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"Personally I would be happy to meet other people as a couple but I wouldn't be happy with her meeting a guy alone. " I would be the same and wouldn't meet others without her... | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() Wouldn't you be OK with him having a fuck buddy too??? | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() I kinda get what your saying but I think fab warps our ideas of what's "normal" and "acceptable". I don't think many men in the real world would be ok with their gf or wife shagging another man or woman on the side. It wouldn't be a monogamous relationship then, which would push it into the swing world! | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() I understand what you're saying FPT And it would be fine with me, once it was in the open and I knew about it. It takes on a different concept if it's secret and behind ones back | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() Yeah I mean it would be out in the open. No secrecy | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() Sometimes I'm sorry I ever found out about this site as I feel now I'm not sure if I could leave it behind. So just wondering out loud | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() You wouldn't have to leave it behind if you met someone from fab who was cool with that ![]() | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() ![]() Exactly. People meet in weirder places than this ![]() | |||
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" Sometimes I'm sorry I ever found out about this site as I feel now I'm not sure if I could leave it behind. So just wondering out loud You wouldn't have to leave it behind if you met someone from fab who was cool with that ![]() ![]() Ha hmmm I dunno about that ![]() | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() | |||
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" Sometimes I'm sorry I ever found out about this site as I feel now I'm not sure if I could leave it behind. So just wondering out loud You wouldn't have to leave it behind if you met someone from fab who was cool with that ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh believe me ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Sometimes I'm sorry I ever found out about this site as I feel now I'm not sure if I could leave it behind. So just wondering out loud You wouldn't have to leave it behind if you met someone from fab who was cool with that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes true. And I know some have met on here | |||
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" Sometimes I'm sorry I ever found out about this site as I feel now I'm not sure if I could leave it behind. So just wondering out loud You wouldn't have to leave it behind if you met someone from fab who was cool with that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() There you go ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() That would still make them swingers though wouldn't it? I mean, you don't have to have a profile on a site like this to call yourself a swinger.... how did people swing before we had internet? | |||
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"The longer I've been on the site what I'm seeking has altered... I 've made no secret I'd like a lady to be a more permanent feature in my life, I see this as an extension another avenue to seek her out. At the outset I'd like to think the journey of discovery we'd be undertaking would suffice both parties, as time went on who knows it's something we'd need to talk through. ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes so you understand what I mean ![]() | |||
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"So I was chatting with a fellow fabber about how dull regular dating is. I love dates tbh but other sites are so...vanilla. plus at the end of the day the men on other sites are pretty much lying about what they want. They just want to remove your knickers. In all honesty do you think a man would be okay with having a girlfriend that also maybe once in a while sees other men? Just pondering such things on a Sunday evening ![]() Ive always been very interested in an open relationship if thats what you mean....i honestly dont think im cut out for commitment, so i dont think i could bullshit myself or anybody else for that matter | |||
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"The longer I've been on the site what I'm seeking has altered... I 've made no secret I'd like a lady to be a more permanent feature in my life, I see this as an extension another avenue to seek her out. At the outset I'd like to think the journey of discovery we'd be undertaking would suffice both parties, as time went on who knows it's something we'd need to talk through. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think a lot of folk of whatever gender would probably think similarly.. certainly those who had been arounfd a while,. I guess it's the nature of the site ... I'd see the it as a progression something that might evolve, who knows what the future looks like , if there's something being part of this community has taught me it's honesty and communication is vital ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes I know couples are on here thanks! What I meant was away from swinging away from the site. In real world say if gf was going out for a night would they be okay with her hooking up with someone else on occasion or something like that. Or having a fuck buddy on the side. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right ![]() .... ![]() | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() I agree fairly new to this after 10 years of marriage not in any position to consider another relationship just NSA fun but Fab has increased my confidence again and would be hard to leave (not impossible) i say if was to look for relationship it probably more likely be on Fab.... | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() Same as that. Swinging has helped me find out who I am and has helped my confidence and self esteem no end. | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it." noted ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it." I used to think the same. But now I dunno ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it. I used to think the same. But now I dunno ![]() ![]() noted ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it. I used to think the same. But now I dunno ![]() ![]() Well thats the plan lol but ya never know I suppose ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it. I used to think the same. But now I dunno ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it." One could argue you're not a swinger by heart then... | |||
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"Had a regular pof coffee date but all I could think of was Fab and how I was gonna work around it!!! So I'm thinking I'm not in that place lol Fab is just too much fun to think bout anything else ![]() Fab is far too much fun. With the pics and forum and naughty hot people being upfront about their naughtiness ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Had a regular pof coffee date but all I could think of was Fab and how I was gonna work around it!!! So I'm thinking I'm not in that place lol Fab is just too much fun to think bout anything else ![]() ![]() ![]() Naked wrestling! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() I agree Tox...i had 20 years of marriage which involved swing for a number of years.Having children and raising them was more a priority. These days its my time, as the family has grown freeing me up to do "me"things. Im just a selfish cow really! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() ![]() ![]() Even a selfish cow needs a juicy patch to chew on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it. One could argue you're not a swinger by heart then..." Yea id agree with that | |||
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"Had a regular pof coffee date but all I could think of was Fab and how I was gonna work around it!!! So I'm thinking I'm not in that place lol Fab is just too much fun to think bout anything else ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh yes, things get a little hot and sweaty, such fun ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im the opposite, if its outside fab in a serious relationship I could never share them and i would also want to stay faithful. If I met someone outside fab, I would leave it and not think twice about it. One could argue you're not a swinger by heart then..." Fabs is a swinger site yes but it is also an nsa hook up site. I think everyone can use it for their own goals whatever they may be. | |||
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"So I was chatting with a fellow fabber about how dull regular dating is. I love dates tbh but other sites are so...vanilla. plus at the end of the day the men on other sites are pretty much lying about what they want. They just want to remove your knickers. In all honesty do you think a man would be okay with having a girlfriend that also maybe once in a while sees other men? Just pondering such things on a Sunday evening ![]() Jez some change from dating years ago ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I hope you didn't take that one up the wrong way mdg, you're anything else than selfish! ![]() | |||
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"I've done the marriage thing and stayed faithful for 17 years although the sex was average. Agree with you op, once on here it's hard to go back to vanilla. I'm glad I found it at a latter stages in my life. I've got the family I want and now it's my time. This suits me. If I was to meet someone and wanted a relationship with them they would have to be in this too as I would find it hard to give up ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() DH i didnt my darling ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Regular dating involves less childish BS than Fab " The reward is much greater though isn't it? | |||
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"Regular dating involves less childish BS than Fab The reward is much greater though isn't it?" In regular dating?? | |||
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"Regular dating involves less childish BS than Fab The reward is much greater though isn't it? In regular dating?? " No. | |||
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"Regular dating involves less childish BS than Fab The reward is much greater though isn't it? In regular dating?? No." Oh I would have thought the reward is greater in regular dating than on fab. Very interesting to see different people views. | |||
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"Regular dating involves less childish BS than Fab The reward is much greater though isn't it? In regular dating?? No. Oh I would have thought the reward is greater in regular dating than on fab. Very interesting to see different people views." If the reward is greater in civvy street, what's everyone doing here? | |||
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