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"People have their preferences tbh As for married people. I have met them. I try not to judge or pry. The thing is meeting married people leads to last minute cancellations and short meets and not a lot of socialising. Which is what I enjoy personally. When it comes to non verified peeps I am wary of messers on here so that's my reason for being slow to meet someone who isn't verified " I agree with what Fun says. I don't mind married men - but they can rarely meet when I can. I have also met unverified men - but am more wary of them nowadays | |||
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"People have their preferences tbh As for married people. I have met them. I try not to judge or pry. The thing is meeting married people leads to last minute cancellations and short meets and not a lot of socialising. Which is what I enjoy personally. When it comes to non verified peeps I am wary of messers on here so that's my reason for being slow to meet someone who isn't verified I agree with what Fun says. I don't mind married men - but they can rarely meet when I can. I have also met unverified men - but am more wary of them nowadays" Agree with both girls here!! | |||
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"Ok try not to tar us all with the one brush here .... I reply to all messages as do many couples and single ladies I'm sure. As for preferences we are all entitled to them whatever they may be. " This | |||
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"Ok try not to tar us all with the one brush here .... I reply to all messages as do many couples and single ladies I'm sure. As for preferences we are all entitled to them whatever they may be. " Same here | |||
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"People have their preferences tbh As for married people. I have met them. I try not to judge or pry. The thing is meeting married people leads to last minute cancellations and short meets and not a lot of socialising. Which is what I enjoy personally. When it comes to non verified peeps I am wary of messers on here so that's my reason for being slow to meet someone who isn't verified " Good point of view Fun. Forgot bout the messers lol | |||
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"Ok try not to tar us all with the one brush here .... I reply to all messages as do many couples and single ladies I'm sure. As for preferences we are all entitled to them whatever they may be. " The not replying can be a pain, as I know ladies do get loads of mail as do the couples. But I don't think the men are as lucky, bar some guys. | |||
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"A lot of folk do mind meeting married ppl because they are cheating whatever their reasons" Would being with a couple be technically cheating??? | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection !" | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! " And advice taken on board! | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! And advice taken on board! " Good man... taking on the advice. ... nice to see | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! And advice taken on board! Good man... taking on the advice. ... nice to see " Pointless if I don't learn anything from ye nice people | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! And advice taken on board! Good man... taking on the advice. ... nice to see Pointless if I don't learn anything from ye nice people " I'm not nice | |||
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"A lot of folk do mind meeting married ppl because they are cheating whatever their reasons" This | |||
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"I just want to add my little piece to the forum. It has all prob been said before but why do women and couples have such double standards? Like a guy could be the nicest most interesting guy on here but he can't get even a reply not to mind a meet because of not havin a verification! How can he get 1 if nobody will meet without 1 Also this thing bout not meeting with a guy or girl thats married. Are we not all here for the same reason??? It is all about the sex is it not. What difference would it make as long as the sex is good and exciting. Again he,she would have his,her own reasons for being on here and nobody knows what his,her situation is, and it's nobodys business anyway. I understand everyone has to have standards, but as long as the person is nice, honest there is a spark n the bedroom who cares. " We do. | |||
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" Also this thing bout not meeting with a guy or girl thats married. Are we not all here for the same reason??? It is all about the sex is it not. What difference would it make as long as the sex is good and exciting. " No,we obviously aren't all here for the same thing.if a man or woman wants to cheat on his/her spouse,that's up to them,but it doesn't mean we have to help them cheat on their spouse. If you can't respect your own marriage what respect are you likely to have for any potential meet.So no,we have no interest in meeting cheats,no matter what their reason for cheating might be. | |||
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"It's also worth remembering that every single (or not) person here started off without any verifications yet so many have managed to get one or more. Not only that but some of the greatest cunts on the face of the earth have verifications so don't get hung up on how it's impossible to get one. It's not. Just be patient and don't focus on the need for one. Enjoy the journey. " Well said | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! And advice taken on board! Good man... taking on the advice. ... nice to see " ....but don't go overboard taking the advice on board. ....if you know what I mean. ....cos I certainly don't. . | |||
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"All you can be is clear in your preferences and hope people respect them after all we r all here to fulfill certain fantasies and maybe u will be the star in someone's and not even make the extras in another , read the profiles properly and ask are you what they want? If you are great email away if not pass on by saves rejection ! And advice taken on board! Good man... taking on the advice. ... nice to see ....but don't go overboard taking the advice on board. ....if you know what I mean. ....cos I certainly don't. . " . ...and never will! | |||
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"I don't have a problem with married men or women on here looking for fun, that's their business. It's the lies that I have a problem with. Be open about it from the beginning. You don't be long working stuff out here. As a few people have pointed out talk is limited to office hours, meets would be a few hours long mostly during the day or early evening and they could never or rarely stay over or attend a party/m&g. They can't leave a paper trail regarding booking a hotel etc. I've been burned a couple of times regarding lies. Only lately I enjoyed the company of a guy only to find out he's married 9 months. It really just doesn't sit well with me although others might not mind I do. Regarding being unverified that's basically a safety issue. As a single fem you are always conscience of your safety. Although being verified doesn't mean you're not a complete headcase it does help a little if a friend has vouched for you. I do try and reply to everyone but it can be difficult. I definitely think if someone has taken the time to write something then it's the polite thing to do. There's just a huge amount of single guy's here and sadly not so many fems." ^^^This ^^^ | |||
