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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry

Hello to all who have a look at this, just wondering what tips ye would give a fella on this site??

And if it's to put up pics what would ye suggest!!

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By *nkySwitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Stirling

Anything but a cock pic for a profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself, use your imagination, don't be a sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello to all who have a look at this, just wondering what tips ye would give a fella on this site??

And if it's to put up pics what would ye suggest!!"

Post up as many cock pics as possible. Women love a nice cock here lol

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"Be yourself, use your imagination, don't be a sheep "

You don't want me to be myself ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice chest and shoulder pics are always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello there - some quick comments and tips:

1. Profiles without pics go unnoticed - add a variety of yourself

2. Look at other guys profiels to see what they write - particularly those with lots of verifications: They must be doing something right.

3. Read lots of girls profiles (or couples, or whoever else you're in to) to get some ideas and see what is the 'norm'

4. The ratio of guys to girls here is 10:1, so get used to the fact that most girls will not open your messages, let alone read them. Don't take it as a slight, they are just overwhelmed.

5. Fab is not a sex site - its a community for like minded people and lots of the people on here know each other. If you like your privacy its unlikely you will go far if you're a guy. Use the forums to get to know people, try to get verified (even a meet for coffee will do it) and try to go along to some of the events (like Meet & Greet) that are arranged.

6. Don't try too hard. Relax. Fab is just like a bar or club: Girls can sense the desperation on guys looking to get laid. Try to develop a mindset that you're having fun talking with people on here and if opportunities come from that - then great.

7. Don't be a dick. Don't be spiteful, sarcastic or nasty to people. Normal people on here and the girls get overwhelmed with attention and messages. Don't whine on forums about not getting any messages or not getting replies. It won't happen straight away. Be patient.

8. Don't leave your profile static. Update it. Update your pics. Show people you are real and active.

That should get you started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello there - some quick comments and tips:

1. Profiles without pics go unnoticed - add a variety of yourself

2. Look at other guys profiels to see what they write - particularly those with lots of verifications: They must be doing something right.

3. Read lots of girls profiles (or couples, or whoever else you're in to) to get some ideas and see what is the 'norm'

4. The ratio of guys to girls here is 10:1, so get used to the fact that most girls will not open your messages, let alone read them. Don't take it as a slight, they are just overwhelmed.

5. Fab is not a sex site - its a community for like minded people and lots of the people on here know each other. If you like your privacy its unlikely you will go far if you're a guy. Use the forums to get to know people, try to get verified (even a meet for coffee will do it) and try to go along to some of the events (like Meet & Greet) that are arranged.

6. Don't try too hard. Relax. Fab is just like a bar or club: Girls can sense the desperation on guys looking to get laid. Try to develop a mindset that you're having fun talking with people on here and if opportunities come from that - then great.

7. Don't be a dick. Don't be spiteful, sarcastic or nasty to people. Normal people on here and the girls get overwhelmed with attention and messages. Don't whine on forums about not getting any messages or not getting replies. It won't happen straight away. Be patient.

8. Don't leave your profile static. Update it. Update your pics. Show people you are real and active.

That should get you started "

Excellent advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice chest and shoulder pics are always good "

What if he has neither???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi sir welcome to the mad house lol my advice would be tell them you love shopping 100% foolproof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi sir welcome to the mad house lol my advice would be tell them you love shopping 100% foolproof "

No no no nooo shopping! I'll wait in the pub for any man that wants to go shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 4 weeks here and already have a 'meet' verification so you're doing well as it goes.

You also state that you've been here before and you know how the site works and what it's all about, maybe it's you that some guys need to ask for tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's my tips....

Upload some attractive photos. If your not attractive. Rob someone else's attractive photos.

Under no circumstances should you attempt to be urself. This is a massive turn off for women unless being urself includes telling women all the things they wanna here. Any disagreements could result in you upsetting them which will be an instant turn off for the female who may then block you

Be smart with ppl as much as possible in the forums. Even bully ppl a little. This shows that your cool and care about being popular / the center of attention

And lastly. If you incur any rudeness or abuse from the opposite sex then don't you dare openly talk about it as you will be branded jealous, bitter and a whinge bag

Bonus tip.... Wrap your willy

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello there - some quick comments and tips:

1. Profiles without pics go unnoticed - add a variety of yourself

2. Look at other guys profiels to see what they write - particularly those with lots of verifications: They must be doing something right.

3. Read lots of girls profiles (or couples, or whoever else you're in to) to get some ideas and see what is the 'norm'

4. The ratio of guys to girls here is 10:1, so get used to the fact that most girls will not open your messages, let alone read them. Don't take it as a slight, they are just overwhelmed.

5. Fab is not a sex site - its a community for like minded people and lots of the people on here know each other. If you like your privacy its unlikely you will go far if you're a guy. Use the forums to get to know people, try to get verified (even a meet for coffee will do it) and try to go along to some of the events (like Meet & Greet) that are arranged.

6. Don't try too hard. Relax. Fab is just like a bar or club: Girls can sense the desperation on guys looking to get laid. Try to develop a mindset that you're having fun talking with people on here and if opportunities come from that - then great.

7. Don't be a dick. Don't be spiteful, sarcastic or nasty to people. Normal people on here and the girls get overwhelmed with attention and messages. Don't whine on forums about not getting any messages or not getting replies. It won't happen straight away. Be patient.

8. Don't leave your profile static. Update it. Update your pics. Show people you are real and active.

That should get you started "

Excellently said, every new member should get a copy of that post when they join!

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Were u here before with a ripped torso pic ?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I agree with Mr. Anderson. I'll add that only be yourself if yourself is interesting. If not then don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi sir welcome to the mad house lol my advice would be tell them you love shopping 100% foolproof

No no no nooo shopping! I'll wait in the pub for any man that wants to go shopping "
lol that's Cavan women for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself, use your imagination, don't be a sheep "

Yes have done this but gets me no where near a meet and I'm a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi sir welcome to the mad house lol my advice would be tell them you love shopping 100% foolproof

No no no nooo shopping! I'll wait in the pub for any man that wants to go shopping lol that's Cavan women for ya "

If only I was one lol

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