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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering ladies in particular. If you really like a guy and you meet up and get on too but when it comes to the bedroom things are a disappointment

Do you keep him or ditch him?

And no this isn't in any way about me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bin."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bin."

Oh so harsh and cut throat lol you looked so sweet and innocent at Ball... note to self Dont mess with Candy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bin.

Oh so harsh and cut throat lol you looked so sweet and innocent at Ball... note to self Dont mess with Candy lol "

You wouldn't let me down now would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While the social side of fab is great, aren't we all here for the same reasons pretty much.

I believe this applies to male and female.

No sexual chemistry leaves thing's flat and it's a combination of things that makes sparks fly for me but I wouldn't repeat a bad meet as it's too difficult to get the time to meet as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bin.

Oh so harsh and cut throat lol you looked so sweet and innocent at Ball... note to self Dont mess with Candy lol

You wouldn't let me down now would you? "

In the Jokes department mine are very bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?"

Oh, so someone else did notice that it's always a question and never a statement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?"

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bin.

Oh so harsh and cut throat lol you looked so sweet and innocent at Ball... note to self Dont mess with Candy lol

You wouldn't let me down now would you? "

And to be as Direct and Cut Throat like yourself Candy ... my answer is No i wouldnt let ya down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This being a swing site where people meet up for good sex!! Why would one want to keep meeting if the sex was shit!!! I don't get that. We all have friends on here don't get me wrong and I love the social side of things but being realistic I'm here for ONE thing and ONE thing only!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all "

So a lady is more likely to retain because you're super sound?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all

So a lady is more likely to retain because you're super sound? "

Your jumping to alot of conclusions my friend. Are you ok there? Trying to be smart eh. How's it going for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all

So a lady is more likely to retain because you're super sound?

Your jumping to alot of conclusions my friend. Are you ok there? Trying to be smart eh. How's it going for you? "

Whoah, nothing smart plain english based on what you are stating in your posts!

Are you or are you not looking to ascertain would a lady stay if the bedroom gymnastics were disappointing but yer a wonderful individual??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I bin him if he was a disappointment in bed? If I liked him and there was good spark then I would simply teach him a few tricks. If after a few times it just wasn't happening then I would bin him. Nicely of course.

Sex is too important to start off Boring. Start as ya mean to go on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all

So a lady is more likely to retain because you're super sound?

Your jumping to alot of conclusions my friend. Are you ok there? Trying to be smart eh. How's it going for you?

Whoah, nothing smart plain english based on what you are stating in your posts!

Are you or are you not looking to ascertain would a lady stay if the bedroom gymnastics were disappointing but yer a wonderful individual?? "

What makes you think this is about me? Don't look into things too much mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if the roles were reversed and the lady disappointed you in the boudoir would you keep?

Yes. Just interested in the ladies perspective in particular is all

So a lady is more likely to retain because you're super sound?

Your jumping to alot of conclusions my friend. Are you ok there? Trying to be smart eh. How's it going for you?

Whoah, nothing smart plain english based on what you are stating in your posts!

Are you or are you not looking to ascertain would a lady stay if the bedroom gymnastics were disappointing but yer a wonderful individual??

What makes you think this is about me? Don't look into things too much mate "

Simple question would you keep a lady that disapponted you in the bed?

Answer seems to be no

Therefore it was put to why would you think a lady would be any different?

When everything falls into place? It's good!

If something is missing it falls apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch as a potential fb, keep as a friend albeit virtual friend, no need to ditch all.contact if you both enjoy the craic..always be straight though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd try a few times to rule out nerves but at the end of the day if the sex isn't good then I'd have to walk away. I know that sound awful but a girl has certain needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering ladies in particular. If you really like a guy and you meet up and get on too but when it comes to the bedroom things are a disappointment

Do you keep him or ditch him?

And no this isn't in any way about me lol"

If he was selfish in bed, like expected me to perform oral sex on him but didn't return it, then yes, he'd be gone.

But if he was just nervous then no, I wouldn't ditch him straight away.

I'm not that much of a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life and fab life are two very different animals! In real life I would like to think a bit of consideration for nerves and feelings.... In fab life you do tend to want a performer sorry but that is my honest opinion

Sam

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