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I can tell when the fellas are interested in me though. Usually because they'll ask me if I want my cock sucked by a straight man. That's a dead giveaway, even for me!  | |||
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I've always been bad at figuring out if someone was into me, though I do believe in the gravitational pull of attraction. Pretty eyes are my kryptonite, they get me every time | |||
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"Hard to imagine you in the friend zone boldgirl
I've always been bad at figuring out if someone was into me, though I do believe in the gravitational pull of attraction. Pretty eyes are my kryptonite, they get me every time "I'm like that too but it's usually a pretty arse that gets me. I'm an incurable romantic! | |||
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"....at reading the signals that someone is actually interested in you? Me, I'm absolutely dire. I just automatically assume that guys chat because I'm friendly, not because they're interested. Then I await "friend zone" status. Over to you... BG x" I never had difficulties reading/recognising signals But Here's a tip Boldy, when a bloke starts chatting with you, you're safe with the take that his aim is always the same namely 'to stick his cock in you' . Should that not be the case the signs for that are easy to read. Now with women different story altogether | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you? "Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror!  | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror! "I've just checked your profile, Warrior Queen is 100% correct | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". " Have to agree. Never been able to just be friends with a guy. | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror! "...tut tut...there's no room for reality on fab..  | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". " Some straight men, maybe. One of my best friends is a guy and there's never been anything sexual, thankfully. | |||
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"Some guys give u the wrong signals when u meet them, not all some ive met, on here, then before u know it, your ignored, oh it was fun, goodbye and then totally used, for their benefit, u can't win sometimes, " Word  | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". Some straight men, maybe. One of my best friends is a guy and there's never been anything sexual, thankfully. " Doesn't mean he wouldn't | |||
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"Some guys give u the wrong signals when u meet them, not all some ive met, on here, then before u know it, your ignored, oh it was fun, goodbye and then totally used, for their benefit, u can't win sometimes, " How can you be "used" for consensual sex? | |||
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"....at reading the signals that someone is actually interested in you? Me, I'm absolutely dire. I just automatically assume that guys chat because I'm friendly, not because they're interested. Then I await "friend zone" status. Over to you... BG x" . It's a 2-way thing, in some cases there are 'signals' that can be picked up via Forum, while with others it's just banter. Definitely not easy.. If one sends a message and it gets deleted, is it a NO? or is it that she's pissed off with crap and just deletes all? or she only has time to read a few so mine is left unread? For a guy... a deleted message could mean a few things! 
So I accept it, move on, but can sometimes be left wondering! All one can do...
Life's too short, so I just get on with it!
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". Some straight men, maybe. One of my best friends is a guy and there's never been anything sexual, thankfully. Doesn't mean he wouldn't "Lol, true, but I doubt it. We're like siblings! | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". Some straight men, maybe. One of my best friends is a guy and there's never been anything sexual, thankfully. Doesn't mean he wouldn't
Lol, true, but I doubt it. We're like siblings! "Sure you are | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me "Of course we are!
Oh no wait, we're not! | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me
Of course we are!
Oh no wait, we're not! ". or are we? | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". " On one hand I find it a bit sad and depressing that your life experiences so far have led you to that conclusion on the other hand after seeing some of my mates in action I can completely understand it | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me
Of course we are!
Oh no wait, we're not!
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me "Same here, even when things progress to whatsapp/kik or whatever, I'm still thinking "nahhhh". | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". On one hand I find it a bit sad and depressing that your life experiences so far have led you to that conclusion on the other hand after seeing some of my mates in action I can completely understand it" I don't see anything depressing about it, simply how men are wired. Once you are aware of it, not a problem to manage. | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". Some straight men, maybe. One of my best friends is a guy and there's never been anything sexual, thankfully. Doesn't mean he wouldn't
Lol, true, but I doubt it. We're like siblings!
Sure you are"So fucking wrong. | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me
Same here, even when things progress to whatsapp/kik or whatever, I'm still thinking "nahhhh". "Haha snap | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me
Of course we are!
Oh no wait, we're not!
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Brats the two of you ". or are we? | |||
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"Totally the same bold , I need it spelt out for me .. I think alot of the time people are just being polite replying to me
Same here, even when things progress to whatsapp/kik or whatever, I'm still thinking "nahhhh".
