy with the supportive comments you got. And ignore the few negative one keep you chin up and stay proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about this, disgusting thing to happen to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely sorry to hear what happened you. i am thinking of you and hope you get some justice. xx

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Its bad enough when someone posts something that you concented to be filmed but its even worse when you didn't know in the first place it was being shot.

Its a horrible thing to do to someone and i hope you can get it stopped.

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