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"I'm attached myself so it suits me better to meet others who are in the same position. I make it very clear on my page of the situation I'm in and the times I can meet. So if that didn't suit someone they shouldn't message me. I don't think it's right to lie about your status as the other person should have the choice whether they are ok with it or not. Recently I had a really bad experience with a guy on fab. Still getting abuse from him from various fake pages. I was honest from the beginning of my situation but when he seen I was meeting others be bombarded me with insane abuse and threatened to expose me. That's the risk with single people, they will always throw that back in your face. I'll stick to attached guys from now on. I'd have no problem meeting someone who's not yet verified if we clicked when chatting and they could prove themselves real to me on kik etc. Verifications don't always provide assurance. That abusive guy is well verified but I've already heard I'm the second person he has threatened. " Maybe tell your partner about him he mite put your man in his place | |||
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"LOL... How did I not think of that " Lol sorry just taking the piss | |||
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"LOL... How did I not think of that Lol sorry just taking the piss " I would of never guessed Maybe you can crack him one of your jokes. That should keep him away lol | |||
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"LOL... How did I not think of that Lol sorry just taking the piss I would of never guessed Maybe you can crack him one of your jokes. That should keep him away lol " Lol I will try my best but must say tho you have a fine ass on ya | |||
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"LOL... How did I not think of that Lol sorry just taking the piss I would of never guessed Maybe you can crack him one of your jokes. That should keep him away lol Lol I will try my best but must say tho you have a fine ass on ya " Why thank you That's some can of shaving gel u got there, always preferred the foam myself tho lol | |||
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"LOL... How did I not think of that Lol sorry just taking the piss I would of never guessed Maybe you can crack him one of your jokes. That should keep him away lol Lol I will try my best but must say tho you have a fine ass on ya Why thank you That's some can of shaving gel u got there, always preferred the foam myself tho lol " Lol kind of find the foam a bit messy , I get bit worked up with it | |||
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"I'm attached myself so it suits me better to meet others who are in the same position. I make it very clear on my page of the situation I'm in and the times I can meet. So if that didn't suit someone they shouldn't message me. I don't think it's right to lie about your status as the other person should have the choice whether they are ok with it or not. Recently I had a really bad experience with a guy on fab. Still getting abuse from him from various fake pages. I was honest from the beginning of my situation but when he seen I was meeting others be bombarded me with insane abuse and threatened to expose me. That's the risk with single people, they will always throw that back in your face. I'll stick to attached guys from now on. I'd have no problem meeting someone who's not yet verified if we clicked when chatting and they could prove themselves real to me on kik etc. Verifications don't always provide assurance. That abusive guy is well verified but I've already heard I'm the second person he has threatened. " Maybe I should look u up lol | |||
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"I'm attached myself so it suits me better to meet others who are in the same position. I make it very clear on my page of the situation I'm in and the times I can meet. So if that didn't suit someone they shouldn't message me. I don't think it's right to lie about your status as the other person should have the choice whether they are ok with it or not. Recently I had a really bad experience with a guy on fab. Still getting abuse from him from various fake pages. I was honest from the beginning of my situation but when he seen I was meeting others be bombarded me with insane abuse and threatened to expose me. That's the risk with single people, they will always throw that back in your face. I'll stick to attached guys from now on. I'd have no problem meeting someone who's not yet verified if we clicked when chatting and they could prove themselves real to me on kik etc. Verifications don't always provide assurance. That abusive guy is well verified but I've already heard I'm the second person he has threatened. " What are going to do if you bump into attached idiot? Idiots are everywhere,it's not just a being single thing | |||
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"I've held a coffee meet open to all before to help unverified get their green tick. Doesn't bother me meeting people socially. Hard to tell from the site alone what a person is like. " Best idea I have heard in ages MissCar | |||
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"What are going to do if you bump into attached idiot? Idiots are everywhere,it's not just a being single thing" I didn't say they weren't idiots lol.. but less likely to use your position against you or to harm your personal life when they're in the same boat. Both have just as much to lose. | |||
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"I don't have a problem with married men or women on here looking for fun, that's their business. It's the lies that I have a problem with. Be open about it from the beginning. You don't be long working stuff out here. As a few people have pointed out talk is limited to office hours, meets would be a few hours long mostly during the day or early evening and they could never or rarely stay over or attend a party/m&g. They can't leave a paper trail regarding booking a hotel etc. I've been burned a couple of times regarding lies. Only lately I enjoyed the company of a guy only to find out he's married 9 months. It really just doesn't sit well with me although others might not mind I do. Regarding being unverified that's basically a safety issue. As a single fem you are always conscience of your safety. Although being verified doesn't mean you're not a complete headcase it does help a little if a friend has vouched for you. I do try and reply to everyone but it can be difficult. I definitely think if someone has taken the time to write something then it's the polite thing to do. There's just a huge amount of single guy's here and sadly not so many fems. ^^^This ^^^" ^^^This ^^^ | |||
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