Haha snap "Yay, someone gets me!!! | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely, "A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely "Anyone with an orifice? | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely
Anyone with an orifice?"I've had moments in the past where my type was female. Fadó, fadó. | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". On one hand I find it a bit sad and depressing that your life experiences so far have led you to that conclusion on the other hand after seeing some of my mates in action I can completely understand it I don't see anything depressing about it, simply how men are wired. Once you are aware of it, not a problem to manage." Maybe it's just the way I'm wired that I find it depressing | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". On one hand I find it a bit sad and depressing that your life experiences so far have led you to that conclusion on the other hand after seeing some of my mates in action I can completely understand it I don't see anything depressing about it, simply how men are wired. Once you are aware of it, not a problem to manage. Maybe it's just the way I'm wired that I find it depressing " I'm not into that bondage stuff but try loosening the wire a bit and see if it helps? | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". On one hand I find it a bit sad and depressing that your life experiences so far have led you to that conclusion on the other hand after seeing some of my mates in action I can completely understand it I don't see anything depressing about it, simply how men are wired. Once you are aware of it, not a problem to manage. Maybe it's just the way I'm wired that I find it depressing " Maybe. | |||
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"I'm a disaster at reading signals though if I'm in doubt I usually ask are they interested. Maybe I'm getting older and less patient or it's just I remember this is a site where the main aim is for a sexual encounter not friendship "Oh I get that it's a sex site, but no one is getting into my knickers without there being a connection/friendship first. If I wanted random sex, I'd go out on a Saturday night. | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely
Anyone with an orifice?
I've had moments in the past where my type was female. Fadó, fadó. "Must of been some dry spell lol | |||
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"I'm a disaster at reading signals though if I'm in doubt I usually ask are they interested. Maybe I'm getting older and less patient or it's just I remember this is a site where the main aim is for a sexual encounter not friendship
Oh I get that it's a sex site, but no one is getting into my knickers without there being a connection/friendship first.
If I wanted random sex, I'd go out on a Saturday night. "Who said it was random? Or that there wouldn't need to be a connection. You asked about knowing if they were interested. Can sort of take that much for granted. As you and I know you'll have as many try to make you believe their your pal here to get into your pants. | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely
Anyone with an orifice?
I've had moments in the past where my type was female. Fadó, fadó.
Must of been some dry spell lol"You're not wrong about that  | |||
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"I'm a disaster at reading signals though if I'm in doubt I usually ask are they interested. Maybe I'm getting older and less patient or it's just I remember this is a site where the main aim is for a sexual encounter not friendship
Oh I get that it's a sex site, but no one is getting into my knickers without there being a connection/friendship first.
If I wanted random sex, I'd go out on a Saturday night.
Who said it was random? Or that there wouldn't need to be a connection. You asked about knowing if they were interested. Can sort of take that much for granted. As you and I know you'll have as many try to make you believe their your pal here to get into your pants. "Hence why I rarely meet | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely
Anyone with an orifice?
I've had moments in the past where my type was female. Fadó, fadó.
Must of been some dry spell lol
You're not wrong about that "Touch wood I'll never have a streak like that | |||
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"I'm fairly straight forward with people. I assume if someone sends me a message, they are wanting to potentially fool around. Unless the message has specifically a different subject. This is all of course if iget a message! My inbox is fairly inactive! ". What he said! | |||
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"I'm fairly straight forward with people. I assume if someone sends me a message, they are wanting to potentially fool around. Unless the message has specifically a different subject. This is all of course if iget a message! My inbox is fairly inactive!
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What he said! "And it starts! | |||
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"I'm fairly straight forward with people. I assume if someone sends me a message, they are wanting to potentially fool around. Unless the message has specifically a different subject. This is all of course if iget a message! My inbox is fairly inactive!
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"I'm fairly straight forward with people. I assume if someone sends me a message, they are wanting to potentially fool around. Unless the message has specifically a different subject. This is all of course if iget a message! My inbox is fairly inactive!
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What he said!
And it starts!
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"I'm fairly straight forward with people. I assume if someone sends me a message, they are wanting to potentially fool around. Unless the message has specifically a different subject. This is all of course if iget a message! My inbox is fairly inactive!
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What he said!
And it starts!
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We definitely have too much time on our hands! ". Isn't it great!!? | |||
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"No idea I just go with the flow " Can you flow my way, you saucy wee minx? | |||
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"No idea I just go with the flow " Phwooarr!  | |||
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"I recommend 'wanna fuck' messages, they cut out all that misinterpretation sheit " | |||
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"....at reading the signals that someone is actually interested in you? Me, I'm absolutely dire. I just automatically assume that guys chat because I'm friendly, not because they're interested. Then I await "friend zone" status. Over to you... BG x I never had difficulties reading/recognising signals But Here's a tip Boldy, when a bloke starts chatting with you, you're safe with the take that his aim is always the same namely 'to stick his cock in you' . Should that not be the case the signs for that are easy to read. Now with women different story altogether "That needs a response but maybe better not too lol....but here goes.... There's alot of women I chat to on here but I wouldn't dip my wick with them...they're nice to chat with...However if I'm flirting with banter then it's a different thing altogether. It can be hard sometimes to read the others signals though so best to ask for a coffee or pot of tea. | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror! "Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well. Others often see in us what we don't want or hide or ignore. ..but it doesn't mean it's not there, good or bad. | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror!
Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well. Others often see in us what we don't want or hide or ignore. ..but it doesn't mean it's not there, good or bad."Deep but true | |||
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"Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well" Guilty as charged, I just assume everyone wants to fuck me and then move from there | |||
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"Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well Guilty as charged, I just assume everyone wants to fuck me and then move from there "What's the worst that can happen . | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror!
Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well. Others often see in us what we don't want or hide or ignore. ..but it doesn't mean it's not there, good or bad."....this is a common notion "that people think too highly of themselves"...the way we see it.is, its our profile, our rules, we will meet whoever WE want. | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror!
Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well. Others often see in us what we don't want or hide or ignore. ..but it doesn't mean it's not there, good or bad.....this is a common notion "that people think too highly of themselves"...the way we see it.is, its our profile, our rules, we will meet whoever WE want. ". Yes standing in front of mirror can be confusing! Stood in front of it the other day, saw cobwebs! When I cleaned it and stood in front of it again, there were still cobwebs!! | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror!
Relying upon ones own mirror isn't always a good thing...many look in the mirror and think far too high of themselves as well. Others often see in us what we don't want or hide or ignore. ..but it doesn't mean it's not there, good or bad.....this is a common notion "that people think too highly of themselves"...the way we see it.is, its our profile, our rules, we will meet whoever WE want.
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Stood in front of it the other day, saw cobwebs! When I cleaned it and stood in front of it again, there were still cobwebs!!".....thats a Window..... | |||
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"I recommend 'wanna fuck' messages, they cut out all that misinterpretation sheit "I'd send you one right now but I don't have time to wait for you to read the 5000 that are ahead of me | |||
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"I can pick up on it no issue there , I am useless at sending it out and the wrong people always pick up my signal "Mmmm... Dont worry, I know what you mean. I'll be there in less than an hour! | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious. "Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required. | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious.
Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required. "Damn you were too quick... | |||
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"I would assume if you get past 5 or 6 messages on here, it's on the table. In real life, I haven't a clue when I'm being hit on, can't read women at all. " Yes you would think so...guess depends on how they progress though...There are some who just like a 'wee' chat before kids get home.. | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious.
Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required. "Still a bit hard to tell if you are into her or not. Try be a bit clearer. Let the woman know what you really want | |||
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"Oh I feel a Spice Girls song coming one! "Tell them what you want, what you really really want | |||
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"I always prefer to ask out straight at the coffee meet and it usually clears the air. Obviously do it in a subtle way by expressing my thoughts first and giving the lady an easy get out if shes not interested. It should never be complicated. Best to always communicate with respect if you misjudge the body signals. Mr S." Fair play, don't think I'd ever have the confidence to ask straight out. | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious.
Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required.
Still a bit hard to tell if you are into her or not. Try be a bit clearer. Let the woman know what you really want "Still oblivious! | |||
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"Brutal - I assume everyone is just friendly and chatty like me, never know if someone is coming on to me " Join the freakin' club, Lolli | |||
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"Brutal - I assume everyone is just friendly and chatty like me, never know if someone is coming on to me Join the freakin' club, Lolli "Peas in a pod boldy | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious.
Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required.
Still a bit hard to tell if you are into her or not. Try be a bit clearer. Let the woman know what you really want
Still oblivious! "Think he might like you. But I'm useless at spotting the signs so don't trust me lol | |||
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"I always prefer to ask out straight at the coffee meet and it usually clears the air. Obviously do it in a subtle way by expressing my thoughts first and giving the lady an easy get out if shes not interested. It should never be complicated. Best to always communicate with respect if you misjudge the body signals. Mr S. Fair play, don't think I'd ever have the confidence to ask straight out. "TY bold it must be my red and green heritage. We are all fighters and not afraid to say or ask how it is lol. Roll on october | |||
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"Well they shudnt meet you in first place if a person is not their type, that way no one gets confused or read wrong signals, by reading their profile u know not too meet, or meet, surely,
A man's "type" becomes less well defined as the time between his sexual exploits increases. It gets to the stage where the whole concept of a type goes out the window completely
Anyone with an orifice?
I've had moments in the past where my type was female. Fadó, fadó. "Ha! At first glance I thought you wrote Fido, Fido. Maybe that's what you meant | |||
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I met a gorgeous man recently for coffee. We'd chatted a fair bit beforehand, but it was hard to get a time to suit both of us. Anyway one day the planets aligned and coffee was had. He was lovely, chatty, respectful and clearly not interested in me at all. I texted him after I got home, and let him off the hook of having to tell me | |||
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"I'm fairly good at judging it. Much easier in person obviously, you can't mistake that devilish glint in the eyes
I met a gorgeous man recently for coffee. We'd chatted a fair bit beforehand, but it was hard to get a time to suit both of us. Anyway one day the planets aligned and coffee was had. He was lovely, chatty, respectful and clearly not interested in me at all. I texted him after I got home, and let him off the hook of having to tell me " Fair play you! | |||
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"I'm fairly good at judging it. Much easier in person obviously, you can't mistake that devilish glint in the eyes
I met a gorgeous man recently for coffee. We'd chatted a fair bit beforehand, but it was hard to get a time to suit both of us. Anyway one day the planets aligned and coffee was had. He was lovely, chatty, respectful and clearly not interested in me at all. I texted him after I got home, and let him off the hook of having to tell me
Fair play you! "It was a bit of a blow to the ego, but sure such is life. He was a tad on the young side but I'd have made an exception | |||
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"....at reading the signals that someone is actually interested in you? Me, I'm absolutely dire. I just automatically assume that guys chat because I'm friendly, not because they're interested. Then I await "friend zone" status. Over to you... BG x" Jesus I'm clean useless at reading the signs they'd near have to pounce on me before the wee hamster on the wheel would register what was happening I'm a lost cause lol | |||
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"In reality I'm usually oblivious.
Hello Redhott. I would like you and i to fuck each other a lot. There, it's out there. No signs required.
Still a bit hard to tell if you are into her or not. Try be a bit clearer. Let the woman know what you really want
Still oblivious!
Think he might like you. But I'm useless at spotting the signs so don't trust me lol"translate and undrrstand if you can. It could be the north/south written accent that is the problem.... I (fabfun.ni) would like to fuck you (Redhott). Think that's as clear as i can make it! | |||
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"I need the guy to say it straight out. Otherwise I won't know "lol ok then fancy a shag | |||
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"Well guys...the stats would indicate were crap at telling the ladies. May I suggest in a nice way to message the appropriate women and tell her....You do actually fancy meeting her. If you're blocked remember don't infringe any rules by asking them to unblock you. ladies there are a few of you who have your orifices hidden or dare I say...not meeting anyone at the moment. ..smile and lift ur skirt a wee flutter ok... lets see it anything happens. ..If not I'm blocking all of ya and going home. ... "I'm already blocked for some reason,, but was nice meeting you around the drinks/tea table at hotel on the last venue day | |||
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"Well guys...the stats would indicate were crap at telling the ladies. May I suggest in a nice way to message the appropriate women and tell her....You do actually fancy meeting her. If you're blocked remember don't infringe any rules by asking them to unblock you. ladies there are a few of you who have your orifices hidden or dare I say...not meeting anyone at the moment. ..smile and lift ur skirt a wee flutter ok... lets see it anything happens. ..If not I'm blocking all of ya and going home. ... "Well, THAT'S subtle | |||
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"....at reading the signals that someone is actually interested in you? Me, I'm absolutely dire. I just automatically assume that guys chat because I'm friendly, not because they're interested. Then I await "friend zone" status. Same as yourself BG, were all uniquely gifted in many different ways some better than others & others no better than some if you no what im sayin. Over to you... BG x" | |||
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"Not good at all. I only speak in blunt sentences, I don't like riddles or beating around the bush, especially when I'm trying to get in the bush." Riddles stimulate the mind & can give you an insite of what the Pearson is saying all in a round about sort of way. Keeps your mind occupied . | |||
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"Not good at all. I only speak in blunt sentences, I don't like riddles or beating around the bush, especially when I'm trying to get in the bush. Riddles stimulate the mind & can give you an insite of what the Pearson is saying all in a round about sort of way. Keeps your mind occupied ." Yeah I don't like that though. If someome wants something I prefer if they ask clearly. I get the riddles can be flirty etc and I don't want to hear "I want your cock". I just mean for telling someome you fancy them, want to date etc and not play hard to get or expect a chase. | |||
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"Not good at all. I only speak in blunt sentences, I don't like riddles or beating around the bush, especially when I'm trying to get in the bush. Riddles stimulate the mind & can give you an insite of what the Pearson is saying all in a round about sort of way. Keeps your mind occupied . Yeah I don't like that though. If someome wants something I prefer if they ask clearly. I get the riddles can be flirty etc and I don't want to hear "I want your cock". I just mean for telling someome you fancy them, want to date etc and not play hard to get or expect a chase. " Yea i know but sometimes a chat & banter and just maybe the odd riddle is the long road round bet the shortest route there & just maybe wort it. is that in riddles ! | |||
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"Useless but that's cause nobody ever likes me lol" Ah poor baby.... xx lol | |||
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"I was so hopeless at recognising signs that the company secretary where I worked at the time said "look are you going to fuck me or what ?"" | |||
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"We don't bother guessing. ....we just assume everyone wants us..... don't you?
Eh, no, I'm a reality girl and I own a mirror! "To be fair your mirror would look much more incredible if it was reflecting a mayo jersey | |||
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"I'm terrible at reading any signs. My mates keep telling me." The signage on some roads is shite anyway. | |||
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"Well guys...the stats would indicate were crap at telling the ladies. May I suggest in a nice way to message the appropriate women and tell her....You do actually fancy meeting her. If you're blocked remember don't infringe any rules by asking them to unblock you. ladies there are a few of you who have your orifices hidden or dare I say...not meeting anyone at the moment. ..smile and lift ur skirt a wee flutter ok... lets see it anything happens. ..If not I'm blocking all of ya and going home. ...
I'm already blocked for some reason,, but was nice meeting you around the drinks/tea table at hotel on the last venue day "Hi.... There were quite a few there and didn't know anyone other than MC and that was first time I'd met her. ...was rather intimidating if I'm honest. Glad that pot of tea was large lol I've a massive block list not all personal and should be taken that way... | |||
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"Well guys...the stats would indicate were crap at telling the ladies. May I suggest in a nice way to message the appropriate women and tell her....You do actually fancy meeting her. If you're blocked remember don't infringe any rules by asking them to unblock you. ladies there are a few of you who have your orifices hidden or dare I say...not meeting anyone at the moment. ..smile and lift ur skirt a wee flutter ok... lets see it anything happens. ..If not I'm blocking all of ya and going home. ...
I'm already blocked for some reason,, but was nice meeting you around the drinks/tea table at hotel on the last venue day
Hi.... There were quite a few there and didn't know anyone other than MC and that was first time I'd met her. ...was rather intimidating if I'm honest. Glad that pot of tea was large lol I've a massive block list not all personal and should be taken that way..."It's Fab,, I never take anything personnel on here would have been abit intimidating alright if you hadn't met MC before and then meeting everyone else while there , the bunch that were there are a great bunch including MC,, so you were in good hands | |||
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"Well guys...the stats would indicate were crap at telling the ladies. May I suggest in a nice way to message the appropriate women and tell her....You do actually fancy meeting her. If you're blocked remember don't infringe any rules by asking them to unblock you. ladies there are a few of you who have your orifices hidden or dare I say...not meeting anyone at the moment. ..smile and lift ur skirt a wee flutter ok... lets see it anything happens. ..If not I'm blocking all of ya and going home. ...
I'm already blocked for some reason,, but was nice meeting you around the drinks/tea table at hotel on the last venue day
Hi.... There were quite a few there and didn't know anyone other than MC and that was first time I'd met her. ...was rather intimidating if I'm honest. Glad that pot of tea was large lol I've a massive block list not all personal and should be taken that way...
It's Fab,, I never take anything personnel on here would have been abit intimidating alright if you hadn't met MC before and then meeting everyone else while there , the bunch that were there are a great bunch including MC,, so you were in good hands "...no one touched me I rode away intact | |||
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"Brutal - I assume everyone is just friendly and chatty like me, never know if someone is coming on to me " When they go in for the kiss or slip the hand it's usely a code of their into you | |||
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"Life has led me to the conclusion that straight men are not interested in having women as "just friends". " A couple of my closest friends are women..One is single ....We've never crossed the line in all these years. Fab is different....I'm not here looking for friendship few are......It's happened but not why I joined it. | |||
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